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It will require a welder to break this gate. No human body can try it. @Iyaebe come and see ooo.

@Iyaebe

That's how all of you always brag,all barks no bites.


@me
I enjoy your jokes. I know that you want to pull me out. I will not open the old box. I have seen and done it all.

@Iyaebe

Hope you'll not subject your wife to this type of torture.


@me
This Iyaebe don't know me. Thank God for Jesus. I was a Tigger back then but I'm now a tired general. I know how bad she feels because I have handled some tigress back then

This woman is too truthful. She has said it clearly that she wants more sex. She has prayed to God to cut down her libido and the thing is increasing everyday.

She doesn't want to cheat on her husband. What a pity.

Nobody here has given her a good solution. I don't even know what to suggest. So sorry madam.

@Myer
Catholic na Church?
Anglican na church?
Baptist na church?
Aladura na church?
Jehovah's witness na church?
RCCG na church?
Winners na church?

This happens across church denominations.
But your ignorance is like garri on steroids, it keeps rising exponentially every time.

Let me attempt to school you cos I doubt your school education made any impact on you. Your parents could have easily have been competing with other rich people had dey invested their money in stocks, bonds or business than sending you to waste their money in school.

Every denomination has bad eggs.
Cele is simply more conspicuous becos they are easily identified by the white garments.

Most denominations orthodox or pentecostals ncluding RCCG, Winners, Christ Embassy , other pentecostal and orthodox churches have bad eggs as well among their pastor's who cower to peer pressure to seek for power or money to expand their designated parish/centre.


@me
Cele nobi church. Na confirmed occultic home. Everybody know it. If you are there you better come out.

Again cele na glorified advanced babalawo.

@Candidlady

lmao

i have heard stories sha! But it is 'erwhere, even our so called pentecostal churches!

na just god go save and guide us.


@me
Cele na high grade cult. C &S na younger brother

@Bola146

Juju at it's peak, if you don't hold your man well, those ladies in this church will take it away rendering the man senseless, etc.

@me
Very correct

Madam, I'm a pastor and people have seen His grace in this area. I have first hand experience what women go through just to have children.

You have two wonderful girls and you are here complaining. Continue!!!

Train them to think and behave beyond the mentality of the natural woman and you will see wonders.

The op's write up and most comments mainly align to the position of a woman. This also happens to men. Some men spend all their lives and energy thinking and providing for their families.

He leaves so early and returns very late. Children are in good schools, madam looks gorgeous. The home is comfortable but he hardly stays at home. The guy man hardly upgrade his dress except that detected by his work rules.

His life is pressure and stress. The spouse might still be nagging. Is this the reason why there are more widows than widowers?

@Maggi85

He is 32, and im 39. We have been together for 3 years. He went to Nigeria this year, but it was 4 years since last time. He spent most of the time in his fathers church because of celebrating. He is a very Christian man.


@me
From what I sense, he has not married another woman but he doesn't want to marry you. He has another person in mind.

What is the name of his church?

@Maggi85

Well thank you for your help.
Any suggestion on how to Expose him, like find out the truth about him?



@me
His Nigerian friends in Norway will not tell you the truth. Confront him and tell him that his attitude shows that he has other plans outside you.

Threaten him that you will take the matter to his church. How old is he and how often does he come to Nigeria? Don't be carried away by their calling you wife.

Someone here said that you trespassed. I hope you know the meaning. It's a tortuous act. It's punishable in law.... hahahaha.

The kitchen belongs to your brother's wife. You can only use it at her permission. I hate to open my wife's pot.

I'm happy that you realized that this is wrong. When any issue triggers this anger, just walk away and come back when you have cooled down.

Is either he is married or he has no intention of marrying you. He has not emphasized to his people back home that he has a wife or a wife-to-be in Norway.

The baby is not a priority to him. Be wise.

I laugh in Swahili for all these men here ranting and condemning early marriage. Ladies come and see them and laugh. They have turned the story.

Will these men here stop bleeping until they get married? Continue to be a bachelor for life believing that you can get married at 70 and start having children. Congrats baba 70.

Is either you marry early and struggle while your bones are strong to train your children so that before your late 60s you are not training any child or you marry late but you must have made so much wealth so that while you are weak you have strong stock of wealth.

Certainly your productivity will not be high as you advance towards 70. You will know what you have missed when you start paying primary school fees at late 60s with average income.

The only advice is that if you marry early with low income don't have many children. One or two will be ok.

For those that want to be baba 70 with primary school bills I will say congrats.

I responded to a posting earlier this month. Check my choice. Check what I'm enjoying now. @Saintmary come and educate them.

@BlackPantherxXx

When Coronavirus pandemic was coming... none of you Pastors predicted it.

Some even foolishly predicted the end of the pandemic as within a few months.

We all know Nigeria might not last beyond 2023.



@me
Check Pastor adeboye's prophecy for the year 2020. It was released January 2020.

Some drugs have not been taken.

You must do the introduction depending on where you are marrying from. Explain to your fiancée's family that you want every process to be low-key.

Explain to your mum on the reason you want it so. Threaten her that she either supports your plan or you remain a bachelor.

Plead with your fiancée's family that you want all the customary processes to be done the same day so let them give you the list.

Hence you said that she is a good Christian, get her pastor involved.

@Saintmary

Counseling only one party in a marriage does little good.


@me
Perfect. You scored 150℅

Correct woman. I fully support her. The man must seal back what he opened and stand up what he fell.

Alternatively let him pay for damages. Let her demand millions. You can't damage one of Eve's daughters and you want to abandon her and go and damage another one.

Daughters of Eve come and support me.

@ImaIma1

Bottom line...marry a good woman. Two wives with issues will quicken his death.

My father's very close friend and colleague for donkey years confided in my dad that the greatest mistake he ever made was marrying two wives. They all lived in the same house peacefully, but he still regretted it for whatever reason.


@me
Big gbam....
Where have you been? I have not read your comments for awhile. I have no way to ask after your well being. I thought maybe oga has done the good work again. Welcome

What is in sex? I can't understand.

If you ask me whom will I ask?

When people are thinking marriage, careful and observant courtship is important. Avoid sex and emotions so that your eyes will not be covered by them. Watch out for red flags, compatibility traits etc.

While no human is perfect, watch out for things that you can't coupe with.

You are in it, you are in it.

Report her attitude to a trusted and respected friend, relation or spiritual leader.

Everyone here has given this guy enough. I can't add more.

Some men get heart though. Thank God for me.

I have no expertise in this. Sorry

Baby and father marriage

I have my issues with the moral standard of this lady.

Regarding her choice....guy A and B scored F.

Let her start afresh but must be more circumspect.

It's sweet to read the Igbo language conversation of Mercychen and mariangeles.


Umu nwanyi.... I hope I got it right

Don't attempt to borrow for a wedding. Discuss with your fiancée and in-laws. Scale down the budget to what is affordable and not what is required.

Nigerians and their unnecessary show-off.
I once had a colleague who was a general manager. The wife is an accountant that worked in Citibank. They fixed their wedding on a weekday. No invite card. Just called some friends. They lived at ilupeju in a duplex. We closed from work, drove down to their house. The wife and her friends served us. The husband brought out his home theatre to the lawn in the compound.

We ate, drank, danced and went back home. The next day, they were at work. Life is simple.