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All these lecture notes on how to "corner" a lady.

People like us by our vocation talk to all types of ladies - tall, short; beautiful, ugly; clean, dirty; rich, poor; educated, illiterate.

We even discuss their private and public lives. That's how dangerously we are exposed to temptation. Thank God for grace.

This your moniker eeh....are you a Godly husband?

Like the boys will say: follow your church mind.

I'm enjoying a mix of staying alone and staying with people. It's good to balance them.

I work and stay alone in Aba. That's why I can find little time for nairaland.

I live in Lagos with family.

I understand her. When a child is over pampered it makes her loose her self-esteem if she is ambitious. Everything she achieves people will attribute it to her privileged background.

Let her discuss with her dad to help her get a job. Immediately she gets a job let her leave the family house and rent apartment and start living independently. Let her explain to the father that she wants to make a name for herself outside the father's achievement.

Alternatively if she has the gift and ability she can go into academics. That is go for postgraduate studies with a view to becoming a lecturer.

Thirdly depending on what she studied she can go for professional certification with a view of serving internship under older professionals and later start her own practice.

@Iyaebe
Before then she must have acquired some cooking skills, my question is that is it compulsory for her to learn before marriage or she can go into the marriage and learn.


@me
Let her learn before marriage. Both male and female shouldn't get into marriage unprepared. Even if she's not perfect let her know reasonably well.

You can only beat her legs. You can't reach her body. Mismatch.

People get mind sha. People just think that they can mock God. After fornicating you begin to pray to God for deliverance.

Don't tell me: thou shall not judge, his ways are not our ways etc.

This guy is a playboy. What a wasted four years. Mark my words he will come back to attempt to manipulate you. He's aware that you will find it difficult to break away from 4 years bonding.

From your statement I can see signs that you will fall for it. If you love your destiny run far and lick the pains of wasted love years.

Greed leads people into kalukalu schemes. 48℅ p.a ROI. Which genuine investment is that? For a company to pay you this the company must be earning between 70 - 80℅ p.a. on your money.

Which genuine business brings this return?

My own be say..... you should not allow your daughter to be involved in this type of thing.

It's not a good training.

The LiberatedGirl is talking sensibly today oooo. What happened? Maybe mood swing? Result of soul searching?

Congratulations

When her husband asks for food.... I don't know how to cook.

The children ask for food..... I don't know how to cook.

Her husband's guests ask for food.... I don't know how to cook.

Her in-laws ask for food...... I don't know how to cook.

All celebrations in the family..... I don't know how to cook.

Then all the above people will gather and clap for her because she is sisioge. The most modern woman according to some comments here. Mtcheeee

@crackhaus
This one that almost everybody is just talking about man and husband...

My own is, a woman that doesn't know how to to cook, how will she be able to feed her own children properly?

This is just one example of the many problems bedeviling you so-called modern women – una nor dey ever gree think further than the length of your wigs and fake eyelashes.




As the fiancé has accepted her like that, should the unborn kids who will require good nutrition for proper growth also accept her like that?



@me
You are my person person on issues like this. I owe you one can of Amstel.

When the casket seller goes out in the morning he prays: FATHER GIVE US THIS DAY OUR DAILY BREAD.

It means God let people die.

This life no balance at all....his prayers has been answered.

Let the driver buy all from him, fast and pray the same prayer.

@Vanessa..... don't mind Kobojunkie. Can you imagine people sitted in a board meeting and the chairman starts to talk and laugh to himself and everybody will just be watching him?

@1Sharon

Nope. Regina has some advantage over her co-wives. She's the freshest and youngest.

Don't be surprised to know that Ned has forgotten his older wives.

If you want to be a co-wife, make sure you stand out, so you aren't forgotten.


@me
In terms of ranking she is the least. If anything happens to the man that's when she will know her rank. She will not even be able to talk to the first daughter.

Of course they will support so that they will have more money to steal.

@LiberatedGirl

Wow I'm Famous already.



@me
Famuo..... whaaat? Maybe my dictionary is wrong on the meaning of the word.

This LiberatedGirl is into another one today.
She's really liberated today.

Ah...is this one an issue? They only remember us for what we can provide and not what we are.

Poor us. That's why some men celebrate themselves in their own way

@Greatidonis

Why say so



@me
Some are highly fertile and want to stop conception while others are going up and down looking for how to conceive. Irony of life.

@LiberatedGirl
All you men are like pastors who only read passages about Tithes because of their greed. Because you are a man you spend all your time one where God said the Man had headship of the Woman. I'm yet to see a man who says " Husband's Love Your Wives like how Christ Loves the Church" that is in the Bible. In you selfishness and laziness you talk of Women being subject to men like a pastor talks about Tithes because he wants to buy a new car. Most Christians are been driven into poverty by the brood of vipers. Then people will say " let God Judge Them". All Christians are called to preach the Bible. We are all Children and Men of God. But your pastor tried to make himself look special and you inferior so that he can control you. You and your pastor are on the same level equal before God. Some of you behave like your Pastors are God. Last days.


@me
The early church.... didn't they have leaders? What were their leaders called? I think that you have received small knowledge and it has blown your head and confused you.

@LiberatedGirl
" Some follow Barnabas , some follow Paul but we follow Christ , who Barnabas and Paul preach about." Show me where Jesus himself said men are above Women and show me where Jesus said Women were inferior. Jesus placed Everyone on the same level. You will never understand in million years. I understand where you are but where I am is not where you are. I'm more religious than you. I narrowing it down to what Jesus said. Do you have any quotes by Jesus ? The one who died for Mankind ? Who the whole Bible is based on ? Find what and where Jesus made a Gender statement.


@me
You this girl. I have been reading your comments all along. I'm not here to get involved in your debate of who the head is between a man and a woman.

My bother is your using the Bible wrongly. You said that only the open statement by Jesus is accepted. And that anyone made by another is not accepted.

In other words you are rejecting the canonicity on which the writers of the Bible were accepted. You claim to be a "LiberatedGirl" Take heed lest this liberty of yours lead you not to severe heretic sin.

Someone quoted the Bible in confusion and said that the headship given to man in Genesis was a curse by God.

I'm reading.

@ilduce31

If you cannot help, why don't you shut up and move on.


@me
Did my comment bite you? If you don't like my comment why can't you shut up and move on?

Hahahaha.... hunger strike please call off the strike.

Cohabitation loading.... unplanned marriage next. Expected nairaland thread: "please help my wife is a demon"

In the language of boys.....this life no balance at all.

If the account is his personal account there are documents that you will have to provide that will allow you access the funds and you can close it.

If the account is his corporate account there are documents that you will need to submit through a lawyer to CAC that will allow you continue to run the business and the account.

There are too many fraud going on in the banks with accounts like this. There are too many poorly trained workers in the banks these days.

I counsel couples but this issue is seriously serious.

Separated severally, #500 when travelling, no pants, bra, shoes, dress etc. Must not look for job and imaginary shop to be established. All within 4 years of marriage.

The man self na pastor. If I see him I will give him alagbon slap. Na dem dey spoil our call.

I'm confused. Don't know what to advise.

Saucy ladies. Even though nairaland is a faceless forum the response by some ladies here to some of my innocent and jovial comments have made me to avoid them. You can imagine if I was dealing with them face to face. I'm a gentleman.

Smelly, stinking hmmm.

I dey regulate the number of times I wash my car jare. I be accountant. Country no dey smile.

Weekend na him matter. Just to shine.

This lady just want to laugh. Nairaland kindergarten, primary, secondary, mama-is-there-any food-at-home and jump-up-trousers boys will flood here.


Just watch.