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LifestyleTonite:
Quickly check the picture below before reading this short piece.

Welcome back.

Laughing out so aloud in red pill language.

It's time for guys to sit down and tell themselves the truth too and not just sit around and slam girls.

Guys have issues too. Many of them look shapeless or out of shape, yet they want a damsel in their life. When a damsel turns them down because they don't look attractive, they start to pour out their frustration on all girls.

Some think everything has to do with money. They think once they get money, they can get any girl for themselves. That's true to some extent, but you cant get love with just money, just sex which is not as good as knowing you are loved to pieces by the opposite sex.

Money is a tool you use to walk up to love. You use money to hit the gym, eat good food and look fit. But some guys think just buying expensive clothes is what matters, disregarding the fact that they need the right physique to accentuate the clothes.

Look at Wizkid and Tems. Wizkid was snubbed on stage by Tems. Why? Man's too short and boyish. Place Trey Songs or Drake on stage with her, which is clearly a match, and watch her fall over them.

Half the time, some rich men are dating or married to women who don't find them sexually attractive, but they don't know. They think all that matters is giving her money. That they do until they realise that one jobless dude is not only sleeping with their woman but also using the money they give their woman to level up.

Guys, lack of money is not the only reason why you can't find a damsel to love you sincerely. The reason why girls don't love you or even notice you passing by is because you don't love yourself. Imagine guys between 20 and 40 already having potbelly with fat body like a woman. I bet you that the expensive clothes you will rock with that kind of body will look normal or abnormal on you, instead of having that dashing effect it had on the model that rocked it on the runway.

So, guys, instead of joining the gang of guys that bash girls on social media, why not join the click of guys that would rather spend that moment working on themselves financially, spiritually, physically and emotionally?

Hit the gym today. A sexy and fit body will cover up your 'ugly face'. Once you start to work out with visible result, bet it that compliments will start to come your way. I'm a living example. I've always had a cute and handsome face, but I thought that was all I needed until I graduated and saw a decline in advances from ladies. That was when I decided to hit the gym and stay fit. Today, female colleagues, both single and married, do compliment me loudly. Male colleagues see me as an inspiration because I stand out from among them. Guess what I've become? I've become the kind of guy both men and women love. Such is whom ladies love, because ladies flock around who others flock around.

So, red pill guys, enough of female bashing, because to be honest, they owe you nothing. A they want in life is a high value man, not necessarily a rich man, but a man others admire without money attached to him.

The day I decided to love myself was the day I went to meet a carpenter and told him to make a local bench for me to use for bench press exercise. I worked out at home for two months before discovering that there was a gym close to my house, which I later registered in. Then I proceeded to get some workout suppliments. The day I stepped out to Ikeja City Mall to get one was the day I met the love of my life, a gorgeous light-skinned lady that looks like she got cropped out of a magazine. Did I mention that she loves me to pieces and calls me thrice a day with each calls lasting over an hour? She exhausts her airtime and immediately converts to Whatsapp call. The day I met her at ICM, I remember I was getting advances from ladies at the mall that day. Did I look rich? No. Did I look attractive? Yes.

Don't get me wrong, I don't look bulked up like Arnold Schwarzenegger, but I look fit and elegant with tones in the right places. I wish I could post pictures but it's not my style. Right now, I'm working on my finances and about to buy a landed property and work towards marriage next year. I'm also thinking about trippling my hustle next year.

Simply put, I spent my little money on myself by hitting the gym and enjoying myself. Same money would have gone into simping for a girl all in a bid to get her attention. These days, I don't hesitate to lavish on myself, buy nice and expensive shoes. So, I don't see it as a big deal to give my chick nice trips.

It's time for boys to learn to be men and stop whining like sissies. Work on yourself and the love you desire will be yours. Don't forget to pray to God too.

Start in this order:

Spiritually - read the Bible
Financially - work and save
Physically - hit the gym
Emotionally - don't let a lady's rejection or anything get on your nerves.

Peace guys

NovaCare:
A lot of people hit their local gym with the aim of getting those muscles and abs but the question is...Are they doing it the right way? It is one thing to develop a muscular frame and another to develop what is known as muscle mass and RETAIN IT! The latter is what Animal NITRO does PERFECTLY WELL! Animal Nitro is a pre/post workout supplement (NOT STEROID) that makes you get a perfect chiseled body only seen on professional body trainers and most men dream of.

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Here’s how it works...

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Panshow:
I was searching for how to enlarge picture without losing quality on Google. See what I saw just when I type...How to enlarge
I swear I never expededdedit.
These are all real searches that have been done by other people. And Google Autocomplete thinks it's a good idea to bring it up to me.
Does that mean that all of these things are of serious concern to women? Cos personally, if I love a woman, I don't care about the size of her breast or butt. What do you think?

AsomArchitectNG:
1. Niger State 76,363KM²
2. Borno State 70,898KM²
3. Taraba State 54,473KM²
4. Kaduna State 46,053KM²
5. Bauchi State 45,837KM²
6. Yobe State 45,502KM²
7. Zamfara State 39,762KM²
8. Adamawa State 36,917KM²
9. Kwara State 36,825KM²
10. Kebbi State 36,800KM²
11. Benue State 34,059KM²
12. Plateau State 30,913KM²
13. Kogi State 29,833KM²
14. Oyo State 28,454KM²
15. Nasarawa State 27,117KM²
16. Sokoto State 25,973KM²
17. Katsina State 24,192KM²
18. Jigawa State 23,154KM²
19. Cross River State 20,156KM²
20. Kano State 20,131KM²
21. Gombe State 18,768KM²
22. Edo State 17,802KM²
23. Delta State 17,698KM²
24. Ogun State 16,762KM²
25. Ondo State 15,500KM²
26. Rivers State 11,077KM²
27. Bayelsa State 10,773KM²
28. Osun State 9,251KM²
29. Federal Capital Territory 7,315KM²
30. Enugu State 7,161KM²
31. Akwa Ibom State 7,081KM²
32. Ekiti State 6,353KM²
33. Abia State 6,320KM²
34. Ebonyi State 5,670KM²
35. Imo State 5,530KM²
36. Anambra State 4,844KM²
37. Lagos State 3,345KM²

*Anambra + Enugu + Abia + Imo + Ebonyi = 29,525KM²*

*Kogi = 29,833KM²*

*Ogun + Oyo + Osun + Ondo + Ekiti = 76,320KM²*
*Lagos = 3,345KM²*

*Niger alone = 76,363KM²*

*Niger State = Entire Southwest States - Lagos*

*The entire Southeast
is a little less than Kogi State only.

Just for our record

The North Has enough land for ranching and cattle colony.

We in the South West have little land mass. PLEASE LET US BE; LEAVE US ALONE TO MANAGE THE LITTLE LAND WE HAVE

*GLOBAL CATTLE BUSINESS: FACT SHEET*

*A*. Top 10 NATIONS in terms of cattle inventory (2017).

1. INDIA 303 million
2. BRAZIL 226 million
3. CHINA 100 million.
4. USA 93 million.
5. EU 89 million.
6. ARGENTINA 53 million
7. AUSTRALIA 27 million
8. RUSSIA 18 million
9. MEXICO 16 million
10. TURKEY 14 million.

*B*. TOP 10 MILK EXPORTERS

1. NEW ZEALAND $4.4 Billion
2. GERMANY $2.6 Billion
3. NETHERLANDS $1.9 Billion
4. FRANCE $1.5 Billion
5. USA $1.4 Billion
6. BELGIUM $1.2 Billion
7. AUSTRALIA $852 Million
8. BELARUS $637 Million
9. UK $569 Million
10. SAUDI ARABIA $556 Million

*C*. TOP 10 BEEF EXPORTING NATIONS (2016).

1. AUSTRALIA $5.6 Billion
2. USA $5.2 Billion
3. BRAZIL $4.3 Billion
4. INDIA $3.7 Billion
5. NETHERLANDS $2.7 Billion
6. IRELAND $2 Billion
7. NEW ZEALAND $1.9 Billion
8. CANADA $1.5 Billion
9. URUGUAY $1.4 Billion
10. GERMANY $1.3 Billion

*Additional Considerations*:

1. Nigeria is not among the top 20 nations in the global cattle business.
2. Non of the top cattle producing nations create cattle colonies or engage in primitive cattle grazing. All the top cattle producing and exporting nations utilise modern technology and ranching methods to maximise production and profit.
3. Non of the top nations earning billions of dollars annually from the cattle business condone the killing of citizens for cattle.
4. Nigeria's cattle business requires a complete re-think now and not later, for posterity's sake.

BrandSpurNG:
Binance, the world’s largest cryptocurrency exchange and blockchain ecosystem, will hold its first offline event for crypto enthusiasts in Cameroon as it continues its mission to increase the freedom of money, drive blockchain adoption and enable greater financial accessibility for Africans.
On December 4, 2021 and December 11, 2021, the blockchain giant will take its efforts to two major cities in Cameroon; Yaounde and Douala.

As a leader in blockchain education, Binance continues to ensure crypto enthusiasts have access to the right information about the workings of the ecosystem. Its education series aimed at increasing crypto literacy in Africa, The Binance Masterclass , kicked off in January 2020, providing education ranging from crypto trading to careers in blockchain. Since then, Binance has provided free crypto education to over 400,000 Africans. By the end of 2020, over 70,000 Africans were educated in the first year of the launch of the Masterclass. Binance has since doubled down on its efforts, providing education resources to over 177,000 Africans in Q1 2021 and over 179,500 in Q2 2021.

Details of the events taking place in Cameroon:

Yaoundé: December 4th, 9am -2pm, @ Aurelia Palace, Nylon Bastos

Douala: December 11th, 9am – 2pm, @ Serena Hotel, Akwa Nord

Attendees will be joined by local entrepreneur and blockchain enthusiast, Junie Maffock, to learn about the fundamentals of blockchain, the Binance ecosystem, how to set up a Binance account, trading fundamentals and much more. There will also be fun, engaging games and a giveaway.

However, this is not the first of Binance’s education efforts in Francophone Africa. In July 2021, Binance hosted its first-ever masterclass dedicated to French-speaking Africans, indicating the kick-off of its crypto education efforts in the region. The masterclass saw over 3,900 crypto beginners learning about blockchain basics, the easiest ways to buy and sell cryptocurrencies and how to make passive or active income. Binance, the world’s largest cryptocurrency exchange and blockchain ecosystem, also hosted newbie walkthroughs, a webinar series for beginners aimed at providing an introduction to cryptocurrency and interactive webinars across the region.

In September 2021, Binance hosted a trading boot camp for crypto enthusiasts across Francophone Africa. The masterclass equipped over 17,400 people with trading skills and an understanding of how it works in simple terms. At present, over 25,000 people have benefitted from the Francophone focused education efforts.

“The African continent holds some unique opportunities for cryptocurrency adoption and development. As such, we see blockchain education as vital in actualising these opportunities. It is also clear that the potential of Francophone Africa to be a core part of this development is endless and we are committed to ensuring that more people have access to the right information.” said Carine Dikambi, Francophone Africa Lead at Binance.

SOURCE:https://brandspurng.com/2021/12/02/binance-to-host-its-first-offline-event-in-cameroon/

Perfecttouch:
Wahala
I was bullied several times in sec schl so I understand what that boy went through..
*From taking our dining food to telling us to fetch water for them..
*Taking our provisions
*Telling us to fan them at night..
*Dressing us up as masquerade to go chase girls from their hostels to boys hotel so they could straff them..
*They taught us how to dub food in the dining hall..
*they squeeze us through burglary so as to steal provisions and money..
*they take us to izibilli and akabue to steal sardines and provisions..
*even on visiting days, 80% of our foods belong to them..
We don't have school fence or the ones there are camouflage so if you report them, they will flee to town and come back to haunt you at night...

Chevchenko
Oloriegbe ayodeji
Samo
(fgc ibillo) 99-05...this our set see wahala...
All those I mentioned, God punish all of una..

To those that will blame the parent for negligence, remember the school fees is almost a million naira per term, that kin money, dem no dey see am for floor, you hustle hard for such money and I believe the reason for boarding house is so the parents could hustle without distractions...

lalasticlala:
https://fij.ng/article/how-policemen-detained-engineer-for-having-binance-app-in-lagos/

bigtt76:
People ...so I was watching Daddy Freeze's visit
to Linda Ikeji on Youtube where both went on a drive in her new Bentley Mulsane and during the discussions that ensued, Linda could be heard saying aside her Banana island Mansion, she doesn't own or believe in owning landed properties because if you buy one in say Lekki for hundreds of millions, and you rent it out, the money you realize from it is barely above what she makes in a day so why invest.

My question is why would anyone invest in a depreciating asset in favour of one that can appreciate over the years? What she doesn't understand is that the rent she would be collecting is not to repay the investment made but rather some sort of dividend/interest on the investment yearly while the value of the property appreciates over time. I'm sadden that no one seem to be pointing this out to her.

With posh cars ....you risk bashing it in seconds, getting it stolen, mechanical issues and so on. You don't get paid driving it but rather you spend money driving it (repairs, maintenance, fueling and insurance etc). BTW she's looking at buying the latest Mercedes Benz Maverick

Like they say ...its her money and she can do whatever she likes with it but many are looking up to her as role model, she needs to guide them buh ....people wee now say this is bad belle, make i stay in my own lane.

People ....what are your takes on this - Landed Properties or Posh Cars? Lets stay woke this 2019!!!

olaNL:
This guy will just use some people's intellect to play ludo. When the CBN ban crypto transactions everyone was just shouting and criticising the government few weeks later china also banned it and bitcoin crashed making people to loose money. And recently, there are calls from different nations about regulating crpto.

Sometimes no matter how much you hate the government, you just have to have faith in them regarding some issues because they are more informed in some aspect.

icon8:
… A daughter remembers an accomplished and beloved father
Maria Abimbola Akintola

Growing up I came to behold my daddy Chief Samuel Ladoke Akintola as a colossus. In my infant eyes he was full of life, very effervescent and I had, in my child like innocence, thought that he will be around forever. My father was my personal hero and my world, to an extent, revolved around him. I grew up knowing him as a wonderful father, teacher, counselor and friend who helped everyone around him to be a better person.

Akintola the man that I know was sagacious, personable, erudite, urbane, suave, industrious, energetic and intelligent. He was a great organizer, talented mobilizer, an outstanding orator and a man of the people in the truest sense of the word. These attributes made him a very successful politician.

As a politician he had friends and foes in legion but his main pre-occupation was a united Nigeria in which every tribe especially his beloved Yoruba race will partake in the common patrimony as equals.
Fifty years after his passage, I still reminiscence of a father with a heart of gold, one who could hardly hurt a fly and who refused to pay his opponent in their own coin even when political exigencies demanded just that. Often times, I marvel at the concerted demonization of his memory for political pottage. At such times I am reminded of the old story as recounted by the Nigerian nationalist and prolific author Mokwugo Okoye of the great Athenian general and statesman, Aristides, hero of the Marathon War, noted for his valour, incorruptibility and magnanimity and nicknamed The Just.

When out of his rival, the venal Themistocles’ machination, he was banished from his country by the ostracism that was the bane of Ancient Greece, Aristides met an illiterate citizen who, not knowing his identity, wanted him to inscribe “Aristides” on the shell which he wanted to vote for the general’s banishment. The latter asked him “Whether Aristides had ever injured him?” The dutiful burgher replied in the negative, adding “nor do I even know him, but it vexes me to hear him everywhere called the Just.” The great man, we are assured by Plutarch in his Lives of Greek Heroes, said nothing but inscribed his own name on the “ballot paper” as he was directed and later suffered his banishment, praying as he left Athens “that the people of Athens might never see the day which should force them to remember Aristides.”

But his prayer was signally unanswered and three years later Xerxes of Persia, terror of the Greek world, was at the gates of Athens with his grand armada, which obliged the frightened citizens of the city of culture to revoke their decrees of vengeance: all the exiles were recalled, and subsequently Aristides, now reconciled with Themistocles, distinguished himself at the Battles of Salamis and Platea. Unlike Aristides my father did not have a second chance as he was brutally murdered by a band of misguided and mutinous soldiers on January 15, 1966. Like Aristides’ illiterate voter, many of the writers, politicians, carpetbaggers and renegades who calumniate the memory of my father could not claim to have been offended by my father or even to have known him closely; yet when it became expedient and their Themistocles sounded the battle cry and accused him of all sorts of crimes, they sheepishly cast their votes with scurrilous castigation and venomous damnation of his memory and his place in history.

Thank goodness history is hardly partial and there still abound in Nigeria men of goodwill and good conscience. I am re-assured by the resurgence of unbiased record, review and analysis of my father’s place in history even as I remain amused by the apparent consternation of some dye in wool partisans who still cling to distorted facts. Lord Acton, a celebrated British historian while quoting an Italian counterpart noted that “the gods have placed upon the earth two judges of human actions; conscience and history”. While people are left to live with their conscience, the verdict of history remains forthright and palpable. The facts of history are clear. My father was a prominent lawyer in his time. He was an accomplished teacher, frontline journalist, first Nigeria Minister of Labour, Minister of Health, Minister of Communications, first leader of opposition in the Federal House of Representatives, 13th Are Ona Kakanfo of Yorubaland, brilliant parliamentarian, astute administrator, nationalist, Patriot, Statesman and Visionary.

National treasures like the National Stadium in Lagos, Obafemi Awolowo University in Ile-Ife, Ikeja industrial estate, Surulere Housing estate etc. bespeak the deft touches of his administrative acumen and his ingenuity as a parliamentarian. Historians are settled on his preeminent role in the fight for the nation’s independence and his prodigious contribution to post independent Nigeria. No amount of later day red herring will obliterate the facts.
As ebullient as they come, my father was soft at heart.

A good family man, he dotted on the love of his life and only wife; my dearly beloved mother Chief Mrs. Faderera Abeke Akintola (of blessed memory) with whom he bore five children. He loved his children equally and for different reasons largely based on unique attributes specific to each child. The last of his children Olatokunbo till his death in 1973 was “the soul of the family” and had earlier achieved fame as the first African to attend the highly regarded British public school Eton College. A large-hearted man he extended unaccustomed benevolence to his family, friends and associates as well as charity and goodwill to all men.

Most times when I think of my father, I often ruminate on the import of the inspiring admonition of Rudyard Kipling in the inimitable poem IF. “If you can keep head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you; If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too; If you can wait and not be tired by waiting, Or, being lied about, don’t deal in lies, Or, being hated, don’t give way to hating,

And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise; If you can dream – and not make dreams your master; If you can think – and not make thoughts your aim; If you can meet with triumph and disaster And treat those two imposters just the same; If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,

Or watch the things you gave your life to broken, And stoop and build ‘em up with worn out tools; If you can make one heap of all your winnings And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss, And lose, and start again at your beginnings And never breath a word about your loss;
If you can force your hearth and nerve and sinew To serve your turn long after they are gone, And so hold on when there is nothing in you.

Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on,” If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue, Or walk with kings – nor lose the common touch; If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you; If all men count with you, but none too much; If you can fill the unforgiving minute With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run--- Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it, And – which is more - you’ll be a Man my son!”
The poem could have been more than enough consolation only if my father was alive to share it with not just me but with all his loved ones today January 15, 2016. But since he is no longer around to share in the witty cadence of the ennobling verses so meticulously weaved together by Kipling, I shall continue to read alone and reminiscence on the time we shared together; precious time, now distant in memory, yet ever-green.

http://www.thisdaylive.com/articles/reminiscences-chief-samuel-ladoke-akintola-50-years-after/230335/

mypulus:
Nokia has lost trust with many of it's fans especially in it's mobile phone sector. The Nokia we are used to no longer represents it's distinctive quality especially as it continues to loose market shares in Nigeria and other African markets.

There are millions of mobile phones scrambling for Africa market shares with high-end build at cheaper prices which stand shoulder to shoulder with the big names in the industry. I was hoping Nokia Will tow this path to once again win the heart of it lost fans when it launched the Nokia T20 Tab on 24th of Nov. 2021in Nigeria.
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SportsHD:
I use the Airtel modem. Their 40gb plan lasts me around 15-18 days. I don't even know why. The modem is pretty fast though, lightening speed data. I think that's the reason.

aribisala0:
Yams did not come to Africa from South America.

Not true
Dioscorea cayenensis
Dioscorea cayenensis

Are NATIVE TO AFRICA

Were you a chef on a slave Ship?


How do you know they were fed yam?

Was it pounded yam or fried Yam?

Please do not say things that you just made up as if you saw a video

I know for a fact they were fed Indomie with Suya

susy6999:
So Nov 17, I subscribed for an airtel data bundle of N5K for 40GB
I got a notification yesterday that the data has exhausted when I actually only used less than 19GB in that period.

There customer care are telling me another thing

Josnac:
Airtel doesn't seem to respect the DND policy.
I've activated it and yet I get their calls every week.
On Tuesday, they called with 08127577220..which I didn't pick..
Then on Wednesday, they called with 08127577221.

Their pattern is to change the number each time so that even if you blocked the previous one with an app like truecaller, the next numbers will continue to dodge the app since its not blocked there.

Its really painful expecting an important call only to meet this trash most times.
NCC should wake up, empower the subscribers to be eligible for a substantial financial settlement once these telcos err and let's see if these trash won't stop.

christistruth01:
Bishop Ajayi Crowther was as indigene of Osogun near Iseyin in Oyo State


Cassava came to Nigeria from South America and Lagos had an entire Brazilian Quarters with thousands of returnee (ex) slaves

abayomiodunola:
Warm Water and Cold Water

*MEDICAL ALERT*
PLEASE SHARE THIS WITH FAMILY AND FRIENDS. IT MAY SAVE SOMEONE'S LIFE. Thanks. Stay blessed.
Dr. D. Mensah-Asare.




BENEFITS OF WARM WATER

A group of Japanese Doctors confirmed that warm water is 100% effective in resolving some health problems, including:

Headache, migraine, high blood pressure, low blood pressure, pain of joints, sudden increasing and decreasing of heartbeat, Epilepsy, increasing level of cholesterol, cough, bodily discomfort, golu pain, asthma, hooping cough, blockage of veins, diseases related to uterus & urine, stomach problems, poor appetite, also all related diseases to the eyes, ear & throat.

HOW TO USE WARM WATER
Get up early in the morning and drink approximately 4 glasses of warm water when the stomach is empty. Do not eat anything 45 minutes thereafter.
You may not be able to make 4 glasses at the beginning, but slowly you will.
The warm water therapy will resolve many health issues within a reasonable period:

Diabetes in 30 days
Blood pressure in 30 days
Stomach related issues in 10 days
All types of cancer in 9 months
Blockage of veins in 6 months
Lack of hunger (Poor appetite?) in 10 days
Uterus and related diseases in 10 days
Nose, Ear & Throat problems in 10 days.
Women problems(?) in 15 days,
Heart diseases in 30 days
Headache/Migraine in 3 days
Low blood pressure in 30 days.
Cholesterol in 4 months
Epilepsy and paralysis continously in 9 months
Asthma in 4 months.
COLD WATER IS BAD FOR YOU:
-In the past, people used to say that if cold water does not affect you at a young age, it will harm you in old age

-Cold water closes 4 veins of the heart and causes heart attack ; Cold drinks are the main reason for Heart Attacks.
- Cold water creates problems in the liver; makes fat stick within the liver. Most of the people waiting for the transplant of liver are victims of cold water drinking.
-Cold water affects the internal walls of the stomach.
-Cold water affects the stomach and big intestine and results in cancer.

Have a wonderful nyt ahead Nairalanders.

Pegi23:
Edo hmmmm well not from my own experience tho but edo mean love to live life without having to work for it.. they beat women(this is the bad traits)..I don't understand why will u beat up your gf and you call that love..80% of edo men do this. I'm so sorry mod and the owner of this site if you are from edo oo.dont be angry with me oo...but I feel like typing my mind....my friend is dating an edo guy and men he actually came to the hostel just to beat her and he did not even fear we were all around (3 females)..and he was like what can we do to him(level of disrespect).he is lucky I like his bae as a friend I not I will beat him up..

Edo men pls repent....
NB:this topic is all about domestic violence..he use her as a punching bag..my annoyance is how dare him bring his bad behavior inside the hostel knowing fully well his babe left their house and came back to her room in the hostel and he still follow her to beat her up..the distance from their house to the hostel is 3 hours..

Takeit2017:
Five beautiful ladies but you can only pick one.

https://alexis.lindaikejisblog.com/photos/shares/5b85675e38aa1.jpg

More @: https://trendinghelm..com/2018/08/viral-photo-of-ladies-poses-in-bikinis.html

sweetyme001:
There is a common excuse or entitlement most ladies have when they demand money from guys in exchange for sex.

You will hear them say, "If he doesn't want me to ask him for money, then he shouldn't ask me for sex."

This is the greatest scam or fraud that ladies have been using to defraud most men for ages, that l feel it is about time l correct or expose the deceit in this statement used by most ladies.

First and foremost, we all know that "Money" is man's creation. It is a means of medium of exchange. What this means is that money was created in giving us the ability to buy anything and use money as a medium to pay for it. Total man-made's tool for exchange of goods and services.

So that means such women that are demanding money in exchange of sex believe they are providing services or they deem themselves as goods good enough for an exchange with money.

Now, tell me what services do they feel they are providing to have this entitlement. The answer you get is that most of them say they are providing sex.

Is it true that it is ladies that provides sex in this scenario? The answer is capital, NO!

How do l prove that this isn't correct? The first means of doing that is to know or define what sex is and who provides it?

Sex is define as Sexual activity, including specifically sexual intercourse.

That means for sex to truly take place, where sexual intercourse is involved, then a "Vagina and Dick (Penis) needs to be involved. (Note: Incase of Gays, a dick and ass is what is needed; while in cases of lesbains, a vagina and tongue, fingers, etc will do)

For the benefit of this write-up, let us stick to a guy and lady. Now we have established that all we need for sex to happen involved members of the opposite sex is a dick and pussy, it becomes clear that what most ladies claim they are providing is one half of sex

So that means a guy is shortchanged to provide money and the other half of sex. This is sheer deceit!

When l hear most ladies claim that a guy can keep his money, while she will keep her sex, l bluntly fact check them; and the reason they think this is because that is the way their mindset have been programmed to believe such deceit.

I must admit though that not all ladies believe this lies and why they keep using such lines regardless is because such ladies believes that dick is cheap and readily available, while pussy is expensive and needs to be motivated to allow the cheap dick come inside her vagina.

This mindset is enhanced in their mind because they believe that most guys cannot control their dick, while pussy can be controlled or programme to get wet only for the money. That to me is the "LovePeddler's Creed."

daddytime:
A sizzling romance with an obviously gay dude?

Una head no correct at all these illiterate and ignorant bloggers.

ubunja:
the avarage guy worships women like some angel straight from heaven who has no weaknesses and can do no wrong.Players however know what women are like deep deep down and know things that if most men knew also they would never marry.

that is why women control discussions across all media and are quick to complain to those in power if they feel the least bit concerned that essential truths about them are about to be revealed which will hurt their reputations and value.

players become players coz their learn that women reward the bad and punish the good.here are 4 things players know about the women u worship,the same things that have made players vow never to get married:

1.a woman always has a Plan B ready in the wings.

thats why all her exes are still in her phonebook.thats why she has so many guys in her friendzone.to a woman being single and desperate is infinite humiliation.so while u delete all those gals in your phone to focus on her,she has a guy she sometimes acts like she loves sometimes acts like she doesnt love.she is doing this to keep him warm for herself in case of emergency.this can go on for a lifetime.and the flipside is that she doesnt want u doing the same.she will insist u delete all exes in your fone.its a master move.

2.a woman will forgive sexual infidelity under 2 circumstances

i)if u cheat with a MUCH HOTTER gal than her. she will get angry and get over it quick. some even view it as a compliment.but to cheat with a much uglier gal is gross disrespect for her.

ii)if u assure her IT WAS JUST SEX.sex doesnt mean anything to women.its like how breathing underwater doesnt mean anything to fish,but to humans its a miracle to go scuba-diving.sex is like tap water and air to women.they can get it ANYTIME ANYWHERE. whats hard to for them to get is friendship.coZ every guy that talks kindly to her secretly wanna fvck her. thats why when u cheat the first question a gal asks is "do u love her?" not "did u sleep with her". coz sex is nothing.its the emotions that count to her. thats why women are greatly offended when u discuss the secrets of your relationship with another gal. its emotional. but sex is physical. physical things are not deep and dont last. women know this.

3.a woman will choose to sleep with a total stranger than a man she knows.

this is because of 2 reasons. i)a stranger will keep the secret. and even if there is no guarantee of that,chances are she will never meet that stranger again in this life. ii)a stranger wont judge her.unlike that guy she knows who will forever give her that dirty look coz she licked his an_us , a stranger will brush it off as something of no consequence.to a stranger a gal can open up her dirtiest most secret most disguisting and shocking fantasies without fear of reprisals.her reputation wont suffer. thats why women do an_al sex, 3sumz, and org_ies mostly with strangers.

4.women care more about reputation than actual good behaviour.

if u can keep a secret and let women know that, u will never go hungry for sex.most gals dont give sex coz men just cant keep their mouths closed.always bragging.always sharing.and that ruins a gal's reputation in society.never kiss and tell. never even tell your best friend the things u do with women. THATS WHY MOST PLAYERS ARE LONE -WOLVES.no friends.no crew. only on good books with women.can u live like that?


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Word! It is what it is. Keywords: "Lone Wolf."

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A vagina is a sweet thing to fvck, but a dangerous thing to worship.Fvcking a pvssy brings nice things like orgasms and babies.but worshipping it brings ruin and death.

every man must guard that his love for pvssy doesnt cross over to worship.and by worship i dont mean you skipping church to go fvck. though that may qualify.does it? whatever.

here are 4 signs to measure your love for pvssy and determine if you have made that hole your whole life or nah:

1.you see a girl being beaten on the street who you dont even kow and you promptly crossover to defend her.

never mind the fact that you are unarmed and never trained for kung-fu.nevermind the fact that you dont have any idea what weapons the guy beating the girl may be carrying.

WHY ITS A STUPID THING TO DO

you dont know their story.you dont know the girl. you are not paid to defend anyone,you are not a policeman or a soldier.you will get your face re-decorated for a stranger who wont even pay for your hospital bills.if the police come the girl WILL NEVER take your side.you are a stranger to her.and tomorrow you will see those two kissing and walking hand-in-hand again and look at you like the one who wanted to seperate them.worst case scenario you will get yourself killed over a quarell that doesnt even concern you.

learn to mind your own business.

MUST YOU LET A GIRL GET MURDERED AS YOU WATCH?

obviously no. call the police and remain safe, far away from the fracass.heros are dead.and two corpses will never be better than one corpse.

2.you always do favours for girls for which all you get is a Thank You.

this is most popular with friendzoned n!ggas. you are forever helping girls carry things,move furnisher,fix things etc and you never get any tangible reward for the very tangible sweat you just broke.stop it.

WHY ITS A STUPID THING TO DO

slavery is illegal.your time is also money.the food you ate to get that energy didnt fall from the sky like manna.if you work always make sure you get paid.if not thru sex then the girl must atleast make you a very heavy lunch. working for free makes you cheap and desperate.

MUST YOU LET A GIRL BREAK HER BACK WITH HEAVY WORK?

obviously no.but when she calls asking for your muscle-power ask her (playfully) what you will get in return. you will be suprised that she will actually make an offer (no not of sex you idiot)

3.you accept apologies too quickly from women.

a girl makes you wait for her at the bus stop saying she will be with you in a few,then turns up 45mins later.and it was raining.and she had the umbrella.... you are pissed as hell.but the moment she fakes a smile and says Sorry, its all over.your heart is suddenly as sunny as a new born baby's? mayor of vagina worshippers.!!!!!!

WHY ITS A STUPID THING TO DO

the easiness by which you forgive is directly proportional to the gravity or seriousness of the grievience or offense.if you forgive someone pouring hot water on you as easily as you forgive someone who steps on your foot then people will know you cant weigh offenses accurately and they will make you their playground.be harder to appease. it makes the one who offended you feel really forgiven when you do finally forgive her.

MUST YOU NEVER FORGIVE EVER?

obviously no.but make women work for that forgiveness.even for Eve a simple "Im Sorry God i ate the forbiden fruit" wasnt going to cut it. she had to "make it right" by "working out salvation with trembling"as Paul puts it. if a girl offends you ask her one simple question: How are you going to make it right?

4.you think it matters that you make every girl orgasm during sex.

dude there is only one orgasm that really matters. YOUR OWN. if you dont ejaculate babies can never happen and humanity will cease to exist.humans have been on this earth for thousands of years and we have been going forward minus the female orgasm.coz the female orgasm is not essential for procreation.she will get pregnant whether she orgasms or not. so chill.

WHY ITS A STUPID THING TO DO

female orgasm doesnt bring visible signs you can see like the male orgasm does..hello $perms! so that means women can fake it if i)they see you struggling too much to make them orgasm and feel sorry for your fruitless actions.so a simple " im coming baby" is uttered to end the painful movie she is watching of you sweating for nothing.. ii) if they are bored and want the sex to end as quickly as possible. either case it sucks. for you.

MUST YOU NEVER TRY TO MAKE HER ORGASM?

obviously no.but dont chase her orgasm like its some crown for your head.like some medal you must win. just fvck her the best way you can.if she cums good.if she doesnt cum she was a who*re used to org!es anyways. u feel me. my n!ggar.



the D!ck is only organ worthy of worship in this world.

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ILoveDemMANNA:
Nkpurummiri: Are our chickens coming home to roost?

Perhaps, the gods are no longer amused.

Long before Buhari and Idiagbon prescribed the death penalty for
drug trafficking, the Igbo abhorred narcotics and quick wealth.

The village vigilantes of the ‘70s and ‘80s sought out local drug
peddlers and drug addicts and enforced taboos.

This homily is neither an endorsement of draconian decrees nor a prescription of jungle justice.

This is to mourn the death of taboos.The bible says: what a man sows; that, he shall reap.

The bible says: those who kill by the sword shall die by the sword.

The bible speaks in tongues and parables. The bible emphasizes
rewards, recompense and retribution.

Let those who wait for the interpretation of easy parables remember that our ancestors warned they could be trivializing the dowries paid on their mother’s head.

When the ’90s came with a surge in drug trafficking and a crazy
appetite for sudden wealth, the decay began.

Advance fee fraudsters sought to have the money without taking the huge risk inherent in drug trafficking.

They had seen narcotics transport youths to the gallows and transport youths to ill-gotten fame and societal adulation. The twilight of the ‘80s and the dawn of the ’90s was the beginning.

That was when the relegation of hard work and honesty to the back pews in the church and the sidelines of the community started.

Fraudsters in and out of government, in and out of the country,
became role models and cornered the prized honours and chieftaincy titles. That was the onset of the rot.

Economic deprivation spread. A quiet dismantling of the taboos to enthrone the god of mammon proceeded imperceptibly.

Soon, evil-doers became role models. And they lacked compunction, the realisation that they are impostors.

Everywhere they went they flaunted wealth and taught wealth
generation. The justification was that drug trafficking was business.

And advance feed fraud was reparation.

Religious leaders preached prosperity that included inordinate wealth as the manifestation of the miraculous and reaped huge rewards.

The sanctification was happening on all fronts. Notice-me
philanthropy became the hyssop that washed away all sins.

After all, they didn’t force anyone to buy drugs and didn’t teach the whites greed or drug habits, didn’t kill.

Nigeria was a transit centre. Drugs came from Brazil and Columbia and passed through on their way to Asia. Worries about Nigeria graduating from a transit station to a consumption centre were dismissed.

In our usual exceptionalism, it was said that Nigerians were too wise, too shrewd to be drug addicts. That was exactly what we felt about suicide bombing, too.

Recently the NDLEA said there were two million drug addicts in Kano.

Stories shave been told of women in Gombe addicted to sniffing
menstrual pads. The drug problem has become a national epidemic.

In the last couple of weeks, it’s been the story of Nkpurummiri—Meth crystals. Nkpurummiri the reports said were the product of
laboratories built by Mexicans in Nigeria. Some Mexicans identified a market and built laboratories. That’s where we are now.

Our youths living on hallucinogens for dubious euphoria and false sexual stamina.

Nkpurummiri and its cousins — Guzoro etc— lend the consumers
cocaine euphoria, leaving them sleepless and overheating on a high, ultimately converting them to violent drug-addled, drug-dependent zombies.

Frightened by the depth of permeation of Nkpurimmiri and the
imminence of its calamitous consequences, many Igbo communities have begun sensitizing the youths against drug habits and addiction.

These efforts are commendable.

In many of these communities, the vigilantes have resumed. Junkies and drug peddlers are rounded up, tied to stakes and flogged. The attempt is to whip them back to sanity and a sense of responsibility.

This homily doesn’t endorse corporal punishments of any sort and definitely, not the kind extracted from jungle justice literature. But the attempt to recreate order, no matter how crude, must be recognized.Amongst those most vociferous in instituting zero- tolerance to drugs in the villages are successful drug traffickers living abroad and those who do not see any evil in the narcotic trade.

In many of the villages, neither the elders nor the religious leaders dare to preach against drug trafficking. The sermons and counsels are deliberately tame. Peddlers are told that no one is against the trade.

The advice is that they must take their business elsewhere.

Somewhere far away from their hometowns. The communal lack of courage to condemn the trade while whipping drug addicts isn’t shocking. Drug traffickers have become the elite, role models.

The existing morality is that anything done to make money is
permissible if it doesn’t bring harm to self, family and immediate
home community.Before the white man came, our people used to bescared of spirits.

They watched their actions and worried about the wages of sin. Spirits were believed to be the enforcers of moral codes. Unlike the western criminal justice systems, the spirits saw in secret and saw everything.

Our people believed that what people did even in secret faraway
places spirits could earn and bring bad fortunes to them and their families.

The morality was that people reaped what they sowed. The White man’s criminal justice depends on evidence and proof and allowed arguments and exculpatory sophistries. That system has given us room to play hide and seek, to live hypocritically.

So drug traffickers pay for the containment of drug addiction in their villages even while recruiting young boys into the trade.

We must join hands and tackle Nkpurummri. But we shall not do it like the child who when asked to take bath begins to wash only his tummy. To understand how water entered the stalk of our pumpkin and Nkpurummiri seized the minds of our youths, we must count our teeth with our tongue. This is not a rotten few. This isn’t a finger attracting oil and staining the rest. This is communal complicity in society picking up a wasp with its head and starting to get stung. We are all responsible The homily is therefore not directed at drug traffickers. It’s not aimed at hypocrisy. It’s an exhortation to the communities fighting drug addiction to recreate societal values and restore drug trafficking to the status of taboo where it once belonged.

Let’s tackle the problem from its roots. So that it shall not be said that we chased rats while our house burned. So that it shall not be said that we reaped what we sowed. O ji ofo ga ala — good conscience protects. Eziokwu bu ndu — honesty is life. For far too long we have beat drums for madmen to dance.

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Ladylite:
I was not joking, it is called "being yourself" with your man. Earth shattering orgasm is what leads to squirt, body shattering is what you mean, but earth shattering is what I meant by your mind will be clear, like wiped clean and you will know you have been OWNED, there is no return from that experience.

You instantly begin to act loyal and nice, doing wifey duties even if you're just a side chick or a one night stander

NCAN911:
Hello house don't mind my grammar pls!

There's problem in the house! We have been having problem with our toilet for a while now but we received a shock after find out what the problem is....

My uncle is 44 and his wife is 34 with 1 kid (girl) they just celebrated 2 years anniversary. My uncle spend most of the time at the shop. He sells spare parts and automobile, he never knew and will never believe that his wife brings another man home (who she has once introduced to me as his cousin) ... FastFWD

Two weeks now we have been finding it hard to flush toilet because the water is moving .... My uncle called a plumber yesterday, the plumber had to call my uncle to show him what the problem is.. To our surprise its A condom and one of them is still fresh with some sperm inside...

My uncle was surprised because he said he never used it on her since they got married ... He just built the house which is not even up to 1year... Now their marriage is on the line of collapsing, I like the wife very well because she is kind and generous she buys me latest things like phones shoes shirts... I don't know how to contribute to the issues because I am just a boy boy.

bigiyaro:
when you know that among all your family members, its only your wife that is not your relative, your guards will be up automatically and you are better equipped to deal with betrayals.

Brightgem:
International Men's day is Marked on 19th November. The Moral Code has dedicated 30days of content for the male folk and this is one of them. We need more topics addressing men's need.
So what does the well-groomed man look like?

A well-groomed Man is the man that carries himself with dignity. He should be able to keep basic hygiene like do his nails, wear ironed clothes, cut his hair, dress sensibly and according to occasion He should be able to at least buy deodorant to smell good.
DANJUMA IDACHABA – A Media and Communications Professional based in Abuja.


I don't necessarily judge people by how they look, I have met awesomely dressed guys with the best of suits and they have got the most terrible attitude. You should have a sense of character; your charisma should speak. But then a well-groomed man should ultimately be neat. Most guys believe they can wear a singlet or undies for fifteen months without changing it and it is terrible. Essentially, look good and don't look like yesterday.
OLISA BASIL NNODIM – IT and Multi-Media Professional.


Looks alone can be a misleading criterion to use in identifying a well-groomed Man. Like they say, looks can be deceiving. A well-groomed Man can be identified by his actions and selfless service to those he loves and cherishes.
Willing to take responsibilities, not full of pride and ready to accept changes in life. Character is part of grooming.
OGAGA AYANWUNMI MICHAEL – A Blogger and IT Professional


A well-groomed man should be focused, organized, neat, presentable, good mannered and well cultured. Dress well not necessarily expensive (knowing what to wear & when). Clean nails & avoid unnecessary long nails. Take care of your hair. Keep it nice, trimmed and tidy. Smell nice always (Mouth or Body odour is a capital NO). Clean inner wears are a must.
MUSTAPHA DALHATU – A Customer Care Rep. A Husband & a Father.


Grooming is not just about things like keeping a well trimmed facial hair. It’s a part of it, a well-groomed man is someone with neat, tidy and pleasing appearance. A pleasing appearance has a way of boosting confidence. I grew up understanding that your appearance affects your thought process. Being well groomed leads to a bolstered sense of self-esteem which affects how others sees you.
If you feel unkempt, this will impact negatively on how people perceive you. How you carry yourself in the right posture also says a lot.

JOSEPH OHIKU – Multi-media Professional based in Lagos. @joeywizzy


My view in terms of the appearance of a well-groomed man, is that it’s all about three major ingredients: simplicity, comfort and confidence. I tie ‘simplicity’ to the physical aspects of grooming; ‘comfort’ to the clothing aspects of grooming; and ‘confidence’ to the activity aspects of grooming. In terms of clothing-grooming, ‘comfort’ is key. In terms of activity-grooming, ‘confidence’ is key because regardless of how simple and comfortable he looks, it is the manner in which he carries himself when talking or doing something that matters.

BELLO TONGO – CEO of Tongston Holdings. Passionate about entrepreneurship.



Good personal grooming communicates that you care about yourself and you have healthy self-esteem. The well-groomed man should smell good: When you smell good, people notice. It influences how they feel about you. It makes them want to get closer to you. Look after your smile: Keep your teeth neat and your breath fresh. Take care of your facial hair. Have beautiful hands and feet: Clip your nails weekly. Avoid heel cracks. Exercise every day or every other day, it keeps you fit and healthy looking. With these you can get out there looking well-groomed and handsome.
SULTAN KAMAL ABDULAZEEZ – A Civil Servant, Basketballer, and passionate about values and uprightness in society. He writes #minutesbeforemidnight



A well-groomed man, should look appropriately dressed as per occasion demands, knowing when to wear what. Where to where what. He grooms himself by taking care of his physical, mental, and spiritual life.
GIDYON LOFTY AMKPITA – Is a Multi-Media Specialist based in Abuja



Over the years a man’s grooming routine has evolved and it is no longer just a simple shower. There is now beard care, skin care, picking the right deodorant, shaving, manicure and pedicure for men etc. For a typical man, self-grooming is usually the most affected when making a trip. Why? Because it’s a multi-faceted process that involves various actions, tools, and products. That is why it’s very likely that you’ll forget to do or carry something. So, before you leave on that trip, check your grooming essentials. You don’t want to go to foreign lands looking funny.
IDARA EKPO – An Academist and Entrepreneur.


#THEMORALCODE

iLegendd:
Her husband is the cause. These men are all over Nairaland screaming, "Make money, make money, and you'll get any woman."

They think it's all about making money and getting any woman with the money. No, it's all about these three things below

1. How to handle a woman (in and outside the bedroom).
2. How to make legit money.
3. How to manage/invest money.

Ninety percent of Nigerian men focus on number 2 only (the illegal one) and when they've got it, they ignore number 1 and 3 as they use the money to oppress while leaving their wives unsatisfied. They think being rich = victory in marriage.

If the wife complains, they say, "What else do you want? Haven't I provided for the family? Is sex food?" Yes, my dear, it is more than food to a woman who has tasted the best in the past.

With this, his wife begins to reach out to her ex who was great in bed. If the ex refuses, she removes her ring and gets a brand new guy to satisfy her sexual urge.

These stupid men think a lasting marriage is all about making money. Any man who does not handle the three things I listed above is doom and he deserves it.

ZombieNation:
1. Banned Crypt-Trading and investments

2. Drastically cut oversea withdrawals to $300 a month

3. Responsible for the most stupid and wealth grabbing domiciliary account policy

4. Abused his office to stifle political opposition of the Buhari govt by freezing accounts

5. Under him Helicopter money aka MMT is a standard without recourse to how excess liquidity (backed by nothing) is a sure way to instigate hyperinflation and currency devaluation

6. 90% of FOREX earnings go to servicing Buhari's humongous loans which were never used to fund any infrastructure but rather stolen outright by same Buhari govt but this fool wants to distract to FX marketeers as the reason why the Naira is getting worthless by the day.

7. If you have any cash sitting in a bank, I advice you to pull it out and buy tangible assets like land or gold or stable currencies.

Nazgul:
Her request to stay alone isn't bad. She's 22, and if she has a good job, she'll enjoy geninue peace of mind cos living alone is very good. You won't have to endure an irritating roommate, always getting on your nerves every now and then, nagging parents who will constantly remind you about the success story of all your mates, and your younger cousins who have all gotten married. Also, you can effectively budget your finances, economize your food and provisions, and manage your bills effectively.

As a girl there are few guidelines I'll give you to stay alone effectively most especially if you're not a runs girl.

1. Limit your friends. They say the average Nigerian loves free things. That's very true. If you stay alone, you must be very careful with who you let into your home. I remember how I parked out of the first house I rented with my money after my youth service. It was a one bedroom apartment, I had this friend who was always visiting. With time he uprgaded himself to my roommate without even my consent.

I didn't have any problem with that. The problem I had with him was that he doesn't contribute a penny to the house. From recharging the prepaid meter to recharging the cable TV, to buying food and provisions...even pure water this my so called friend couldn't get. The worse of it all was that he's a womanizer. Imagine coming back home from work tired only to see meet your bedroom locked by your roomie cos he's busy with a girl. I'll end up dozing off on the couch in the palour while waiting for them cos I can't access the bathroom without entering the bedroom which is locked by him.

We quarrelled over this severally. This guy will apologize, beg me and after some days or weeks repeat the same thing again. With time when the rent remained like 2 months to be due, I parked out and left him there. I've learned to limit the kind of people I allow into my home ever since.

2. Be security conscious. Don't be careless with your security. As a girl, you can easily be overpowered, drugged, raped, robbed... etc. So avoid unnecessary closeness with your neighbours most especially if they're guys whose source of income you have no idea of. Whenever you're at home, keep your doors locked at all times. Avoid inviting people you meet on social media into your home. Avoid accepting lift from strangers to your home. All these things will put your safety at risk.

3. Don't disclose your status. As a girl, telling guys that you stay alone isn't wise. When guys start asking don't keep them in silence or else they'll start guessing and might guess right. Just tell them that you don't stay alone. Cos if you don't they won't mind trailing you secretly just to know where you stay. Believe me some guys can be that jobless. And after one visit to your house, you'll need the police to keep them out. Cos some will go as far as threatening to harm you if you refuse to let them in.

If you're in a serious relationship your guy should be the only one who should know your house along with some of your female friends who are on the same financial status with you, and your family members. Every other person can meet you at your place of work, your church or in a public place.

My advice...tell her to do whatever is in her mind, she's an adult now and must be allowed to make her own choices.

As for her parents, let her explain to them and make them reason with her that she won't remain under their roof forever, so the sooner she begins to plan a life outside their roof, the better for her

Also I hope she's working, when I say working I mean 9am -5pm jobs with a reasonable pay check. Cos if a girl is staying alone without a reasonable source of income, she might be tempted to go into prostitution in order to survive. Tell her this.