₦airaland Forum

Lessons123:
I have a wife and blessed with a daughter, I earn extremely high and I am in a debt of over 2m monthly as a result of paying for a loan monthly to set up a business for my wife which has gulped over 30m and still a failure though this is the second failure of business opened.

I decided to open the business as we both agreed she should resign as her salary as a teacher was the same salary with one of our two maids.

The issue is despite doing very well financially, my wife always gives me issues and there doesn't seem to be any love apart from me being her daily ATM.

There was actually a phase when I had challenges financially and she was the only person to mock me.

I need your advice as the quarrels are becoming too constant and the severe quarrels are majorly related to my brother in laws and sister in laws. Mind you my brother in law has been living with us and disrespects me and she defends him. Also before the marriage she was a very humble and tolerating lady until the business was opened. Sometimes I feel guilty as my dad had to sell his house in lekki and is in the process of buying a house in Ajah because he needed only 10m to complete his house in the village, which I could have easily provided if it wasn't for my indebtedness through my wife.

Mature advise please.

Boyooosa:
Bad roads or criminals?

spyder880:
I am yet to see any brand of Nigerian cables that beats the quality of Cutix. Its also the most costly in the market as customers had factored in the value in the cost.

BeLookingIDIOT:
Until they can try celebrate themselves without having to demean others

r4bbit:
It's a book lunch ... In akure,on the 31 of July 2021.
The book is written by
Dunsin oluwasuji (Yoruba) ..
The wealth code project is meant to celebrate Nigeria diversity and commend.
And also to celebrate the igbos on the field of commerce.
It's hosted in SW-Nigeria
Reportedly there was red carpet walk of fame featuring prominent people in SE and SW nigeria....
Op this is the kind of things we need to promote. Kudos to the igbo .

Prechgold1180:
But wait you know we can make a super driver out of those kids

Just thinking outta the box

If they wer to be in America omo people ll be celebrating them


To ride car hard not to talk of truck

That kid deserve two bottles of Heineken

Goodplace:
Please kindly advice on the topic.

BKayy:
A dark cloud is above the entire Nigeria.
I pity any idiot left with these people in the next 5 years.
Watch out. Nothing will be done about this.

PrinceOfLagos:
The lady on white tho

Sebastine1994:
Do you know why Judaism did not die after 2000 years?

Because of cooperation and community. Igbos claim to come from Jews and yet they can't cooperate to do anything.

Maybe the lack of cooperation was why they left their Jewish brothers to come to Nigeria.

When you see Indians abroad they are brothers, the same for the Chinese, but if you see a fellow Igbo brother, he would deny you. even fellow student abroad will be forming nonsense,

but just look at the Muslim expectially hausa, they cooperate and can survive anywhere

igwe 2pac

OfficialR:
I actually mistook this for a snake when I first saw it yesterday. I was actually terrified before I noticed on close observation that it was actually an earthworm

I tried pouring salt on it. The thing wriggled and continued crawling. It shocked me o

spyder880:
Still working on the foundation of the fence for this house ........

michlins:
Money no dey money no dey but Nigerians are raising heavy structures.

Born2Breed:
Poor investigative journalism.

The likes of David Hundeyin and Fasomyibo would have given us well-detailed information about the murderer.

thebosstrevor1:
The igboman sees others as his slaves because he believes he is superior than others. Ahmadu Bello must be right about the igbo people.

See what this igboman wrote down on Twitter, basically this is the mentality of many igbo people who are Ipob members, apparently those who are not of the igbo stock are lower human beings than them. They are better than everyone and they are in charge of Nigeria that is why Nigeria do not want them to go.

How can you be this better then blame the fulani man for all your problems in Nigeria

Praxis758:
Rushing to parade suspects in front of the media is not good for our policing system, it's injurious to investigation and an archaic in this modern time.

'Rushing' is what I totally condemn here. The police as a sensitive institution should have grown above this childish practice. A thorough investigation should have been done before parading the suspects.

Little wonder why most arrests and high calibre criminal case don't get either prosecuted or won in court because of want of evidence.

If this suspect is truly an Hollywood actor, common sense demands that he should notify the police before attempting to feature any weapon in shooting/movie location because of the fluid security situation in the country

moriss33:
Fake! FAKE!! FAKE !!
no one flies a girl out & wouldn't come personally to welcome her at the airport.
Also if I book hotel room & u decide to be unfortunate... I will jejely send you out & bring in someone who is willing.

OnionBandit:
This is one thing I love about Indians...

Even though their country is the real definition of shithole, they still try to speak well of it in public domains. There are places in India where children will have to swim through water filled with poo of different sizes to get to school but they won't let the world see these slums..If you have watched slumdog millionaire, you will have an idea of what I am saying.

...but here in Nigeria, just because you don't like a president, you go on twitter, Facebook, Reddit, quora etc to call your country zoo., spread fake news, exaggerate ills in the country, insult your president like he is the reason your life is miserable, and then tag the whole world to see..

Why won't a shithole like India, Kenya look down on us?

Righteousness2:
Preparations in high places for the Mob system.
One world Religion
One world government
One world currency

Folks, we are the Generation that will see JESUS Christ.
The Rapture is on us!
The Signs of the times are hitting the roof.
JESUS Christ is the Only way to Eternal life
JESUS Christ is the Only way to be Saved.
There is no deputy/ Assistant Way!
There is no short cut
There is no other way!

spyder880:
As my workers are on their way converging on this site, I am moving to secure some building materials for our use here. More pictures later today.

Ever8090:
that woman is something else, but calling her a "prostitute" is unfair at least, call her Ashawo instead...

Vaughanlanrewaj:
Please read it nah. It was written by the same people with hatred and bigotry against President Muhammadu Buhari. Seems Twitter suspension coalesced all you guys' hatred and bigotry for PMB , for this group, the suspension of Twiiter Nigeria despite being used to spread hate and kill our patriots , it's the climax, not the trigger ". All the enemies of Nigeria will lose las las. They always lose. God bless Nigeria.

wirinet:
Sorry to say your argument is now getting ridiculous. Aburi did not impose military leaders abi? it imposed civilian leaders?
Who appoints the military governors? Who will be the head of state of Nigeria under Aburi? or are you saying Nigeria would have had 4 different heads of states?

How can you have resource control under a unified civil service being controlled by a military head of state that rules by decrees.

The Aburi accord to me was simply power play and power sharing by competing military officers trying to consolidate their hold on power. And Akenzua saw through it.

valarmorghulis:
I regret ever supporting Buhari, he really messed up, he doesn't even care anymore, how low is he going to get before he realised the damage he's done to this country

OKOATA:
See the stupid questions grown up people are asking, God knows if I am caught cheating with a married woman no man born on earth will video me and me asking m nonsense questions like this.