If only other states can emulate Lagos state.
Governance is so different in Lagos, like it is not a part of Nigeria.

We might not like that the BBC is doing a coverage, but you can't deny that it is a concise, unbiased article.
Our journalists can step up and do better than they do.

Jagajaga story.
Let her return everything belonging to the CEO.
She has no support system and is looking to the wrong people for support.
Get her out of this mess. Help her source funds to continue her sharwama/food business in a new location if possible.

Wash the pot immediately after preparing the semo, or pour in some water and cover the pot for some time before washing.

Bought some meat to keep in the Freezer.
PHCN decided to do their work.
I have not bought any meat since then.

My parents were never the 'I love you' kind.
No hugs, or mushy stuff while I was growing up.
Now, when they want to form emotional with me, I'll be like "Warris dat"?
We know we love ourselves!!!

You mentioned 'SUV' to lure someone, and you want to tie the knot in about 3 months time.
Trying to create the impression that you've got money.
You sound desperate, and you are looking for someone desperate too. It is picture and video call you want to use to court someone.
Anyone who falls for this virginity scam artist is on her own.

Don't keep one wife. Keep 10.

The Seers your Mum visited, they didn't see into your future to tell you where/how to succeed.
Na incompartible be their work.

Your 100 year old Grandma requested that you post her picture on the internet for good wishes??

Wetin dey worry you sef??

People think insulting your parents, especially your Mum, can be very painful to you.
I, on the other hand, do not care about your insults. You cannot get me by insulting my parents.
Have you met them? No.
Do you know them? No.
Can you say those things in front of them? No.
I actually believe that if you insult me,it is my fight. Insult my mother, her fight. Insult my father, his fight.
You can't even stand in my mothers presence that you are insulting her. If she gives you one insult, you will remember it for the rest of your life!

Nice simple and private.

Most of us work so hard at our jobs that there is little time to spend with your spouse and kids.
The most productive part of the day is spent at your job. Then some have to endure hours in traffic just to get home.
By then, the most you can do is sleep. No strength to spend time with your spouse or kids.
Many couples work on weekends too. No time for family.
That's why kids are having to spend more time at school. They go to school before 7am, close and still attend lessons till evening. All these is to provide a safe place for parents to leave their kids while they work all day.

Riele:
Which Son ? .

The dead one ? . I thought his son was dead .

Did know he has another child .

This is how we know those who lack discernment.

APCHaram:
The guy no like Toto nah



Imagine: Emir of Toto aka Sarikin Duri

Madness

This is Super storyyyyy.... A life of strife and sorrows...
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"Mistakenly had sex with his wife"....

Old people get lonely/bored with age.
If she lives alone, help get someone to live with her. Young ones she can train, or people like corp members who need accomodation. Let her accomodate them for free.
She's just lonely.

frozen70:


Pls don't be offended

What's wrong with your mother inlaw passing night with you guys

Is it that you hate her or you don't want to see her sleeping in your home

That woman, no matter how bad she is, is capable of saving your marriage or putting your marriage in a scale of spoiling it depends on your relationship with her

If you have children, let her watch over them while you go to work

Assuming you are at her age and your daughter inlaw is acting the same way with you, would you be happy about it

Have you ever imagined, how loneliness makes her to look for a home to be warm with and her son's home remains her home forever

Assuming she sleeps on your husband bed of which she won't do it, it's a different thing

Pls change your mind set towards her and give her a warm embrace in your home

Accommodate her and utilise her

If you claim you love your husband, love her too and you will appreciate her and be happy

You assumed the Op is female.
It is the man asking o.
Does your advice still stand?

We all know that when you heat palm oil to very high temperatures, it'll catch fire.
To quench it, you just cover the pot.
You did that deliberately, and waited to take pictures/video.
Maybe this is a weird experiment for you, but maybe you are an arsonist. Starting fires just for the fun of it.
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Fires started for the sake of fun can cause dangerous havoc, and here you are, doing just that. Arson is a crime.
It starts small, until you burn down a building with people trapped inside.
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Be guided.

With the 363 topics you have created on nairaland, you should be better at expressing your thoughts.
Creating a thread, just to write that most people have issues? We know.
Create a diary and put down your random thoughts, not open hundreds of 1-sentence threads that pass across zero messages.

But I have read this exact story on nairaland recently.
What do you gain from copy and paste stories na?

Some people are not going to like this thread.

Ebenezer2021:
apparently because u like clubbing and keep late nights.
You better change.

See your life.
Saint Ebenezer.
Mother Theresa.
Gatekeeper of the Righteous.
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I go to work and close at 6pm so I can't get home before 6pm on a work day.
Not everyone lives by your low standards.

When i was looking for a place, an agent took me to a house where the Landlady had a rule.
"The Gate closes at 6pm".
I just turned around. Maybe it is jobless people she wants as tenants.

It is a great development, to make the hospital not withold treatment.
However, we need a better system to encourage blood donation. People don't donate more because of the mindset that it will be donated for free, and later SOLD to patients who need them.
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I know that the hospitals incure cost in running operations, but we all don't have to pay cash for healthcare.
We need to subscribe more for health insurance, not wait till we are in dire need of medical attention. If you had a proper health insurance in place, you will not be asking about how much you incured as medical bills...most of the time.

Sanchez01:
Plan a trip, please.

I concur. A little getaway.
You might want to look into the getaway agencies like @irinajo on instagram, travelkulture and some others. You might find a trip that falls within your timeline.

What has being of western or eastern origin got to do with being a gestational carrier?
She is supposed to be a surrogate, not the biological mother.
Also, I believe up to 35 yrs should be fine too.
Have you drawn up a contract? No one should do this without legal documents to protect them.
All this talk about money, everyone interested should get a proper lawyer to look into their interests.

This your Dad is a serial reproducer.
This is 8 confirmed children. He might have up to 15 or 20 children.
We as a society need to do more for men to actually take more responsibility for their children. He abandoned 4 kids in the past. Now he is abandoning another 4 to go produce another set.
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Let the maternal family of the children pitch in.
Support them with money and help send the kids to school.
But raising the child/children is not your responsibility. It is the responsibility of the irresponsible father.

All these stories.
Everyone should go to their houses.
Those who want to leave should leave.
Those who are being asked to leave should leave.
Infact, everybody should return to where he/she came from.

A platform for married people to seek out other married people who aren't looking for commitment, just looking for company....
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And you say this is for good?
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What will they be hooking up to discuss?
The inadequacies of their spouses?

All these 'one thing led to another ', I just don't believe it.
I only see such in movies.
How does 'one thing lead to another' with a stranger? Unless you were hoping to go have sex with him that day, I don't believe this story.

If you both are worried about fertility, nothing wrong with doing preliminary fertility tests before marriage.
If there's anything to treat,you start treating in time.
Pregnancy does not mean you will be happy in marriage.
There's also something called secondary fertility, where the couple find it difficult to conceive again after having the first child.
There is no guarantee that the pregnancy will be carried to full term.
All in all, pray and work towards a happy marriage.