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Politics › Re: FG Declares Operation Amotekun Illegal by wirinet(m): 7:07am On Jan 15, 2020
Cherez:
The US has no right to ask any lawful foreigner to leave even in cases of war safe for unlawful acts.
The only Iranians detained last week are those whom are suspected to have "terrorist"(Note the stress on terrorist) ties.
See, the SW will never try that.
They can only stop entry to the barest minimum and for those living already, they can't do anything
Did you read the report or you just like arguing just for the sake of argument. Where was it written that any of the Iranian citizens detained were suspected terrorist? Have you heart of any Iranian planning or carrying out a terrorist attack on US or European soil?

There is no international law that can regulate foreigners in another country. It the countries themselves that make the laws that governs the rights of foreigners.
Nigerians asked Ghanaians to leave in the early 80s and nothing happened. Idiamin asked Lebanese and other foreigners to leave Uganda in the 70s, nothing happened.
Politics › Re: FG Declares Operation Amotekun Illegal by wirinet(m): 6:09am On Jan 15, 2020
MelesZenawi:
Detained?

This is pure fabrication and not anything true.
Nearly 200 Iranian Americans were detained at the US-Canada border

In recent days, as many as 200 people of Iranian descent, some of them US citizens, have been detained at the US-Canada border and questioned about their political views, family members, and work histories.

About 60 individuals, including American and Canadian citizens, were held for questioning about their “political views and allegiances” at the Canadian border in Blaine, Washington, on Saturday, according to the Council on American-Islamic Relations (CAIR), a nonprofit that advocates for the rights of Muslims in the US.

US Customs and Border Protection (CBP) confiscated their passports and held some of them waiting rooms for as long as 10 hours, refusing to grant them entry to the US, according to CAIR.

By Monday, as many as 140 more people of Iranian descent had been detained at the border. They were repeatedly asked about their birthplaces, family members, schooling, and work histories.

https://www.vox.com/platform/amp/2020/1/7/21054780/iran-trump-detain-canada-border-soleimani
Politics › Re: FG Declares Operation Amotekun Illegal by wirinet(m): 5:49am On Jan 15, 2020
Cherez:
You should be shameless at least to mention people that have proven not to be a threat by any means to you.
Even Americans & Britons you run to their places haven't asked anyone to leave. I just await the day this shit will happen, I doubt you can even try this.
But Americans & Britons can ask anyone to leave. If not for the courts (American law), I am sure Trump is ready to ask all Iranians to leave the US. Many of them were detained last week during the US - Iran showdown.

Citizens of countries have free access to countries it's government has cordial relationship with. Biafra is very unlikely to have cordial relationship with Nigeria, sorry the zoo.
Politics › Re: FG Declares Operation Amotekun Illegal by wirinet(m):
NaMeAboki:
If you could read and understand, you would have notice in my 1st post where I stated under where Hisbah fell - comparing Amotekun with Hisbah is like comparing apples with oranges and smacks of ignorance.

BTW, what do you think J in JTF stood for?
Well i did not see your post where you said anything against hisbah. I have known you to be defending hisbah with vigour since I noticed you.

I am glad you are educated, so we can debate on an intellectual level instead of emotional level, without the use of threats, intimidation and innuendos. My problem with you is that you are sometimes dishonest. You view issues from your narrow perspective and not care about how issues affect others. I call that entitlement mentality.

Don't misunderstand me. I supported Buhari 100%, I did two years schooling in sokoto in the late 80s and fell in love with sokoto and northerners. When I was in sokoto, I did not feel threatened, I drank beer when I wanted to (but in a private bar or private space), I worshiped in a church when I felt like (all the churches were on Ahmadu bello road ), although I hate pork, no one threatened me from eating it. In fact when I was leaving one of my fulani friend offered to give me a goat as a parting gift. That was love.

Today, the story is different, I would not go back to sokoto for a million dollars. There is so much religious intolerance. You guys now want to impose your beliefs and lifestyle on others.

Now, what seperated an hisbah Police from amotekun? Are you saying if I steal or commit murder, hisbah Police will not arresting me? They may not have the powers to prosecute me, but they will effect the arrest, using violence if need be. They arrest people selling and drinking beer, they arrest men and women in hotel rooms.

You are aware that there is a huge security challenge in the southwest and the south as a whole. Farmers are having difficulty earning their livelihood, due to cattle grazing and attacked by fulani herdsmen, and these have been going on for decades with increasing intensity. The federal government has either been complicit, incompetence or non challant, what do you expect the governors or the people to do?
Politics › Re: FG Declares Operation Amotekun Illegal by wirinet(m): 5:10am On Jan 15, 2020
Gbemishile1:
Nooo
I do not support this amotejun of a thing
The federal govt banned the forming if state security and it still stands
If the federal government should allow this amotekun of a thing,then the south east will also want to create their own security watch,with no restrictions as to who will be drafted into their security watch.worst of all is it might be hijacked by the ipobs who are clamouring for their Biafra of a thing and the federal govt doesn't want that.
So what sayest thou of Kano State Hisbah Corps which had been in operation since 2003 and Civilian JTF?
Politics › Re: FG Declares Operation Amotekun Illegal by wirinet(m): 4:57am On Jan 15, 2020
NaMeAboki:
I have no cause to waste time and energy arguing with someone who is clearly driven by emotions rather than logic.
The FG has already made its declaration and given its reasons why; however, if and your leaders think otherwise, then kindly sue the AGF/FG to court to prove your case.
Na wa o. You are so inconsistent. You arguing everyday for the support of Sharia law, hisbah Police and civilian JTF in the north , but now arguing against Amotekun in the south.
People have been asking your northerners to differentiate between hisbah, JTF and Amotekun and you keep mute.

I think the southerners are finally waking up from the injustices we have been suffering from people who feels they own the country.
Do your sharia up north and my people will stay away from the north. We will do our Amotekun and herdsmen should stay away from the south.
Politics › Re: FG Declares Operation Amotekun Illegal by wirinet(m): 4:46am On Jan 15, 2020
magicminister:
Yorubas and igbos have to unite.

We may fight and beef each other but a Yoruba man can live in the East in peace likewise an Igbo man! If my son or daughter travelled to Yoruba or Igbo states, I’ll be at peace knowing their chance of getting murdered is slim but i don’t feel the same way about the norther states!

This issue might be a blessing in disguise. It may help unite the igbos and the Yorubas against the entitlement mentality of the Fulanis.
Politics › Re: PDP Press Statement On Supreme Court Judgement by wirinet(m): 4:42am On Jan 15, 2020
DMerciful:
Why? Without punishment, what will stop INEC from allocating votes at will? Do you know how much taxpayers money was wasted?
This is besides the point.
You asked why the supreme court did not punish anyone, I told you that no one was brought before the supreme Court for punishment. A case has to come to the supreme Court all the way from the high courts before they can make judgements. Besides, it's the lower courts that punishes, the supreme Court either ratifies or dismiss.
Politics › Re: PDP Press Statement On Supreme Court Judgement by wirinet(m): 4:21am On Jan 15, 2020
DMerciful:
So why did the supreme court not punish anyone?
Anyone was not brought before the supreme Court for punishment.
Politics › Re: PDP Press Statement On Supreme Court Judgement by wirinet(m): 4:19am On Jan 15, 2020
seunmsg:
There is nothing strange in the judgement, it was simply the judiciary correcting the wrongs perpetrated by INEC and PDP.


What I actually found strange today is the information that INEC declared Ihedioha winner after cancelling APC votes in 388 polling units. They cancelled the voice/votes of over 200,000 voters just to be able to declare Ihedioha. I’m really disturbed that it took the intervention of the Supreme Court to stop such a fraudulent move. I shiver at the thought that they almost got away with silencing the electoral choices of over 200,000 valid voters.
You raised a valid point. We should be looking at how and why INEC cancelled over 200,000 valid votes and still declared a candidate winner. In saner climes, the state INEC chairman and possibly the national chairman should resigned or be fired (and possibly prosecuted ).
Politics › Re: Why Supreme Court Sacked Ihedioha And Declared Uzodinma Winner In Imo by wirinet(m): 4:01am On Jan 15, 2020
OYAY:
In he unanimous judgement of the seven-member panel, read by Justice Kudirat Kekere-Ekun, the apex court agreed that results in 388 polling units were unlawfully excluded during the collation of the final governorship election result in Imo State.

Now the crux of the matter is that was there cancellation in 308 wards or nothuh We should desist from being unnecessarily emotional!!!
Our igbo brothers trade in emotions. They think they can win or get what they want by stirring emotions. Most of them did not even bother to read the reason for the judgement, they just start screaming; Fulani herdsmen, sharia judges and Buhari. You wonder what concerns these with the judgement?

This is the crux of the judgement;
“Vote due to the appellant Senator Hope Uzodinma and the APC from 388 Polling Units were wrongly excluded from scores ascribed to the appellant(to them).

“It is thereby ordered that the appellant votes from 388 Polling Units unlawfully excluded from the appellant vote declared shall be added and that the first respondent, Emeka Ihedioha, was not duly elected by a majority of lawful votes cast at the said election.”
The lower courts had rejected the evidence presented by hope Uzodinma because the evidence did not originate from the witnesses presenting the evidence.

The panel led by Justice Malami Dongondaji had in the judgment dismissed Messrs Ararume, Nwosu and Uzodinma’s petitions for lacking in merit on the grounds that they failed to prove the allegations made in their petitions.


But the tribunal in its judgement held that the case of the petitioners was unmeritorious because they failed to call relevant witnesses and that evidence of witnesses called were based on hearsay.

The tribunal, in addition, rejected documents tendered by the petitioners in support of their claims on the grounds that those who led evidence in the documents were not the makers of the documents.
This to me is a stupid argument.
So the learned justices were saying that documents originating from INEC or the police, but presented by agents and lawyers of the petitioner cannot be admitted, because they did not write the documents themselves. Mind you, they did not alleged the documents were forged.
Politics › Re: Why Supreme Court Sacked Ihedioha And Declared Uzodinma Winner In Imo by wirinet(m): 3:41am On Jan 15, 2020
YelloweWest:
Was it only hope that got votes from 318 polling units? How did inec over look 236,000 votes?

Abeg leave this lie joor
It was only hope that was able to present evidence that he got 236,000 votes from 318 polling units.

JonDon12:
Wait One Minute; If Uzodinma Got 236k cancelled votes from those Polling Units, How many did Ihedioha Get from those. They should add those to his totals.
The onus lies on Ihedioha to present evidence that he got votes from the 236,000 polling units. You cannot expect hope uzodinma or the supreme Court justices to do that for him.

The problem was the admissibility of the evidence uzodinma presented. The lower courts dismissed the evidence, while the supreme Court admitted it. One the evidence was admitted, ihedioha has lost.
Romance › Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by wirinet(m): 1:17pm On Jan 13, 2020
BecaciaBarbie:
My husband did not even peck me before He got married to me not to talk more of cuddle and sex, please pray to God to send you who He has ordained for you as that person would meet all your criteria and still wait.
A very good friend is always proud that he had sèx with his wife the very day he met her. Their marriage is over 20 years. Does that mean God did not ordain the ordain the marriage.

Different strokes for different folks. What works for you might not work for others.
Romance › Re: My Fiancée Wants To Abort My Unborn Child Because Of Nursing Council Exam by wirinet(m):
calabardick:
Is it the same guy that married her?
Some of this "small introduction men" are agents of frustration. They're out there to frustrate innocent young ladies. Only a foolish woman will listen to them.

You were her destiny helper.
No o. She married a banker. The old guy forgot the small engagement As soon as she aborted the baby. But was still preaching love. The whole family went against the guy and insisted the lady to dumb his sorry ass. Just before she was commissioned, he went to her base crying and almost rolling on the floor, begging to continue the relationship.
What is annoying is not the fact that he was struggling, but he was not serious.Why will you have a relationship for over 6 years and not think of proposing engagement until she becomes pregnant. OK, After engagement, then what?
Romance › Re: My Fiancée Wants To Abort My Unborn Child Because Of Nursing Council Exam by wirinet(m): 6:31am On Jan 13, 2020
Olalan:
OP sorry to burst your bubble your spouse family seem irresponsible.......a grandmother following her grand child is the height of moral bankruptcy. It's time you have a rethink about your spouse and her family that's if you don't also share same moral outlook.
BTW when you both were having series of unprotected sex what where you guys expecting?
The spouse family seem irresponsible but was able to send their daughter to nursing school? You think nursing schools and nursing exams comes cheap?

But to you, the family of a guy that would agree to a small engagement , not marriage and then have a baby out of wedlock is responsible. The guy was asking for engagement, not marriage. The girl is right to demand a proper marriage after 4 years of free knacking. So when will he be ready for marriage.

I have had a cousin in similar situation. She got pregnant during her NYSC, and the guy insisted on having the baby. They brought drinks and kola to my uncle's house. When we asked them when they will be ready for the marriage proper, they said we should not worry, that they would come soon. That was 11 years ago. Till today, we have not seen their brake lights. They sent money for the child upkeep for the first 5 years. Today, it's our family that pays school fees and upkeep for the boy.

The grandmother that is following her grandchild has seen, heard and experienced far more than the so called moralists. She wants the best for her grandchildren.
Romance › Re: My Fiancée Wants To Abort My Unborn Child Because Of Nursing Council Exam by wirinet(m): 6:11am On Jan 13, 2020
chewwie:
Did her silly grandmother get her pregnant? She should carry the pregnancy to term and leave the baby with you and move on with her life.
Is there any rule that states that she can't take her exams with pregnancy?
her silly grand mother did not get her pregnant, but when the baby is born, who will buy pampers, baby formula, medicals, etc for the baby? Who will bear the medical expenses of the birth, especially if there are complications or requires C/S? It's still the girls parents (and maybe with assistant from the grandparents ) that house her, feed her, pay her school fees, etc. If the girl and the guy are totally independent, and would not constitute a burden on her family, then the silly grand mother and her parents will have no business whatsoever on whether to have a baby or not.

What do you mean "She should carry the pregnancy to term and leave the baby with you and move on with her life"? Leave the baby with the guy?
Romance › Re: My Fiancée Wants To Abort My Unborn Child Because Of Nursing Council Exam by wirinet(m): 9:14am On Jan 12, 2020
cooltola:
Killing an unborn child is the ultimate lack of empathy and disregard to life- the only exception to abortion is if the fetus growing is dangerous to health of the mother or rape . Forget the moral compasses or self righteousness, everyone deserves a chance for tomorrow.
This is a matter of opinion. Many people do not see a fertilised egg or zygote as a child. To the law, a fetus does not become a person until it is capable of independent existence. A woman cannot be forced to carry, birth and care for a baby she does not want. A child should not be a punishment for moral sins of a woman.

All the argument against abortion are based on religious and moral grounds. The law does not recognise a fetus as a legal entity, so killing an unborn child is legal jargon. Medical science is still divided on when a fetus becomes conscious and can be recognised as a person.

Even the children who are begging or suffering are hoping for a tomorrow. The better solution is to enforce a family planning by promoting the uses of condoms or anything to prevent the fertilization of human eggs if both parties are not ready to parent. Why should an unborn child pay the penalty of death because his or her parents were busy enjoying themselves irresponsibly? The northerner leaders should address the uncontrolled population growth, try to provide jobs and abortion is not the answer.
This is the thinking of third world mindset. The hope for a better tomorrow does not justify the millions of unwanted children roaming the streets, constituting a menace to society, ie boko haram, agberos, cultists, etc. Having millions of uneducated and unwanted children is the chief ingredient for societal anarchy.
Politics › Re: Amaechi And Former President Jonathan At Late Dr. Blankson's Funeral (photos) by wirinet(m): 6:55am On Jan 12, 2020
No too surprised, they are both gentleman. Men don't keep grudges forever. I would be more surprised to see Amaechi sitting down and shaking hands with mama peace.
Romance › Re: My Fiancée Wants To Abort My Unborn Child Because Of Nursing Council Exam by wirinet(m):
calabardick:
I don't support abortion.
Stop calling her your fiancée to gain Favor here, she's your girlfriend.

So you want to frustrate her future with your stupid sperm? What is she abort her exams an keep the pregnancy tomorrow you start talking nonsense? If she chose to abort the pregnancy and further her studies, so be it, you can't force it on her. Her future first.

If you want a child GO AND MARRY.
To me having a child you can't take care of is worse sin than abortion.
It's absurd to insist on "keep the pregnancy" when the guy have to consult his family even to have a small engagement . I cry when I see videos of thousands upon thousands of almajiris line up the streets of kano.

I had the same situation with someone close to me. She got admitted into the Navy but discovered she was pregnant for her boyfriend before the training. The boyfriend also insisted on keeping the baby and going to the family to do "small introduction". I advice her to terminate the pregnancy, since it's is the early days. Early stage pregnancy are relatively safe than late term pregnancy. Recommended a gynecologist from a reputable hospital (most gynaecologists perform abortions, but it's very expensive and off the books). It was done without out any issue whatsoever. She completed her training, got into the Navy, went for a university degree while still in the Navy and has been promoted rapidly since. See got married late last year and expecting their first baby this april.

Imagine where she would have been if she had the baby and the good for nothing guy came to do the small engagement. I am sure sufferings would have been the portion of both mother and child.

We must learn to be pragmatic and don't get obsessed by this moral religious self righteousness.

Here is a video of the shear number of almajiris in northern nigeria.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gekDdJzxFbQ

Anyone that don't feel the pain and sufferings of unwanted children does not have empathy.
Politics › Re: Border Closure: Sleeping Giant Nigeria Stirs And entire World Takes Notice. by wirinet(m): 10:27pm On Jan 11, 2020
seankafor:
you just nailed it all.
That's why I love those Ghanaians.. they sometimes bypass reality and pushes their patriotism to extreme irrespective of who they are dealing with..
They are ready to defend their country to the bone marrow, whether they are right or wrong. You can even atrest to that with few of them on nairaland here.

Patriotism goes beyond many things..
The way people bash the president on front page threads..sometimes I avoid comments due to the kind of hate speech been decapitated there.. it's saddening.

There is a huge difference between criticism and hate speech
I also love the igbos for their never say die spirit and their entrepreneurial spirit. Their greatest undoing is the lack of a recognisable unifying leader. The igbos don't like being subservient to a single leader, which is a huge disadvantage in negotiating in politics both nationally and internationally. This is why there is no single demand or goal, but multiple. Besides, who do you negotiate with? Kanu and his group want secession, the politicians wants federal power and influence, the traditional leaders want restructure and resource control.
As had been asked before, why can the fives states come together and solve some pressing problems like road, power, and security? Why can't they organize and create their own Amotekun?
Romance › Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by wirinet(m): 10:07pm On Jan 11, 2020
sunnysmile80:
@ Pryme: Thank you for your submission. You have said it all. I like your perspective towards relationship. Your statements reflect your level of maturity. God bless you. I really don't understand how a woman would lose anything by having sex in a relationship. And the mentality of a man leaving after having sex is very wrong. If he wants to leave, he will leave with sex or no sex. Not having sex before marriage does not make the people involved in a relationship responsible or irresponsible.

It is called relationship, a romantic relationship, an erotic relationship. It is called dating. Anyone who dies not want sex before marriage should not start any dating relationship whatsoever. They should just meet each other and get married within a week or a month. That's what our forefathers and mothers usually do in the old days, they barely know each other, they just get introduced to each other and they get married. Some of them don't even live in the same location, they would meet onece and then get married.They don't pass through dating phase.Fortunately for then some of them were able to live together for the rest of their lives either successful or unsuccessfully with ether happiness or sorrow. They were full of patients and endurance that time.

But now, time and things have changed. U need to date to get to know each other, and part of what u need to know from the person you want to marry is his/her sex life.

I decide not to sound religious because I'm a realist.

If u don't want sex before marriage, then don't go into dating. Very simple .

And this idea of women believing that when they don't receive money from a man then they are not expected to have sex with him is absurd. I believe only prostitutes engage in sex in exchange for money.

Some women may decide not to have sex before marriage because they are not sure if the man will stay with them in case of unexpected pregnancy, then use condom or other preventive measures. Simple. But this idea of no sex before marriage is unreasonable.

You kiss and curdle a man and u said no sex before marriage? That's called pre-intimacy , as for as I am concerned by kissing and curdling you have started making love with him already.

You are just lucky that the man is inexperience/amateur, if you engaged in a pre-intimacy with an experienced man you won't be able to resist the rest of the package. In fact you will be the one that will UnCloth yourself by yourself ; you will even be the one the will UnCloth him. But I guess the man in not experienced enough as to know how to make a woman lost control in ecstasy.
How many times can I like this post? I give 1000 likes. You hit the nail on the head and then nail the coffin, Dead and buried, nothing more to add.

A no sex before marriage romantic relationship sounds absurd. Why not ask your parents to arrange the marriage as in the days of old, you meet on the day of the marriage or just before and then have sex on your wedding night? In laws outside the bedroom waiting for the blood stained bedsheets and all.

How exactly do you agree to enter into a no before marriage relationship?

I see a fine lady and I approach her with the usual toasting lines like, hello babe, sorry Sister, I have been noticing you all these days and I think you are a very beautiful lady, I like your smile, your personality. ...... you know the rest. In conclusion, the guy would say, I want us to have a relationship, become boyfriend and girlfriend or lovers.

In response the girls says, I have noticed you too and I think you are responsible and cute too. I agree, let's give it a try, but.... no sex before you marry me.

Or will the girl agree to a relationship, but later give her conditions when the guy want to kiss and press something?
Romance › Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by wirinet(m): 8:50pm On Jan 11, 2020
Brightgem:
If you yourself had any dignity, any common sense, any self respect, any values, any parental teachings, any good guidance, then you would have understood my post on one hand and on the other hand you would have not stooped low to use MIA KHALIFA as an example.

But I don't blame you, this generation doesn't know how to define success, that's why you can use pornstars or a scammer as an example of success.

90% of people don't have sense, as a friend of mine said.

You lack decency or intellectual capacity to hold a discussion with me. So dey your lane of pornstars abeg. This is my final exchange with you.
See person talking about intellectual capacity. A person whose claim to dignity is only in her virginity (that's even assuming she is one).

You think you are more successful, educated or more intelligent that Mia Khalifa? In terms of money (or prosperity as you guys like to call it), she is worth over $3 million. How much are you worth? In terms of relationships, she is currently engaged to a celebrity chef, to be married this summer. You can bet the marriage will be a media event.
I am not exactly supporting or promoting mia khalifa's lifestyle, what I am against is imposing your morals and beliefs on others. I used her to show an example of 'who will marry you will marry you, virgin or not.'
Romance › Re: My Fiancée Wants To Abort My Unborn Child Because Of Nursing Council Exam by wirinet(m): 8:34pm On Jan 11, 2020
KingEzo:
Hello Nairalander,

please I need your advice. I am 31 years and my fiancee is 29 years and we have been dating for the past four years.

She discovered that she's pregnant on new year's eve. We discussed the issue throughout the new year and we agreed to keep the pregnancy that she's going to write her nursing Council exam later. I told her that she should give me some time so that I can go and discuss with my parents and organize introduction then do the engagement in a little way but she said her mom won't be happy with her that she needs to do big wedding because she's the first child of her mom.

She later told me that she's going to inform her parents before taking any step. To my surprise she called me this evening that she is going to terminate the pregnancy because her family has been raining insults on her since she got home.

She said her grandma is even coming to the city with her so that she can terminate the baby. But I told her that I didn't support it that I can't terminate pregnancy, I told her that she can write the council exam after delivery but she insisted.

Sir-Ma should I support this their action?
Abeg explain the redded quote for me, what do you mean by "I told her that she should give me some time so that I can go and discuss with my parents and organize introduction then do the engagement in a little way?"

How much time do you need to discuss with your parents and then organize introduction ? Introduction for god sake, not even marriage. So the lady is supposed to suspend her education and career while waiting for you to propose engagement.

If I am the girls parents, I would personally contact a very competent gynecologist and flush out the fetus. And then threaten to disown my daughter, if she as much as answer a phone call from the useless guy.
Romance › Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by wirinet(m): 5:17pm On Jan 11, 2020
Brightgem:
Abeg stand your ground. It's not any body's bloody business whether you are virgin or not.

Is that even a man, if he can't be disciplined with the thing in the middle of his legs? Or you think giving him sex will keep him? you'll look back and wonder what happened when he still leaves you, you'll be more heart brokened.

Pls keep your dignity and let the manipulator leave. You no do be you no do. Sex with a man that's not your husband means you are ready to lose your dignity. Those who don't agree, argue with your ancestors.
So to you a woman's dignity is tied to whether she is a virgin or not? That's 1st century mindset. In the 21st century where women chart their own destinies without depending on men, their dignity is tied to their character, education and career.
Those that feel their dignity is tied to their virginity better become a nun.

Even Mia Khalifa married a young successful bachelor.
Romance › Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by wirinet(m): 2:10pm On Jan 11, 2020
pryme:
No you did not,
Its obvious he now wants sex and you don't.
Call off the relationship.
If you still want the relationship be prepared to have sex with him.

No need to complicate things.
It is what it is.
You get husband for her? I hope you know that women have "best before date", it becomes increasingly difficult for women to find husband's (not to talk of child bearing difficulties) after her early 30's.

There are many mid age ladies running from church to church looking for miracle husband and miracle of Sarah.
Romance › Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by wirinet(m): 2:02pm On Jan 11, 2020
franzis:
Sex or no sex , a guy who wants to stay will stay and the one that wants to leave would leave ...
No mind them. Oloshos de see husband before these pretending "holy mary" sisters.
If you want fvck the guy, fvck him. If you don't want to fvck him, then leave him. It's wrong using sex as a condition for marriage. Sex before or after marriage does not determine a successful marriage. Your character and your other inate values that determines whether he marries you or the marriage is successful.
Foreign Affairs › Reason Why Trump Hates Obama So Much by wirinet(op): 4:58pm On Jan 10, 2020
Trump obviously hates Obama for reasons best known to him. Throughout the Obama presidency, Trump attacked Obama, both in person and his policies. It even got worse after he became president. Hardly a day goes by without Trump mentioning Obama. Some say it's due to jealousy, as Obama is as popular in the US as Trump himself. In the survey that came out last week they were tied on popularity.
Outside the US, it a no contest, outside maybe Saudi Arabia and Israel, Obama is almost worship in foreign countries, while Trump is hated. The straw that broke the camels back was when Mitchell Obama was voted the most admired woman in the world, when his wife Melania did not even register on the scale.

So you can understand how furious Trump must have been as he spent most of his speech on the Iran's missile attacked on US based criticizing Obama. He blame Obama for everything except launching the missiles itself.

I want to show a video where Obama took on Trump while he was still president. He threw jibes at Trump's in a cool calculated and intelligent manner. Obama is a master orator.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7eJpWOY3r18
Politics › Re: Amotekun: Don’t Betray South-west, Ooni Tells Personnel by wirinet(m): 1:29pm On Jan 10, 2020
Dpharisee:
Igbos are not castigating the Yoruba nation for this laudable move, imagine the reaction when Igbos established BSS few years ago to protect their communities.
Restructuring means that all regions should be allowed to have state Police and not this proxy security outfits
Why are you comparing grapes to grapefruit? You mean south east governors, traditional rulers and political leaders set up a security outfit and Yorubas people reacted negatively?
Politics › Re: Amotekun: Northern Youths Kick, Call On President Buhari To Ban It by wirinet(m): 12:58pm On Jan 10, 2020
9jahotblog:
OPERATION AMOTEKUN: Things You Need To Know About the New Western Security Scheme

1. Each state donated 20 vehicles each, making 120 Amotekun vehicles. The vehicles would be dispatched to the respective states.

2. The headquarters will be at Ibadan, Oyo State.

3. The size of the troops would be determined by what each of the six states had capacity for and based on the level of
security threat.

4. Every state government will fund the troops in its state. It is the capacity of a state that will determine the size of troops it needs.


5. The idea behind Operation Amotekun is in a bid to localizing policing Salary of personnel will not be below the minimum wage.

6. Their operation will be seamless. If something is happening near the Oyo border, the Ogun Amotekun can cross into Oyo
and vice versa.
Good development, I have been wondering what the Yorubas are waiting for all these years, allowing fulani herdsmen to take over their lands while all they do is wail. If the Hausa fulani north can form HISBAH Police and impose sharia law on non muslims, then the Yorubas (and igbos) has a right to form AMOTEKUN police and enforce a cow ban on Yoruba lands and restrict the movement of fulani herdsmen.

I don't understand how the Hausa Fulanis and thing they can impose one law in northern Nigeria and deny the same law in southern Nigeria.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Man Arrested For Threatening To Kill Trump Over The Killing Iranian G. Soleimani by wirinet(m): 2:55am On Jan 10, 2020
But here someone threatened to go to Abuja and bring Buhari's head on a plate. The same people that condemned the attempt to arrest the person are the same people that support the arrest of someone threatened to kill Trump. It a wonder how they can switch on and off their cognitive ability at will.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran 'Standing Down' After Missile Strikes - Trump by wirinet(m): 5:27am On Jan 09, 2020
falopey:
The report was made to their gullible citizens just to save face and after they had already signaled to American troops through Iraqi government that their base would be bombed that night. Then all American troops evacuated before the bomb.

However, Iran has to tell some lies to its people to pacify them of course
And you think Trump did not save face?
This is what Trump said just one day before the attacks;
“Let this serve as a WARNING that if Iran strikes any Americans, or American assets, we have.... targeted 52 Iranian sites, some at a very high level & important to Iran & the Iranian culture, and those targets, and Iran itself, WILL BE HIT VERY FAST AND VERY HARD,”

Trump never specify American lives, he said any Americans or American interests.

I said it from the beginning, the crisis is all demo, to whip up emotional sentiments. Both Trump and Khomeini's popularity were waning at home and both need an audio crisis to rally the people around their leader. Both Trump and Khomeini are not ready to fight an actual war, the proxy war is achieving all their aims. I became convinced Trump does not want to fight a war, after the Iranians shot down a US drone about 3 months ago. Trump threatened fire and brimstone (as usual) but stood down because over 150 Iranian (not american) lives will be involved.
Christianity Etc › Re: Leke Adeboye On US And Iran: Donald Trump Is An Inspiration by wirinet(m): 4:49am On Jan 09, 2020
I said it before the crisis started, it's all demo. The US nor Iran are not interested in a war. Khomeini and Trump are very unpopular at home and both need to generate a crisis to look tough and unite against a "common enemy".

It worked perfectly for Khomeini as the country is now United and people have forgotten their grievances. About Trump, I am not so sure. Democrats and independents are still skeptical about the reasons for assassinatiing Soleimani, and Trump's approval ratings has not moved from its traditional 40 to 45%.

Most Nigerians don't understand international politics and how leaders use their lives to play chess.

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