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GrandFinale2021:Sorry, I wouldn't like to be seen exchanging texts with you. |
We can see you're already following two beautiful ladies. ![]() |
Is your fiancée's father dead? If so, was her mother's hair cut after her husband's death? Have they had any other major ceremony since the man's funeral? Has the woman given out any of her daughters since then? I'm asking cause the human brain stays active by playing the tricks on us when we aren't actively thinking. It's possible the thought of a marriage ceremony brought back the memories of her husband's funeral. It's also possible the thought of giving out her child made her recall the last time she gave up a loved one. |
She was obviously near the natural habitat of the animal. But assuming she actually bought the bird, what is wrong with that? Why must she buy what everyone is buying? And why is the guy above already angry and fighting with himself? Why do Nigerians like telling other people how to exist? |
People should learn how to express their opinions as just that, opinions. Use words/expressions like "I believe", "I think", "probably", "it's possible that", "in my opinion", etc when sharing such. Not only will this make it easier for you to adjust as you learn more, it will also help your audience make a better judgment. Let's stop stamping what we think as facts. Funny thing is that many people onhere build thier arguments around personal convictions that aren't necessarily factual. They'd be like "so the Democrats planted Joe Biden so that they'd kill him afterwards and make the VP the president. You'd be a fool to vote for such an evil party". These guys have no data whatsoever to back this up but they'd say it with authority and build their entire logic around it, and then attack you for asking for evidence. |
Keep policing women and thier dressing while saying nothing to your fellow men who go around raping everything female... |
Lol... the guys above be feeling like Prince Charming. |
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Mutemenot:Property misappropriation can be perceived as a financial crime depending on the financial worth of the property in question. But that aside, the property I was referring to is the expected goods/services the clients don't eventually get after making payments. In other words, if the lady was taking money from her victims in exchange for Bitcoins that never come, then it's definitely a financial crime. |
Bornsinner7:You want Chioma to be left alone while you call out Mya? How is what Mya doing different from what Chioma did? Is she claiming to own Davido? I agree we should stop shaming women for men's actions but if at any point we need to point out a bad decision on the woman's part, we should do it without bias. If Maya's actions suggests she has "fish brain", same can be said about Chioma. Otherwise, we should leave the ladies alone and call out the guy who jumps around like a he goat. |
Mutemenot:It doesn't have to be a legal tender. It could be identified as 'property' and it would still be a case of misappropriation which is all that is needed do nail her. |
Jeromejnr:It has already turned into another women bashing thread. How many women do you know that did this? You guys are incorrigible. |
Nice match. |
Super Eagles are clearly the superior team here... |
While y'all are here cursing the team, they are out there scoring goals. |
ShadowCracker:Haha... a developer's advocate. Is that actually a role? I've been on NL for about 10 years. 6/7 years ago, I was very active on the programming section and I made some friends there. |
temi1290:Lol... TV coverage shouldn't change a skilled player's performance though. I think the major reason these guys do better abroad is team cohesion. They might be good individually but they need to play together more often. In the absence of that, the coach would have a lot to do to achieve the desired cohesion. |
naptu2:The African style... J'ai jamais vu ! |
Lol... why do Nigerians abuse their own team a lot like this? |
Is the match over? |
ojonugway:Amen, bro. |
ShadowCracker:No, I didn't study in Nigeria. You chose a great course of study. Just be good at what you do. Best of luck. |
profsomebody:Software Engineering |
ojonugway:No, not in Nigeria. |
Assuming this is true, you first need to acknowledge the fact that you're a victim of your own decisions. I can't even count how many times I read "one thing led to another" or its equivalent in your write-up. That's casually brushing aside your own decisions and active participation while carefully painting the picture of a lady who came unto you and now wants to ruin you. Meanwhile, in each of the occasions you did something with her, you knew it would happen and you went ahead. And if she hadn't gotten pregnant, you might have continued till now. I'm not blaming you for sleeping with her/cheating. I'm just saying you're not her victim. You cheated on your girlfriend by having sex multiple times with another lady whom you eventually got pregnant and went ahead to kill the baby. I know that sounds terrible but that's just what it is. We all have taken decisions in the past that we regret today, but the first step to reconciling with ourselves and coming up with a way forward is to own up to our mistakes. The lady seems like someone struggling with her faith/conscience. Apparently, she grew up in a very religious environment, and with such big secrets, such persons tend to feel worthless, unreal or unlovable. But that aside, having abortion on one's conscience could be heavy. You were probably her weakness, her forbidden pleasure. And you both could have avoided this if you had tried a bit. But what has happened has happened, and she seems heavy hearted if not outrightly depressed. To feel better, she needs to bare herself to those she values, those whose presence makes her judge herself. To you, it's "bla bla bla" but that's a mental state you may not be able to contend with. She's not asking for money. She's not trying to get back at you for anything. Her issue is not with you, her issue is with herself. What you call "bla bla bla" may just be her only way to escape suicide. You can talk her out of it today, but there will surely be another episode except she quits and goes far away. She has already told your uncle what you guys did before. Your uncle already has an impression of you. That might not be a good impression, but it means half of the worst has already happened. If your uncle's perception of you is what matters to you, coming forward before the lady does might just be your last card. Otherwise, whatever you say afterwards would be taken as the confession of someone who's got no choice (though I think that's already what it is but hey, your uncle wouldn't know you were pressured into confessing). Going to your uncle first might actually earn you his respect once again. I know it's easier said than done, but that's what I'd do myself. Bon courage ! |
It's growing, this beast called sexism you guys are nurturing. |
vhuqnl:My role in what? At work? |
Achilles100:Big Alice is just taller. Looking through the "windshield", you can see the top of Snowpiercer. |
1) Snowpiercer 2) Into The Night |
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