₦airaland Forum

Hathor5:
Please don`t kill the messenger.

"The Bored Sex

Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it.


By Wednesday Martin

(...) Marta Meana of the University of Nevada at Las Vegas spelled it out simply in an interview with me at the annual Society for Sex Therapy and Research conference in 2017. “Long-term relationships are tough on desire, and particularly on female desire,” she said. I was startled by her assertion, which contradicted just about everything I’d internalized over the years about who and how women are sexually. Somehow I, along with nearly everyone else I knew, was stuck on the idea that women are in it for the cuddles as much as the orgasms, and—besides—actually require emotional connection and familiarity to thrive sexually, whereas men chafe against the strictures of monogamy.

But Meana discovered that “institutionalization of the relationship, overfamiliarity, and desexualization of roles” in a long-term heterosexual partnership mess with female passion especially—a conclusion that’s consistent with other recent studies.

“Moving In With Your Boyfriend Can Kill Your Sex Drive” was how Newsweek distilled a 2017 study of more than 11,500 British adults aged 16 to 74. It found that for “women only, lack of interest in sex was higher among those in a relationship of over one year in duration,” and that “women living with a partner were more likely to lack interest in sex than those in other relationship categories.”

A 2012 study of 170 men and women aged 18 to 25 who were in relationships of up to nine years similarly found that women’s sexual desire, but not men’s, “was significantly and negatively predicted by relationship duration after controlling for age, relationship satisfaction, and sexual satisfaction.” Two oft-cited German longitudinal studies, published in 2002 and 2006, show female desire dropping dramatically over 90 months, while men’s holds relatively steady. (Tellingly, women who didn’t live with their partners were spared this amusement-park-ride-like drop—perhaps because they were making an end run around overfamiliarity.) And a Finnish seven-year study of more than 2,100 women, published in 2016, revealed that women’s sexual desire varied depending on relationship status: Those in the same relationship over the study period reported less desire, arousal, and satisfaction. Annika Gunst, one of the study’s co-authors, told me that she and her colleagues initially suspected this might be related to having kids. But when the researchers controlled for that variable, it turned out to have no impact. (...)"

https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2019/02/women-get-bored-sex-long-term-relationships/582736/

Biglittlelois:
Lol, the spirit behind sex is very strong.

tonywonder:
Marriage has being polluted and defiled by both men and women. When you read what couples do outside of their marriage as a bachelor or spinster, you might end up never getting married, becoming a baby daddy/baby mama or just adopting babies and enjoy your short life on earth.

tonywonder:
Mrs Amara, a married woman, confesses to sleeping with her driver because she was bored and lonely, but she later discovered her husband was also cheating.

aminulive:
https://politicsnigeria.com/president-bola-ahmed-tinubu-the-action-man-nigeria-needed-all-along/

lhordspy:
Another mistake. There are differences between politics and governance. You people like mixing it together.

Everywhere in the world where democracy is practised. You have to be elected to be able to govern. And also have to play your politics right to be able to be elected.

Politics keeps you in that position to govern. There are thousands of people who knows how to govern well, but bad at politics. Then how can they attain that position to be able to govern well?

You have to be able to play the two well, simultaneously. Without one colliding with the others. That is what makes a great leader.

directonpc:
nice!

Extra
If you're looking for options for unlimited internet and still considering whether to get Starlink or not, here's an unboxing, setup, and speed test for the device I got last month.

I'm based in North-central Nigeria, learn about my experience here:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Dv5zYXtcfc&t=40s

benjackugo:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1kaMoyxDxvg

I And Davido Stole And Sold 20 Televisions In His Father's House — Davido's Cousin, B-Red

Nigerian singer Adebayo Adeleke, better known as B-Red said during an interview on Echoo Room;

"I am not very proud of it, but I and Davido stole and sold 20 televisions in his father's house. Our parents were rich, but we suffered"

fergie001:
SOURCE

Skyview01:
Thanks for the info, i will give a try

Skyview01:
The shipping agent added on more charges that was not agreed upon when the car landed in the port.

Dewmo:
This is true, I had total rest using Gimporters for this transaction, it was seamless from start to finish. Excellent service, keep it blazing.

Skyview01:
I wouldn't ship a car from abroad. Rather buy in Nigeria. Clearing cost and lots of other prohibitive factors.

My wife shipped a car last year to Nigeria to her mom and it ended up more expensive than if bought in Naija.

ogdpicture:
Here're links to watch the 1st Trailer:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AUtjlI5JDLE

Linkly visit the website http://www.familyonfirethemovie.com to watch all the other movie trailers.


For online booking, go to the following website: www.familyonfire.eventbrite.com

To get individual/group tickets, visit the following UK ticket outlets:


TICKET OUTLETS:

Tasty 020 8854 2171 (Woolwich)

LA Roots (Formerly Planet Nollywood) 020 7701 1155

(Camberwell)

Tomi's Kitchen 020 8694 9352 (Deptford),

Presidential 020 7708 4491 (Old Kent rd)

Le Joint Seafood Bar – 020 7207 6789 (Old Kent Rd)

Tomi’s Kitchen 020 8986 6226 (Hackney)

Tasty 020 8586 1888 (Dagenham)

Tasty 020 8522 4705 (Stratford)

Coal City 020 8884 6262 (Edmonton)

ogdpicture:
The Family on fire, a Tade Ogidan movie, premiers in Cambwell, London on the 4th of November 2011. Kindly visit the website http://www.familyonfirethemovie.com and click on the ticket link for ticket details.

olat:
All of u should just go get all the Mainframe collections, viz:
Saworoide, Oleku, Thunderbolt, Oga Mako (I just forgot the title-about customs), Agogo-Ewo, Campus queen, Yellow card, they are all too much.
Then the second batch, just go and get all OGD piuctures (Tade Ogidan films). From Hostages, Diamond ring, Dangerous twins, Madam Dearest etc. You 'll be proud to be a Nigerian and an African too.

Mixt:
Billionaire businessman, Terry Waya has shared a throwback photo of himself with his son, Kiddwaya and his older son, Junior.

The Benue-born business mogul who keeps much of his life off social media has been speaking more often, of recent considering the fact that Kiddwaya is a contestant on Big Brother Naija reality TV show.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CEAdoVXnlPa/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

omojeesu:
Raise your glutathione levels. It will slow down the ageing process. You can age without growing old.

ogaemma:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sun5OTDAHIY

Beautiful Lady Used For Joy Soap Advert In The 80s, Aging Gracefully
In those days, people had crush on the joy girl in the video because of her unflinching beauty and this is how she looks now. The pretty young lady that was used for the advert then, has now turned to an healthy looking old woman.

Real Beauty Never Fades.

ogaemma:
Disclosing this in statement, Afegbua’s family said: “The Afegbua family of Edo state has confirmed the demise of the first woman senator in Nigeria, Senator Franca Afegbua, whose sad event occurred this morning, Sunday, March 12, 2023.

“She combined beauty and brain during her service to Nigeria. Funeral details will be announced by the family soon,” the family said.

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/03/just-in-nigerias-first-female-senator-franca-afegbua-is-dead/

EcoBrick:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/06/improved-electricity-lagos-targets-20hrs-power-supply-daily-to-residents/

OgundeleT:
We have what we call faweli aranmupe iin Yoruba a which are an, en, in, on, un. These only can be put in a word. So that is why those Ogundele and co are allowed. Using Shola instead of Sola is part of corruption that has entered the Yoruba writing

OgundeleT:
Grova can't be a Yoruba language because two consonant can't follow each other and letter "v" isn't in Yoruba writing. it is gurofa and tomaati

naptu2:
Femi Fani-Kayode@realFFK


https://twitter.com/realFFK/status/1667970331842060291

yashau:
https://nairametrics.com/2023/06/10/tinubus-plans-to-double-nigerias-crude-production-raise-17-4-bn-through-sell-down-of-nnpcs-assets/

lhordspy:
Porn Star, Moriah mills Slams Her Boyfriend, Basketball Star Zion Williamson, For Impregnating Another Woman.


https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sport/nba/article-12180923/amp/Porn-star-Moriah-Mills-blasts-Zion-Williamson-amid-ongoing-pregnancy-feud.html
https:///porn-star-accuses-zion-williamson-of-infidelity-on-twitter/

Moriah Mills - https://twitter.com/moriahmillsss

lhordspy:
I remember when the stories of this guy's atrocities were making round. The SE folks where at the forefront of the criticism. With help from their propaganda media house, AriseTV; They maligned Lagos state government. They ran commentary 247 about how Lagos state is a den of 'agberos' . and how it is very unsafe.

Well, BROTHER OGBONNA CHIWENLU, the professional developer , Onyi gburugburu has been the one terrorising the state. I am very sure he also joined in the criticism party back then on social media.

officialwdhtv:
CCTV captures delivery man stealing side mirrors of an SUV in Ikoyi

#wetindeyhappentv

📺👇


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1FXQMDxH4dQ

EcoBrick:
Source: National Automotive Design and Development Council

datola:
Please ban the rubish okirika. It is our major economy sabotage.

Those illiterates commenting up who want to look like oyinbo do not know it's because of the toxic okirikas that textile industry collapsed in Nigeria.

Textile industry used to be the largest employer of labour in Nigeria. Millions of jobs have been lost because of trade liberalization agenda that allow all rubish from other countries to be dumbed into Nigeria.

If we produce and sew almost all we wear here we would enjoy these benefits among others:

1. Millions of jobs lost will be recreated

2. Most youth will be gainfully employed and thus reduce crime especially insurgency in the North

3. Naira will gain strength

4. Health hazard as a result of wearing toxic clothese will be averted.

5, Nigerian fashion brands will grow

Hope those who want to eat their tomorrow today will understand.

plaindealer:
Eleanor Roosevelt in her first lady officer with her staff members.

What is normal normal in other places is always a new and strange concept to unexposed village people..

Parachoko:
https://punchng.com/800-petrol-tankers-converted-to-supply-gas-marketers/