₦airaland Forum

QuinModah:
Gross annual or Net annual

Of course Net, reason I said after all expenses.

QuinModah:
What would you suggest?

My suggestion is for everyone to stay close to his/her place of work. Don't take an offer you won't be able to save at least 20% of your salary after all expenses.

walexsho:
you work in Ikeja as a case study
you earn 150k salary
a decent Room/parlour self con rent in Ikeja is more than 1m... and you get a very nice 200k Room/Parlour self con at Sango/tollgate outskirt Ikeja with just 1k tfare per day(360k yearly).
Will you rent a house at Ikeja all in the name of City guy?

Though the suitable option for someone in that situation is to face the rigorous way of life,couple with mental stress by staying at the said outskirt of Ikeja. Besides, if you add his/her tfare and the rent, you will see it still more than 3 months of the salary despite his/her suffering on the road on a daily basis. He/she will likely eat out and spend more compare to living close to his/her work place.

Nigeria is a fuvk up country where you paid through your nose and still not enjoy what you paid for. If I was in that situation, I won't take any job less that 250k there, and live in probably 700k apartment close to work.

HRSweetness:
This saying your rent should be 1 month's salary, please where do you live? What kind of shelter would that be?

Is like you don't know that alot of jokers and unrealistic people full Nairaland.

Except you earn 300k and above, there is no way your 2 months salary will cover your rent if you stay at city centre. Some in the name of cutting cost will get cheap apartments at remote areas and end up spending ×2 of the same rent on transportation.

Big fat lies.

Biglol008:
Good afternoon Nairalanders, pls I need your advice. I’m married 28 years, no children yet. Newly wedded, I have a problem. I don’t last long on bed. I cum very quickly and it takes a long time like 4 hours for me to get another erection and most times it’s not very hard like my first erection.

I was told the nitric oxide in my body is low. Pls I need help. How do I boost my nitric oxide in my body or if there are any supplements let me buy.

I’m afraid if I don’t do anything now my wife might eventually cheat in the future. I no longer have my morning erection like some guys do. I have exercise, did ginger, garlic, bitter Kola nothing seems to be working.

What can I do to remedy my situation. Pls no talk of hospital health wise I’m very okay. No diabetics or anything no infection pls help me so I can save my marriage and my myself.

From your narrative here, you only need to work solely on your psychology. I would've recommended my mixture for you but seem you had tried something similar with no results.

Unless you work on your psychology, nothing on earth will work for you. Just have a mindset that you don't have any problem and continue having sex the way it is until you're stable mentally and be able to improve.

This might be the reason baba left for France to rest. These visits by politicians and well wishers can drain energy.

Perfect description of both men, most especially Buhari. He is not only a coach who sits for 90mins, he is simply a tacticless coach with 18th century formation.

I remember one Modakeke man in charge of super Eagle in 2002 world cup. Baba Onigbinde would just sits there for 90mins, while his boys playing badly and doing what they like on the pitch.

This game won't be easy for Man u, especially now that they have a coach that understand the players very well. My prediction is draw or Tottenham.

I wonder what that interim mumu coach smoke by playing Son as 10, rendered that dude useless in all matches played under him.

Quite alot of this kind of mini refineries ( both legal and illegal) are scattering all over Niger Delta. Many Oil marketers/importers patronize them, buy cheap and sell at official rate.

After all, Subsidy as claimed by government could largely be a scam.

crown08:
Video available for better clarification

Where is the property?

IyaebeTheGreat:
Is it fair on the son considering the fact that he's a very responsible child and isn't responsible for his mother's behaviour

There is more to this than what you guys are seeing. Are the other children not his?

It is very irrational of a man to be partial in dealing with his children especially if they are responsible ones. Except the other children are not his, I don't see any rationale behind giving 90% of his properties to one side. No matter how bad the 2nd wife was, she will have her good moments and memories with him as well. The third wife too deserves something from his properties. As an elder, you don't create future problem for your children because of your selfish interests. This single act of his can resulted into anything unimaginable after his death.

Aigbedion141:
Omo! Was a gambler for 4years only GOD knew how he manage to pull me out.
Now I'm into womanizing spent over 300k within 4months.

I'm extremely tired and saddened, And always remorseful! I regret everybit of my actions after chyking olosho (Hookup, hoe).

Once I'm broke sex doesn't cross my mind.
But the moment there is enough capital my mind is filled up with different theories of sex style.

Initially I started it to kill depression, boredom and shyness.
Now I'm addicted, as a knowledgeable man I'm aware it will obstruct my pathway to success and it's diminish glory and destroy destiny.

I'm very willing to stop and will be very grateful to the advice i will be receiving here.
Thank you to everyone who contributed and to everyone who read.. love always.

Your major problem is lack of quality sex and love from a decent girl. Once you are able to find good girl or got married to one, your crave for hookup girls will drastically reduce. Sex is very powerful to a willing mind, except you do the above, no amount of advise or therapy can safe you until you finally gone broke or contract a deadly disease.

Also try to build your self worth, a man with dignity and self worth cannot be addicted to sleeping with hookup girls. These quick sex are only useful as one night thing probably when you travel for business or occasions outside your state or country. A man of integrity would rather have a beautiful side chick if he is married or change girlfriends for different taste if he is single.

richard870:
I doubt this is a lady's profile, sounds more like a male

Rokiat is a full bloody woman. One of the oldest members on Nairaland.

I will always chose the mother except she has no chances of survival.

SalamRushdie:
At this point the danger of not swearing Tinubu in is a lot lot worse than swearing him in ...Let's be guided ...the best time to stop his presidency was at the primaries, the next best time was at the ballots ...Even the judiciary cannot risk removing him at this point, the risks will outweigh any benefits

This is my major fear about utterances of the oppositions and their supporters. Like you had rightly said, the best time to stop him was during APC primary, the 2nd best time was February 25th.

I witnessed the after match of annulment of June 12, 1993 as a teenage boy, I still remember the kind of atrocities befallen our dear nation during the time for almost 3 months despite being under military rule. If anyone try to stop him at this stage, the only end result is total disintegration of Nigeria.

What I noticed is that oppositions are just too desperate, petty and equally only after power, nothing else.

It has even becomes irrational desperation. I think it should be establish that only elections related matters be bringing before tribunal.

madridguy:
It is far better and rewarding marrying a widow than marrying a single mother.

God bless your wisdom sir.

sonature1:
Bola Tinubu ruined everything by working with INEC to undermine Nigeria's democracy. A character like him is not fit to be the president of Nigeria. So, stop blaming other politicians but blame the right person, the Druggie.

How sure are you about this? It is morally wrong to be accusing people in public without fact or concrete evidence. In as much as we may not like or want APC to retain power including myself, let shun emotional/irrational politic and embrace logic. With the present political reality, there is no way Atiku, Obi or Kwankwaso would've won with highly divided votes.

If election is indeed rigged, and you have evidence about that, you can always prove it at election tribunal and get justice. It is so wrong of politicians to be making inciting statements capable of putting the country in a serious crisis.

If you watch APC lawyers very well, they only focus on election matters and political parties involved. Why would anyone digress from this but building up on what happened in the private life of his opponents more than 40 years ago? This is too petty, disgusting and cunning way of claiming what doesn't not belong to him.

By the time those selfish and unfortunate politicians set this country on a serious crisis, that is when every gullible eye will clear. We are gradually heading toward a very dangerous situation without knowing.

If these desperate power mongers meant well for this country, they would've based their law-suits solely on elections and not to hit up the polity by frivolity.

Lolz, Fake story.

So you counted the number of prostitutes you slept with since 2013, and still noted down the ones you did without protection?

Experience bring worst out of people.

KiNg0G:
I'm dieing deep within me every time money comes my way. Just know it's time for me to suffer throughout that week. I lodge a hotel, carry women buy drugs and start gambling on sporty bet until I'm drained financially, physically few days before I come back to my senses with not a single one naira in my account. I feel like I'm cursed to be rich with no peace of mind. But when all the money is gone, I can manage 1k and cook food, eat well, drink water... but give me 1million. That's when my suffering start...I forget to eat or think just back to my suffering ways. I can't help it

I have prayed to God to make me poor for life because it's yet again another suffering when money comes my way

Nlfpmod

Don't stress yourself too much, some life events are still coming that will finally change your orientation. I just pray you don't past 50 years before this happen.

@op, in as much as I will agree with you that there is generational curse, I will also advise you to work on your mindset. The way you think is very vital to your development.

You will be surprise the next person had more issues he/she is facing than you. You are never alone as far as Nigeria is concerned, only the rulling class and elites are enjoying this country presently. Try to focus on your Transport business, get connected with another dealer, and if possible, try other things you are good at.

And most importantly, keep hoping on the Lord, he knows everything about your predicament, he will never disappoint you. Always pray and bath with SEA SALT to wade off negative energy from your self.

Wish you best of luck in all your endeavour.