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I like Peter Obi, not because is better, but for the fact that he is just 62yrs, energetic and vibrant to some extent. Unfortunately, his party lacks require structure to win presidential election, and that is obvious fact we don't want to accept.

Governors, house of assembly members( both state and federal), ministers, commissionals, local governments chairmen and chairpersons, ambassadors, heads of government agencies, contractors, oil tycoons, millions of party members etc. These aforementioned people has thousands of supporters, families and friends who are benefiting under them in one way or the other.

These are the people that will work for existing parties with formidable structures. Peter Obi lack all these, and to make the matter worse, he doesn't make any attempt to negotiate a merger with other smaller political parties. As experienced as Obi is in politics, i don't expect him to bank on ordinary Nigerians who can change their minds at the sight of a few naira notes or any slightest provocation to win presidential election.

Besides, these old guys and their structures have a lot of fund to spend on election days. Only tiny number of Nigerians can reject 5k, not to talk of 10k on election days. To rescue this country from old order (APC and APC), all new or smaller political parties must merge to make it happen.

Tinubu will likely win this election, and that is game over for everyone, because there may never be strong opposition parties again like Lagos. I just pray he replicate his success in the past and fix the country.

Kobojunkie:
LOL .... will you also give this very same advice to a man whose wife is cheating on him?

This is what you consider having better options for a woman who is in a marriage, a whole Mrs. badge carrier, this is better option? Kai!

Now I could see you are just catching cruise here.

Bye.

If you're an elite, behave like one. You cant hire a mid-table coach to do the work of an elite coach. It will never work that way.

That is why I always tell people not to take any loan more than 20% on entire loan. How can someone agreed to take a loan of 20% monthly repayment interest from a family friend for that matter.

Even the notorious loan apps are not this greedy. That person is not a family friend but family enemy. I suggest she renegotiate with him. Who authorised him to be giving loan to people at such ridiculous interest? He cannot do anything except he is fully registered with appropriate authority to carry out such activity.

Kobojunkie:
1. Your response doesn't make sense.

She says she is married and her husband is cheating on her and asking if she is to do the same. So?

2. Wow.... so even though it is very possible the man is probably contemplating ways to abandon her as we speak, you are instead trying to get her to believe that if she waits for him, acts like she is single again, he will most definitely come back to her, the same way it has happened for every person out there who has ever tried that formulae?

3. Oh! She is supposed to continue living this single-married woman life for as long as it will take for the man to come back to her?

This reminds me so of very sad it was to watch abandoned wives pine and long for the men who abandoned them in marriage to return. There heads were filled with lies that if only they do better, take care of themselves, worked Hardee, etc., the men that abandoned them would surely come back. Most of the men moved on, had other families and even forgot about the children they had with their abandoned wives. While majority of the women who were abandoned in marriage, raised their kids alone, never again to even see the backsides of the man who abandoned them in suffering.
..... this the kind of life you will wish on even your own sister, right?

I won't insult you back because you are not new to me on this childish display.

Let me clarify it because it seem you understood nothing from my previous post directed to the poster.

Being happy or don't give a fuc-kp about her husband doesn't mean she would be acting single. It simply mean the following:

1. Be happy always irrespective of his action.

2. priotize or love yourself more than anyone else.

3. Stop complaining completely about his lack of care or sex.

4. Always look good, dress well, improve your self confidence. Give him whatever he wanted but never ask for it like before.

5. Detach yourself emotionally from him, by this, whatever he does won't give you Headache or High blood pressure. Always act as if you can live without him.

No one disrespect or care less about a partner he/she knew can easily get better option without him/her.

Kobojunkie:
1. You mean though she is in a marriage, she should adjust to living life as single folks do? What then is the point of saying one is married?

2. LOL...so you think because she starts to live as though he doesn't matter, he will suddenly come around?

3. So your head is not completely stuck in lalaland afterall yet you advise was for her to play single-woman-wearing-marriage-badge for how long again?

Ordinarily most of your posts/replies on Nairaland doesn't worth attending to because you are too notorious in misleading people especially women with your quack reasoning.

1. If you tell her " what s the point in getting married", you should be able to tell her husband the same and give her solution to the problem.

2. Yes, he would, and I am 100% sure about that except he doesn't need him anymore in his life.

3. For as long as her husband come back to her sense and Value her. Like I said before, in which you know if you are that intelligent, humans generally don't respect or value something that is not though for them to handle or please. Being too emotional attach or always wanting someone acceptance will only devalued you in the present of that person. The same thing apply to a women starving her husband sex, the day he stop asking or don't give a fu-ck about her is the day he liberate himself. If this woman apply the logic I gave her, and the husband do not drastically change after this, just quote this and call me bastard.

ante56:
I have Calle his attention times with number but all to no avail
I can’t remember the last day he asked
“How was your day?
Even when I’m sick he doesn’t care at all
I have cried
Still no change
Reason why I thought of cheating so I wouldn’t care anymore
I won’t disturb him and I’m sure he’ll be fine

Firstly madam, you need to ignore all these inexperienced children telling you to quit or cheat on you husband. The problem started when you attached too much emotion and happiness to your husband.

All you need to do is to love yourself and find true happiness in yourself. Stop complaining and ignore him totally. Dress well, take care of your body, let him see that true happiness in you. When he is around, don't try to frolicking around him, instead, do that alone with good music. Make calls to your family and friends and laugh to it.

He would want to find out about the new person you became, at this point, don't back down or give a damn Bleep about him, continue with what you are doing.

Everything will gradually fall in place except he doesn't want you again in his life. Humans generally don't respect or value anyone who can't do without them, your husband is only taking advantage of this, having know that your true happiness depends on him.

uchaymart:
Do you mean 50kg is sold for 28rhousand naira?
Pity people wey dey try scam na....you should have said it's 5k at least, it can be forgotten if it ends up rough...it's would end up rough anyway��

I bought 34k(50kg foreign rice) in Ibadan during Christmas, so I think those sellers in the market won't buy it more than 28k or less considering the cost of transportation and their profit.

Didn't say he is not a scammer but could be legit with that price especially if he buy at Saki, Igboho and other neighbouring towns bordered Benin Republic.

masinga07:
For your mind, he's not popular. He's not popular but won Oyo state and Ondo state in 2019 despite having APC governors. You guys don't seems intelligent. Tinubu worked against the emergence of Hon Mulikat Adeola to become Speaker in 2011 and supported a Fulani man from Sokoto and now that Tinubu is contesting himself, you are expecting people from Oyo state especially Ogbomoso axis to vote Tinubu like they have forgotten what he did just few years back. We are watching now.

If you are that intelligent as you claimed, you won't be comparing events of years back to the current political reality. Discussing politics with you is a mere waste of time.

Have a nice day.

Toosure70:
Aregbe made Tinubu as well. Go and ask, Aregbe delivered alimoso votes that made Tinubu governor for 2 times. Tinubu caused the whole wahala for not allowing his boy to have political dominance in their states . Why would Tinubu force candidates on his boys in their states after dominated Lagos already. So if he loses power , all of them will just collapse together Abi. Osun no be Lagos man

This kind of ill advise was what led this man to his doom. What made Tinubu so powerful is his dominance in South west, you don't expect such a leader to allow his political son to dictate what is giving him advantage over others. What legacy is he talking about? Wasted ancient policy of the same school uniform, Opon imo(tablet) scam, Airport scam, half Salary or Debts?

Aregbesola gone too far by attacking his personality, and to make the matter worse, worked against his party in the state and cost them victory. Tinubu may have a large heart to forgive but not to the extent of working with him ever again should he win February presidential election.

masinga07:
You just said yourself that Atiku won't get 25%. You guys will be somewhere far and will be talking like you know what's happening in someone else's compound.

He is telling you an obvious truth. Atiku is not popular in the South, people see him as greedy Fulani who want to replace another Fulani after spending 8 years in power. Peter Obi will come close 2nd in South west, and Atiku may not see require 25% in any state in South west.

jendor123:
What is your suggestions about acquiring farm workers. What is the best method

You don't have much problem if you are into crop farming as long as you always give them target and area they must complete. In many cases, if they know you are not the type that come to farm at least twice a week, they will abandoned their works and be doing work for other farmers near you and get paid. They are very cheap to use in that manner, so alot of farmers around will take advantage of that at your own detriment.

If you are into Animal husbandry ( goats, cow and chicken, etc), you need to give them strict monitoring or better still, install CCTV in your farm. Make sure you go farm everyday or assign trusted person to do that for you. Give them unrealistic target to meet, especially in the area of feeding to result, let them know you are expert in the business, that you know everything excluding animal behaviour when they are not well fed.

Don't be too nice to them, that you give them every comfort in this life won't make them to spare you if it to their personal advantage. They are always ready to cheat you at every opportunity, so be smart in dealing with them. Employ the young ones below 22yrs and make sure they don't smoke from where you hire them as you can never stop their bad habits when they land in your place.

Zerofarm:
Hello Nairalander,

I need your suggestion and advice because I just acquired 7 hectares of land for plantain farming in ekiti which will be planted by February next year, the place is secured and free from bandits or herdsmen but everybody is telling me to do relocation instead of farming even though I’ve invested up to 4 million naira into this project because I love Agric….

Please which one is the best advice for me right now as I know how I can make it big by planting up to 10,000 suckers of plantain on this land and get the return in a year, is there market for large production of plantain?

Mods please help me to push this to front page as this is my only option of surviving

If it sure you will get good job and where to comfortable stay abroad, I will advise you to move and use your land to plant cocoa or Cashew. 7 hectare of land is huge, cocoa or Cashew will give you income 5 years from now till the rest of your life without much problems like plantain. Another advantage is market, you sell your cocoa or Cashew at international standards price compare to plantain that those local sellers will cheat the hell out of you especially when they see it too many for you to handle(being highly perishable

Unlike cocoa and Cashew, your number one enemy would be thieves, Wind and farm workers. These 3 are capable to completely destroy your business or farm.

Finally, if you are not ready to become a villager and monitor your farm, don't invest n plantain farming.

Liverpool made a biggest mistake by sanctioning Mane sales without proper replacement. The guy was an engine room of this team, I will peak him in my team over Salah.

ganisucks:
I was there from the beginning of time.

Then you must be a diety who must have lost touch with 21st century reality.

ganisucks:
Baba Lagos is a political opportunist that was tolerated for a time. His contract is about to expire.

How old are you?

Just asking for asking sake ni o.

Radiant01:
That means tinubu meet with G5 governor in london. Tinubu and wike are denying this just to close their game to the chest,so it will be a massive blow for atiku.
Remember when Obasanjo met them in London with obi they took pictures, when atiku met them they took pictures too but when Tinubu met them they didn't took pictures,they just do that low-key even that time Tinubu group initially deny of anything meeting before ortom disclose that they also met with Tinubu that time.

You dey mind people who know next to nothing about politics. I was even wondering when I read the news yesterday how such big deal would be openly reveal to public.

God1000:
Man's inhumanity to man, why killing them after collecting ransom

More Nigerians have died under buhari than any other president in living memory

This is problem of Nigerians, we keep blaming the president who is probably more than 1000km to us about our community problems that should be solved by state or local governments.

What has the state and local communities being doing about this manace? Can't state or local authority as a matter of agency organise trained personnels and pay them to protect their people?

If you like, keep blaming Buhari and not hold your governor and local authorities responsible to your community misfortunes.

LeoDeKing:
I'm 100% batified, but if Tinubu actually agreed with the rumoured terms of the G5, then something is wrong somewhere.

I have some reservations with this report.

The deal is very easy for APC I think. Of all the G-5 governors, only Makinde seat in Oyo can be sacrifice, others are not needed by them. Wike and Ortom are not on ballot. With the help of G-5, require 25% is sure in Abia and Enugu, while Benue and Rivers can give them more than 30% each. Oyo will no doubt give them about 85%. It is a good deal for them.

All said, APC is still an evil party destroyed Nigerians and Nigeria economy. Let hope the new administration change the situation for good.

If you really want to marry her, there is nothing wrong if you file for her daughter as well.

As for her ex-husband, they are definitely still seeing each other as long as good communication is still existing between them. I don't think you should have problem with that, because you see her as a single mother with her baby dad still alive but still wanted to marry her.

It is quite unfortunate that with the present political arrangements, pathetic APC may still win next year presidential election. Only a good politicians or 0political analyst can see this.

1. North know the implication of retaining power in the hands of another Fulani after Buhari, and the only trusted ally outside their region is Yoruba on the ballot.

2. The power brokers eying presidency in APC after probably 8 years in the South are hell bent to make this happen.

3. Buhari will do everything to leave a good legacy by ensuring that the alliance lives longer than his tenure.

4. Northerners are not what some southerners thinking about them, they follow their elites irrespective of their personal opinion. If they can vote in Abiola, Obasanjo and Goodluck, they can equally do the same this time around.

5. Disunity in PDP (their only formidable opponent) especially on grievance of so called G-5. These governors are too influential in their respective state. This will obviously weak the chances of the party where it suppose to get huge votes.

I don't know if to call longevity to this extent 125yrs a Blessing or not because all her children, many grandchildren, friends, family members, so many other she knew must have died in her present.

Life must be really bored and hellish to her after 110 years of age.

Not only Kwankwaso, many of them including El-rufai, zulum, etc want power to return to South by all mean because that is the only chance they have to become president.

If I were him, I will definitely cut deal with Obi or Tinubu and wait patiently for 8 years for power to return North.

The earlier people realise that Polygamy is best choice to a particular type of people, the better.

One thing I have realise is that, a woman cannot satisfy a man sexual need throughout his life.

There is always peace of mind and progress in Polygamy if there is money and wives live separately.

Women need enough long rest after child delivery, and polygamy offer women this opportunity. A woman who have sex all the time will grow old faster than the one hardly have sex.

Polygamy is the best for both men and women if they are deep thinkers.

Finally, no body should follow this path if not capable to take care of the wives and children.

daboy18:
Hmmm beating my mum never i cannot try that , not even in my dream sorry this your advice is not good

The fact that you declined that stupid idea of beating your mum show how blessed you are to your parent.

The problem is not started today, it has been there even before you were born. No matter what you do now, your parent will never respect your opinion since you are still very young and probably depend on them. I will advise you to let them be until you become independent and take care of your dad.

Also, whenever your mum disrespect your dad without his fault, subtlety show your displeasure/grievance to your mum by ignoring or stop talking to her for days. If she can listen to you, tell her how she would feel if your wife treated you in her present same way she does to your dad.

May God heal your family.