₦airaland Forum

folake4u:
Why are you shouting?

If that's your reality, I'm sorry about that, but don't project it on another person.

Where did you see me shouting?

Though some siblings and families are exemptional but learn from other people's mistakes, don't wait until it happened to you. A word is enough for the wise.

Obi fuvk up big time, why approaching the court on election you know deep down you did not win. 6 millions votes is not a bean for a party that couldn't boldly claims 100k votes before in general elections. He should've build up on that and expand it against next election.

Criminals in APC and PDP known this before, they just allow him to continue in ignorant, so that they will use it against him in court should he eventually win. Honestly, Obi is not a smart person to be allow to pilot affair of a complex country like Nigeria.

Though federal government has their shortcomings but Governors destroyed the system the most. They are the ones always diverts the local governments funds, and without functioning local governments that are very close to the masses, we are going no where in terms of development.

I want Arsenal to win the league title. If they can draw Man City and Chelsea and beat Newcastle and Brighton, they will surely achieve it.

This woman is senseless, I wish someone gave her a practical lesson that will change her stupid mentally for life. The same hypocrite who will hide behind men during a gun shot but will start claiming equal right, just because the same men deliberately made it so.

Physically, men and women are not equal. The day men stop protecting women, is the day they will all become vulnerable prey to the nature.

Men and women are blessed with knowledge but only men are given the wisdom.

Humans naturally are mostly attracted by positive energies in which most bad girls processed. They simply know how to navigate their ways into men hearts compare to self acclaims good girls.

sisisioge:
My Sibling o.....it means the 5m is still sure for me and I wont have to split it. More money be that

I pity you. Humans are horribly selfish by nature, and can do anything unimaginable for money, especially the money that comes as gifts or inheritance.

crazygod:
Because INEC went back on their words, their promise to use BVAS.

Bvas would've been hacked and caused serious problems for INEC. The best method for now is to upload only results collated and signed by all parties agents at polling units.

Iamgrey5:
I support this message, although I don't necessarily believe Tinubu is at par with Awolowo untill he proves himself in the next four years.

I usually hold Obasanjo in high regards before now. The old man truly disappointed me during this election cycle.

Not only at par with Awolowo, he is actually greater than Awo by being liberal and achieved what Awo pursued till death.

Tinubu being progressive like Awo and Abiola learnt a good lesson from their downfalls. He made use of them and came out victorious.

As times goes on, you will understand life better.

You don't need to be rich before you get married, all you need is source of income and a good spouse who is also working. Also, have the number of children you can comfortably care for.

Lastly, don't get married without having a source of income.

Femmyfamous4u:
I even initiated an idea that we create a joint account for our unborn children with the aim of saving like 20k each in the account she should non-commital response.

I feel your pain man, financing family alone these days is not an easy task at all. Let me teach one thing, selfish women hardly listen to peaceful talk or suggestions especially the ones that will curb their excess. You don't need to discuss anything with her or sit her down blablabla, just find some excuses and drop the money you feel is OK that will give your chance to save and invest.

Stop listen to her complaints, if the money is not enough, tell her to add to it or borrow you till you get enough money. By the time you do this for 6 months, she will get use to it and stop bordering you on some bills.

@EriMma1, if you work and earn a decent 6 figure, and you still dragging pocket money with your husband, then you must be a wicked useless wife. What on earth will you be doing with your monthly salary? I guess you will be spending it on yourself, family and personal developments, while the innocent son of another woman keep labouring to take care of you till he develop terminal stress or HBP and die before his time?

See, you are not doing him any favour by marrying him or give him sex, because he can always get the same favour without getting married to anyone. He only marries you as a partner, team player and assistant to run a family. Besides, he did not benefits more in this arrangement than you or has advantage over you in future, so why expecting him to carry all the loads alone while you earn decent income and not an handicap?

@op, if you spend all your youth days to satisfy ungrateful woman and fail to plan for your future, she will eventually spend her money on your children later in future when you must have gone broke or unable to make better money again and turn them against you at old age. She will made them believe you were useless ever since she married you. They will believes her because she is the one currently spending on them. By that time, her major focus would be to make you suffer and die alone.

A woman who earn in 6 figures but still expecting a mere pocket money from you does not love you, she is capable of doing something unimaginable to you in future.

Femmyfamous4u:
Hello all, I need to know if I'm doing some things right or over reacting. My wife and I just married some months ago and we just spend here and there on stuffs. I bought food stuffs in the house and told her I will place her on 40k monthly to cover for soups and all and I expect her to add to it if it's not enough. I foot all bills- house rent, Power, and all . She earns a decent 6 figures salary also which is slightly higher than mine without the allowances I get. She expects me to still give her another allowance apart from the 49k I give her for food. Each time she buys stuff in the house she always want me to pay back in full; most times, I just pay a part of it which she always frowns and complains about. It appears she has a notion that her money is her money and mine is ours. My income is more than hers though. Do you think I should still give her personal pocket money?

Lolz, no one will teach you how to spend wisely when you start having children. How can you place a wife that earn decent income on salary? Don't you have any plan for your future. A broke man at old age is as useless to women as tissue paper. You better start planing for your old age now that you have income.

Business women are chronic cheaters.

He should free the woman and allow peace to rein.

kyber:
I saw lots of girls today in school and they are my spec but I couldn’t approach them for fear of rejection

Even girls I do see in my street I no fit meet them to toast them even though I like them

I will advise you to focus on your education, at least for now. Women are very easy to get or slept with but can subsequently caused distraction that could hinder your success in life. There is absolutely nothing you will gain in dating girls while you are still in school or still being feed by your parent.

You can accidentally sleep with a girl using condom but don't ever be in commited relationship at this stage.

nnamdi640:
Just keep your mouth shut, even if there was no division in pdp, APC will still rig the election and that is why sensible people like falz are speaking out. You might be ok with the process doesn't mean it will not be used against you and your fellow jubilating now in years to come

The problem of you and the like of falz is that you don't think outside the box. A simple logic should've told you even before the election that APC with more governors, senators, representatives and many others would defeat fragmented PDP. Obi, Kwankwaso, G-5 were very much intact in PDP in 2019, yet they all lost to Buhari. Is it now that they've decided into 4 that you expect them to beat very much intact APC.

There maybe some irregularities, which is akin to every election in the world, but practically, APC did not likely rig anything as believed by some people. If they does, they would've won Kano, Lagos and Kaduna by wide margin. The only place I think there might be electoral fraud or possible intimidation is River state.

Some youths don't just have sense. A formidable opponent in PDP devided into 3 against incumbent APC, and some people still expect them to lose with all their strong structure across the federation. If not for Buhari bad governance and die miniute stupid fuel and cash scarcity, APC would've defeated them with more than 5 millions votes.

To me, APC actually lost the election by wide margin if you compare their 8m votes and 14m votes of former PDP guys Obi, Kwankwaso as well as Atiku of PDP.

kaylardz:
Tinubu will definitely complete two terms and hand over to his anointed candidate in 2031. With Tinubu in power, no politician in Nigeria can defeat him.

I think that was the major fear of Buhari, Obasanjo and the cabals. Mighty Tinubu with federal power is as dangerous as Obasanjo of 1999 - 2007.

Baba may perform well but forget it, no man can defeat him/his candidates with Inec and other federal apparatus under him. If a man can hold Lagos down for his party against almighty PDP with federal power for more than 20 years, I wonder who will defeat him now that he hold federal power. The manner and stressless means by which wike, Makinde, etc worked for him during last election was too exemptional for any politician who held no public post. Imaging the way politicians will work for him now that he is president.

He won't use force on anyone, just diplomacy and offers they won't be able to turn down.

Pierced:
Northerners will never support Obi.

And I doubt if PDP will be so stupid to give Obi their ticket.....when they know that the north never forgets.

Tinubu being a smart politician, and with presidency power will be so difficult to beat by any party in 2027 should he decided to contest again.

My major fear under him is that, Nigeria should not become one party state or with very weak and useless oppositions to checkmate his government.

You guys should move on and let face our personal developments. Allow politicians to fight their battles, stop all these unnecessary strategy predictions for God sake.

No one know tomorrow, I have learnt so far that whatever we hype to high heaven always performed abysmally, while the ones we outrightly condemned do well when giving the samd opportunity. Tinubu may not be perfect, but I am 100% sure he would be better than calamity Buhari. Trust me, Nigerians will see a new dimension of development that will lasted for generations under him.

1. Envy and jealousy

2. Pride and greed.

*Siblings envy one another especially the poor ones among them. No matter what the rich ones do or gave them, they will never like him or her.

* some people are very irrational with money. Once they have money, they will start disrespecting their siblings, wanting them to worship them and refuse to help them.

Besides, most of what people called hatred or envy among siblings are not truly what it is. Humans naturally feel withdraw from negative reaction to protect their integrity. For instance, whenever a poor sibling decided to stop asking for help or refuse to be ridicule by other rich siblings, people call it envy and jealousy. What I have noticed in people is that, siblings rarely had issues with big brothers who are truly stand with them.

lagosrd:
If they use BVAS stuff to send adeleke home, I want o see how it won't be used against tinubu

How can it affect him when he actually won the election.

APC would've lose the election if PDP is still intact. NNDP, PDP and LP got about 15M votes as against APC 8M votes.

There might be some irregularities, but I don't think APC changed any result or scores.

Godspikin:
What makes you think the north will lose out if Nigeria practice true federalism or regional government??

Many southerners don't know that North actually has competitive advantage should Nigeria opt for true federalism.

Talking about economy and commerce, abundant raw materials that can be converted into finish goods. They have arable land and man power for commercial farming. They have good roads network compare to what we have down here. Now, they have crude oil in commercial quantities.

Ninety6:
separation is the only solution to Nigeria. nothing can convince me otherwise.

We are better off together, regionalism is the way forward. Let each geo- political zone rule itself independently and pay tax to federal government to maintain national armies and foreign affairs.

Presidency should be rotate among these geo political zones, and national assembly must be unicameral with just 60 members(10 from each zone).