₦airaland Forum

jmoore:
Tariff have classes. My tariff is 66 naira per kwh.

Seem they've silently increased the price even before July 1st because i bought just 26 units for 2k about 10 days ago.

That is about #77 per unit.

It is quite impossible for the whole world to know someone because there are many factors including generations and civilization that can determine that.

To me, 90% of world population might know Ronaldo and Messi.

falcon01:
as Long as they are loved, it doesn't matter if they don't love the husband?

Being submissive is only love any wise man can demand from a woman. A woman that fear and respect you will definitely give you peace of mind.

Women don't need to give love to a man but submission and respect. Aside the fact that love is an illusion, it is also not enough to sustain a marriage. The only peaceful marriage is the one that a man will sincerely love his wife, while his wife will sincerely respect and submissive to him. Two mutual loves/lovers can't sustain marriage without submissive and respect. Besides, humans are quickly subject to change, what you called love today can become hatred tomorrow.

* A woman that respect her husband will never open her legs for another man. A woman that respect her husband will never abuse or talk back to him at a slightest provocation. A woman who is submissive and respect her husband will never ever drag leadership role with him in their home. A woman that respect her husband will definitely know her husband role in the family.

* A man that loves his wife will do whatever in his capacity to make her happy. A man that genuinely loves his wife may cheat but will never abandoned his wife and responsibility at home. A man that genuinely loves his wife will never beat her for whatever reasons. A man that love his wife will loves everything about her, and will always be ready to forgive her mistakes.

A wise woman should simply go for a man who truly love and can give her and unborn kids a comfortable life and future. It is not a good choice for a woman to marry someone she love more than he does.

A wise man should instead go for a woman that value and respect him. The ones who can add value to the marriage. It is never a good choice for a man to look for love but respect and submission.

She is 100% right, a man who genuinely loves you will forever treat you like a gold.

Love can never be mutual, a partner must love one than the other, since women are always at disadvantage in relationship or marriage setting particularly in Nigeria, it is much more better to marry only men that love them.

I don't think Government are ready to implement the floating policy. Where did they expect the importers of these 43 items to get dollars if not from back door or black market.

What is the need for official importers and exporters window again.

People underestimate the power of president in a presidential system of government. I think Atiku and his comrades knows better, reason they have stylishly move on.

If PEPT give judgement against him, all he need to do is to appeal it at supreme Court and change all those in charge to his preferred judges. Case close.

The guy just want the president to remove Tompolo and give him the contract.

The only time opposition parties should've seek for a re- run was before declaration of result or presentation of return certificate to the winner. An experience or smart politician know this, reason the like of Dino melaye and Orubebe attempted to stop declaration of result or winner.

No judge will attempt to truncate our democracy at this junction and put the country into serious crisis or civil war.

The judges are just having fun by giving out false hope to make the whole process interesting.

Paystack:
I want to learn myself

What if you wake up one morning and stop giving me signals


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The probability of losing everything is higher than me gaining anything

Teaching you how to trade crypto is just #10k if you are ready.

Paystack:
I'll pay you N100,000 if you can show me how to earn at least $10 online from what you do


I'm willing to invest the next 3-6 months to learn this.


I'm interested in either Foreign affiliate marketing, Crypto Or Amazon KDP


PLEASE I'll love it to be what you do


The N100,000 is all the money I saved from NYSC

I want to risk it and learn something I can scale

If you can teach me please quote me and I'll send you my contact.



I'm not buying any course or paying for you to point me somewhere and leave me.


Our deal is that you teach me how to earn at least $10


I'll use my own knowledge after you teach me to scale

I don't mean to sound rude or anything.


I truly need this.

Since you mentioned crypto, I will be giving you trade signal that will fetch you at worse $10 daily if you can invest $500.

You can pay me the 100k after getting at least $10 consistently for 2 weeks.

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Senioreddy:
I really appreciate the fact that barely 48 hours of the inauguration of the economic advisory committee, they've come up with a tentative proposal to ensure growth in revenue generation.

However, I think in my own opinion, merging all these agencies/bodies into one is just too much for a single administrative structure to handle.

This is because, all these agencies are revenue drivers and they are all autonomous and as such merging them into one create a lot of confusion.

Also bearing in mind that this nation is so much endeared in corruption, a sole administrative body handling multiple revenue mobilizing agencies, the level of corruption will be mind blowing.

Lastly the red tapism/bottle necks will associated with all governmental agencies will further be multiplied.

These are just few of my concerns about the proposal. I stand to be corrected though.

Since all the agencies are revenue drivers or serves the same purpose, why do you think is abnormal to merge them together to achieve the said purpose in order to cut down the cost of carry out the similar functions?

savcy:
The naira eased at N668-$1at the I&E window today. I don't anticipate a drastic loss in value of the naira at all, and among many reasons, it's the fact that people don't seem to understand that no one actually knows the true value of the naira. Yemi Osinbajo mentioned once that, if export volume determined strength of currency, why didn't the naira gain value when oil hit north of $95/b. Several unconventional factors determine the value of the naira with the BDCs being the principal element in the intricate structure that's the Nigerian FX market. Artificial scarcity is another culprit. I think the market would stabilize, and if a rapid loss in value ensues, the government knows precisely what to do. All in all, as scary as it may seem, the policy is a step in the right direction.

Exactly, I don't see much problem about this policy considering the fact that the free falls of Naira in recent time were mostly artificial. Besides, genuine manufacturers and importers already got used to black markets rate of 700+.

Dollars are aways available in abundance, commercial banks and CBN are the ones selling to black market.

Go to any bank around Queen cinema Ibadan, you will see those Alhaji siting inside bank buying and selling forex at Black market rate. If not for their mode of dressing, you will think they are bank staffs because they enter different sections/offices at will.

Jman06:
They should keep fit and shed all the fats. Do everything to avoid having potbellies.

There are sexy outfits that can be worn to turn a man's head. They should avoid granny panties and wear sexy lingeries. Above all, they should understand their man's sexual fantasies and take advantage of that.

Lolz, forget no amount of beauty and sexy body can make you not to lose interest in someone you are seeing everyday of your life.

Humans and men in particular are not wired to live with one woman all their lives, a woman can't sexually satisfy a man for the rest of his life. Reason you see most men with beautiful wives still cheating with women below their wives standards.

boborosky:
Firstly, I am a guy who is goal driven. I work my ass off to ensure that I earn a living and this has left me with hating anyone who is lazy.
I met my fiance about a year ago. We don't reside in the same town but we talk everyday. When we started dating, she had told me she was done with schooling but she had a few issues which have prevented her from graduating. According to her, she finished in 2019 but has not been cleared because of those issues.

In the first few months that we started dating, I asked her why she was idle since the school was yet to clear her. I further advised that she should start something rather than stay at home. She told me then that she would like to produce and sell a particular commodity. I asked her what it required for her to start. She told me and I provided those things and travelled all the way to see her and hand those items over to her. Few weeks after that, I asked how the business was doing - she went from one story to the other. I was pissed because I thought she could have put all those excuses into consideration before letting me go through the stress of providing those items - It is not about the money for it wasn't much, but her lukewarm interest in pursing goals. Truth is that she never started the trade.

I let that slide and we moved on... Each day I noticed she doesn't have the desire to pursue goals. I mean, how could she have stayed over 3years at home without learning any skill or being purposeful. When it was clear that she wasn't being purposeful, I told her crystal clear that I would not want to be with anyone who lacks purpose or isn't resourceful. In response, she told me that she would work harder and do something. But as each day passed, it was the same old story. Right now, she teaches at a school - this was after a lot of pushing, and forcing and begging and all of that. Even, of the teaching, she complains that it is stressful.

She visited my family house twice. The first time she visited, I had to literally tell her to help in the sweeping of the house the morning following the night she arrived, which she did - I mean, I expected her to know (without being told) that that was expected of her as a first-time visitor in the frame of a prospective wife/in-law. Even as a man, you don't stay inside the room when you visit a family especially when they are doing chores - that was how I was raised. Maybe it isn't a general expectation, but that was how I was raised (Don't crucify me).

As it stands now, she isn't cleared yet and each time I tell her to go to the school, she would either reply reluctantly or get upset. Moreso, she doesn't have a skill. The truth is that, though she is nice, a virgin apparently, she may end up depending on me 100%. Given the way Nigeria is, one needs a partner who can support one. Also, coupled with the fact that though she loves me 100%, she is not very exposed (a bit timid), and lacks the desire to be independent, hardworking or achieve her own goals.

We had discussed marriage, though I have not proposed yet. Conversely, right now, I am having a rethink which has caused me to be a bit withdrawn and retrogressive. I do not want a spouse who would drag me backwards, I have suffered a lot to get to where God placed me - I don't want a setback given that my family partly depends on me. From all indications, I don't know whether she will be able to handle and account for a business if one is established for her.

Even though the decision to either proceed with or withdraw from marriage is solely mine, I'd like a piece of advice.

For matured folks.... What do you think?

Let me tell you the bitter truth, only tiny percentage of women are resourceful, the rest are just trying only because their husbands are not rich or capable of financing their lifestyle. The moment they marry to a responsible rich men, they become lazy and only want to do what suit them.

Good character is very important than anything else in the marriage, so I will advise you to encourage her by letting her see advantage of being resourceful on her own.

What most of us don't know is that, people with peace of mind and zero worries hardly have HBP.

Besides, Nigeria Doctors are too quick to place their patients on BP medication without finding out what actually cause it. Alot of factors can elevate your BP, most BP are temporal but once you ignorantly start taking BP drugs, you may unable to come out of it. Also, there are many people whose BP reading are well above traditional 120/80 but don't have HBP especially hereditary ones. Age can also affect our BP, a BP reading of 140/100 is not too high for anyone above 60 years.

ghiloman28:
All this media like spreading rubbish news that is against President so it can Trend. Tuesday will come now Yari will not have upto 25 votes.

Don't mind them, the fact that he is a Muslim has already disqualified him. How can another Muslim pick number 3 spot in Nigeria when we have majority of qualified Christians in the same country. Religion will definitely play a role in APC party selection this time, reason Buhari did not give him any attention when he pay him visit.

Jimbadly:
It's obvious your female cousin is the one who cajoled her cousin into having sex with her.

She's obviously a nympho. Got pregnant as a preteen by a much older guy then goes to her cousins house and they have sex. All these girls who got deflowered in their early teens are usually sex maniacs. They can't stay for long without looking for a dick to fvck. She was obviously the one that seduced the poor boy.

Jeez! I don't why this op fell for her lies. You noticed your male cousin whom share a room with is a druggie yet you didn't report to his parents? He cajoled you for sex, you didn't resist him or report him? You willingly agreed to fvck? What a lying bitch!

Op, she's lying through her teeth. I'm sure she's the who lied that the guy is into drugs, just to paint him black. The only thing that will settle this case is for you people to involve Amadioha or Ogun or Sango and she will tell the truth by force.

Her inability to defend herself shows she is as guilty as hell. Cos, if she were innocent she would have long gone to sue the boy for defamation.

You are one of reasonable Nauralanders on this thread. If you see how one lunatic were quick abusing me just because I had contrary opinion on this same issue. They cant reason well, and when you try to let them reason, they start abusing you.

DollarSigns:
To be honest this just confirmed your visible extremely low IQ level
anyone can see just at a first glance that I’m not the OP
furthermore your questions to ponder only further prove that you’re a local man with inferior Macho man vibes

Fly away son
I’m no longer giving you free moral lessons
Till tomorrow 🥰

You arevj ust an empty boy who find pleasure in insulting people you don't know just because you have access to Internet without anything tangible in your brain to counter an argument.

Don't ever quote me again idiot.

DollarSigns:
There’s a reason & why I choose to respond to you
Your comment showed either you’re not educated or you have low IQ, that you quickly resorted to gender based hate opinion of the story.
If you read the post well, you would realize that the male cousin has lost it all, frustration, waywardness has caused him to devise these great lies, especially as the female cousin is not back on track with her life.

To inform you more, the female cousin may have quickly obliged just to put herself in the good books of her host, then she may have considered it a sacrifice she paid just to get herself another chance
You don’t condemn people when you can’t share in whatever the person is going through at a particular time and sometimes it’s wisdom to watch your words before spewing it, people like you make the male gender look biased and unreasonable.
This is enough moral lessons for you on a Wednesday
Please sin no more🤝

Back to OP, I suggest the female cousin tries to get a family meeting to clear herself, where you can speak on her behalf to veto her part of the story which seems very logical and reasonable.
However should family members refuse to cooperate, I suggest she uses high level Police Officers to roughen the boy till fear is instilled into him

Her softness and cries may cause her integrity which isn’t worth sacrificing.
Everyone have sinned, there’s always another chance that’s why there’s a new day each day, another chance to correct the wrongs of the previous day

Shalom👋

When you want to be civil and don't want to insult or abuse anyone on social medias, one useless idiot like you will just provoke hell out of you.

Initially, I thought you were the op but later knew you are not. You're a bloody idiot and hypocrites by claiming I was bias but chose to believes what his causin told him without being reasonable about the guy side. I will say it again, any consensual sex between a man and a woman cannot be forceful judge on one side. Unlike men, women determine who have sex with them, they have power to say yes or no. It is quite possible he seduce or even beg the guy to have sex with her since there is no claim of rape or assault in the story. It is common sense, that is why women are considered not capable enough to rape men in the court of law.

The question you should ask yourself is that, why did she allow the guy to have his way? Why didn't she accuse the guy of rape? Why didn't she report the case to the guy parents? Alot of these questions need to be answered before we believe that the guy was lying.

Forrkke:
She could have easily lied to me that she was forced too or raped.

But she said the truth that it was her who agreed after being cajoled to do it.

And she had told me about this stuff before everyone in the family got aware of it.

Is like you don't know women? He convinced her my foot, you should know it is all lies the moment a woman tell you she slept with a man without her consent but not a rape. From your story, I think I believe the guy more than your cousin, what would he gain by lying against a girl he beg to sleep with after 8 years.

lebron7:
Not even because they will want their share but because the cost of labor would also increase
Imagine sugar factory workers earn minimum wage of 200k, the company would first of all lay off workers and then adjust price of the sugar to make profit lmao and that would happen in every single industry. Imagine fuel pump attendant makes 200k a month, how would the fill station make profit? They would increase the price of fuel
People don't reason
For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction- Newton's third law of motion

With 200k minimum wage for a tiny population that is not up to 20% of workforce, a larger population who are not working under government, good private organisations or self employed will most likely suffer for it.

Those clamoring for this are quick to use dollars to condemn minimum wage in Nigeria by forgotten that we don't spend dollar here but naira. A minimum wage of 60k is realistic and will considerably favour others too.

Lolz, you want to evict someone from his father house just because granpa jokingly say the house belong to you? Continue fighting over 19th century house, no go work to build your own

It is not easy to raise a female child. If you have a God fearing one who successfully graduated from school, got a good job and marry at appropriate time, you probably don't know what God has done for you.

What I noticed about Nigerians is that, it is very easy for us to call poor people fools when we are comfortable.

A man with wisdom will know that not all poor people are lazy or daft, though i agree with the part that said you don't have business getting married or bear many children when you are poor.

Nigeria is one hell of a country, there were many rich people that are poor today, not that they don't know what they are doing or being reckless with their money, some just lose their fortunes to unforseen circumstances.

Wodu89:
You are correct and accurate. But 30k.on a 250k Rentage is suicidal boss.

Yea, it surprise me too, perhaps he lost his good paying job and using this one to manage, or maybe he has side hustle that gives him money or maybe he do some part times jobs that gives him money during the year, he is the only one that can tell.

She know her husband more than anyone else, so it is wise decision.

Wodu89:
Nigerians love slavery. I told a guy recently I rake atleast half a mil per month and my rent is 120k. Brand new compound and new two bed. Na people wey want kill their selves for Lagos and stagnancy dey like this kind lifestyle

Let me assume you live in a less developed town. You can't find such in a city centre. The said brand new two bed with pop and other modern facilities in my location is not less than 300k per year.

So never blame anyone for their house rent in the cities, even a modern room and parlor selfcon goes for 250k and above. Ordinary rooms in face -face houses sef are very expensive in the cities.