₦airaland Forum

SarkinYarki:
NURTW is backed by Federal laws , what is backing MCs new group

These people are mostly illiterates and usually used violence to take up leadership of the garage. National chairman can never dictate to these people except you want total breakdown of law and bloodshed in Lagos.

Lagos state government should simply take over and adopt a new management system among them or simply protect them from intimidation by national body.

Richy4:
Please say that you got married to raise new generation.. That is your own definition of Marriage.... Do not say WE ALL...Hence when the reason why you got married (procreation) did not materialize, u look for other alternative means to achieve your set goal which was having multiple women ...

Many couple married for different reasons that were best known to them... Stop generalizing about something you knew nothing about... No disrespect but try and read more about why people get married...It's all over the internet....Child bearing is important in every marriage but that is not the only reason people get married...That was why I suggested that to OP to define his reasons...

So you know, I did not see any new suggestion that you gave to OP that warrant u canceling my submission... I was thinking that you got a brighter idea. ...U should have engaged me in a chat here to know the reason why I said what I said....That's how to show good manners in a public forum..... instead of canceling stuffs

Easy to say when you are not in his shoe.

What is the real purpose of having a family if not for procreation. You can get sex cheaply everywhere, you can get someone who is more prettier and better than your wife, infact you can get love 100% from someone else more than your current partner. It is when you are old that you will know the important of having your biological child.

@op, please dont divorce your wife or marry another woman. If you are not that rich, start saving up from now and go for IVF before it too late for both of you. Do not adopt, get a surrogate mother if your wife womb cant carry a child.

elmagnifico411:
This life no balance walahi,and some people craze don pass becareful. You got what some peeps are looking for, and you're complaining. Do u know what I'd give for my madam to squirt? When she does climax she vibrates and all but no squirting, and I've been longing for that kini to come live

Oga, roll up in juice and sleep in her hands jare.. no let people of the world follow put eyes for your madam oh.. ladies wey dey squirt no plenty

Lolz, you think it is funny experience? Men normally feel like a boss when they made their visiting girlfriends squirts, it becomes problem and tiresome when you have to live with it permanently under the same roof.

OP, get an alternative place to have sex, or better still, draw her closer to the edge of the bed whenever she is about to start squirting.

If 1 month or 2 months salary can pay your annual rent as most commenters here claimed, that mean a lot of Nairalanders are doing well with good Salaries.

A well furnished modern 2 bedrooms apartments in most places in Lagos cost around 300k - 1.2m. Even in other city like Ibadan, you cant get a well furnished 2 bedrooms apartment at good location less than 200k.

So if your 1 or 2 months salary can do that, just know you are doing well and stop complaining about Buhari administration.

williaam:
Your permutations are wrong, no one in the South South would vote for Tinubu; because Lagos no be South South, and yes you are leaving North central out of the calculation, where their population is more than that of the South East; a region on a good day have never pitched tent with the South West, and you thought it would all change now, and you know many still carry the grievance of the 1967-1970 civil war, and the role Awo played. So with this Tinubu stands no chance against any Northern candidate, that's just the truth, but most times we ignore this fact on ground and think things can change all of a sudden

With current agitation of southern governors for power to return to the south, I see some PDP governors in the regions (especially Wike and Makinde) to rally around APC candidates from the south if PDP gives Atiku or any other northern candidate its ticket.

Cantonese:
That polygamy wey you dey support so, e be like say you want to know how far. I advice you to get two or three girlfriends first and practice girlfriendogamy. No be person go tell you. Na only you and your body go advice yourself.

Lol, during my dating era, i controlled at least 2 girlfriends at the same time, and I must tell you it was full of fun with peace of mind.

HilcomTech:
Stop smoking mkporu mirri.

There are more polygamous marriages in the south than in the north. The only difference is that northerners are not hypocritical about it. And don't even mention religion as there is nothing to show that a Christian cannot marry more than one wife.

Not as many as among dominated Northern Muslims.

Polasz:
Some men will just dey out to kill themselves. One wife is enough trouble. Talk more of 2. Haba!

Sometime, I envy these Northerners. Those with 2 or more wives in a separate apartments or locations enjoy peace of mind than people iving with one wife. Women in marriage are quite opposite of the ones you dated when single.

Every woman is a potential trouble maker in marriage, they can frustrate the hell out of you especially if you show them too much love. They can only be tame through competition, in which polygamous offered. The only downside of polygamy is when you dont have money to take care of your family.

I would rather vote for a stone than these old wicked good for nothing corrupt politicians.

OP, this period will definitely pass away, and you will be happy again. Just be focus and seek help from those that matter, I am sure your helper will locate you.

Kajaard:
At the boldfaced, you don't have a job, yet you went to take a loan. How did you expect to repay the loan if you have no means of income? You deserve absolutely no pity. Carry your cross.

Just pray you dont find yourself in a situation that you will gladly accept anything withiout thinking twice. Humans are quick to judge others when they are not in their shoes. Never mock anyone in life because the life is so unpredictable.

Freebills12:
I support Buhari in this, he just signed the bill in order that INEC will commence their preparation for next election. Minor adjustments like deleting of some clauses can follow suit.

Didnt he study the bill for months that he has been delaying it before signing it into law?

I could see this is reason Nigeria is not moving forward under him.

Glo is doing the same, ,only MTN is better among them.

panafrican:
An accurate description of European Kings and emperors of the 19th century and before.

Unlike blacks, Emperors and Kings only fought for cultural supremacy and power. They treat their subjects equally as long as you follow their social or utilitarian courses. They were always after the development of their territories and domains. Many of them are philosophers, upon which modern European or western ideologies and policies are based.

Northernblood5:
Although this war is not ours, but Most black Africans are fools. They will rather Pray for God to give them good leaders than Going out to vote in good leaders. Foolish set of idiots.

Let Puttin do fast and Nuke the whole world make we start Afresh. Trust me foolish Africans will still not be able to meet up despite having the least impact of the War

There is no good leaders among the blacks, period.

African culture and traditions is embedded in domineering, exploitative and wickedness.

Domineering is when you want only you to be rich and worshipped.

Exploitative is when you cheat others to acquired wealth or positions.

Wickendness is when you dont want others to grow or enjoy what you use to enjoy or have access to. It is when you feel others are inferior and not deserve to amount to nothing in life. The list is endless, but let me just stop here.

Kingpin1000:
You see this white Supremacist.
Are we not tired of the west interfering without government?
Are we not tired of the west sabotaging anything good from Africa?
Arr we not tired to be called degrading names?
Look at what they are doing to Afrucanns and Indiams in Ukraine

It is only a foolish Africam that will take sides in this matter.
Africans should remain neutral, na dem dem dey fight.
A black man is hated by an average whiteman.
Ethiopia is burning but the world is turning a blind eye.

Nobody hate a black man, it is only natural to see anyone who only consume but contributes nothing to development of humanity as inferior and worthless.

If a black man is intelligent/morally sounds, he would not sold his fellow man as slave, he would not steal all the money meant for development of his home and take it to developed other countries. He would not see his home as village and developed countries as where he should enjoy his stolen wealth. He would not destroyed or refuse to improve his health institution educational institution, infrastructural, etc only for him and his relatives to leave to enjoy the same in far away strange land.

If you are the white, will you respect such a person?

I dont think you really love your dear mum. Internet should not be an option for you to do that. Let her find one for herself please, or better still, you can tell your pastor, lecturers or trusted relative to recommend a man for her.

Wizlead:
I believe sometimes people get angry over a situation and rise up to do some drastic or nasty to change the known. Situations surrounding me right now demands such decision but what possible ways can I make money out of the whole thing? Some would say yahoo and ritual but I'm not a subscriber to any. I mean making money legitimately out of anger and frustration in this Nigeria? What I'm doing is not sustaining, that is why I'm thinking this way.

The sad reality is that, you need to use money to make money. Since you dont have this privilege, start working for people to earn money.

goodlistener:
Since my elder brother died last year, his wife has tremendously reduce all my aceess to finance. He was our bread winner, never wanted to come public but my conversation with his wife now just pissed me off.

She is delibtatly blocking our access to funds.

Mum has been sick. I told her since last week.

She manages his business and has refused to send the monthly agreed money for 3 months now.

I heard she just bought another car on Tuesday

This should be a real lesson for those that have ears to listen. If you have any relative or sibling who refuse to help you grow and stand on your fit but always want to be the bread winner, please cut him or her completely and face your life.

His wife owe you guys nothing, and she can decide what to and what not to give you. Blame your brother who refused to establish your mum and his siblings when he was still alive and not his wife.

sheldonbbt:
I got married sometime ago, we had a child 2021, after the birth of my child, more than 7 months ago my wife and I have barely had sex up to 3 times. We are still young and this bothers me alot.

I have jokingly said it, I have playfully pleaded with her, gotten angry but this has not resolved anything.

I love sex and was once an acute masturbator, this is driving me crazy because I do not wish to go back to it.

Also, I do not wish to visit a brothel as they are everywhere around us. This is making me regret ever getting married and I am frustrated.

If you are very sure she is ok physically and psychologically, then you need to change your tactic.

An average married woman is manipulative, especially with nice and caring husband. It is all about ego thing and see finish from her. She knew you cant do Jack, and will always begging whenever she denied you sex.

Here is simple tactic you should employ. During one of your happy moments,tell her you have many admirers that are always pastering you for sex, but you refused them because you love her. After this statement or next day, stop completely from asking her for sex, infact let her know from your action that you have lost interest in having sex with her. Dont get arose even if she try to seduce you. If she no change after this, come back here and call me a bastard.

Mossadd:
But how them come allow all those small small African countries to vote when our almight giant of African didn't vote?

UN security council consist of 15 members nations, in which 5 of them, USA, CHINA, UK, RUSSIA, and FRANCE, are permanent members with veto power. The other 10 members are elected periodically base on their economic/military strength. Nigeria on different occasions has been a members of UN security council.

Each of the 5 permanent members can veto decisions of other members. Reason Russia cant be questioned or ordered out of Ukraine.

Prechgold1180:
Did you see anything like youth overpowering the robbers in my write up

Try read to understand
Dey blocked the only exit that Dey could have use to excape more like a one way in one way out thing
Ok let me mk it easier for u to understand
Imagine the youth using like
10 tippers or trailers to block the road

What would the robbers do
Shoot the trailers till it gives way or what

This is what many commenters here dont understand.

By simply use vehicle to block the major entrance roads, it is game over for the robbers. This is simple tactic I was telling people the other day in Ibadan.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
To be sincere those boys are on a different level..I mean the confidence and all..no fear..
Who are they..how did they have that kinda confidence tho..

May God bless those boys. I was telling people the same when they attack bank in Ibadan 2 weeks ago. There is no way they could have escaped on that ever busy road leading to Iwo road and gate in Ibadan.

I dont see anything special about this controversial electoral act bill except electronic transmission of results, only if it would be done from each polling unit.

You need not just a book to understand the basic principle of world politics, rule of law and how societies are formed and organized. You should also read about logic, law of power and how great leaders think or rule on their subjects.

Read from Socratic, down to contemporary scholars. Read about American politics, British parliamentary system and communist China.

You cant find all this in one book, just go to any good book shop or library and get 2 or more books comprises the aforementioned areas.

mooremoney:
Nigeria ma joke, this man will walk away freely soon

Exactly, might not be very soon but he will definitely buy his way out in not distance period.

This is not new, including robbery on banks etc.

Ikem11:
So Ukraine on your own? This life no balance at all... They push you to war and abandon you.

They will still support them through back doors( possibly neighbouring European countries) with more sophisticated ammunition if this war progress to a fierce battle.

America wont openly declare support for non Nato members.

Young generation are much more corrupt than old politicians you are talking about.

Let power be given to whoever deserve it( old or young) without any disparity.

My question is what is Aregbesola want in the affairs of Osun-State again?