₦airaland Forum

MumuAFONJA:
This is how Igbo brothers support each other unlike we Yaruba miscreant urchins that always harvest our brothers skull for a living

I honestly love Igbo brothers for this. They help and support one another, even their extended family members. I know many Igbo brothers brought up in their businesses by their brothers and relatives. Hausa too loves one another, if not more than the Igbos.

Yoruba are the worse, we dont want anyone to be like or above us. It is among Yorubas you will see a billionaire brothers with poor siblings and parents. A typical rich Yoruba man want everyone around him to be under him or worship him. He rarely cares about others but his nuclear family alone. Though this behaviour is everywhere but so rampant among Yoruba.

DropsMic:
No matter how smart you think you are.., you can never be as smart as the Northern elites.. Their own smartness comes with a little tinge of diabolism.

They looks smart because of silly Southern politicians that always bend to their rules.

Another one is this pathetic Jonathan, only a clueless man will accept this kind of stupid offer from APC. Jonathan has absolutely nothing more to offer but sorrow and more economic woe.

The topic should be " men who divorce their wives should share their experiences in marriage".

It is shame for married men to be discussing their private issues in public except it's past occurrence. Only a low life man will respond to your topic, I see it as gossip or unnecessary petty talk.

Okunga:
Coward bastards. See as him dey fear but when them dey use escort they’ll be feeling untouchable.



God come and save and rescue me. AHole open the gaddem door and don’t be a coward.


Them no fit kill you, why all the drama…


As a head of a family no dey put fear for your family body because they’ll always read your body language.


The drama was not worth it

Only doing that to gain public sympathies.

Besides, why did EFCC wasting their time at his home, they should've waited and pick the fool during Senate plenary.

naijapikin2:
the level of your idiocy is monumental, your stupidity is catastrophically alarming. Don't you know that you can not completely study your spouse, and who tells you the next person will be better. But you can do yourself a world of good if you take time choose right, and hope for the best. I you don't agree then I'm sorry for whoever paid your school fees. It was obviously a waste.

I did not insult you, neither did I directed my post at you, why calling me names for airing my view?

You are the one that lack comprehension skill or understanding of logic. The literal meaning/interpretation of my previous post is, and I quote " marriage is not a do or die affairs like olden days". If your wife or husband is terrible. You dont need to remain there in perpetual misery, all you need to do is to walk away to avoid future or old age regret. You becomes a fool or hopeless soul the moment you chose to remain and tolerate this terrible spouse. Chosing a right partner is a game of luck, a good husband/ wife of your youth can become a terrible wife/husband in future. Humans are very unpredictable by nature, and can change to anything you least expected. No one is good or bad, it is circumstances that change the way people view life. The most important thing in marriage is to never allow your better half make you regret marry him/her at old age. Your happiness and sorrow at old age as regards marriage lies solely in decisions you made or failed to correct today.

Life become easy and simple the moment you dont allow anything, no matter how valuable it is, to take away your peace and happiness.

Hope you get the point now.

naijapikin2:
Number one is so so so on point... It has the ability to give you 90% of happiness or sadness in your home. Op God bless your soul

Only a fool and hopeless soul will allow the number 1 to define his life. If your wife or husband is terrible, leave the marriage as soon as you can.

What old people regret most is time they wasted doing the wrong things.

Cashio:
If a woman is useful to a guy, the guy will never sacrifice such usefulness for mere sex.
I have a few female friends whom I will never try to have sex with no matter the situation and I value them more than the ones I have sex with.
I have known one of them for over four years and we remained friends even after she got married sometime last year. This very babe, i can confidently ask her to lend me 20, 30k and she will send it across. Whenever i visit, she will cook and offer even to pay for other expenses if we go out together and I also do same for her. Now tell me how a sensible guy will sacrifice such friendship for just sex.
Guys will always want to sleep with you if you have nothing else to offer aside your pvssy. Imagine being friends with a lady who bills you for data, sharwama, cream, hair, etc without as much as spending even a quarter of it on you. Why u nor go wan fvck such useless female friend as consolation.

The lady is somehow right, men rarely makes friends with someone they dont like or cant have sex with someday. Being useful to a man is a fastest way to develop sexual/marriage feeling for a woman.

chibrolex:
The General election is.... Chibuike Rotimi Amaechi (APC) Vs (PDP) Nyesom Wike.

I think APC wont be so foolish to give someone who cannot win his state or senatorial district or total have control of party structure in his state its ticket , They will lose terribly. PDP too wont be that foolish to give Wike, whose only influence is being the Governor of wealthy state like porthacourt its ticket. Both of them are not sellable.

Nigeria only need a charismatic leader, who can unify or mended already broken relationships among ethnic nationalities, solve insecurity problems and ensure proper economic blueprint.

Someone like Peter Obi, Osinbajo, Fayemi and co dont have much needed characters to rule a complex country like Nigeria(especially in this our current political climate). Expect a tough time and probably a civil war if any of them become president.

Atiku
Tinubu
Ogbonaya onu
Kwanwaso

Are better options, they maybe be old or somehow corrupt but we need a leader who can restore a peaceful atmosphere to achieve economic progress. No technocrats/experts (in the name of Obi, Osinbajo, Akinwumi, Fayemi, etc) can achieve anything in the present of civil unrest.

Mindlog:
Talking about England, personally I think getting food from the supermarket is still very affordable as I bought those for an amount less than what I earn in an hour as my pay, which I cannot compare back home in Nigera.

We need first hands information like this.

The items I am seeing here would cost about 10k in Nigeria. If you bought all these with less than an hour wage, then England is a place to be. Nigeria is nothing but hell on earth.

IANAGI:
My dollar account under Access bank was opened for free. Someone sent me dollar straight to my naira account and bank automatically opened a dollar account for me I think 1 dollar was deducted from from the funds dat was all.

I dont understand this, they send dollar directly to your normal Naira account?

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Don't cry.. it's called generalisation..the first affected party didn't care about who burnt or not they took it directly to them..at least it was not the trike trikes tribe men that burnt it..it was done by the Nigeria Southerners..so stop playing the emotional baby card by saying nonsense..the violence is bad and avoidable.
you don't expect to burn a man's trike and expect him not to retaliate..he is a human..an ignorant one who believe in violence for that matter..

So keep mute and stop being emotional on my mention.. everything musn't suit you..below is a Nigerian media outlet..

It is a very common stupid practice everywhere in Nigeria whenever a bike or motor kill someone, people will retaliate and burn the vehicle or the owners.

The first thing people involves do is to run to nearest police stations to report, not to called their tribes men to instigate violence. Having know a life was lost and it was a mob action, no sane person should've follow this bike man to cause a bigger trouble, the best they could've done is to contribute money and get him a new bike. I've seen this same thing carry out by Yoruba, Hausa, Igbo and many other ethnic nationalities in Nigeria, and no one called any group of people to retaliate in violence manners.

All Nigerians are hypocrites and withiout foresight.

Nothing special about this, it doesn't make any sense for the party to to allow North to retain power after 8 years.

The only way is for the elites and politicians to want it. Any other way is a mere waste of time. We need a power leaders or politicians to lead the crusade, not the like of Kanu, Igboho or Sowere that can be easily throw behind the bar.

The day Olusegun Obasanjo, Tinubu, and other ex- military head of state give their support to this will signify the disintegration of Nigeria.

NobleAngell:
80 billion not million. If you spend #250,000 everyday, it will take you years to finish #80Billion.

He will spend about 2.2m per day for 100 years to finish 80 billions naira.

Nigerians are hopelessly wicked withiout any foresight.

haslaw:
I condemn the killing of Deborah Samuel but we must also point out this evil attributes of Christian extremist who go about insulting Muslims at every given opurtunity.

There are no differences between the girl and her murderers. They are basically two sides of the same coin.

Christian extremist like Deborah Samuel should understand that it is not nice to be insulting or even making blasphemous statements about other people's religion as this are inflammatory statements that can quickly lead to religious crisis.

Christian clergy should teach their followers the doctrine of live and let's live.

You did not condemn anything, killing her is high of religion intolerance and barbarism. There should not be anything like blasphemy in this modern era of science and technology. Even those that brought these religions to us has move on and places science/technology and logic above dogmatic nonsense that add little or nothing to humans development.

If she insulted prophet Muhammad, why cant they allow prophet to deal with her just like the way Christians will call God in the same situation?

mu2sa2:
Reno is correct. Deborah made a mistake and those who killed her capitalised on her refusal to withdraw the statement they considered blasphemous. The hausa word she used is terribly insulting, and even in the video you can hear female voices expressing disapproval. Yet, Deborah posted the video on her WhatsApp group., even boasting certain ghost and fire will protect her. Why insult prophet Muhammad in a dispute with your classmates and then refuse to apologise even on intervention of the school authorities? Those who brainwashed her with crooked beliefs should bury their heads in shame. Though, killing her so cruelly is terrible jungle justice because only the authorities (court) can pronounce a person guilty of an offence not individuals.

Let me assume you are an educated person with ability to reason. Nothing on earth justify the killing of another human in the name of religion.

Why cant they leave her for Prophet Muhammad to punish? She offended prophet by her utterance,not humans.

If such think happened in a christian community or gathering, they will simply say " May God forgive you" or at worse " May God punish you. So why killing for God?

Did the said prophet so powerless that you have to kill anyone insulted him. If you insult god of iron Sango and other gods, the worshippers will only threaten you with their gods power to strike you down.

So why these extremists must kill to defend a prophet they claims is omnipotent or all powerful.

APC2:
I created this new account to hide my identity.

We live in a highbrow area in Ogun state with one Kid of 2 years. My wife is not working, she is attending a university in Ogun state where we lived. My wife always watch African Magic, Zee World or running from one prayer house to another. She does not respect me at all. Living with her for 3 years now is hell on earth.

Yesterday, she told me that she attended a program conducted by a prayer ministry and the the General Overseer, a woman told her to bring a bag of rice as a seed. I told her I don't have money to buy a bag of rice for a ministry I don't know anything about. She got angry and told me that I must give her the money before I go to work. To my greatest surprise, she block the door and told me that I am not going anywhere until I give her the money for the bag of rice that the woman of God need the rice that yesterday. I got angry and tried to push her, she gave me a heavy slap and began to shout and insulting me using English so that every neighbour will hear. I was so ashamed and forced my myself out of the flat, she ran after me, held my clothe and tear it down.

I return back to my flat, carry a cable wire and beat her until she couldn't stand up. I'm an operation manager in my company, I went to work, took excuse and went to police station. I carried two police to arrest the general overseer, when we got there, she started swearing that she did not tell my wife to bring any rice, that it is my wife that volunteer to bring. The police did not arrest her again. I returned to office and notify her parents.

Her parents came in the night and after I explained to them, they insulted their daughter and apologize to me. I told my wife to follow her parents she refused.

So about 12:00 midnight, my wife started again, threatening me that she will deal with me, talking loudly again that I called her parents to come and insult her and she will pay me back in a way that I will regret knowing her.

When I couldn't sleep, I went out of the house at about 2:00AM to look for a near-by hotel to sleep. Immediately I entered the hotel, a young lady standing in front of the hotel followed me to the reception. I was thinking she want to book a room as well. The receptionist told me that the available room is 17, 000. I accepted and paid. I was directed to the room and as I entered, somebody knocked the door. I open the door and it was the young lady that followed me to the reception when I was entering the hotel. Before I knew she entered the room and said, "oga, I will do you well, na just 4,000 you go give me". She started touching me and I told her to stop it. I was so disturb by wife problems and I needed someone to talk with. So I accepted the lady. We spent the night together and had sex twice. This is my first time of having sex with another woman since I married in 2019.

I am always at home with my family when I return from work and I think my wife is taking that for granted. I will be going out from now to meet other women. I am completely tired of the marriage and I am considering marrying another wife that can give me peace and respect.

Please erase the thought of marrying another woman because no woman can give a total peace of mind. They are only slightly better than one another.

Allow peace to reign in your home, I am sure from now on, she wont dare slap or block your way again. Just forget about the issue and move on with your family.

This GEJ lacks integrity and shameless.

No matter the kind of futune attach to a gift like this, I can never accept it.

Besides, how do they think that a sane Nigerian will vote for Jonathan again.

Next time, they will think twice before they make irrational decisions. This could also be a tactic by senior cabals to chase these people out of their position.

PHIPEX:
When buhari brings consensus option to the table, all these supporters will become useless.

We. thought Buhari had no interest in a successor until he installed APC chairman. Another one is loading with a presidential candidate.

With the way things are going, even Buhari will be in Dilemma right now. It will be like a choice between " the armies of Pharaoh and the red sea"

With his popularity, influence, dedication, structure, founding father status, if they give him the ticket, he will most likely win the general election and become too powerful as well as sending alot of perceived enemies into political oblivion. If they fail to give him the ticket, He will surely negotiate power sharing with opposition and use his structure to work silently for them like he did to Atiku, and GEJ in 2011.

Wetin you gain if you resign and still lose at primary, which is 100% sure .

abobote:
That Emeka Nwajiuba that can not even Local government, is resigning for a presidential election, he does not stand a chance, instead of staying put, and enjoy another one year salary and loot in peace.
Seriously, some people don't know what they want

With ASSU strike and other problems facing education sector, dont you think the man might be tired, and want to go rest to avoid being tag in black book of this mess.