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nalijah07:
@yimiton - How WOULD you handle it if the real chic had called instead?

Sounds like someone is planning on double dating and looking for full proof ways of doing it
Stay away from trouble buddy, it never pays. you simply destroy your relationship at the long run.

Bad boys don't get caught!
In as much as being a bad boy is not so cool, smart bad boys will naturally switch off their phones with some flimsy excuse before going to bed.

But in this kind of situation, simply form sleepy voice, cut the phone, and go back to sleep. Since she's not the real chic, that shouldn't be too hard to handle. The problem is if the tables were turned and the real chic had called, then, you'll be in a big pot of very hot and sour soup.

Wear it? Hell no, I won't  
That doesn't mean I won't take it if given to me as a present.

I'll settle down, pick out the jewels on by one, sell about half for charity, invest a quarter, and keep the last quater as family heirlum.  

But wear that under cloths, boy! that's stupidity of the century! Unless of course, it becomes fahionable to go around with only bra then I can wear it twice just so that other ladies will go green with envy before I settle down to dismantle the thing.

I hate it when people come up with the idea of 'he or she is just testing me' what's that? I mean as as how now?
Buddy, she's prolly tired of you, maybe she just met someone else who she's still crazy about or she just wants a little break.

The other only fear is that she might have been stupid enough to let some other guys go into her and she can't face you any more knowing that you know that she's suppose to be a virgin.

Way Forward: Call her for a heart to heart discussion. Tell her your fears and concerns. Tell her what you genuinely feel or think. Please, don't try to be smart or manupulative, just tell her as you think it and re assure her of your love and let her know how you'll appreciate her sincerity and you should be ready for anything you hear including that she's lost her virginity which actually shouldn't be a reason to dump her if you truly love her as you claim.

Finally, Please stop proving the big boy! just be yourself! _{Who knows maybe she found out you're not the big boy you pretend to be afterall}

First, be certain this baby is biologically yours. Then, provide all the financial support and wait till the child is old enough to do without his mom, then, take your baby away otherwise, he'll grow up in that environment to become like his mom and her family members.

Why don't you guys get legally married and you can confortably move in together?
If that is not fixable, I think it's not healthy to be that scared in a relationship, take your time and be natural, try not to hide your real you and remember anything is posible until you are legally married.

Most especially the prostitute who I had screwed without condoms.Some with their private stinking like rotten magotty cheese

How could I forget my last Infidelity bitch who I screwed without condoms, Those girls at the club who'll never let you rest most especially for someone like me who buys like 2or 3 bottles of red label/hennesy when I go to the club.I never used condom for anyone of them. Sometimes they tell me not to come inside of them but I still end up doing that.

Really can't believe people still go around having sex with such carelessness and utter indiscipline. This guy was having it as it it was going out of fashion.

Buddy, you may be just lucky this time around, but remember to go for a confirmatory test in 6 months, it's very possible it just hasn't manifested yet.
And one thing I noticed, you're not doing the screwing here, you're being screwed because you lack total self control, and you call someone a bitch  ? Oh my gosh! See the pot calling the kettle black.

Finally, instead of deciding to use condoms, decide to abstain until marriage then, you can have it with only your wife. Remember, even condoms are not 100% safe.

How can I get the latest phone soft ware Firmware (R 1KC or higher) into my phone to run yahoo! Go 3.0.?

The the Good Lord be his strength and grant him healing both in mind, body and soul in Jesus name. Amen.

it was Joseph from the Niger Delta, oh mine what a perfect coincidence! he said to himself, tyranny for tyranny. Joseph had become the head of a militant group in the Niger Delta and would know just what to do about this whole situation

This is a welcome topic.
Imagin that I left my office by 6pm yesterday, had to come back to wait for traffic to lighten up, finally left by 9.20pm and got home by 2.05am this morning, just because a vehicle broke down just after the third mainland bridge around Ogudu area.

Lagos is the commercial head quarters of Nigeria, therefor, we can't expect it to be less populated but traffic can be less conjested by creating other means of transportation like Metro Systems, Train Systems and other kinds of systems used in really populated countries.

People should also be discouraged from being alone in a car and driving all the way from the main land to the Island. If they can't afford to pick anyone for security reasons, they should drop their cars at home and use BRT which should be better managed and well as more should be provided especially the double decker types.

Your man doesn't respect you or appreciate the sacrifices you've made with him.
I think he also has a very low self esteem that's why he keeps going about not only telling you that you haven't assisted him in any way but also telling his buddies. He's probably telling himself this same lie and trying very hard to believe it.

I don't see a future in this relationship. He's preparing himself for the break up when he doesn't need your assistance anymore then, he'll look you in the eye and say 'after all, you didn't contribute anything to my life!' and he'll walk away.

On the other hand, if you guys get married, heaven help you that he's successful, his pride and ego will make life miserable for the whole family unless of course you're able to work on him and curb this terrible habit.

Eva Longoria as Gabrielle in Desperate Housewives.
I love the shopping.

stancozy:
It can be fixed,only if you have the tools, But if you don't, give it to a skilled phone engineer, It shouldn't cost more than N400

dragnet:
Holyrule. Its n0t a virus issue

coolsegun, go flash ur ph0ne at the nearest tech. if u dnt knw any, let me knw

yimiton, if you're sure of yourself, go ahead n buy the earpiece then fix it yourself. Hope you have the tool(s)

Thanks guys. Will give it to the professionals to do their job. Don't know a thing about it.

@ stancozy,
What does that translate to? Can the ear piece be fixed or do I need to buy another one? If yes, can I fix it at the comfort of my home or office or do I need a technician to do it?

@ Engineers,
I got a brand new Sony Ericsson K800i about 2 weeks ago. It's been in perfect working condition until Friday, when I discovered that I couldn't hear a caller unless I use the speaker or the ear phones.

What can I do to use the phone without the speaker or ear phones?

@ Banky,

No, what you should do is not fold your arms and look otherwise they'll keep killing babies with fake baby milk and maybe phones will start exploding and T.Vs burning houses until we all get affected negatively in one way or the other.

when you notice something that bad, I'll suggest you take the extra mile to involve SON (Standard Organization of Nigeria). I hear they are quite efficient.

I just tried to reserve an Etisalat number with my name forming the 6 digits. I got a message that said the number is on the level of Bronze and it cost N1500.

I was surprise because I've seen adverts on papers and heard them on radio stations but never have I seen or heard anywhere where they said we'll have to pay for a reserved numbers. I'm beginning to be skeptical of these guys.
Let's know if anyone has had a similar experience.

naawee:
Dude,

If you try this, you'll just see your honey slip away. Don't call her often.

Like myself, most girls say I am very naughty, crazy, wild,etc but I rarely call them

after making the first few moves. They be the ones doing the calling because the attraction is

there. You just have to have your games tight.

Don't be a wussie man. Got to show her that she messes up, there 1o1 other

shawties lining up to be yours. Then you've got her in your palms.


The more you care about what your girl thinks, the less of control you have over

her. mess this lovey-dovey shit. Have a life and be just the real man for your

sweetheart.

Ain't this the same guy who thinks Nigerian girls are ugly and stupid, who thinks girls are mere intimacy gadgets, thrown in the trash can if they don't fulfil his sexual desires?

@ poster, this guy doesn't have any regards or respect for the feminine folks, he simply thinks they are toys and games to be played with. I'll strongly advice you to ignore his advice and try to find ways to make your relationship work for you. Sisterwoman made some nice points and any girl will appreciate that.

You might want to see this to understand what this guy thinks about women.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-175745.0.html#msg2851683

@ nance,
I'd advice you to walk away from this relationship as fast as possible. Obviously, this guy doesn't care a hoot about you. You are definitely the other woman. His real girlfriend (sorry, that's what his child's mother is to him) doesn't know you exist, he hides you from her because he really cares about her.

Look, for all I can see, this guy most probably goes on his knees every time he goes to see her and begs her to come back to his life otherwise, why on earth does he delete your phone number and saves her own name as my heart?
He diverts your calls when he's with her and he lies to you.
Sorry girl, but truth is that this guy simply took away your virginity and enjoys having sex with you, he's prolly a lot older than you. What you are to him is a 'intimacy gadget' and nothing else. It's very easy for him to manipulate you since he's your first.

Please take a leap otherwise, when this is over *Trust me, it will be soon*, you'll feel abused, used, dumped and even ugly. It will take a while to gain your self confidence back. But if you do the dumping now, you'll hurt, but you'll hurt more if you wait for him to dump you and go to his Baby's Mama.

@ Poster,

You haven't met his parents and you already call him your fiance. In Africa, we all know that when a guy ready for serious commitement, he takes you to meet his family, otherwise, in his mind, you're probably only just dating.

You might be more serious in this relationship than he is.
Take your time, go slow and be sure he wants what you want.

Hey Poster,

I guess your relationship is still new. The way you fear she could be cheating on your or not taking you serious is the same way she fears.

Free your mind, there's no way to tell, so don't try otherwise, you'll destroy the relationship. Let time tell if you're for each other or not.

I loved my love leters a lot.

The only time I saw my first love was the day we met and liked each other, he 'toasted' me and I was terribly shy. I was in secondary school then. All our subsequent dating were done with love letters. They were the most beautiful letters I ever had. I still keep them and I have a smile on my face now as I remember how much I used to wait for them with expectations. How I'd cry if he didn't write as often as I expected   How happyI used to be  when he sent me cards and how I read meanings to every word he wrote in them.

It was a beautiful time and I wouldn't want to trade it for text messages or calls. I might not mind trading it for Emails because I could have printed them out and saved them but I just loved his hand writing. It was the most beautiful in the whole world in my innocent mind then.

I hated any other one from other guys. They just annoyed me.

naomijt:
Now, I don't get this

Pretty easy.
First picture, you get every bling bling, money, shopping and what nots. But you don't really get love, you're just a pet to show off the the world, probably not a marrying type.

Second picture, you may not have all of that but you have your man's tender loving, caring touch and you have him all to yourself. He's your man, your better half and totally committed to you.

Think the second is sweeter but won't mind a touch of the first to go with the second.

This is so cool. I've always wondered when I'll finally tie the knot. Me and mine have tried to tie the knot several times but I keep loosing it.
Thanks Poster, I shall be tying the knot very soon too!

jayon:
ooooh
its a must for me , you got problem with that ? or u praying 4 your daughter to be disvirgined before marriage,

jayon:
Bleep u and your fcukin daughter , as ugly as u are, u tinkin someone like me can bet on u suckaz

Can somebody shot this boy up? It seems he just discovered the internet and having a field day.
I've gone through a number of his posts and most of them are grossly imature.

How does anyone care if his Mama wants him to marrry a virgin, apparently, he agrees with it and likes the idea as well as he thinks it's cool breaking hearts since his Mama thinks he's a born player.

By all means boy, do your thing but no matter what you do, stop being insulting and abusive, it portrays a very immature person who is seeking very cheap attention here.

@ lonely pal,
That is the point. His knowing that you're attractive to other people and that your world doesn't simply revolve round him makes you more attractive to him.

What's more, men like to do the pursuing, knowing that you aren't dating any man but there's the posibility of your dating someone else makes him jealous, guided and take the leap, except he's a coward or doesn't just like you.

Eventually, if he doesn't ask you out, life simply continues and you keep your nice male friends. No one gets hurts that is why you must free your mind at the begining and let good pure friendship reign otherwise so you don't get hurt if he dosn't feel so strongly about you afterall.

Possessiveness is not a sex thing. Men could be as possessive as women.
It usually stem from insecurity, when you think you're not good enough for your partner, you keep having this fear that someone better will come from no where and simply snatch him or her away. That way you find yourself constantly watching on your partner.
It's actually very frustrating to the person having it and it's a sure relationship breaker. But if trust and true friendship can be built by having a heart to heart talk and reasuring your partner that you aren't going to run away with the next available toaster, such jealousy and possessiveness will give way to respect and love.