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That will depend on the kind of relationship we had and how we broke up.
If we broke up on bad terms and I still feel hurt, I'll send him my wishes with a gift and stay back.
If I jilted him and in a cool relationship, I'll attend if he invites me.

Go your own way! _{Garette Gates}

Better remove that picture from there as soon as possible!
If you can do this, am not surprise you don't know what to tell her, cos anything you say will be inadequate. Her answer will still be NO!

Look for the best time to break the news to her mom as subtly as possible and encourage her to have the baby. she can always go back to school afterwards.

For the weekend?

@ victor4u,

You don bash my car! . . .la. la la

A nice perf anything get me smiling.
I'll suggest Calvin Klein's obsession. It's so nice, it's always appreciated.

Alright. This is not a very large problem, people get tired of their partners now and again but the big problem is if you move when ever you feel tired of a relationship, you'll keep moving, you'll never stop!
You are still pretty young but you must know that no woman on man has it all. There's always something not so cool about the person. If you move from one to the other, you'll find some personalities you loved in the last person missing from the next and that she has some possitive personalities that were missing in the former.
What you should do is to know what you want and if any woman posses about 70% of them, settle for her and don't start looking for faults and falling out of love now and again.

Only if they are both ready to get married next day.

How ready are you for marriage? are you looking at getting married in the next few months?
If yes, then, there's already the question of age here. The fact that she reminds you often that she's older simply shows that you guys might not be able to handle the age difference after marriage.

If you're young and thinking of marrying her 'in the future', you don't have anything to worry about. You guys will break up before future comes.

When the little chick am rearing matures into a cock and grows strong white teeth!
Trust me, I'll ask you out then.

This is true but it's not applicable to ALL guys. Some guys are ready to wait if you want to.

Come to think of it, we all complain that in the good old days, ladies marry as virgins, like our grand mothers and in the days of the Bible. But has it ever occured to anyone that those people actually marry at a very tender age, just when they begin to have sexual feelings. Back then, marrying at 17 was rather late!

Don't get me wrong, am an advocate for celebacy until marriage but, let's look at it the way it is above.

So girl, if you don't want a guy demanding so much and you falling, marry as early as possible.

iice:
@Story. . .hmmm! long years!

@Topic, neither. . .only when reciprocated

iice, I agree with you on that. But problem is that most times, love ain't just reciprocal.
There'll be this guy out there you're dying for and he treats you like trash and this other guy who'll do anything to have you and you don't care a hoot about him!
Sometimes, we're lucky enough to have a reciprocal love, when that happens, that is surely the man to settle down with, otherwise, go for the one you'll treat you like a queen as long as you care about him at all and get to love him.

It's either she's yours or the other guy's. A woman does not have a heart large enough to love 2 guys at the same time. It's either she loves one and plays with the other or takes him for a fool.
Move on if she's not ready to leave the other guy.

The conversation between those 2 girls is a conversation of two ladies who are in a relationship for the money or for other selfish purposes. Not for love or marriage.
You respect your man and sing his praises to your girlfriends _{to make them sort of jelous} when you love the man. Not insulting him.

mamaput:
Let her ask the man to marry her. He will drop herlike a hot brick.

Never a truer word have I heard!

How does not being interested in men make her a lesbo.
How could you so easily conclude. Has it occured to you that she said that cos you were beginning to bother her and she was looking for a quick way out.
Please look for other tale tells before you conclude.

Agree with yhemmi

When he stays long hours with another girl on the phone and ends up telling you it was his cousin's girlfriend who is so frustrated with her relationship that he's trying to sooth her pains.

_{Well, boils down to not giving her enough attention. You are right.}

It has all been said.
Break up the relationship. Emotions are already running high

Nice write up

@ Poor Rich Dad,

@ Poor Rich Dad,

what were you thinking!

iice,
good to see you.
I hate bad language but that guy almost got me to use one!

@ adekennis,
I tire too.

What on earth are you talking about?!

Are you talking about the same lady who gets to work as early as 7am and leaves the office as late as 7pm?
are you talking about the same lady who earns more or less that some other guys in her compnay?
are you talking about the same lady who fuels her car and pays her rent?
are you talking about the same lady who battles hold-up in Lagos and endures bus conductors insults now and again?
Or the lady who sells pepper along the road and packs up and runs for shelter when it's raining or when tax force comes calling?
are you talking about the same lady that . . . .

Look the list is endless and you're totally annoying!

But wait a minute, even if a lady decides to be dependent, what right do you have to complain? isn't it natural that the man sweats it out and provides for the home and woman and the woman is submissive and suffers in Labour? wasn't that what the holy book said?
Isn't that one of the things that makes him a man? or does manhood mean poping out children without catering for mom and other members of the family?

This is why i get angry when men say wome are always looking for 'already made men' when they won't want to have anything to do with non-working ladies!

No girlfriend,
Money cannot buy love.
Money makes love and relationship more intersting, secure and worthwhile.

If there is no love at all, being rich can't make someone love you. But if there's already love, it will be cool cos you and your partner can go to all the cool places together, do all the cool stuff together and get eachother nice gifts which makes you feel loved.