₦airaland Forum

bigpicture001:
Guy... The main reason I dragged on was cuz I strongly gave up on other girls, put in a lot emotionally.... We both are anticipating marriage next year....

I just focused on my financial upgrade since av secured the future wife... We have a perfect understanding, alas, babe is thinking something else. As in ehh it took me by major surprise that I thought she was outta her mind....

I dragged on ND tried talking sense into her... But she was long gone

I understand, I used to take relationships seriously too when I was still single, but it's just a natural thing I learnt with time. It's difficult to not chase, you could try a little but the more you chase, the less likely they'll listen and turn back to you.

bigpicture001:
I stopped chasing my immediate ex to come back. When I saw sh wouldn't pick or reply my calls or even reply my chats..... Pleas lasted a period of a month and half

I just forgot about her!

You don't do that to girls. Ignore them the moment they show u they need space. There's a very high percentage of chances she'll come back than chasing them for so long that you did.

Chatflick:
The doings of a Fulani government. They just included a Muslim so it won't look like it's a religious cleansing. Compromised Army... Tueh!

Una wey de shout religious cleansing, who kill the soldiers? Na Muslims? Who occupy Benue? Na Muslims? If the soldiers were all Muslims you would have said NA is a Muslim organization, now they are christians, you call it religious cleaning. The average Nigerian is draft, they don't use their brains, they don't think! It is the reason we are so messed up. I feel pity for the displaced indigenes but I feel sorry for y'all bigots! Wetin consign this incident with religion? Why Nigerians too mumu? I'm sorry if I included you among the so many mumu people in this country. It is not my kind who insult people here. Una just de make me super vex. I'm from Benue anyways, I'm not a Muslim and I don't think I'll ever be, but I respect the ones online, they are many but appear few, they don't make unnecessary noice, they are sane- they aren't as troublesome as y'all....but I definitely am not a stupid 'Nigerian christian'. Una de smell, Tueh!

MTN has been shitty for over a month now. At times you'd have to dial someone's number like three to four times before you can finally hear them.

raumdeuter:
Slipping

I loved this track die, I still do, and it's the only of X's song I still have on my phone to date.

AsherAmari:
Mark of the beast at play here.

Op don't take it. Wish I can lay my hand on a post made by a nairalander who took it and gave his experience. It wasn't a pleasant one at all as he almost died from it.

He said he came down with serious symptoms of Corona virus and had to be rushed to the hospital when his breath began to cease.

That vaccine still needs to undergo some processing to improve the quality and reduce the side effect.

Have you ever taken any vaccine before? Was there any side effect/s? If no, then I know others including myself who have experienced mild to severe side effects. Why do some of you people talk like you live in a deep hole?

zed7:
Women are more emotional. Women take relationships with their loved ones and family more seriously. That's the way they are wired. Everything isn't about gold digging.

And I thought this was me. There should be just one and only one zed in the universe.

Kondomatic:
Yes Chief.



Nairaland was actually very fun before

I swear, Nairaland was a very fun place to be. I never was a member then but each time I got exhausted from reading shitty comments from Naijapals( apologies, I just had to mention that site for comparison sakes), I would run to read really good stuffs from here by very intelligent people to calm my nerves.... But these days this space is actually more shitty than you know what. I guess politics spoilt everything.

inumidun2010:
Salud...I believe you have overcome it...

Sure, since 2012.

inumidun2010:
How does this depression occur sef, I dont pray to experience it ooooh?... Some wealthy people are also depressed.. I've always been a LONE RANGER since when I was young sha... Depression Wey no kill me when I was dropped from MEDICINE to BIOCHEMISTRY no go fit kee me again.. No be mouth... Na God oooo( Pray away depression)..

Funny thing is for me I didn't know the cause. Everything and everyone became meaningless to me. That thing is a monster. Since then I stopped judging people who commit suicide. It's hell.

He's been battling with this addiction for way too long

QuietHammer:
Who da fvck is he?

What? You're using the 'F' word, shows you're a Nigga, yet you don't know who X is?

Damn, you're a good writer. The story just flow.

Tectono:
May their soul rest in peace. Check out my signature if you want to go into export business.

Bros, but what's doing you?

Wetin that guy with bleeding leg hold for hand like that?

I don't miss a thing about my last ex, I used to miss everything about the one before her. Now I don't miss anything about any one. Since I marry sef I no know anything about ex again.

Badorey6:
So what? How did Jonathan government fared too?

Are they not killing in Borno daily to the extent of bombing Abuja the federal capital?

Every sane thinking person in 2015 ought to vote Jonathan out and Benue are not different.

However as every politicians with their fake promise and treachery, Buhari turned out to be another scammer and more worse than Jonathan.

You Igbos should get over the defeat and stop trying to blackmail everyone with the rubbish of you voted against Jonathan bla bla bla.

Are you not the same set that has been voting and supporting Fulanis since 1959 with Azikiwe, Ekueme, and Ugoh fronting as the second fiddle even against other southerners on the ballot?

Thank you very much for this post. Some people are so annoying. Why always dragging us to an equally stupid past? Some Nigerians forget too fast like fish. I was in Abuja in those days and I remember the fear I used to live with anytime I'm caught up in traffic. Or have they forgotten how no one was allowed to go into churches without bags throughout the country for fear of Boko haram bombings? Instead of talking of ways to move forward from this mess they keep fantasizing and making gullible people believe the past was nice.

Xenry:
Most of our nigerian girls are liabilities (only few are assets), any girl who takes and do not give is a liability

So my question is, if you run out of cash today or tomorrow, can your girlfriend assist you with at least 5k? Supposing you need it for urgent reason(s).

If she can't assist you with that, then she probably is a liability.

For me, I love dating Assets, and not Liabilities. Mine couldn't do that because she doesn't have it, so she's a liability.

That's why I ghosted and dropped her, now I'm looking for an asset.

Now, over to you, can your girlfriend assist you with at least that amount of money if you run out of cash today or tommorow?

Because if she can't, then she probably is a liability.

My ex was a perfect definition of liability. Very beautiful like mamiwater. We dated for long, I knew her when she was just 18 and then, cos I was previledged to start earning from my NYSC days, I started supporting her financially till she graduated and started working. Only twice I asked her for a favor throughout the relationship and she declined, even when she got a well paid job, a job better than mine. Thing is, selfishness runs in the blood, no matter how rich a selfish person is, he/she remains selfish. When I met my wife, she was a secondary school teacher ( you know what this means) and she was so sensitive to every little challenge I was faced with. She was always willing to help even without me asking. It's like she came from another world. My advice to young guys is to stay away from such girls, particularly the beautiful ones from broke homes. Leave them for already- made men like FFK or Dangote, else you'll hardly grow.

orlahboi:
How I really wish people won't take this for granted. Many people has been blindfolded by sins and educations.
MAY WE NEVER MISS OUT ON THE SECOND COMING OF OUR LORD JESUS!

See your writing? Do you know the root of your problem now? God gave you a brain, use it bro.

Righteousness2:
There was also an Earthquake in Mexico today..
We Live in very interesting and Incredible Biblical times,
Scriptures are being Fulfilled at warp speed right Before our eyes.
Earthquakes and Volcanoes ripping through the Earth.
3 Earthquakes in Zealand in a space of 24 hrs
Earthquakes in Chile
Earthquakes in philpinees
Earth quake in Greece
Earthquake in Japan
Earthquake in Algeria
Earthquake in Japan again
Earthquake in Mexico
All these and more in a space of 30 days..

Folks! You don't need to be told that JESUS is Coming!!
Be Prepared!!

This guy's comments can make even a religious person with a little brain to become a complete unbeliver of the very faith he's trying to propergate. Guy is too dull.

I don't know FFK personally, but I don't like him from stories I've been reading about him. On the other hand I know the wife and I can authoritatively tell you that she was a broke arse Northbank girl - a prostitute with eyes for big things. I don't know if she changed for good while she was in his house, but this bi+tch is synonymous with lies.

The kind of beating those guys received eh, my body start to pain me on their behalf as I watched that video.

Macphenson:
Nairaland and late news. This video has been trending for sometime now.

I watched the video, the Nigga was grinding the bitch real hard.

I think the inmate planted the video as often times he is looking at the camera while fucking the bitch.

Dear women, when you meet them one on one in a closet, you will be shocked at what they do.

On a second note, I read another story saying she has committed suicide, that the man in question is her husband. Don't know how true that is as all these hungry bloggers can write anything to get traffic.

You're right. In recent news, it's said that they were married before he became a convict. There are even wedding pictures of theirs to back up that claim. And I read the suicide news too. If truly they're married, I don't think she should have even thought of committing suicide, if of course that news is true.

Maybe it's just me, but the moment I saw cucumber my mind just went somewhere else.

Kobojunkie:
Liar!

You should know the guy was just being sarcastic. I remember this story when it was hot. I don old.

richmond500:
which one is technical virgin again?
Oga if u deh masturbate just tell us straight biko.

Time weh u suppose use prepare for expo for ur next jamb, u use am deh get yeye erections.

Wait, lemme find solution to ur problem

Immediately I saw 'technical virgin' I just knew what he meant. Him still de masturbate so sleeping with girl na him greatest fantasy. Almost every guy goes through this, it's just that in this part of the world we don't talk about it.

Girl talking like I don't know her. Small girl we watched grow in ECWA secondary school that year, metamorphosed into a strong runs girl. When u de 'enjoy' then we no hear word, now u de claim stories that touch. Which yeye chains of business. All these poor North bank girls, that's how most of them end with big big men because to them that's all that matters - money, not just money but biiig money. Don't get me wrong, money is good, but if you know their attitude you'll understand my point. Make we hear word jare.

Wait, this guy is dead? I no know am personally o, but for music production I know am. Dokta Frabs.. She say she wan murrda- you know? Na waoh.

Only in very few marriages you'll find a cordial relationship between wife-mother in law. It's natural and I was thinking all men knew this. If the wife isn't accusing the mother of taking her husband away from her then it's the mother seeing her son being taken by his wife. From this story, I see a wife trying to turn her husband's heart away from his mom. It's very clear, he doesn't know that's why he's here asking questions.

internationalman:
Girls who do this are mostly teenagers and early twenties..

To date girls like those na wahala. You go correct them tire..

Simple solution is to look for a female friend to fake call you and pour out loving words to you with the phone on loudspeaker while she listens in the conversation. But pretend to be feeling uneasy by asking her to stop that your girlfriend is around that you love her too much and you don't want to ruin your relationship with her.

Secondly fake a WhatsApp chat with another person masquerading as a girl. Make sure the picture on the profile is prettier than your girlfriend's. In the chat make sure the person pleads with you to leave your girlfriend for her with promises of doing anything for you just to date her.

Let your girl see the chat but only accidentally..

This used to work for me like magic. You should see how my girl then was feeling insecure wanting to know where I was all the time.

That's how I restored my power in the relationship then.. Relationship is game of emotion and manipulation.

This your game is tight bro, but I remember how I used to go through those stuff with my ex. It was heart wrecking. Always playing emotional games here and there just to keep someone is too much stress. When I met my wife, I became the celebrity. It was like I entered a different world. Such girls are not even worth dating but the truth be say na dem de hard to leave pass.

Which kind question be this? Na today dem born you? Which year has ever passed without us experiencing this kind of heat, particularly around this period of the year?

Litmus:
Do not drink the following herbal tea: Tetley Lemon Balm –I’ve been meaning to post this quite a while now but fear doing so may contravene some sort of rights that may see it removed by Mods so get the name quickly just in case. This tea seem to negatively affect the dopamine levels of some individuals resulting in sever depression.

I never understood the meaning of Depression and always though it meant just feeling down until the morning after drinking this herbal tea. I didn’t at first link the feeling that first morning with the tea. The feeling was one of immense foreboding and deep, deep, deeeeep down sadness. That first time, I thought I was having some sort of premonitions of death. I worriedly phoned all my loved ones, warning them to be careful. All day this feeling of doom persisted in addition to a clean, antiseptic, coldness that I could not escape in spite of all that I deed to distract myself. In any case these feelings faded by the next day.

I had no idea the tea was responsible since I did not drink the tea the next day. I’m not a herbal tea fan and only bought this one because I had been having difficulty sleeping. A couple of week later, I had a cup of the tea before going to bed around 9 pm. I woke bolt upright around 1 pm as though woken up from sleep by the presence of evil. The room was icy and I nearly ran from the room hollering in dread. These feelings worsened, becoming like those that I described earlier.

That which I experienced may not be what depression feels like but if it is then I salute anyone who is able to live with such feelings for 3 days let alone years. I have associated the tea with causing those feelings and binned the entire box. Since then I’ve not experienced any further episodes.

At least you had something to point as a reason for going through depression. So many people do not know what it means to be depressed, they just blame you. I feel pity for the ones who couldn't make it through. I don't blame them even a bit. Glad you pulled through, I've been there too but I couldn't and still can't find a reason I was depressed. I pulled through eventually too. That was in 2012.