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Celebrities / Re: Bobrisky :If A Man Can Cheat On You With Me, Then You're A Disgrace To Womanhood by kandiikane(m): 4:57pm On Aug 14, 2018
That's exactly what he looks like. Saw him in Ibadan last year, A whole lot of craw-craw/shaving bumps for face.

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Romance / Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by kandiikane(m): 10:25am On Aug 12, 2018
vululadilolo:
He raped you to coerce you into marrying him? He violated your body to achieve his "goal" of "keeping" you for himself? Very sick, manipulative and pervert way of thinking!

I would not advise you to marry someone who doesn't respect your boundaries and can commit such a vile act (rape). I would however advise you to seek therapy/counselling/help for what he did to you. Did you report him to the authorities?

If he is raping you now, how do you think he is going to behave when you are going to be married to him? Marital rape exists in case you don't know.
His behaviour ( the rape) shows that he seems to be ready to do anything ( even the worst) to achieve what he wants and doesn't value his partner's opinions/beliefs or feelings. Do you really want to be married to someone like that?

There are ton of people who were not virgins when they got married and are happy in their marriage. Being a virgin (or not) does not guarantee a "good" marriage. Your husband should be interested in you as a person and not just your hymen. You should also bring more than "just" your body in your marriage.

You need to reshape your mind: Your "pride" should be in who you are as woman and not what you can "offer" in bed( Virginity). Your "value" as a person did not/should diminish because of the rape( or even if you had sex voluntarily). That's why I said seek therapy or talk about it to someone you trust.

Don't feel guilty for what happened or not being a "virgin" (easier said than done). Stay strong and good luck in whatever you decide to do!

Wow, you could not have said it better. Well done!
Crime / Re: Young Girl Set On Fire After Being Accused Of Witchcraft In Akwa Ibom. Photos by kandiikane(m): 6:49pm On Aug 09, 2018
Kudos to her but she should say nigerian culture. Where I am from we don't burn people over witchcraft. We just gossip about them and not eat their food. Big difference, thank you very much. Kudos once more.

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Celebrities / Re: Charly Boy Becomes A Gay Rights Activist by kandiikane(m): 6:42pm On Jul 22, 2018
delugajackson:
Some people will say it's all about choice. What could drive a sane man to such an abnormal, extremely diabolical thing if not madness?

How do we ensure a safe environment for our kids with these degenerates around the corner? You can take that shít to the West. This is Africa for Christ's sake. Oga Charly, I put it to you that your mumu never do.

With all the mess like rituals, child marriages, forced marriages, poor governance, poor healthcare, infant mortality, tribalism, random killings, cultism, armed robbery, rape, child abuse, wars, famine, poverty, corruption, misogynism, poor infrastructure, lack of equipments, brain drain etc, it is the LGBT community you want to keep your kids safe from?

Misplaced priorities!

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Crime / Re: Policeman Beats A Lady For Refusing To Allow Him Check Her Pants (Photos) by kandiikane(m): 9:23am On May 24, 2018
Topiipii:

They do that, it's a delay tactic they resort to if they don't get bribes; in fact, they'll tell everyone in the bus to come down so as to check your luggage one after the other. I experienced it in 2011, more than once as well. I'd like to think it occurs along that axis (the one that leads to the eastern part of the country), because I've gone through other routes without having a similar experience. Usually, they'd let the bus go if the driver is willing to bribe them, but how how many police checkpoints are you going to bribe before you get to your destination?

I experienced this delay tactic they do at Murtala, both going and leaving. I was travelling with both my gambian and British passport, I was one of the first to leave the flight, got to the first barrier they said I need yellow fever vaccine certificate(I was coming from the UK), had to give them 2000 naira before they let me go to immigration. Immigration too was another problem, I had my Gambia passport with me(told them it was part of the ecowas so did not need a visa), they passed and passed my passports amongst themselves, by the time they were done with me, I was the last one leaving immigration. I gave them 500naira and they started to complain, like what are they going to do with 500.

Leaving nigeria was another issue, the hand luggage I came with they said I could not leave with it. I ended up wearing all my clothes from my hand luggage just so i won't leave them behind. This was after paying excess, I was not going to give anymore of my money to the baggage handlers. Almost got in a fight with one stupid girl like that. Went to immigration, they passed and passed my passports around so much that I literally disassociated . I literally thought I was high, I swear, as in this cannot be real. They scanned my handbag and said I couldn't take my vape in, then they started harassing me for money and went in my handbag and took all my money.

To enter the flight, I got called out on the tarmac next to the flight to open my luggage, for what I don't know. I was so frustrated I dumped every single thing in my bag on the floor, they ended up putting it back in, telling me to calm down. I was the last one on the flight. Smh, the shit that goes on in that country is not normal. I don't know whether it was because I was a foreigner, they took extra time out to frustrate my life.
Crime / Re: Uber Driver Strangled To Death In Lagos by kandiikane(m): 2:36pm On Apr 12, 2017
logica:
...and who looses? What is Uber providing other than the software platform? Are they the owners of the automobiles? NO. Can Uber be replaced? YES. Stop showing your Uncle Tom inclinations. You may take it to stormfront.

Dude Fuckoff, Uber is a welcomed development for those who like nice things in Africa and even in western nations. Why has Africans not replaced it? Africa is a shithole because of the shitty people who dont like nice things and the betterment of Africa. If this my statement pains you go jump in a bloody lagoon, df!!
Crime / Re: Uber Driver Strangled To Death In Lagos by kandiikane(m): 10:01am On Apr 12, 2017
logica:


https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2016/02/22/uber-driver-accused-killing-6-what-we-know/80725680/



That looks like an African to you eh? It sure does to me too. Very handsome African.

Look at another African below:

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/uber-driver-passenger-disrespected-car-stabs-5-times-article-1.2916075


This still does not change my previous post. The US has a better crime deterrance system than Africa. Uber is more likely to say ok, let's scrap it in Africa than if the murder had happened in the US. We generally don't have a value for life in Africa compared to other nations. Keep making excuses for these bottom feeders. It's like black people speaking on racism and slavery and the jews butt in to say well we suffered the holocust too so your pain does not matter really as we suffered too. If you don"t get the comparison then obviously you are a bottom feeder.

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Crime / Re: Uber Driver Strangled To Death In Lagos by kandiikane(m): 1:40am On Apr 12, 2017
Africans don't like nice things at all. I guess most of them enjoy their backward mentalities and the idea of being the bottom feeders of the world. I can't believe I come from the samee place as these people.

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Romance / Re: Firstbank Rewards #5kbae For Being An Empowered Woman, Welcomes Her To #firstgem by kandiikane(m): 11:08pm On Mar 30, 2017
FagsamPHP:


90% of you are all about the money... This lady's savagery doesn't change the fact

who isn't? are you not about money, abeg! If the girl was not about money, she won't have been able to pay that 5k.

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Romance / Re: The Backside Of This Man's Wife Is Driving Him Crazy (photos) by kandiikane(m): 11:58pm On Mar 21, 2017
stephleena:
na marriage be this one??their faces tells it all.. marriage abuse.

What should a married face look like? smh
Celebrities / Re: Foston Utomi's Instagram Post After Battering His Wife by kandiikane(m): 1:12pm On Mar 16, 2017
naijaboiy:
It's easy for these women to jump and attack any man once they hear he hit a wOman.

It pisses me off! Not because i support domestic violence but because majority of them who do these bandwagon thing aren't really women who deserve respect from men.

Yes he beat his wife. Yes he was wrong and bla bla bla. But why not settle down and try to know the nitty gritty of the story from both angles if you're so interested and really want to throw stones. Don't just see a picture and the next thing is to rush at the guy.

We have so many misandrists among us who hate men and never give them benefit of doubt. The moment they hear a man did something all they do cast aspersions on all men including their relatives who are male.

When they are done, they will tell us how the insults have helped him in anyway. I feel his pain, I know he's sorry he hit her but I'm sure he lost it and there is a reason for that.

Oh Please, What excuse is there to make for him or hear his side? He is wrong, end of! I don't not believe anyone has the right to lay their hands on anyone, be it man or woman. Yes, you are justified in REASONABLY defending yourself. Even if the woman start hitting him, the injuries I see do not seem like one was reasonably defending himself. This is your wife, someone you are suppose to love and cherish, the mother of your son, the damage on her body can never be justified. He knows his strength and most likely hers, it should have been best to subdue her rather than violently beating her up till blood pours out, we are not talking about a stranger but your bloody wife! If you want to divorce her after subduing her, for hitting you, please, do so but this is not ok. Even if he was to defend himself, this goes way past self defence.

Why do we make excuses for husbands who beat their wives for their mouths yet go in on those army officers that tattooed that woman's body for running her mouth? They both owe duties but a husband's goes even further because he doesn't just owe a legal duty to the wife but also a moral duty

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TV/Movies / Re: Nigerians Blast Payporte For Hosting Kemen After Touching Scandal by kandiikane(m): 12:54am On Mar 11, 2017
LesbianBoy:
The guy don apologise! Wetin again?

All i see is senseless woman wrappers and bitter girls who have been ra*** in the past! Rubbish! tongue tongue

What a stupid post, maybe when you get raped in your asshole that's when you will understand why they are still bitter over something that happened in the past.

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Romance / Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by kandiikane(m): 8:29am On Mar 10, 2017
Lawlahdey:
This isn't really related to polygamy.. It has more to do with the sexual aspect of a relationship.

You should not have this mentality because it means you will be teaching your son that cheating is ok and teaching your daughter that it is ok to accept a man cheating because that is just how they are. They will continue the endless circle of this your mentality. If you want an open marriage, say so but don't blame it on the men. This is your choice. Have some regard for the many men out who aren't dogs.

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Travel / Re: South African Border Officials Detain Political Analyst Omojuwa (snapshots) by kandiikane(m): 7:59pm On Mar 07, 2017
admax:
You are on a platform called Nairaland, if you don't want to associate yourself with Nigerians, why are you here?


lol, see questions, it's a public forum, mate. We criticise whites for the fact that they built their empires on the backs of their former colonies but that doesn't stop members of the former colonies from going to their countries. I only spoke the truth, many don't like people who boast without anything to show for it, that goes for countries too.

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Travel / Re: South African Border Officials Detain Political Analyst Omojuwa (snapshots) by kandiikane(m): 10:32am On Mar 05, 2017
admax:
South Africa is the only country I never dreamt of going. They are still under slavery since their economy is being controlled by whites.

Kenya is another stupid country that will embarass Nigerians at their airport.

Those guys are just jealous of Nigerians, no matter the matter, we are the biggest country in Africa
! They can go to hell.

This is why these countries don't like you. Noone likes pomposity and arrogance when there is nothing to show for it.

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Foreign Affairs / Re: Checkout Hilary Clinton's Tweet After Court Revokes Donald Trump's Travel Ban by kandiikane(m): 12:04am On Feb 11, 2017
Atmmachine:




What drugs are you on ?? Stupidity pills ??

Look at this goat face sitting in a remote village in Ogun state

What do you know about the USA ??

If you live in the USA you would know that his campaign promises are just made up stories

What campaign promises is Donald Trump fulfilling ??

He said that he will make America great again, America has been great since 1786

He said that he will bring jobs back to America, They're millions of jobs in America begging people to go to work but Americans are the laziest people on earth, they would rather sit at home and collect unemployment check, food stamps and section 8, meanwhile the Mexicans they don't want in their country are the ones who are doing the dirty jobs Americans are too lazy to do, like farming, building houses, cutting grasses, doing constructions, and paying taxes so that does lazy Americans would waste the money on food, that's why every American is fat, they would sit on their asses and eat all day

He said that he would ban Obamacare ?? Now tell me how dumb you would be to think that you can terminate Obamacare, you can only change the name

He said that he will build a wall across the border, there are 7 U.S states that borders Mexico, 1 of those states is the size of the whole Nigeria, now explain to me how he will build a wall across 7 large states that are bigger than West Africa

He said that he will ban the Muslim from entering into the USA, there are already 20 million Muslims in the USA, if Muslims are terrorists, those 20 million Muslims would have wiped out the whole of USA and forgetting that Americans are the real terrorists starting from school and church shooters to Ted Bundy and thousands of his fellow serial killers

TRUMP is the dumbest person on earth, he thinks that the President has the right to say what happens, the President of the USA don't even have the right to say what happens in a remote village in Tennessee, how does he think he can put a national ban ?? First you must go through the Congress

I feel you but how can just 7 US states be bigger than west Africa when the whole of US fits in West Africa. Please, don't downplay the size of our continent.
Crime / Re: Female Teachers Force Student To Have Sex With Them Zambia (PICS/VIDEO) by kandiikane(m): 5:07am On Feb 05, 2017
So, why would he asked them to repeat the act? I am very certain he was more angry at the fact that they didn't want to do it again. Smh!
Celebrities / Re: Toke Makinwa Reacts To Maje Ayida's Lawsuit: The Lord Will Fight For Me' by kandiikane(m): 6:46pm On Feb 03, 2017
JennieCutie4U:
I never supported dat her book for one day! how could you write a whole book on someone's personal life, dis someone was once ur hubby, the love of ur life whom you once flaunted on social media nd suddenly the love has gone sour, things hv become bad nd u decided to destroy the person's image by writing a whole book on their personal affairs...dats really a foolish and immature thing to do Toke. Is maje d only guy or husband that has ever cheated? Most men are chronic cheats! we know dat but hv to kill itself and destroy him too because of dat. You could ve just walked out honourably nd move on with ur life than doing this! If I were Maje, I would've sued her ass since d first day she launched dat book.... Not dat I support Maje for being a cheat, never! dat was so stupid nd unfair of him to hurt someone who loved him so dearly... no man or woman should cheat on their spouse. shikena!

you would sue her on what ground? If he cheated and in the book it says he cheated what exactly are you suing her for? You can't sue her for defamation, na.

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Celebrities / Re: Toke Makinwa Reacts To Maje Ayida's Lawsuit: The Lord Will Fight For Me' by kandiikane(m): 6:41pm On Feb 03, 2017
angelTI:
Why call the name of God now when what she did is legally wrong! You don't write such derogatory remarks about someone without the person's permission.

I never really liked this Toke girl from day 1 because she is just too fake!


yes you can if it is true.
Celebrities / Re: AY's Daughter Michelle, Celebrates Her 9th Birthday (Photos) by kandiikane(m): 12:43am On Feb 03, 2017
fuckingAyaya:
hbd to her, she don dey ripe small small
I won't be surprised if you have sexually abused a child.

Sick son of a b!tch! You should be castrated just for the mere thought of saying a 9 year old is "ripening?" When does she fully "ripen," in a couple of months time or at the first sign of breasts? bast@rd!! Many children have to deal with physical and emotional traumas because of bast@rds like you. Eurghhh! The amount of pedophiles and perverts amongst you people is quite staggering.

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Foreign Affairs / Re: Adama Barrow Appoints Fatoumata Tambajang As VP by kandiikane(m): 8:00am On Jan 24, 2017
soberdrunk:


Mogbe!! I am very sorry oooo!! I am a very big fan of Gambia oooo!! I have spent quite a few holidays in Gambia and i loved it, especially "Makasutu" and that Coco ocean resort grin grin I take back my words angry angry
you are forgiven wink
Foreign Affairs / Re: Adama Barrow Appoints Fatoumata Tambajang As VP by kandiikane(m): 7:19am On Jan 24, 2017
soberdrunk:


cheesy cheesy cheesy Somebody cannot play with you Gambian women?? Oya sorry Miss Adama? Aminata? Awa? Isatou? Loli? Kutu? Mama? Mampol? or whatever beautiful Gambian name you bear and congratulations on your new president grin

Now, you are playing, abi? You thought only nigerians have access to this forum so you can talk anyhow? We are watching cheesy
Foreign Affairs / Re: Adama Barrow Appoints Fatoumata Tambajang As VP by kandiikane(m): 6:37am On Jan 24, 2017
soberdrunk:
It seems everyone in Gambia has this weird look on their face................ I have come to the conclusion that Nigerians are the finest people in Africa angry angry

Just because you are use to your women's manly faces does not mean Gambians have a weird look. Abeg go sit in a corner joor. grin
Celebrities / Re: Photos Of Ada Omolola The Sexiest Nigeria Video Vixen 2016 by kandiikane(m): 10:09pm On Dec 28, 2016
rokiatu:
So because she's fair? I am pretty sure there are many dark girls far sexier then this lady.

rokiatu, you don born pikin? cheesy Your dp is lovely, btw.
Health / Re: Is It Possible To Be Depressed And Not Know It by kandiikane(m): 7:08pm On Dec 22, 2016
iphenon:
Are you a psychologist?
yes
Health / Re: Is It Possible To Be Depressed And Not Know It by kandiikane(m): 10:36pm On Dec 19, 2016
AfonjaStinks:


Depression is for weak minded kids

People find excuses or someone to blame for their mishaps

Your parents divorce shouldn't be a cause for depression ?? If you experience what I've gone through, you will not last for 3 days

I have a degree in psychology, conditions doesn't determine your mood or state of mind, your weak mind is responsible for that, if you tell yourself that you will be happy throughout the day, that's what you will get

The solution to your "depression" is

1. Find a boyfriend that will be laying the pipe frequently, sex is a medicine to stress and depression

2. Weed, just hit that shiit one time and you will be sitting all day laughing with your imaginary friends

3. Find a job : a jobless individual is venerable


You should go back and study real psychology and from a real institution, not this you learnt from your village goat.

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Health / Re: Is It Possible To Be Depressed And Not Know It by kandiikane(m): 10:33pm On Dec 19, 2016
Justdulla:

Chairman, you wouldnt understand.. If i actually told you my own problem, you wont even pity her... lets leave it like that... some have food but cannot eat, some can eat but have no food. shebi shes gat good health, depression is her only sickness

It is not just about you and what you are going through. My point is, it is not right that you put down her issues and what she is going and see it as trivial just because YOU feel like you are in a worst place than her. You are not in her shoes and she is not in yours so you cannot compare the two. The fact that she has something to eat for example and you don't does not mean you do not share the same mental issues. Depression does not measure who is worse for wear, we aren't comparing who's depression is the worst out of the two as there is not such thing. All you had to do was advise her on how to deal with it since you overcame it or are overcoming it and did not kill yourself.
Health / Re: Is It Possible To Be Depressed And Not Know It by kandiikane(m): 2:13pm On Dec 19, 2016
Justdulla:
Trust me you don't have a problem.. If i put you in ma shoes, am sure you would have committed suicide already. Truth is i try to make maself happy in face of sadness or loss of hope. Try not to be an Introvert, rather be and extrovert. Have friends that you can talk to, trusted friends you can confide in.. Humans were made in pairs, no one is meant to stay or do things alone.. just get a like mind as your friend, have fun, go to events, hang out, visit places, abstain from nairaland, social media et al. cos social media. encloses people, some people make social media their best friend and that in turn kills their social life cos they hardly have real people to talk to...

You should not advise someone with depression starting with the statemement, "trust me you don't have a problem, if you were in my shoes." Your problems aren't worse than hers, you are both two different individuals facing different obstacles in life that is causing a mental health issue for both.

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Celebrities / Re: Freeze: "If You Are A Yoruba Man & Want To Be Successful, Marry An Igbo Woman" by kandiikane(m): 4:58pm On Nov 20, 2016
NIGHTMAREOO7:


The difference between U and I here is that u are commenting to gain "Likes" here but im commenting straight from the heart.

U are wrong abt yoruba gals coz
Most yoruba gals are very insulting.. no disrestpect to them..there are still good ones
But Maybe u are mistaken the PROSTRATION in yoruba culture as RESPECT. lol.
Thats not respect bro....
=Respect is wen u scold ur woman and she dont shout back at u or insult u.
Respect is wen u told ur gal wat she did wrong and she wont insult u.
=Respect is wen u marry a woman from another tribe and she respects ur culture not bringing in hers to counter ur own...thats wat respect are


Have a a little misunderstanding with a yoruba gal and watch her wash u hands down .
Thes are d reason igbo men and eben some yoruba men prefer igbo women... not dat yoruba women are not beautiful.

EVEN U TALKIN HERE WILL S6ILL END UP WITH IGBO WOMAN IF U ARE REALLY IGBO grin
Dat explains all we are saying here! grin

AND YES I CARRY MY TRIBE FOR LIKE U SAID..
COZ IM PROUD OF MY IDENTITY!.. #peaceout!





Why would you scold a grown ass person and expect them not to respond? When you don't have respect for another human being, you do not deserve respect.

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Celebrities / Re: Funke Akindele And JJC Skillz At The Premiere Of "Jenifa In London" by kandiikane(m): 11:33pm On Nov 05, 2016
Dygeasy:
Make love, not war. smiley cool

na so smiley
Celebrities / Re: Funke Akindele And JJC Skillz At The Premiere Of "Jenifa In London" by kandiikane(m): 11:24pm On Nov 05, 2016
Amelian:





Did I call JJC a bytch? Stop readin post upside down.. And stop creating illusions for yourself.
Because I said he for just stay house does not mean, following to wIfe to the premier makes him less a man or makes him a bytch.. His support for her is not bad.. And honestly I don't have time to analyze what the stay at home means... U are just getting hotheadded for nothing.
Pls I don't have strength and energy to start exchanging words.
If u are looking for e fight this evening? Look for someonelse to pour out whatever frustrations u may have.
See it whichever way you like? Read it upside down? I don't care.. I just don't have your time for such trivialities

Noone is exchanging words with you, you don't have the time, neither do I. You have read my message and that is all that matters. Your above post is irrelevant to what I posted. Thank you and goodnight.

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Celebrities / Re: Funke Akindele And JJC Skillz At The Premiere Of "Jenifa In London" by kandiikane(m): 3:36pm On Nov 05, 2016
Amelian:
JJC for just stay house..
cause it takes a man with a veryvstrong heart to mellow when. His wife outshines more than him in events ,business and social life.. That's why most men rather marry women who are less successful and less exposed than them.. But whether anyone likes it or not these women are destined to shine more and more as the years go by..
More grease to marriage and career Funke. kiss

What a silly advice. Why exactly should he stay home when his wife is being celebrated? Very contradictory, you say it takes a very strong heart to stand there whilst your wife outshines you yet still said the man should stay home, even though from your logic he has a strong heart for standing there. Why should he be ashamed of what is happening? Are you implying he is a bytch for supporting his wife? Is it only ok to stay there when it is a woman supporting her husband? Smh. You support women growing and their empowerment yet insult it at the same time.

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