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chino11: We are not the same, the earlier you know it the better. Anambrans are different brands/species of Igbos, it shows in everything they do. The same way if you remove Anambra from Nigerian economic landscape the entire economy will crash. Deal with it bro

So, you can stab a fellow ibo man? Good! I see that the fight for biafra will lead to a further disaster among igbos.

I am an igbo, Anambra to be precise, seriously your words reveal a lot here and I advice that other igbo ethnic clans take note.

Though, I don't speak igbo because I never grew up with them but I have always thought that they were united until now.

acidtalk: Short up and stop being a foool!!!
It is nuisance like you who will make mouth to high heavens only to perform worse.
Is it a medal I am expecting from you that I came out to share a real life scenerio?
If you can't learn and advice dullards around you to all change for the better, can't you keep your fingers where they belong?

And come to think of it, they are Bsc holders. What a disgrace to their institutions.

Ogbeni... Abeg employ me with HND me sef need job wella.

Acidtalk, haven't you heard that if ignorance is bliss, 'tis folly to be wise? Leave that guy to his perpectual and abyssmal stup!d!ty!

prodam: @OP, you termed it 'primary school question'..fine!!
So since a graduate who studied for example, an engineering course failed your primary school english test questions, that means he or she is not employable.
I would accept this as a fact if and only if, you can re-invite these same people and this time, give them primary school mathematics question such as addition or multiplication involving 2 digits without using a calculator.if after this test, the same 3 graduates pass, then your conclusion is right..but if otherwise, this topic should be in the Joke section and try to meet as many people as possible daily till u come accross a lawyer who can not divide 23 by 2 except he sees a calculator.
#humanResources is not an easy field

Don't use excuse to condone failure here and think your statements are logical. C'mon, look at those questions and aren't they cheap? Abegi... Later some people go say them graduate and no work. It's pathetic! Even at my level, I keep telling myself that I need to improve.

Lebee4: funny somehow.
Talking about the shorthand thing, its high time job seekers started avoiding it cos it corrupt writing just like pigeon English.

Don't some folks know the difference between formal and informal environment? It's a pity though. I use short hand when texting on my mobile but never will I ever use it in a formal context.

tobicool: Collect am abeg!.... No time!

Ah... I don collect am.

monsuru ad: how do I contact you personally?

just look below my post in my signature and you will find my phone number and email. Call me.

kandiikane: That is why I will never marry a poor man who cannot afford a cook.
Imagine, going to court all day and coming back and he expects you to get your nyash in the kitchen? Oga, husband, you de crase.


Yes, I am a woman but cooking is not something I have passion for.

In fact, since someone mentioned it, I will be having my baby carried by another woman.

just say you don't know how to cook and we will understand ma'am. If your daughter marry someone like me, she go run come meet you tire na. If I love her, I will teach her and she should be able to do better than you in that regard and be a good mother whom her kids would always boast of her delicious meals. It's a pride on the part of a woman/mother which no one can express its magnitude.

My late mother was a greate cook because she fed me with good food and you don't expect me to leave with a woman who can't cook. I used to tell my mum when she was alive that if I happen to marry a woman who can't cook, that means she would have to learn how to do so through her. And I meant it and you know what, no amount of calling honey, chest robbing will change that. My mother cooked for me, my wife should do the same for my kids.

Just goto hostgator.com and pay 6 dollars for a month's hosting then send me your hosting login details and we shall proceed from there. I am not going to ask you for any money o. Just pay for hosting and get back to me.

Idowuogbo: U don say!

I get seven storey building wey me sef build near d red sea.

abi o o o. Me sef I just want to negotiate to buy mahanttan

Idowuogbo:

It is well...

Idowu... E don well.

oyb: meanwhile jona and co keep up with the BS of interested foreign investors. . .

but i cannot find the original article sha

and that english get as e be in some parts

lol...

Billyonaire: My brother, you need to see their faces when they say " Am going to London"; "I traveled abroad"; "Am in 'Lond(o)n'", all with rented accent that disappears the moment you ask them for 2m Naira loan. Its shameful.

Bros... You ask them for loan? I will never do that.

Billyonaire: Sorry about the loss of your mum

Thanks bro... If you talk about pampering? I tell you, it has a negative effect. I will only advice that you make your kids strong enough to stand against life challenges.

My mum pampered me and it had a negative effect on me. Imagine a mothes sending full pot of soup and stew to me at school.

acidtalk: I didn't want to be rude that's why I pretended I didn't see his post.

Does he now want to make this thread an avenue to sell his E-book that he probably knows nothing about?

So sad!

Bro, It took me time to realised that but when I did, I couldn't implement it and I was lock up in school work.

Do you see the thread where a guy is claiming to start a business with N500.

I will be doing something better very soon. But mine is going to be in the area of website design. I will start with less than with just 15k and will build it to nothing less than N500k within 6 months by God's grace. I have never done something like this before but I have carefully created the blueprint with 3 - 5 options.

At least, if such threads like yours and the other one plus the one I shall start towards the ending of next month are put in place, we shall be building and transforming lives. My only pain is how the mod here handle issue which give scammers the chance to conduct all manner nefarious activities.

tewoayo: Yes, u can use it online on any website that accept Master Card but if u need comprehensive information on how to get it done. Send mail to tewoayo2@gmail.com.

Bye.

y should he contact u when he can get all he wants here?

Billyonaire: You are a funny guy. I reserve my comments on the emboldened.

bros... Na forum be this o o o. No reason me o o o. Don't take it personal. Anyway, I have had enough here. It's time to un-follow. C ya!

Idowuogbo: 2sexy... stop it! d bolded sounds like u up here bragging.

idowu... Nice one. Can you see that we can become anything behind pc?
I no get land o o o. But I do have a one story building near Canan land in Ogun State,almost completed b4 death visited my mum. We all have ups and downs and I will advice the Billyonaire to live life apprioprately. If his wife isn't not cooking, definitely his daughter will not cook and if such a daughter marries a man who's mother prepared meals for his father and siblings, just imagine the disaster, imagine the frustration that daughter of his will go through.

Not2bee: @2sexy thnks for the adivce.any idea whr to get this book.it dsn't look like wat u find in regular bkshop

yeah you are right. You may get one at Success Digest Book shop at isolo. Or goto www.sadcnigeria.org and look for their contact. You should be able to get a phone number or an address there. Contact them and let them direct you on how to get to their bookshop.

Konnektions146: yu are begining to sound like hiring a cook is an issue.
personally i can pay 5cooks but i wont, i am single but i make all de food i eat in my house except wen i am at work. de truth is dat people like u are too lazy to see de benefit of making yur food or yur wife cookin for u.
yu can have a wife dat does only cookin once in a week, breakfast is somethin like tea and bread and at most fried egg, it doesnt take more dan 7mins to make.

have u started havin relationships? do u know what it means for yur wife to cook and serve u, as she watches u eat or even eat with u? it makes de marriage stronger, it creates more bond if u love and respect her in de 1st place.

wat is dat difficult thin in cookin? pickin and cuttin de vegetable ?? cos outside dat everyother thin can be done mechanicaly...sorry, i rememeber u dont know how to boil water, so u wont know what i am sayin...

i wonder wen cookin turns into slavery

guy you try. Let him continue to run his hands on phone/pc as if he owns the world. I repeat, if he had a lot of money, please take a look at the website link in his signature just below his comments, why couldn't pay 10 dollar for one year to buy a domain name and another 10 dollar to host it every month? And he is using a free website offered by google and claiming to have a lot money behind phone/PC.

I just paid for a land at VGC last week and I will be building my house soon.

Billyonaire: My friend, I dont know how you were raised but you should not stay there. Stop expecting a woman to wake you up with a breakfast goddamnit....get yourself a cook, is that too much to ask for ? Why dont you pray to have money, than sit here and talk shit in defense of poverty. You are sick.

So, those that don't have a cook are in poverty, right?

Are a business man or you work for a company? I don't want to say anything more

mandy4$:
u gurls will never see the issue get it

abi o o o. I remember when a guy wrote the legendary thread in 2010 and you won't believe that on 4 or 5 ladies commented on that thread. The rest dare not. Why? Because it revealed them nakedly. I beg go to google and search for " how to maintain and control a woman" or let me do it for you - - > https://www.nairaland.com/396243/how-maintain-control-woman read it and you will see real truth.

Billyonaire: People crying here and there as if hiring a cook is too expensive. So disgusting to slave a woman. A woman should cook at will, she shouldn't be expected to wake up every early and doing plate-washing and cooking....so 19th century. I guess many of you need House-wives.

I hear you. But I won't accept your ideals. And mind you, during my childhood days, we had more than two house help.

Idowuogbo: lmao!

2sexy don provoke o! Oya post ur account balance biko!

idowu... I like being realistic and I hate lies. Why would someone want to act as if he is he has it all and therefore proceed to waste it.

Going by history of the filty rich, millionaires and billionaires alike, they don't wast money any how. Warren Buffet who is the 3rd richest has only one house and a car which he bought over 25 years ago.
He does not have a private jet but has an airlime company.

How many mansion does Bill Gates have? How many cars? And here someone claims he has alot of money to waste.

I am currently on eating a delicious plate of rice prepared by my uncle's wife and it has been like this since I arrived PH on Thursday. They have a house help but the wife does the cooking.

jadelyn007: I dnt c y pipo ar makin such big fuse ova lito tins lyk who prepares breakfast.According 2 Keneth Hagin(snr) he has bn d one preparin breakfast weneva he's around 4 d ova 60yrs he's bn married n it doesnt make him less of a man

this is Nigeria and we have our own culture. We are not Americans. Why don't you force a white man to accept your culture?

12 inches!:
Sometimes I don't even want to comment on some foolish posts... Op are u the first working class wife?...Op answer me... My aunt is a medical doctor and medical director of a state hospital and very tight schedule...Her husband travels a lot but comes only on weekend...yet weneva he is around, she ALWAYZ finds time to prepare all his special meals for the 3 days he is around. Is it stressful for her...YES it is...but she does it and has been doing it..and she is over 50. Now that is a WOMAN...Op ow old are u that u start to complain..infact I dnt av more to say b4 I start insulting u...There is culture...There are roles..westernization has made us adjust bt then even in the hollywood films we watch the wife still prepares meals for their family. So u'll rather sit in the sitting room while ur hubby makes u bread and egg everyday...when it's nt that u're sick or pregnant...GROW UP

thank you and God bless you.

Billyonaire: Hahahahahaha, Oh God I pity a lot of you guys who think so low. Its why you people remain eternally broke. Go get that money and dont make a woman a slave. Hire a cook and work hard to meet your needs. Thats the true definition of a real man.

oh I see you have the money and you can't afford to pay 10 dollars to register a domain name for one year and another 10 dollars to host it per month and you are using a FREE website offered by google. .com in your signature or kind of website is FREE!

O boy comot for road make I see better people jor.

I designed and sold www.seoarticlepress.com to an American. So, what are you telling me?
Abeg shift

Idowuogbo: Hmm.....just pray dat money stays forever.The day dat money decides to take a stroll, is d very day dat over pampered woman says her goodbyes. Ur lady is not ur cook? Does that saying apply to ur kids? ur lady cant cook for her own kids 2? lol... u gat jokes!

Idowu... Abeg leave the guy. This one dey find attention. He wants to attract ladies here because he noticed that some other attraction seeker do the same.

In the real world, no sane Nigerian guy would accept that nonsense this attraction seeker is saying. Rubbish!

I can't marry or live with a woman who will not cook my meals and that of my kids. And she should be a good cook at it. My late mother was a good cook and she would spend enough time in the kitchen just to make sure her children get a good food to eat. I on my part is quite skilled at preparing good meals, which I learnt from my mother. How do you expect me to accept less from my wife?

12 inches!:
That your friend is just an exception....acidtalk is abt 90percent right...Just go to unilag and see the way the girls behave like the world revolves around them and observe what is been said...Now fastforward to 6 yrs after graduation...The change in behaviour is so visible....different priorities..PPle say age is jst a number but ow do u feel wen all ur age mates are in school and u u're still writing jamb severally....Same for marriage...how do u feel wen all ur age mates are married and even havin kids and u're still searching...DESPERATE...even if u may try to hide it... I have a sister and all the bfs I've eva known with her had cars....wen she was much younger...Her last bf didn't have a car and she used to pay for some dates sef...She's nw always talkin abt gettin married within 2 yrs....She is late twenties...I think the smartest girls are those that get their acts together btw the ages of 20 and 25..find a good man within that period and marry latest by 28 or 29 or 30...

PS: many ladies in their late twenties are the easiest to bed...Jst form small responsible throw in the marriage card and she's all yours...She will even drive over to ur place to sleep with u jst to keep u....cos she knws she's in extra time.

Thanks ... And let me add by giving a practical example with my own experience.

The girl wrote about above, I mean the one whom I said I gave all and not the one I refused to buy food for, was crazy. She would not even want me to kiss her. She would even talk to me any how and get angry at the slightest chance and would not want to pick my call and at that time, I was a capitalized MUMU. So, I will go on begging for a crime I did not commit. After she got admission into UNIPORT, she begged me to help with 5k and that she would give me back when her mother send her money. For where? I didn't get the money back. I remember even buying her a phone before that time and paid the courier fee, plust SIM card and recharge card and every amounted to 10k and this was before she got admission. When she was in school, she started getting worse. She initially said a guy was after her blah blah. Along the line she even said the guy love her. Really? So what am I( a typical example that girls within that age are confused species).

Time grew old and I lost my mum and went to my villa at Anambra. While returning, I branched off to her house and I saw a text that she sent to the guy and the one the guy sent to her. I asked her what's the meaning of all those messages on her phone and her reply was you know I am a fine young girl(pls take not of that reply, we will refer back to it). Saying baby blah blah blah and the night before that day, she asked me for recharge card which I sent to her and that's what she used to text the guy. I also noticed that she started making night calls with the other guy and preferrred not to talk to me, no matter how many times I called.
On getting home I called the guy and he confirmed it that they were dating but I didn't tell him who I was. This girl became mad and was venting her anger on me. Anyway, she later said she is no longer seeing the guy. Again, she gave me her password to her email to help her do something and again, I saw an email which sent to the guy but she denied it that it was the guy who sent it. Lol can you imagine that? I had just sent her some money at school.

Anyway, it went on till she told me that she had sex with the guy. I was hell mad. She later said she wants to come and see me in Benin, and I let her blah blah and another guy(her ex) took her out by 8pm till 10pm. The guy even wanted her to sleep over at his house and she would have even accepted if not the way I started talking on phone. She didn't even allowed me to touch her anything but I didn't force myself on her either otherwise, that would be a rape, right? Well, I gave her 4500 return to PH.

Fast forward to this day, she's now 25 and the last time she wanted to spend the night with me but I refused... Now she's desperate. Where is that guy she was crazy about?

Not2bee: i have been in stock mrkt for some yrs now.And lost alot.i want to start speculatg.so i want a broker who i can deal wit directly .who can deliever 10% on investmnt per mnth.who is involve in daily tradg.who gets the rit info at the rit tim.pls i already hav 3 stockbrokg firm i am registerd wit.dn't try to mrkt ur own.i know all the bullshit they do.i want to speculate or better put make make retun.will give u a try of 1m as start

I only have one word for you... Be CAREFUL!
You think a broker will make you money? Dey dia! Go find the meaning of a broker. How much you know about the stock exchange is your only friend here.
Get this book:"buffetology" and you will tank me later. It's written by the daughter in law of the world's greatest investor, Warren Buffet, a wizard in stock market/exchange. People pay him as much as 1 million us dollars just to have dinner and ask him questions. And the book reveals how Warren Buffet trade stocks.

Done and out!

pendo89: The above stereotypes are what make people blunder big time

I hate approaching anybody with a fixed mindset cz I will have this negative view and fail to see or bring out the best in them.

I know many under 25 yr old responsible girls.Why do people assume that a girl must sleep with 99 men before she settles down? Says who? Is that a statistic?

Don't u guys have responsible sisters among you? Do your young sisters sleep around with anything in trouser? what is your responsibility over them? sorry am old fashioned here. pardon me.

Some people mature and become responsible early in life based on their upbringing,environment and the crowd.And they remain fun and morally sober.

So these generalisations as much as we enjoy cheering them on, are not very true cz they are based on what 'we have encountered' not what we have not.

I will like to say thank you for the perception you have reflected but I will like to remind you that we live in a wicked world today, a world where moral degradation is the order of the and as such, morally upright people are almost going into extinction.

I also want you to know that the comments given by various folks does not mean hatred on the female folks but should give you a practical view of the world we live in today. And mind you, I fall into this category. My experiences hasn't been good with them and I swear to you, I have never been bad to anyone. A nairaland member once said I am alway whinning, another said me and my girls wahala but I believe this thread reveals a lot. I am proud of who I am and I know that my kind is hard to come by so, I decided to treat them just the way they want. I don't initiate the problems,they do. So, when it start, I don't waste time but keep my distance. There's one whom I gave my all back then, but she chose fun over love and through my time with her, I gave her money without sex. Where in the world can you easily get that today? How many guys would date a girl today, give her money without seeing her pants?

It got so bad that I had to let her go. I also realised that being nice to most of these girls isn't worth it at all. And so, I have drastically reduced the things my heart naturally love to do when dating a girl, that is, buying stuff without her asking. I had to start feeding my stomach alone. These days, I would prefer to walk into a fast food joint or booker alone and eat to my satisfaction than buy for girl, even though I know she's hungry. I have done it countless times and the reward has been great. I did it to girl I was dating and I knew she was very hungry but pretended as if I didn't know even though she talked about it. I took a bike after seeing her off to her house and stopped at a booker to eat my turkey with eba and egusi and settled everything with a cold malt. Am I wicked? Lol! I had to do that when on two occasion that girl abuse the right I gave her and I have never gave her anything ever since. Infact, I stopped calling her and faced other things. Silly! After four months, she started calling me. I called her once or twice and it took another four months again and started calling me again.

It is when you stop giving attention that they will start running after you. Like the girl I describe above and a few others I met after her. It's pathetic, but that is the world we live in today.