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angiemartinez:
This is what you get when you take over the full responsibility of a man forgetting all that God created us to be is help meet.

My advice, forget emotions for now, cross your mind and focus on yourself.
When he wakes up and says wify no food, jokingly tell him that you just ate the last food cos baby gat to stay healthy. When hunger deal with am 2 times him go enter street hussle by force.

Kondomatic:
He is caring, supportive, does chores etc right?


Just forget who has the balls or Vgay, you're the husband and he's the wife so continue being the head of the home.

ThePeacemaker:
Obo wunmi means

I want kitty cat

lezz:
I couldn't have explained it better.

mizcyn:
it's funny though,I thought guys usually say it's easier to sleep with a girl when she is emotionally down as for being happy we know that's when a woman's libido is at its peak.the thing is she won't want to settle for just any one to get a release

mizcyn:
I don't think women are naturally monogamous, they just don't loose their head in the heat of passion. A woman can be attracted to another man even if she is married, I'm talking sexual. She can mentally strip the guy to underneath his boxers .the only thing is she may do it in her head and not jump on him but the desire to is there. She just wants to know how it will be with the guy, explore positions, make him do unimaginable things to her , she will do this and even have sex with him mentally while keeping an aloof expression

queenfav:
lol,pls warri babes are very cute,hardworking and ((loyal)) ..

kITATITA:
Abeg na which Warri you dey talk about?

Zendinho:
Hard to get ma foot....
Its unfortunate dat u r blindfolded wt such flimsy, unsubstantiated, erroneous, insignificant, uncivilised, weak n uncircumcised lies...
In Iyanya's voice..."ekaette de cum 4 d money...she cum for d money o...money o money....."

Chillinmasoul:
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Friendships help define us. Do you know? Our friends can influence our choices – how we live, where we live, how we eat, what we eat, what we buy and a whole lot of others.

Friendships doesn’t remain the same, it grows and changes as people come and grow.
Friendships need their own kind of water and soil to grow healthy and strong.


[size=16pt]The following are 23 things to keep in mind to facilitate building stronger and healthier friendships.[/size]

Firstly choose friends wisely.
Picking who your friends are/is basically have a long way to go in your life, this is the first step one should take before thinking about how he/she could build stronger and healthier friendship. You know how much a friend is of influence in your life. Selecting the right ones should do you more good than harm. You do not have to be everyone’s friend. Choose to be friends with people who build you up, not tear you down. Choose friends who inspire you and welcome you, not alienate and insult you. You can’t choose the family you are born into, but you can choose your friends.

Give them room to their own decisions.
Don’t wiggle your way into every aspect of your friend’s life, telling them how to be the star of their own show. Give them room to process things and make their own decisions.

Always listen to other’s opinions.
Listen closely to what the other person is saying. Let that person know that you hear them. Ask clarifying questions. Summarize what you’ve heard. Though helpful, it does not always have to be through words. Eye contact and body language are also important ways of showing someone you are listening.

Be Yourself.
Just be yourself. Be honest. Be original. Be authentic. Don’t shortchange yourself by denying your beliefs, values, and point of view, for the sake of fitting in. You won’t be doing anyone any favors neither does it help to build stronger and healthier friendship.

Accept your friends for who they are.
On your search for friends who can accept your authentic self, keep in mind – other people are looking for the same thing. We all want people who love us for who we are.

Always respect their choices.
One thing i’ve learnt thats helps to build stronger and healthier friendship is to always respecting others opinions. People are entitled to their choice and if your friend decides to make a move when you think standing still is the right thing to do, let them do their thing. If you’ve given your advice and your friend sees things differently, step aside. What your friend is doing might be right for their life but not yours.

Openly and honest communication.
Be open and very unbaised in your mood of communication. Communicate with your friend in a honest manner, don’t remove and don’t add, just a simple honest and open communication. Don’t be afraid to let people know what you need. Share what is necessary, but don’t dominate conversation. When a problem arises, work through it together.

You want a perfect friend? Yes, you have to be a perfect friend.
Be the kind of friend you want others to be for you. You want friends who are honest, kind, compassionate, fair, not judgmental, authentic, and intelligent. Be that person first and you’ll be more likely to attract that kind of friend into your life.

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Be empathetic.
Trying to understand things from your friend’s point of view can help you communicate and understand each other better, you should be capable of sensing the emotion of others, this will really help build stronger and healthier friendship.

Respond carefully.
Think before you speak or Speak after thinking – especially if you are angry. Sometimes, taking a moment to think about what you say before you start blurting things out will spare hurt feelings and bruised pride. Choose your words wisely.

Give Compliments/Credits.
Show love for your friends by complimenting them on their good qualities or things they do well. Has a friend done something you admire them for? Let them know instantly!

Continue Reading “[size=15pt]How to Build Stronger and Healthier Friendship – Part II (Contd)[/size]“


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LordOfTheWeed:
Name: Sodiq Isaac A.K.A Area Zicko

Age: 20+

Occupation: Student + Architect

Are you single, dating or married: Single

Those u like on Romance Section: Kingtom, Thesonofmark and Laveda

Those u dislike on Romance section: None.. .. ..

Those u find annoying: None.. .. ..

Those u can't help but read their posts(u look forward to what they have to say): Ishilove, Sonofananimal and Tosyne2much

Those you follow and wish follows you back: I'm following no one.. .. ..

Why do you follow the people you follow: I said I'm following no one!!!! Are you deaf??

NLer that has sent u the most PMs: Do i really need to publicize that

How many PMs do you get on average in a day: At least 1 in every month

Romancelander(s) that u ignore or try hard to avoid quoting: No one.. .. ..

Which Romancelander is fake: That doesn't concern me in anyway, if you like, be fake.. If you like, be orijinal.. And if you like be orijinally fake, that's your cup of brukutu.. .. ..

Romancelander(s) you would have a one night stand with if given the chance but won't date: I can only fvck people i see, not people i don't know nothing about.. .. ..

Romancelander you can date or have a crush on: None.. .. ..

why did u choose him/her above?? (what attracted you to him/her): -

Your favorite Romancelander(s): Joygalore, Halfrica(I know you're still keeping grudges with me babe, but you're still one of my favs ) and ggrin

Your favorite mod: Obinoscopy

Funniest Romancelander(s):Buygala (that dude is intelligently funny)

Romancelander/NLer with the best threads: Tosyne2much and wristbangle

Romancelander(s) diary you stalk: 5minmadness

Romancelander(s) you used to get along with, but don't anymore. Reason(s) why?: Aminat508, i don't know the reason why

Which Nairalander(s) has a personality that suits/ quite similar to yours: Lordhugo and any moniker with the word "weed", trust me, we all gat something in common

NLer(s) u would love to give a dirty slap to in real life: Cutehector!!!

NLer(s) you would go second and first base with: -

NLer(S) you keep as a friend offline or you've met in real life: None.. .. ..

NLer(S) you consider smart: STFUareyougod

NL member that tries too hard: -

NLer(s) you find intriguing: Ipledge10 aka Iporn

What phrases, insults, styles have you learnt from another NLer: fothermocker

Which NLer(s) did u learn the above from: The idiot that created this thread

Who do u often disagree with on Romance Section: None.. .. ..

Romancelander that you secretly wish you can both get to know each other: None.. .. ..

Who do u often agree with: None.. .. ..

Who do u consider sexy (opposite sex): None.. .. ..

Who do u consider ugly(opposite sex): None.. .. ..

Who is Romance section Mr/Ms. nice guy: I no know

Who is Romance section Mr/Ms Mean guy/girl(one who takes things too serious): I no know

Who is Romance section Mr/Ms. douchebag: None.. .. ..

freecocoa:
Happy new year to you too.

So you are still on NL, you never old reach to leave?

What of your brother 5minsmadness?

iamlimitless:
Can you stop a man from cheating? – Joy Ehonwa

Last week, I was at the pharmacy with a friend who, like me, recently lost a bit of weight. Our pharmacist was commending us, and tacked on something along the lines of “Una no wan gree at all o, una no want make oga look outside.”
Growing up, I knew a lovely lady whom everyone adored. She was beautiful, the kind of beautiful that made people say God created her on a Sunday. Tall, shapely, with creamy skin that glowed, she was also intelligent, classy, and brilliant at her craft. She was the kind of woman I thought no man could ever have reason to cheat on. Her death came as a shock, and her husband sat on the floor surrounded by her photos and bawled like a baby, his head cradled in his hands. When he remarried soon after and I learnt that his new wife had been his side chick, everything I thought I knew about cheating turned to vapour.
Every time someone insinuated that a man’s cheating had something to do with the way his wife looked or did not look, my mouth curled into a yinmu. If Uncle could cheat on Aunty, IT Girl that she was, then what are we saying? My instinctive reaction to the kind of statement my pharmacist made is something like “Na God o, no amount of effort can keep a straying man o, man wey go cheat, go still cheat.”
I mean, does anyone remember when Jesse James cheated on Sandra Bullock? Or how Michael Douglas got cancer of the mouth from eating kitty that did not belong to his pretty wife Catherine Zeta-Jones?
However, on this day, I didn’t say that. Why? I had coincidentally been wondering if perhaps there are men who would not have strayed if their wives had done certain things. Yes, there are men who will stray no matter what, but is this the answer we must fling in the face of anyone who suggests that a woman make some kind of effort to “keep” her man? Isn’t there some kind of balance? For instance, anyone who is honest will admit that a wife whose emotional or sexual needs are chronically neglected is vulnerable to temptation, regardless of how fine her man is. Doesn’t the same apply for men?
If he needs to talk and his wife won’t listen to him, or he has sexual needs his wife won’t meet, or she lets herself go and becomes unattractive, isn’t it the same thing?[s] None of these things are excuses to cheat, really,[/s] and none of them justify infidelity, but what if the reality is that they [size=16pt]predispose[/size] to adultery? [/b]And what if, that being the case, there are actually some things you can do to affair-proof your marriage? [b]Would you be open to it? Would you do it proudly without feeling ashamed of making the effort?
We all know what a shameful thing it is these days to be caught trying to “keep” a man. Yet I believe that outside of the context of chauvinism, we need to keep each other, husbands and wives. We can’t just take wedding vows and then expect them to stay with us, period.
So, yes, you may do heaven and earth for a man, and literally bend over backwards to please him (this is not a real sex position please, do not try this at home!) and still have him cheat on you with someone else. And there are also men who are terribly unfulfilled in their marriages and yet they do not seek satisfaction of any kind elsewhere. These people really do exist. If a man is going to cheat, he’s going to, but what about the one who never planned to?
Building the kind of marriage where neither partner is vulnerable to temptation involves a huge investment of time and emotional capital. It also involves two people who want to honour their vows and stay faithful. Marriage is one hell of a needy potted plant. Forget to water it and give it sunlight and it starts to die. Friends, I say, feel free to do whatever it takes to make your plant bloom and flourish. There’s no shame in that.

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ifyalways:
Why not?

Does a real man, a good dad need "allowance or permission" in the first place?

That term applies to sp3rm donors, rent-a-dyke men and irresponsible baby daddies, IMO.

freecocoa:
Why don't you just do the honours instead, Abi aren't you one of the experts on vagina matters?

freecocoa:
You must think you are referring to a "village girl"

Mschew.

freecocoa:
Yea right, like alum is the only way to go, I don't even believe the vagina slacks to the point that it becomes 'no longer sweet' especially from too much sêx like I already said.

I don't even understand this texture talk, how does sêx affect the texture of one's vagina? I seriously want to know, does an originally smooth sirfaced vagina become rough or what excatly?

Okay, let's agree that many steady partners don't use condoms but how does sperm affect anything is what I asked?

I don't have a peenis alright but you don't know that I don't have a girl in my bed as I type.

Why should I be with a jew man? I'm not anywhere near being a jew girl.