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cococandy:
God forbid any man I know make this comment in real life. I'd do more than call him a fool. I'll disown him.

I don't frolick with ediots raised by ediots.

If your father wasn't resetting your mother with one or two slaps for breakfast every morning, you wouldn't have come out with that bump on your head where your brain is meant to be.

Thanks for confirming that you insult any man that comes your way, I'm sure your father must be very proud

cococandy:
You know you're a fool don't you?

A slap or two as if you're talking about some littling who's your slave. What right do you have to slap your fellow human being? Would a slap or two fix you when you misbehave? Or you think you can't annoy your wife some day. Does she have the right to slap you to reset you?

All these stupid boys who have no respect for women.

You see why I said some of you deserve a slap or two? I'm sure this is how you call your boyfriend, husband, brother or father a fool too so I'm not surprised!

Lucasbalo:
I stand by my point. There is no excuse for violence. I rather walk away than to get violent and end up in jail or worse, dead. Hope you get my gist.

I understand and you are entitled to your opinion, not everyone would be lucky enough to walk away!

uzolexis:
At the bolded,some People behave like animals, it has nothing to do with the gender of the person, some men behave like animals too, it goes both ways. If your partner always provokes you, the best solution is too quit the relationship. You think hitting a woman makes you less of a womanliness You actually become a womanliness when you hit a woman cos it shows you lack self control but the strength of a man is when he can control himself.

I agree not just women, some humans behave like animals! You are still getting me wrong, violence will not solve most marital issues but to say there are no reasons a man should ever hit his wife is to live in denial. The same goes for women towards their man in a moment of rage. Take a look at advanced societies where a woman can hit a man and the woman is celebrated while the man is laughed at but when a man does the same he is demonized and the woman shown sympathy, this single behavior has resulted in men becoming inferior as the years went by, in an attempt to protect women, the laws have actually castrated men. This has resulted in men watching on for years and years until one day just snapping and doing the unthinkable. This is what I meant by men turning into p*ssies! In the Nigerian context we don't have such a problem, men are still in control and even though some men abuse this control, the majority of men still cherish their wives and rarely get violent with her but to say a situation would never arise where a slap or two is dished out from the husband or even the wife is just plain ridiculous! I've given you examples, this is real life and not a fairy tale, shit happens in marriages and relationships, there's a clear difference between an abusive/violent spouse and a random act of aggression coming from one's spouse!

Lucasbalo:
How many American women have you known or dated to say Nigerian women behave better. Women are the same all over the world. There is no excuse to beating a woman. Been married for over 20 years and never touch my wife. Violence is not the answer to marital problems.

I've dated over 5 American women, I have uncles, cousins and brothers that have dated American women, I also have the experiences from friends, colleagues and neighbors regarding American women. Women are not the same all over the world, society and culture influences the way most people behave! Now congratulations on being married for 20 years without any violence but most people are not as lucky as you, no one is saying violence is the answer but to pretend as if there are no situations that would warrant couples to get aggressive towards each other is to continue living in El-dorado!

forgiveness:
Yes, anyone can dress like Fula but not everyone looks like Fula. Their facial symmetric said it all.

Don't try to defend the undefendable. They are herdsmen and that's all.

Boko Haram are no only thieves but also murderers and that's the difference.

You live with Fula but me........

I can't help but laugh, it's like saying since all Chinese people look alike they all belong to the same region. I won't argue with you further!

uzolexis:
I have been in an abusive relationship before so i am talking from experience. Yes, you should walk away no matter what, violence is NEVER the answer, there are much more suitable ways of handling these issues.

And I've also dated a girl that would curse at me and throw things at me at the slightest provocation, the last straw was when she smashed my car's windscreen. Most guys have a plan not to ever hit a woman until they are left with no choice. We all like to behave like Westerners and be all civil but some women are animals and for such women no amount of dialogue will do! Why do you think the average Nigerian women is better behaved than their American equals? Nigerian men refuse to be p*ssies!

forgiveness:
My friend, i am not an average Nigeria that is ignorant about the physical structures of the major tribes in Nigeria. So, i know a fula when i see one and i am telling you that the ones i saw were fula boys not Kanuri(Boko Haram) or Hausa. Besides some were wearing their traditional attires and towards the direction they made their escape was Namas (cows).

My friend I not only have friends that are Fulanis, I also have families living in Fulani dominated areas. Anyone can dress like a Fulani and if you think for a minute there's a convincing way to differentiate between herdsmen and Boko Haram then I'd like to smoke what you are smoking!

uzolexis:
The bolded is wrong, you should NEVER hit your spouse whether it's a slap or two or with a plank, it is WRONG.

Everyone has a plan, until they get hit in the jaw----Mike Tyson

The quote above explains why the word never should not be used! I've seen many advocates with the same philosophy as yourself end up eating their words when they met a spouse or girl/boyfriend much more aggressive!

E.g- For a man, his wife held him by the neck and refused to let go of his shirt in the middle of the street, such a man would he continue to bear the disgrace or would he become aggressive?

E.g- A wife slapped her mother-in-law in the presence of her husband, would such a man ask his mother to turn the other cheek or would he use the law of Moses?

E.g- A man after working 10plus hours, comes home to find out his kids were left alone all day and are starving, the wife comes back around 11pm sweaty and hair messed up, the human nature of the man would cause him to do what?

E.g- A man brought another woman onto his matrimonial bed, the wife caught them. Would the wife get aggressive or just walk away?

E.g- A man left home for a trip of 2 days and didn't bother to call or come back for 2 months, wife received a call from a friend that she saw her husband at one hotel not too far, wife gets to the hotel and finds husband with a mistress. Such a wife should walk away right?

There's always 3 sides to a story. Her side, his side and the truth! I've learned that issues of domestic violence are rarely black and white but due to the nature of men(Superior strength), we should learn to walk away. Now don't get me wrong, a slap or two would fix most women but when it comes to the point of spilling blood and head injuries, it's just not worth it! I've always said this, it's much more easier to get a divorce than to stick with a woman that gives you high blood pressure!

forgiveness:
So, I no know how herdsmen look like again ko?

How much is AK47 and how much is one Nama(cow)?

E bi like say you think those boys are poor.

Bros, i repeat " I saw herdsmen with 3 AK47...".

I'm not debating what you thought you saw, I'm telling you those are Boko Haram in disguise! A typical Nigerian cannot tell the difference between herdsmen, an a.boki and boko haram, to an average Nigerian they are all the same so it's easy to disguise!

stzy:
this is a response u expect from ur religious leaders.... There are channels to follow to return our loots stashed in UK... For a democratic president thisis very very low of him.... This particular reaction lacks any diplomacy n very informal... There was a response some1 wrote above... That is what u expect from a bureaucrat... I'll only say his advisers failed, even the chief of staff sef failed him here... All this guys are not workiing or they told him but he wouldn't listen

You're so full of sh*t! Almost everyone demanded an apology from Cameron but the president gave a much better option which not only puts the British government in its place but shows he's a man of credibility. Apology is not needed, what matters most are the stolen assets and it's prompt return. This is the statement of a president who cares about the nation instead of being politically correct!

forgiveness:
Bros, i will not lie to... I saw herdsmen when they tried to rob hummer buses with AK47(3 of them) along Benin - Ore express road before they were repelled by the police on patrol 2 years ago.

I was told before then by victims robbed by the herdsmen on that road but i didn't really believe until i saw it that day with my two koko koro eyes. The police spared their lives by not shooting at them when they took to their heels on sighting the police.

They are not herdsmen, an average herdsmen does not have the money to purchase an AK47!

This is a difficult story with no easy answer. Unfortunately this is Nigeria where the police and detectives are incompetent and the man is presumably guilty until proven innocent. Most people asking why did he run are right to ask! If the man did not have any hidden agenda, the first response on seeing policemen at your house would be to become curious and find out why they were there! By running it shows guilt, when you mix that with a previous presumption of guilt by law enforcement, you get a murder case!

Only fools would believe they are actually herdsmen. Herdsmen don't go around carrying AK47 and other assault rifles, herdsmen value their cows more than anything, they won't leave their cows behind and run away. Isn't it a coincidence that Boko Haram attacks are suddenly became non-existent when herdsmen attacks began? Anyways whether it's herdsmen or Boko Haram they should be dealt with by all means necessary!

Forex trading is not a fraud/scam, if it were then it wouldn't exist in advanced countries! Now listen, most Nigerians think they can go for tutorial 3 weeks to 3 months and become experts in Forex, this is a very stupid idea! Even the experts still make a loss at some point but the key is to ensure your winnings outweighs your losses by a ratio of at least 2:1. I've been trading Forex since 2008 and I still don't consider myself as an expert. While in 9ja, I traded with a measly $500, needless to say I lost it very quickly. I didn't start making a profit till I invested more in myself, I traveled out and God exposed me to financial markets way beyond Forex, I started doing well and ultimately traded everything from Forex to Oil and other commodities. I now have a profit to loss margin of 3.25 to 1 and this has net me a total profit of over 14,000 dollars from a 3000 dollar investment. What many of the critics failed to realize is that you need a very fast and stable internet connection and computer device to trade Forex. You must also have technical and analytical skills and bee able to react to news spontaneously! Forex is not for everyone and is definitely not a get rich quick scheme, do not use your feeding money to trade Forex! If you are not willing to lose all your money, DO NOT TRADE FOREX!!!!!

lezz:
Let me start with your emboldened words.

*Analphabetismus is German for illiteracy.

* Navel-gazing is a self-conceited and self-absorbed idiøt of whom you're the chief!

* Clamour is to utter or proclaim insistently

* A doofus is one with poor judgement. You've exemplified that here.

* scatterbrained person is one without discretion.

* half-wit is same as a doofus, a dimwit.

Listen close, we're world's apart .

Nairaland is the only excuse I cross path with a mongoloid with a chronic dyslexia like you.

You have once again displayed your epileptic literary prosody in front of the world's billboard: nairaland.

Shoo off now!!!



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See how slow-witted you are!!! You've edited your post just before my reply hit the servers!!!

But I did a screengrab!!!

Hate me!!!

Another show of pure stupidity! Do you think it's by fancy words or calling people all sorts of names? My guy you are insignificant to my daily pursuits and just a speck of dust in the path I've forged over the years See how easy it is to use simple yet damaging words? I don't need words of German origin or words written contextually incorrect to show intelligence! Now listen I'm sure you are used to overwhelming people here on Nairaland with your insults but this guy here can never be fazed by the likes of you. Just so you know how insignificant you are, I've attached some of your quotes here on Nairaland which shows your repetitive and obsessive impulse to reign insults on anyone who challenges you, my friend stop being an e-tout and get a life:

lezz:
She wants me to fück every last vestige of Muslim tenets off her soul but she doesn't know how to express it.

She stalks me from thread to thread with 9 different monikers.

How do I start to UnCloth a hijab-wearing nanny-goat with the stench of a blocked gutter?

She doesn't shave. Her pussay hair has trailed her vagina corridors to her anus.

She washes only her face leaving her private parts with the stench of a rotting fish.

lezz:
Your degenerate father walked through life unable to pay his dues that's why you are born with a chronic mental disorder , the IQ of a 7year old and extreem emotional mismanagement with the rage of swindled prostitutë

Recalcitrant _idiot, go tell your _retarded father you found someone online who made him look like the derisory Buffoon he is for producing a nanny-goat whose self-loathing can't make her wear her sanitary pad properly.



Transudatory hag.

lezz:
you're suffering from national identity crisis which is evident in your raging posts.

You're one of those little minded people who believes she knows more than everyone.

You lack polish and character and come off as bitter and vengeful. Mugu american wannabe.

You're a disgrace. A self-righteous slut.

lezz:
Dear son of [b]analphabetismus, why do you backtrack when your folly and[b] nescience [/b]stare you in the face?

Navel-gazing quack of interrupted education!!!

Isn't what I emboldened in your post what I have been saying? The police take orders from central command. The chain of command is unbroken!!! Wasn't it why the governors are clamouring for state police?

You boneheaded doofus. Who ever mentioned efficacy or efficiency in running the police force!!! Scatterbrained half-wit!!!

Ode, learn this today and chalk it down somewhere.

The Nigeria police runs a central chain of command.

And like I said in my original post: "The police do NOT NECESSARILY TAKE ORDERS FROM THE STATE GOVERNORS DURING CLASHES"

Is this not what you've been going round trying to relay?

Your stupidity needs professional management.

Olodo lecturer!!!

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This is why I don't argue with kids on Nairaland, you even went out of your way to write down words you do not know the meaning of, kudos! Anyways you are entitled to write jargons on social media and exhibit your ignorance/stupidity any way you feel like, it is your right my friend it is your right

lezz:
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Mister, SHUT UP!!!! What's the correlation between other security outfit and the police here?

I'm talking about the structural composition of the Nigeria police system.

A state commissioner of police will take orders from the IG before the governor of his state.

Matter of fucking fact, commissioners of police aren't directly under their governors. Fact!!!

The idea of weak governor and strong governor is unknown to bureaucracy and law.

Blame it on the weak structure of the federalism we practice. But the truth is the NIGERIA police is a single unit of command and it doesn't branch off to the governor's prerogative.

Bureaucracy and law? Your ignorance is almost amusing! I'm not arguing with you that the police and other armed forces are controlled by the Federal government but what I argue with is your believe that a State Governor does not have a say in the efficiency of the police or security forces in his or her state. This is 9ja and law is often misinterpreted so I can excuse your ignorance but if you paid much more attention to history than laws, you would clearly see evidence of my dispute:

E.g- Tinubu vs OBJ
Ameachi vs Jonathan
Fashola vs Jonathan

Once again I'm not arguing with you on the fact that the Federal government controls the police, I'm arguing on the extent of that control. You make it seem like Buhari can just order the police to assassinate any State Governor at his will!!!!!!!!

lezz:
I get your point on land statutes, bro. An oversight. And you're still very wrong because you speak in absolutism in that statute which is so wrong.

On the other part of the bolded, you're emboldened by ignorance!!!

But I stand on fact that the Nigeria police is a central command system and DO NOT NECESSARY TAKE ORDERS from the state governor!

So you'll unlearn your false education there!

Another misstatement! Governor pass Governor, we have strong Governors and weak ones, some are able to command their security forces including the police and others just yield to the command of the Federal government. In Lagos alone there are security forces outside of the police that are directed by the Governor, this is why I said your initial statement showed ignorance. You don't have to believe me, do your research!

lezz:
The President's call is just an inadvertent admission of cluelessness.

Land statutes gives ownership to the federal government.

In the event of conflict or clash, police commissioners do not ready take orders from governors without getting clearance from the centre.

And Buhari says governors should offer solution to the crisis with hersldmen who carry sophisticated weapons around.

Sickening in its dumbness!!!

Go back to school as you obviously don't know what you are talking about!

As much as I like Buhari and his tactics, I'm afraid if things continue like this he would eventually lose all the support he gained from the SW and other non Northern areas. Sometimes change must be done gradually then at times it must be done fast. Nigerians demand the type of change witnessed in Lagos under Fashola, though it wasn't perfect but even the critics could not ignore the change!

I don't know whether to laugh or give you an e-slap! There are two things confirmed by your post.

1: That most people on Nairaland especially the popular/controversial ones are kids mainly under 21.

2: That most university students are clueless!


For sake of humanity , I'll only discuss point #2.

See you mentioned all the reasons why a GPA of 0.7 is bad but I don't see you accepting the blame. As long as you keep thinking you are in school to please your father or family, you'll never be able to fulfill your true potential. Now listen up kid, a semester/term is not enough to kill your dreams. What matters most from here on now is that you make a conscious decision to remove all distractions from your life including limiting social media. Be ready to lose that popularity status on Nairaland so you might gain the popularity among your peers. At your age, you shouldn't have any problem assimilating, so I suggest you join study groups and find a very strong tutor. Be ready to spend some money and dedicate long hours towards your study and if you happen to unfortunately come across a sadist lecturer or two then be ready to do whatever it takes to pass that course including fetching water, buying lunch and or settling him/her. My final advice to you is learn to accept failure and learn from it. The most successful people in the history of the world so far failed many times, some are even dropouts, so keep ya' head up!

University education is a scam that many are still falling prey! An average Nigerian spends over 800,000 Naira to get a university education, while in the USA they spend an average of over 10 million and there's still unemployment, most of them graduate with student loans they'll never be able to pay off and a life of regrets. The way forward is to train yourself or your child to be a doer instead of just a thinker. In the Nigerian context, there'll never be enough jobs to cater for all the graduates so the best thing to do is to make a path for yourself where there is none! That 800k if invested wisely can create a source of income much more valuable than the rewards of a university education in Nigeria, now now don't get me wrong, education is a positive but we must move away from the mentality that after 4 to 6 years of university education there's a job out there waiting for us. Sometimes we must make our own jobs, at times we must be our own boss and create our own industries. A secondary school graduate that learns how to sow and start his or her own tailoring business with 800k or a secondary graduate with the same amount who started a block and cement business would soon realize that the profits from those businesses is enough to send him/herself to school while maintaining a stable income. This is the ugly truth about the Nigerian educational and economical system, the average graduate will not make over 800k in 10 years without some unethical practices, it's sad but it's the truth. For such a graduate when will mummy and daddy start eating the fruit of their labor?

Listen young man, unless she goes to an herbalist or some other spiritualist her empty curses won't have any effect on you but anything bad that happens to you from now on will lead you to believe it was from her instead of just realizing it's your guilty conscience! Now listen, as far as I'm concerned you both have sinned and neither one is innocent, people fall in and out of love, it's not a crime. She was a willing participant in the abortions and you both wasted each others time, instead of worrying about her curses you should be worrying about her sending assassins to you or finishing you off herself. So my guy, what is done is done. No need to cry over spilled beans. You need to act now, sorry to say but your pastor is incompetent, what sort of advice did he give you? Go back to her and convince her to reverse the curse? Pure nonsense! My guy get closer to God or fortify yourself traditionally but don't just sit back and expect Nairalanders to help you out.....now f*ck off

Isn't it ironic people condemn Fulani herdsmen and Boko Haram and yet celebrate this piece of sh*t known as Niger Delta Avengers. The way I see it they are all terrorists and should be dealt with the same way! For almost 6 years their brother was the top man in this country, he did not meet their demands, what da f*ck makes them think a Northerner and a retired army general would ever negotiate with them? Bunch of jokers!

The guy never looked like a cocaine addict for if he was, he would have shown withdrawal symptoms over the past few days such as scratching himself constantly, banging his head on the wall, constant shaking and sweating etc. Furthermore, looking at the tests performed there's no way he's done cocaine in the last month since a chronic user builds up tolerance level and is much harder for such a person to pass routine urine test. What I believe here is that this guy lived a reckless lifestyle but was definitely not a chronic drug user, at the end of the day he only has himself to blame for marrying someone with zero compatibility!

I now understand why we have some of the most daft individuals ever to come out of Nigeria right here on Nairaland! The country is suffering from one calamity to another and some blockheads seem more concerned about asset declaration, are you people kidding me? No wonder the president didn't respond, from certificate to asset declaration when will the madness end? This man should be working faster on turning things around and not entertaining ridiculous assertions like this!

de1de1SnrAd:
No doubt about it you are a landlord and you are pinched by this post. Well, point you truly made that you build house as a form of business. It"s just that you definitely forgot to mention that it is most JUST that you consider a long time and short time businesses - whereas people like you argue that the mobile telecommunications companies made their profit within the shortest period of time of the commencement of business in Nigeria. you go ahead to call them names: cheats! thieves! and you are quick to add that the government is shortchanging the citizen. By your action, what do we call you, Mr. Landlord?

The likes of you inherit the so called properties and become worst than the dead real owner. So I asked, did you purchase building materials at the rate it is sold at present for a house built before you were born. My advice for you is that you should remember to take along with you to your grave the house rent receipt and the agreement which always form your reasons for sending a tenant out to take in another

You have no basis to argue on,for what you wrote above is pure trash! Even if a landlord inherited a house, he or she still has every right to choose the type of tenant and the price of rent each year. If you read carefully what you commented on,you would notice some of the points which tags landlords who locks tenants door and those who do not maintain their house as irresponsible! As long as a landlord behaves professionally and does the necessary maintenance, I see no reason why tenants would frown at rent increases. It's either you pay or pack out!!! From your frustrations it is clear you've never built a thing in your life, so you do not know the effort and costs associated with building a house, my advice to you is to pray to God and work harder, maybe one day you too can become a landlord!

frainc:
is like this is what you do to your tenants,

When my ceiling fell (due to the fake slate he use) I was told by my landlord to fix it or leave it

Generally, many of Lagos landlord are wicked

Stop generalizing, it's not only particular to Lagos it can happen in any state. Like I said in my post,it's only the irresponsible ones that would not want to maintain or keep their house in good condition.

Lock your door with Padlock: No responsible landlord will padlock your door before rent is due, it's only thugs that would engage in such an act!

Leech: Again a landlord worth anything would not borrow from tenants, familiarity breeds contempt!

Hike rents: Do you know how much it costs to build a house? If the landlord increases rent then it is justified. You keep forgetting people rent out their houses to make profit not to make friends!

Greed: I'm glad you said some because if someone can struggle to gather enough money to build a house, I'm sure such a person would want to maintain it to the best of his/her abilities!

Intrude: You have every rights to your privacy but there are certain instances where a landlord can intrude. For example: smoking Indian hemp, domestic violence, filth and so on.

Out of many nonsense comes some sense! The senator could be faulted for not fully understanding the plight of the people in the Southern region but he does give many a perspective to why these people might be killing. Fulanis are largely uneducated, most are nomadic in nature and I agree they might fight back if threatened but not with AK47, not with fire bombs. I still maintain these people are not ordinary herdsmen but Boko Haram in disguise! I agree with many people here, it's high time the citizens arm themselves and defend their land. Let's forget about the foolish government and security forces, let's bring back the vigilante groups and arm them, this is the only solution to stopping Boko Haram from creeping further into the South!