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If only all these companies and entities showed just a little compassion for the poor as they are showing for the bread seller maybe Nigeria wouldn't be as f*cked up as it is now

This is perhaps the dumbest critic I've heard of in years, in this age of insecurity and terrorist attacks! Since when did the UK and Nigeria became equals? Do we have the same economic blueprints? Same population? Same economic difficulties? Cameron flew commercial because he was making a political statement, if you asked any security operative or senior intelligence officer, they would tell you it was a very foolish decision! Perhaps Mr. Reno should compile a list of world leaders who flew commercial and the ones flying via private jet, this way we can see whether Buhari is the crazy one or Cameron!

toludadon:
OP doesn't intend to say that the babe approaches a guy and tells him I love you first, if I get him right, he is referring to moments things starts building and the lady in question starts expressing herself emotionally

If what you just wrote is the true intentions of the OP then I agree. Females tend to overexpress themselves when they feel they are in a relationship.

GeniusDavid:
Although it ain't popular, it happens bro! especially when dude refuses to make first move. Some of them do it stylishly "Ah, You eh, I just love ur personality, Wow do u have a Gf? she must be lucky etc." they just find a reason to cover-up! 9ja babes would NEVER go direct.

What you are saying is completely different from what OP was referring to, the OP specifically used the words 'I love you', this is my main point, those words are very hard for females to say first, it is a rarity maybe 5 in a 1000 relationships.

You are better off waiting till the economic situation in the country gets better. I want you to try and save a bigger part of your salary every month, do this for one year. After a year, you can then go for the loan knowing that in case of an emergency you have savings necessary to mitigate unforeseen expenses. Like most business owners would tell you, there are various expenses encountered when starting and maintaining a business....be smart!

ceejay4real:
Hmmm, my guy much respect!
Pls don't mind the lesbo! Kindly ring me up on 08035449602. I gat a business proposal 4 u ok? I love correct guys like u!
Thanks in advance!

CJ

Let me know what it is about on here, if I'm interested I'll let u know.

DharmyYinks:
I ve had experiences.. not once not twice. Wat bout dat??

You've had more than one situations where a girl that you've never told I love you or shown any interest in came up to you and said she loves you? Padi e, you must fine wella o. One of those Ramson Noah type guys

DharmyYinks:
It is not a rarity abeg... U should check ursef. Two guys just bear me witness with one saying he has two on his neck.

Cos it hasn't happened to u doesn't mak it rare!

Please don't be ridiculous, anyone can boast on Nairaland; if you believed that guy then you are on a long thing!

alizma:
I am speaking from experience. presently have two hanging on my neck.

Not one but two Pimping ain't easy, I salute o

flightz:
chicken change buh yu dnt worth it! I detest homophobes

Hahahahahaha.....but I'm well worth it my friend, that 1.9m is less than what I make per month

flightz:
when your done ranting, I'd pay for feeding allowance for a year. Get rich and stop stalking happy people!

You're and not your! Thanks for the offer, I gladly accept. I spend roughly $500 on food per month, so that makes about $6,000 per year or 1.9million Naira. Do you need my account number?

flightz:
shut thu Bleep off and get educated about human sexuality! Get busy also and mind your biz!

I see you are one of those whose parents neglected while growing up or perhaps you are dealing with heavy PMS either way I can't help you

DharmyYinks:
Then ur so called 'packaged game' is ineffective. There re gals tho few wu will be d first to open up to u bout there feelings.

Just say dat u havnt encountered any!

See by your own admission your premise is based on rarities! No doubt there are girls that would open up about their feelings, they are plenty over here in the States but 9ja girls? Mba! Most 9ja girls are so worried about being taken for cheap that they would rather lose the guy than to confess their undying love for him. Back in school, I caught many fishes in the sea, out of over 30 girls only 1 was crazy enough to instigate the flirting and I respected her for it. Now of course we have girls that would come after you hard if you've got the bar and the right packaging but don't make it seem like they are plenty when in reality they represent less than 2% of all 9ja girls.

DharmyYinks:
Ur question has been answered!

Answered but not substantiated!

Olusanya333:
Not a rarity. Just play your cards right.

Trust me when it comes to having a well packaged game, I've been there, done that. 9ja girls are not as free flowing with their emotions, unless you go and carry Ol*sho or "I never chop", if na dem then to say 'I love you' cheap well well

alizma:
them plenty. depends on your package.

Abegi! This one no be Nollywood jor!

Olusanya333:
OP is right. It happens. And I am a testimony.

It's a rarity, just like jamming a pretty 9ja girl not on any social media

3. Thank you! : That moment you told a guy 'i love you' or used love emojis while texting him and he replies with 'Thank you!' or act as if he didn't see it. His love for you is as scarce as Fuel currently. Gbam!!!

How many girls do you know that tells a guy she loves him without the guy actually making the first move? Especially in 9ja! Out of all the girls I've dated, only 1 had the balls to come up to me and actually flirt....I think OP been watching too many movies!

Techno is good for those who can't afford Samsung or an iPhone but for serious mobile users I can't imagine using a phone with less than 3GB RAM and a QuadHD display. The new Samsung S7 Edge can snap pictures in lowlight and is waterproof, this alone makes it far advanced than anything Techno can throw out even if the price is more than doubled, the efficiency cannot be overlooked!

It's easy to blame but Nigerians want a solution, what's the way forward? You can all sit here and complain but it changes nothing, you have to wait till 2019 before you have the chance to replace Buhari and if things remain worse then as now then he deserves to be voted out, APC or PDP each government will be judged according to its performances!

After the money and the fame what comes next? Lesson to all parents out there, your children are your future. The world is becoming increasingly devilish, protect your children from impurities, do not mistake freedom for carelessness.

Why are so many people on here childish? What if she had her engagement or introduction several months before the actual wedding, would you say such a person is not true to her words then? The biggest thing here is that she is married and delivered a healthy baby!

kingthreat:
I wonder why EFCC does not investigate people like this with suspicious source of income.

Suspicious? Do you have any evidence of this?

eagleonearth:
haha, adrenaline rush indeed. the last time i checked, adrenaline in your system has detrimental effect and d hormones come alive when threat of any kind confronts a person. how does spraying of money threaten one's life as to produce adrenaline. travel out and see that we are still far from civilization. it's because e-money wanted to announce his presence and nothing else dt brought about this vain show. i don't spray but sometimes i give more than ppl that spray in functions.

Adrenaline rush is not only about danger, it also relates to excitement or feeling of power. Spraying money is part of the Nigerian culture and we must not label it bad just because it does not conform with Western expectations.

If life was that simple then we would all get along. The sad truth remains that human beings are one of the most diabolical creatures ever created and while you would love to get along with everyone, there are those you must stay far away from if you ever want to prosper. Take a look at most of the wealthy people in life, it's easy to see the wealthier they got the more enemies they made.

All these small boys on social media, no shame at all! I can bet all my money that the OP has several shortcomings not limited to physical,emotional and spiritual yet he wants a perfect mate. My guy shine your eyes, humans ain't perfect. 90% of guys after marriage gain more weight and/or pot belly, 80% of guys after 5 to 10 years of marriage become less active in bed and these are only some of the shortcomings, in light of this can you guaranty you wouldn't become fat and impotent after years of marriage? If you are in a relationship because of physique then be prepared for a life of disappointment. Let the poor girl go before you cause irreparable harm!

Don't you just love Nigerian bloggers and critics! Calling someone childish as if these celebs care, they are made already even if Paul or Peter makes nothing for the rest of their career they certainly won't be as poor as some of these critics!

I don't believe this crap one bit! The OP obviously left some things out and those things are directly responsible for the girl's behavior. Now I believe you came here for a solution not scolding so here goes:

1: Get a carpenter and shut the windows permanently!
2: Sit her down and let her know who's in charge, if she doesn't respond get families involved including her pastor or alfa.
3. If she still refuses to change, send her packing to her parents' house, let her know you are not afraid of losing her!
4. Stop letting everything a woman does get to you! Ignore her nuances, smile at her pettiness and even joke around about having girlfriends outside.

The truth is you shouldn't be having problems like this less than a year into marriage, she should still be madly in love with you and vice versa but in case things don't work out, don't be afraid to move on with your life. No woman is worth unhappiness!

Fashola need to realize that when people are not given electricity then no fuel to power their alternative source of energy then mix that with growing economic hardship, what you get is a massive voice of discontent across the nation. No one but the president should accept the biggest blame. Buhari is the president of this nation, he should address the nation and its concerns not hide behind f*cking excuses!

Why is everyone acting as if it is a secret? A person as rich as Dangote will definitely have some offshore assets and accounts. Next story!

I'm surprised no one is talking about the confession of statutory rape. If it was one Alhaji or Northerner that confessed to this, we would all be shouting child molestation. I think I now understand why a lot of these young girls in the North are being married off early, imagine how many Toyins are out there? How many 13, 14, 16 year olds are being deflowered daily by adults who should know better?

Shymm3x:
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Bwahahaha

So this is about competition to you, bum?

I do get illiterates like you from time to time who always make everything about competition with me on here. But trust me, you can't compete with my faeces. And that's the honest truth.

Aren't you the same illiterate who said Sade Adu isn't Nigerian cos she has no investments in naij, despite being born in Nigeria and is a plastic Brit who became a British citizen by naturalisation via her mum? You're an incorrigible re.tard with an IQ the same as ya shoe size.

Just keep following me everywhere trying to compete with me and I shall keep giving you an arsewhooping, you bald monkey with fried brain cells.

You love throwing words around don't you? Words like bum, illiterate and IQ makes you feel important don't they? Go ahead big boy keep living in your own little deluded fantasy

P.S. I don't need to compete with you because as far as I can tell there's no competition. You're a nobody and hence why I've not taken you seriously at all. Nairaland is a relaxation point for me, so thanks for entertaining