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TooNoisy:
How I wish Buhari was the one voted out

It remains a wish. When voters wished GEJ out, he was out.

The key is the voters, politics is the way stop wishing and build political alliances.

You can't sit there, abuse everyone and wish the president out. Hian

Still available?

I know a buyer who has 1.1m

optionalY09:
It’s most illogical to deprive people of fundamental human right and want to function as human. What is the importance of going out everyday and living like a slave for over 100years. If seating at home will make us free from slavery we are ready to double it, we’ll seat at home for 2months

Who that one epp?

What if you sit at home for 2months and still don't get the freedom?

Make it a year, you will definitely get the freedom by next year!

DanielAlhassan:
how is that possible we hard sex two months ago and she three months pregnant I can't accept it

You need to be calming down.

A pregnancy is 9months ba?

But its also specifically 40 weeks or 280days.

Divide 40weeks by 4weeks in a month, you get 10 months.

Does pregnancy take 10 months? Absolutely not.
Take 280days and divide by 30days a month you get 9.33. All those conversion is just causing confusion so stick to the weeks.

Check that report well, scan reports don't use months, they always use weeks. They know the consequences.

Secondly, pregnancy is counted starting from the first day of the last menstrual period. Meanwhile, pregnancy occurs at 14th-21st day of the menstrual cycle. So you can fvck a woman on her 21st day of her cycle and immediately she is 3 weeks pregnant. 2 months later she will be 3months pregnant which in weeks can be 11-13weeks.

Bro, congratulations. Don't put strain on your relationship with your baby mama, please.

Pavore9:
For him to be the first son means he has siblings, those siblings have a right to live in their father's house till they get settled enough to live independently....it is their family's house irrespective of how the first son supported their late father in the building.

Rather unfortunately, you are correct.

kaboninc:
Responsibility is relative. It means something different to another.

There are many people not married for many reasons who are 50 and above and are responsible in their own way.

Because I could not marry past 50 doesn't make me irresponsible. After all, I could be married and be divorced before I clock 50 and that should not make me irresponsible.

If by responsibility you mean taking care of kids and dependants, then I could have children out of wedlock and still be responsible for them.

Maybe you didn't understand my point.

I am in no way saying its irresponsible to not be married at 50.

What I mean is that since OP is undecided at this point when time is not at his side, it will be irresponsible for him to wait till he is 50 then suddenly decide he wants to marry and have kids. Thats a decision you don't wait till you are 50. OP at this point prefers the playboy lifestyle, its not that he doesn't have the right suitor, or is struggling financially, or other such issues that other people who actually faced problems which didn't allow them settle down until they got to 50. OP as far as we know has non of those problems. He simply doesn't want to make a decision now and wants to stretch his 20's well into his 40's or over. Most people at 20-25 define what they want in life, but by my guess, at late 30's OP isn't making his mind up on things he should have decided over 10yrs ago.

I said i won't call him irresponsible yet, but if he later decides to marry and have kids, something that he should have done in his 20s or 30s, then, at that point I will call him irresponsible.

If he decides he will never marry, fine, he led the life, and its his life to live.

Basically, it is irresponsibility to have nothing stopping you from deciding on your life only to want what you should have done 20yrs ago at 50.

If OP decides, today he never wants to marry, thats his choice and he is a very responsible person for that but cannot wait till 50 before deciding. That decision at 50 comes with consequences for even his unborn children. Imagine a 60yr old father of a 10yr old, it is not normal and it comes with consequences. I have seen a child who doesn't want to be seen with his father in public because his father looks like his grandfather.

When we were younger around early teens, my father was nicknamed Master, we all feared him. Every word, action or even his countenance speaks discipline. When dad at 55, we were grown ups, they adopted a 10yr old girl. The girl was just spoilt. My father lost all his sense of discipline with age. This is a normal phenomenon. Children born to old parents often get pampered.

This is just one example out of many. Some could be psychological, but having children at 50 is far from normal for anyone who wants the best for his child. If you know you can't give your best to a child at 50, then having the child at 50 is an irresponsible decision.

kaboninc:
For me, responsibility is relative



This I strongly disagree.

When you disagree with something, bare your view so I can be able to say we have opposing opinions and maybe put my opinion in other words for clarity.

lexy2014:
The way some of u distort d meaning of words in other to propagate these myopic reasoning is amazing. To be responsible simply means duty towards people or accountable for something. If a person doesn't have a wife or kids, how then is he irresponsible? U are only responsible for what u have not what u don't have. From d above, u are saying that if a person doesn't have a job yet, he or she is irresponsible. Irresponsible to what? If a person doesn't have a car, how do u judge his or her responsibility in terms of driving. U can only speak of responsibility when a person occupies a role or position or when a person takes possession of something

This is my point if you don't get it.

This mans age is not known, what is known is that he is the eldest and all his siblings are married. That puts him in the late 30's to early 40's. 35-45 in my guess.

That a man at 35 has not decided if he will get married or remain single for the rest of his life is basis for irresponsible even though not yet.

Responsibility is a duty like you rightly said, it is a duty to plan for even an unborn child or even a potential wife. Saving is responsibility.

The fact is he is still undecided, this means he is supposed to be actively doing something as long as their is a possibility that he is going to ever get married and have kids.

Until that day that he decides he is never going to marry or have kids, he is living an irresponsible life.

He is only responsible if he will never marry, but because he is undecided, that indecisiveness is irresponsibility to his future children.

Having children at 50 is irresponsibility. He doesn't have the luxury of the time to keep living an indecisive lifestyle.

lexy2014:
So all d married men that are fooling themselves, carrying small girls and spending their hard earned income meant for their families on prostitutes are responsible just because they are married. Was usifo Ataga responsible?

Thats the thing with responsibility, you can't judge until you go to their homes and see him what is happening.

Responsibility has to do with overall welfare and safety of the family. If a man has done every responsibility of his as a father and husband and still has spare to pay 10k for a night with an ashawo, it is not financial irresponsibility.

If the cheat of the man has no emotional connection to his side chick, there is no emotional irresponsibility.

To prove irresponsibility, you have to proof that the man has not fulfilled his responsibilities at home.

It is irresponsibility for a married man to fvck a side chick, then come home and cannot fulfill the same duty to his wife.

Cheating is bad but not totally in my humble opinion. I have seen where it helped.

RodgersAkpafu:
Which orphan is better off?

The one whose parents had him at old age
And left a financial war chest for them
Or the one who married young, and struggled financially
Leaving nothing for his kids when he gets crushed by tanker
Answer honestly

One of the problems we have in this country is thinking that money is everything.

You give birth to a child at 60. Leave him millions as inheritance, he grows up with no value and squander it in a year. What have you actually done?

Rich people who understand the value of parenting have decided not to leave their vast fortune as inheritance, they choose to give their children value instead.

The problems of this country is actually not the lavish lifestyle of the rich, it is the entitlement of the rich kids and the decadence of their parents who choose to amass by hook or crook an inheritance for their unborn descendants.

My father is a retired civil servant, he didn't inherited a house from his father. My father even if he doesn't leave me his house, he can be proud to have given me some value in this life by the training he gave me. That training cannot be replaced by money. The relationship we have is not just biological or financial, it is far beyond that my friend.

Chuky7:
I second this.

Please I am not irresponsible yes I said playboy but that's in the sense that I end up with different girls most times. I use precaution and go for check ups regularly
None of these girls have been pregnant. I just don't want an issue that I can not handle like getting married and dipping outside which may actually make me look irresponsible. or worse

The problem with responsibility is that the decisions you make today affect tomorrow.

So being a playboy now and choosing to settle and have kids far later in your life is an irresponsible decision. This is because having kids at 50 doesn't give the best for your children. Believe me or not, time is part of responsibility. So to be responsible, you have to decide early if you will marry or not. Delaying that decision alone is irresponsibility.

Responsibility is also bravery, imagine knowing you like women but you chose to have a stable family against your personal desires. That means you have made a sacrifice. That sacrifice is an act of responsibility to the wife and children you have.

If you have decided not to have a wife or children, it means you have chosen not to be responsible for anyone other than yourself. Don't forget that you still have a responsibility towards your old parents and relatives.

If you choose to have a wife and children, you are required to be responsible for them.

It is always looked at as irresponsibility if you have no responsibility towards a person other than yourself.

You have simply avoided any kind of responsibility so you can be said to be irresponsible.

Any woman who dates you is dating an irresponsible man because you have no intention of assuming any responsibility in her life.

In contrast, you are being responsible for using protection so that you will not become a full blown irresponsible man. The only thing here is that you are still only being responsible to yourself.

I would say at this point, you cannot be judged as an irresponsible man, but if you let yourself reach 50 before deciding to have kids, you can be said to have lived an irresponsible life.

siofra:
Common earpiece, USB and power bank is what this one is wailing about.

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Abeg stop mentioning me na, more than 30 mentions already haba!! I said what I said and I'm not taking it back.

Op is exaggerating it. I'm sure he saw when those girls were taking it.

Another mention, you deserve it.

You are probably the same, you will also steal charger and perfume and find nothing wrong in it.

Guess what, it is stealing.

I bought a Xiaomi wired earphones from jumia, i couldn't sleep that night and enjoyed the rich bass. I have never had such beautiful music from an earpiece but my morning, my young son handled it and one ear stopped working. Guess what, Jumia had no stock of it.

Till today, i have not gotten that earpiece.

Imagine, if you were the one who took it? I'd prefer to buy you or pay you its equivalent but don't steal my stuff. They could mean a lot more than what they are actually worth.

For you to dismiss stealing as common earpiece shows who you are.

codemaniacs:
Nigeria is where it is today because people like you like to deceive themselves that they can "see life through the eyes of poor people"... the day Nigerians stop "seeing life through the eye of poor people" is the day Nigeria will experience rapid development...

there is no such thing as a poor person... who do you classify as poor?

someone can have a well paid job and still be poor especially if that person lives above their means...

I am not privileged, I don't live above my means and I don't live life to impress people..

only people who live above their means and to impress people are the ones who want luxury apartment, luxury car and well paid job to boast and brag to people or want people to assume they are doing well..

some parts of Nigeria will always be dilapidated because one side of Nigeria was amalgamated with the wealthy side of Nigeria in 1914 and over 55% of that wealthy side revenue goes to the one side who were always meant to be an average country... this is the major problem people of the wealthy side of Nigeria face and most of them can't see it and admit it...

55% Revenue that should go to the upliftment and infrastructural development of the wealthy side is given with the one side, the british saw how wealthy and powerful the wealthy side will become and they put things in place to prevent the wealthy side from becoming extremely successful...

SMH

Wealthy side and the other side, hmmm

zolajpower:
Bros the benins re not better than an average Jamaican . In fact Benin re worse , charm , arms and ammunition etc re the weapons used to stop anyone progressing more than them .

I was posted to work in Benin, my wife got confused whether to cry or celebrate. When the posting changed to Kano, come and see my wife's celebration.

I guess no Benin girls to put sand in her garri was her problem. My problem was Benin people and their eye for the progressives, Kano ppl too, get their wahala.

Kano people are always in your personal business, but Benin, even your dreams na catchment area.

iamkheedah:
NDU Student Laments as Rat "Chops" her 30k inside a saving box in Amassoma

"me wey like food, I say make I dey responsible this year, say make I save"
"I dey for this Amassoma, hungry dey catch me, I say no!!! I no go break this saving box"

"If you get money chop am, no save"

Watch videos below;
https://www.facebook.com/100023071131906/posts/728852581227106/?app=fbl

That means ATM dispense error is better. Because i still get hope.

Nehemiahjnr:
There is this girl I dated till last year before I got tired of everything.

She is always willing to come to my house or any place I invite her buh won’t allow sex, we will be dragging like someone that is dragging land in the village, struggle for hours buh she no go still gree and me I don’t want to force her.

When I ask her what happened she won’t say anything or sometimes will say stuff like AM AFRAID due to my past experiences.

Am tired of the relationship sef.
Money wey I don spend just Dey pain me and I don’t want to force somebody oo.

What should I do?

She is most probably in another committed or long distance relationship.

nairavsdollars:
How come Buhari married off all his children when he is president

Rich Nigerians give money only to the rich.

lailo:
Only stingy people will be looking out for all these rules

When you refer to fraud as stinginess, then all is not well and will never be well with Nigeria. Consider yourself one of the bad eggs since "corruption is just stealing".

We should not deceive ourselves that those small offenses do not need to count.

chatinent:
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Five things you should look out for while fuel in a Nigerian fuel station.

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Source: https://www.nopremiumtears.com.ng/2021/08/five-things-you-should-know-to-avoid.html


Please drop your comments below. How has this post helped you? Please drop your comments.

Also, please note this, longer nozzles automatically reserves your fuel and it goes back to the engine -- enough fuel for them! E shock you?

This above is false.

Secondly, there is no pumping of air by the dispenser. The fuel dispenser is designed to not count or dispense when there is air. In fact, there are air bleeding mechanism on all dispensers.

They can't choose to pump fuel one minute and air the next minute.

When i ask for fill up, thats when any trick will likely fail or become very glaring that a mischief happened. Every car owner knows the maximum fuel he has ever bought, you can't go above it by 1 or 2k even with a badly adjusted delivery system. If i have never crossed 10k, just because i asked for fill up doesn't mean i will take it if my tank fills up at 12k. Its a dead give away.

olatade:
Why are we together when we cannot hide the hate in our hearts?

Let's divide and go, is better to be peaceful neighbors than fighting brothers

How many pieces do you want the country to divide into?

I assure you, if this country is divided into 30 individual countries, there will be haters and power tussle in all 30 countries.

This country is not a problem, we are.

ifytrik:
This is one thing i hate about hausa-fulani people, they are always defending their brothers no matter what they did, i was to when i engaged about ten educated hause men in argument concerning the killings by bokoharam, they were all defending bokoharam and almost fought with me, since then i no longer argue with hausa men. hausa/fulani men here in the north believes that the igbos are highing the prices of goods in Nigeria jst ust to make buhari goverment look bad.

Just like Nnamdi Kanu has supporters. I hope you hate Igbos too?

Share your hate to reach the Yorubas that defend Sunday Igboho. Me wei no be either, just hate me for hate sake.

habsydiamond:
na them refers to bandits nao abi Wetin make I talk again

There is only one thing that i feared could be wrong, that is the so many references to biafra which you made no effort to dissociate from.

habsydiamond:
that's why you've gotten everything wrong... Have never been in support of violence and will never be... U are looking at the wrong direction bro

Who be them? Wetin man go talk? Isn't it obvious where you belong from those 3 words, "since na them ".

When in comes to condemning violence, there is no us or them. Whatever you wrote after contradicts the first 3 words.

Why I referred to biafra is that, this "us and them" is a major phenomenon in the east for a long long time. The outcast, the "you can't marry from Anambra" etc. That you have not dealt with the speck in your eye, what makes you think you can deal with a log in someones eye. What makes you think that after the secession of biafra from "them", there will not be another set of "them" within biafra?

That you can't set your differences aside with both Hausa/Fulani and Yoruba to make this nation better, how sure are you that you can set your differences aside with an Anambra or Imo or Abia etc man to make a great nation out of Biafra?

Think about it! Look at South Sudan for example.

"Since na them" for me sold you out.

Imustnottalk:
Who else counted the money on the table

Me! Me!! Me!!!

If each bundle is 100k, i got 22 bundles making 2.2m
If 1000s are 100k and 500s are 50k, then it makes 1.8
Unless the money is not in order.

But seeing one bundle with its bank wrap, a wrap cannot take more than 100notes or a very few more than 100. It is safe to assume its not up to 2.405m

habsydiamond:
Since na them.. Wetin man go talk. Making money through violence is not the best.. She, her husband and their group must be caught and sentenced for life

With this your attitude, even after biafra secedes, you won't find peace.

Flexingbaba:
It is not 10 lanes but 4 lanes

It is not 4 , it is 8.

Fahdiga:
Buhari should not hesitate to give credit to GEJ for starting the project in the first place. Government is a continuum

Did he give himself the credit for starting it? Will you like wise tell Wike to finish the projects his predecessor Ameachi started?

It is Buhari who needs commendation for doing what previous PDP leaders never had the mind or will of doing.

It is because of people like you and the comments like yours that leaders choose to abandon projects for a fresh one that they will call their own.

Its not about who wanted to do it but who actually did it.

Omeiza100:
Well both cars are good to be Honest
The Benz is V6 while the camry can come
In V4 or V6
Luxury == Benz
Maintenance= Toyota
Speed = Benz
Fuel mileage=Toyota
Reliability = Both are good
2nd hand value = Toyota
Well it depends on the purpose of purchase tho
I’d go with the Toyota
That’s just my personal opinion o�

The 2012/13 C class has a 4cyl engine too, although a turbo, the C250 1.8L Turbo

I came here to see those rif rafs who continue to argue that Sunday Igboho is a German or Nnamdi Kanu is British so Nigerian government can't mess with Germans or Britons.

Why is America messing with Nigerians? Somebody tell me?

surrogatesng:
My car battery ran down.So i used an inverter battery at home to start it.I have a question.Can i replace my car battery with a solar battery.Will it damage my car?Please i need aswers.

Your car won't be damaged but the battery life will be affected.

Car batteries are not inverter batteries and inverter batteries are not car batteries.

Starting a car draws high current in a short period from the battery so the car battery is designed for high current draw in a short time. Inverter batteries are designed to discharge slowly for a long period. So a car battery has thin plates and increased surface area of the plates for high current while inverter batteries have thick plates for deeper discharge.

Although, a car battery used as inverter battery will suffer damage more than an inverter battery used in a car.