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I Dont know why people especially men don't learn.
They always say the good girls are in nija - the girls tha respect their men, cook, clean blah blah blah.

There arent any decent girls in nija - and the ones that are left have been tainted by the bad ones. These days, even 14 year olds don't have good reputation.

If u do get a decent girl from abroad, at least when she starts to mess up you know how to handle her. You know that when she pissess you off, just leave her for a while she will calm down.
You at least know that she couldnt get any worse, her bad character couldnt get worse.
You know her every bad character. Not to talk of all the money that will be spent.

But a girl you us4ed  know, omo leave that one. Any girl from nija now is desperate, she knows that going abroad is her salvation (so she thinks). She pretends till se gets here, gets her papers, blah blah and then shows u what she is truly made of.

I have heard of people bringing their spouses from nija but i am yet to hear a happy ending - they have all ended in bad bad situations.

So the moral of the story is the witch u no is better than the one u don't.

No offence to any decent nija girls left in nija o - am just calling it like i see it.

Oh yeah and as for the guysthat feel that you have messed up all the girls where you are at and then u can go to nija and marry a saint - God go judge all of una.

Definately, a big no no.

Ma daughter tries to sy something similar because their white friends say the same to their parents - but i quickly point out th error of her foolish ways.

I don't know what the issue is.
But i  know a few people that have had their whole lives disrupted because of this.

Ma duaghter is a lefty and i love it. She is clever and does her thing - i encourage that cause thats what she uses.
I actually think its real nice.

I love left handed men - i just think they are just extra sexy with their left hand.
But i do encouage ma daughter to use her right hand to receive things and give things to people especially elders.

Mine was when a guy that had chased me for 6 years finally got me, he was always thinking that i was too good for him.
He always said i knew people which isnt ma fault i have lived here for a long long time how isnt that possible. On this faithful day, he went to a party, his friend that had asked me out before told him that i was dating his other friend - because of that he ignored all ma calls the next day, then when he called me finally, he openly accused me not giving me a chance to explain maself.

After that it just ended - he is such a fool, i actually did like this guy and was willing to be with him forever but he obviously couldnt handle me.
What a fool - according to the words of ma good friend "he wasnt man enough for me".

O ga o latent thank God for your life - poster you better take a leaf out of his book.

Ask yourself what does she want with you?

Oh ma goodness - the solution is to get a pet name for ur wife.
If i was ur wife and u called me the secretary's name, i would know u were sleeping with her.

Sort it out ma man before things get outta hand.

I have met llots of good looking guys that just have that smell, bad breath or just body odour.

Its amazing.

But i i were u sweetlizzy, i would definately hint that we brush our teeth together, use mouthahs ogether and use a moth spray or breath gums or something.

I have to be attracted to ma man and that means him not giving off any kinda bad odour.

Oga ga o - not all nija wome are that bad.
Come on now - we arent all that hard to please maybe u have just been with the wrong ones.

Its not that bad now - maybe they do mean what they are saying.

NDUMART -what am saying is that i wouldnt even start a relationship with him in the first place.
I dont wanna be with someone that i wont be able to take out in public.

@ndumart - why would u even be with someone u are scared to let speak in public.
Why even be with him in the first place.

Kunle75 na wa o - which property u wan see?

You are lucky u have the same name as ma brother i for no wetin i go do u.

But its all good sha.

But for real o even ask Baba God - e go tell u say whoever gets with me - omo that person do hit jackpot o - for sure.

Oga o uzzyan - na u biko.

I will note that advice and use it when i need to.

Poster - just make him aware of your presence thats all.
Do intelligent yet funny things that will make him notice ur intelligent but witty side as well.

Why people gotta say fat?
Couldnt u just say 'fleshy'.

I am a naturally curvy girl and i think i am hott - i do do ma exercise to firm up those areas that are kinda being defined by gravity.
But i think i am a good peson and would be an asset to any man.

Its no whether u big boned or slim, beauty as they say is in the eye of the beholder.
I dont think people should discriminate aganst the opposite gender cause of their weight, i think if the person is good for u then so be it.

saucekid:
@ adeboo,

where have you been. . . . . . . . . welcome
^{how we go do this christmas??}

Egbami- saucekid kilo de?
Xmas ke? Where we for know each other.

Just kidding - i dey house for u, no shaking.
I have been around thanks for asking.

Yes i can wash my husband's clothes - in the washing machine - why not.
Its part of ma wifey duties

Why must everything have to do with 'sleeping with'?

If she is available and u are why not - but are u saying a relationship or sex?
If its sex only then she want to use ur 'isiki to add to her wealth - cause hat would she want with you a tenant?

Dont we all girl, dont we all.

Nope sorry i couldnt.
We have to match on lots of levels and he even has to have achieved more than maself.

It wont be possible - its a turn off.

Oga o - God will help u sha.
Good luck in your search and when u find her, help me ask her if she has a brother or a young uncle - may as well kill two birds with one stone.

madeonline:
intimidating thread , mellow down for single nairalanders!

ABI O.
Anyways them just they remind Baba God for me.

I am kinda stuck on what gaits are as well.

A baby!

Just kidding, maybe make something personal for him. Something that would have his name on it, something very personal.

Nope i cant.

I probably would with someone i know that has ma best interest at heart.

I would talk to ma spouse for sure - i would talk him through what i want and introduce certain measure in the bedroom that would help us along the way.
In marriage, the most important part i feel is the bedroom duties - if he isnt doing what i want, i would just tell him.

I suppose insecurity rears its ugly head in the cases.

In ma last relationship, we did have that issue - he really didnt trust that i have noone else just him, and i thought the same.
And it didnt work - so i suppose if i wanna be with someone and the person is interested then i need to get it in ma head that he truly wanna be with me.

No maybe not - maybe someone that is ma blood or someone i know always has ma best interest at hand.
I will wisely discuss it with husband first - i will introduce certain measures and ways in the bedroom that will help him/ us.

I will talk him through what i like and he will do the same to me and i'll give him what he wants so he has to give me what i want too.

Because in this day and age - nobody has the patience to wait, and who says that when it is better, that the men they have struggled with wil not leave their ass for someone else.

Nobody is ready for 'surulere' o - forget that long story.

Cuase personally, from where i am now, there are certian features that a man must have for him to measure with moi (not in a bad way but in a good way).

He has to be able to express himself - must at least have a degree of sme sort.
Must at least have a job, and a car - and must be living on his own (preferably owns his own house).

The reason i say this is that i have reached a place in ma life where the man am with has to have certain things in oredr for us to be at the same level or for him to be above me.

Eating sweet things don't help.

Its actually not easy to loose a belly once it developes.
She needs to stop eating anytime after say 7 - not stop eating, but maybe do fruits and peanuts (red nuts) if she is hungry.
She can't be eating pounded yam all the time cause its just not good for the body - she needs to cut down sugar intake - fizzy drinks like Coke etc is also a killer.

Just by doing a few stomach exercises can also help.
It takes alot of determination - but if you are serious, you will achieve it.

But about the stretch marks , i dont know o. I have had stretch marks since i was born - on ma thighs so i dont know about those. Maybe there are creams out there she could use - but i havent heard of those creams doing good jobs sha.

Its cool - i was just playing anyways, he shouldnt even think of it. He should change his number if she keeps calling him, he should really run for his life cause that girl will ruin his life especially destroy the friendship he had with his friend (her hubby).

Maybe she is just a sociable person, she doesnt sound like a flirt to me or a wakaabout.

Its just that she could like going out - i am like that but i have to cut it down once i am in a relatioship with the view of settling down.

She is still kinda young and if u like her, u dont have to dupm her now.

Egbami saucekid - i have been around sha but thanks for caring.

When a guy likes you, he will alsways look or opportunities to see u

Oga o.
This is the perfect case of wanting to cross the friendship boundary.
Leave her the heck alone cause she is not urs, let her suffer her lusts alone and dont bother going to meet her up.
Its only gonna spell trouble.

And u needs to post the picof this best man as well so we can judge for ourselves whether he is all that.

Oga o.
I think these days romance has kinda gone out the window.
I know if a guy keeps sending me poems like these, i would get creeped out.