₦airaland Forum

meobizy:
I see Nigerian men equally brainwashed when it comes to the Premiere League. Tit for tat.

What are you comparing?

Wee you kip kwayet?

Your mind is playing tricks on you.

Your relationships don’t work because you are disenchanted by the concept of relationship. It appears you don’t have time for nonsense behaviour from women. Your taste has grown peculiar and that makes you quickly dismiss those who don’t possess certain qualities.

If you still want a relationship/marriage you should open up some more. Be more tolerant of women.

Aloof:
Broke shaming? If what I just said is what is considered as broke shaming, then I didn't intend to.

Bro,
I don't know for other guys, but I think it's the way you relate with a lady would determine how she relates with you too.

If a girl feels you need to pay for her affection, why no just move on.

By the way, do girls not have something to complain of? How many girls have came online to complain that their boyfriend cheated on them or that he beats them.


Why always guys complaining most of the time like sisi?

They way she relates with you is not solely dependent on how you treat her. If so, then men would not complain cos it would be about cause and effect. The complaints arise from undeserved betrayal.

Why do you think women perpetuate the excuse that they are generally attracted to “bad boys” as an excuse for betraying the trust of guys who treat them well? Have you seen bad boys come online to complain?

Those men have every right to decry the disloyalty. They should not be stifled or mocked because they are broke. They expected honour and dignity from the women who disappointed them. Simple.

Besides, why would you expect women to come out and complain when they have multiple partners, and receive gifts, trips, money and affection from all of them?

You don’t talk when your mouth is full.

Aloof:
I'm not Advocating for women.

But bro, even guys that doesn't have enough to give a lady still complains.

Are you broke-shaming them? Are they not human? Do they not have a right to date? They have a right to complain because they are being played by girls who think they should be paid for their affection.

Soon, the complaints will turn into resentment then you will also come to tell us men are no longer affectionate but are calculative unemotional heartbreakers.

You should be ashamed of your bad behaviour.

You said her culture is local and weird. You even told her you hate her culture. What did you expect as a response? She should say thank you, kill goat and cook soup for you?

You are nothing but an ethnocentric clannish ignoramus. I wonder what you’d say when you travel to other countries and witness their cultures.

Aloof:
Yes, they complain all the time.
From one form of heartbreak to another.

If the guy don't complain that a lady cheated on him, he would complain that she has stopped replying his texts.

Always asking what to do here and there and crying like babies.

My question is, don't women get heartbroken too? Why are they not always complaining like guys.

Does it mean they are now more mentally matured and stronger than men?
If so, then I'm afraid to say that The Future will definitely be female.

Why would anyone complain if they stay on the receiving end of gifts and money? The Nigerian society has equated being female with having the cultural right to be paid for companionship.

It is not about maturity. It is about fairness and dignity.

If you can equate your beauty or your femininity to money and gifts then you wouldn’t complain.

harmargedon:
what's the relationship between the both?

Some tribalists used that term to insult igbo people. Now they cannot post the insult cos it will be converted. Same as “F U C K”. It is censored as Bleep

You lost money, but you taught him a lesson.

The truth is he wasn’t going to give you that money. He took you for granted and now he has to spend money and explain to the owner.

Just say you’re looking for husband.

sunshineV:
why is it that when i type "flat.head" (without the dot) it comes out as "igbo" WHY? i don't think the admins should take up on this sissy fight. its very low

You are not serious.

What Nairaland has done is to forestall people who want to insult others. That way, you can’t post a comment containing an ethnic slur. It converts your slur into the proper term to take away the sting of your insult.

You know this but want to play the ostrich.

Imagine say person carry this kind wife come obodo Oyibo, omo, sorry is your name. She will just cheat on you, lie that you’re violent, report you to police, divorce you and collect alimony.

She only cares about what she can gain. No loyalty.

Choose the less stigmatised passport.

They will soon fly him out.

This is one of the reasons she wanted to relocate!

Nigeria!!!

eherbal:
Its obvious the woman is the cause of the separation. Just look at her evil and cunning smile

My brother.

It’s obvious. She must have cheated on the innocent man.

These ones too like enjoyment.

Nothing can stop them from partying. Not even their divorce.

This girl is muddying the waters.

assamu1122:
Please post for me ASAP

My girlfriend of two years just informed me that she got pregnant with another man. That she has just done a test and it's positive. This is a woman I have gone to her family with my people and have collected and argued list. I have started buying marriage stuff on this list and now, this happened. I am confused.


What should I do please?

Lol.

Why are you confused? She has already made her choice. You can donate the marriage stuff you bought to her new guy if you want.

But wait first, are you not happy she didn’t deceive you and dash you another man’s child?

Just thank her for telling the truth and break up. If you think you can live with a woman who has a child for another man, then you don’t like yourself. The other man will ALWAYS be a part of your marriage because of the child in question.

Walk away.

Imagine being on a case for 7 years!

Nigeria is a wicked place.

SSS will raid them for sure. Nigeria is a hostile place for business, especially when that business provides freedom of expression.

gawu1:
You have liberty to challenge that at Law court if you feel bad about that.
All that is in question now is that the practice in which Igbo people would deny their females inheritance right has been quashed by Nigerian Supreme Court.

Are you sure you replied to the right person?

chinedu234:
This judgement and the judge sound ridiculous and full of colonial mentality. How is the bible related to igbo customs and traditions? No wonder the same supreme court awarded governorship results to a man that didn't represent any party in the 2019 elections. Did the so called learned justices do a research on the customs and traditions of the people. I don't blame the man. After all the igbos should have insisted on having their matters settled in the manner sharia matters are handled. This may be the eye opener.

One would expect you to be happy with the judgment. This is a good example of justice especially in these days of controversial judgments.

If a custom is unjust, it should be expunged just like the custom of killing twins. Hopefully there will be more judgments like this to address the customs of inheriting a dead man’s wife and torturing widows and child brides.

KingLennon:
And your signature says 'you are a classic man'....Spits!

Do you even know what my signature refers to?

Google could have saved you the embarrassment.


Back to the question. Why should male children inherit the lion share?

mystery22:
The man is a racist..

Being black is hard, you have to put twice as much effort as others to stand a chance

It’s not about racism. Rashford was Ole’s first choice. Ighalo was just a replacement. An older replacement.

Ole cannot choose him over Rashford.

Both Rashford and Ighalo are black men, by the way.

KingLennon:
Feminists....will be happy on this one. They will be dancing now.



Daughters also deserve a share of their father's property though the males will get the lion share....

Why should male children get the lion share?

BigYash:
Your own sef too much. He is asking for advice and not someone to investigate his life. Some of this nairalanders sef...

People like you get scammed easily because you ignore pertinent details. And I am not calling OP a scammer, by the way.

Any inconsistency in a story should raise a red flag especially for those who would like to contact the OP with their private numbers. His figures don’t add up. Someone born in 1984 cannot be 40 today.

How can a man violate his own niece? His own blood! A child for that matter!

adorablefwb:
If I wasn't up to standard, I wouldn't put this CONFIDENTLY. Thank you!

Lol.

Hope you find your spec.

Lord knows we all need to be happy in this life.

None.

Leave him alone.

You will only play into the hands of police by restraining him with ropes and imprisoning him in your house.

The best you can do is get a doctor to diagnose his mental illness and use that information to sue the church for taking advantage of his mental health and scamming him of his goods.

SanctifiedSista:
Foolish talk from an immature boy. U are marrying a queen that will bring favor & happiness to your life



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Holy sister, you decided to insult the guy while stating your opinion.

Pray to your God to dash you small sense. Hypocrite.

ThiagoKid:
Op, you are not a real man!
You are a weakling for trying to dodge your responsibility.

A real man will place his gal on a monthly stipend of 45k, and above.
Even, if you don't have money; borrow!
If you know you won't feel guilty for stealing, then, steal!

A real man must try to please his gal.
A real man always opt for single mothers.

Don't thank me,
You are welcome.

Word!

OP, you should listen to this guy