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stayclearofme:
Don't mind them. The female who are supporting the ones going after married men while the males are the ones having extramarital affairs.
Hypocrites everywhere!

I tell you! Dem dey mad.

If their spouses cheat on them now they would want to commit suicide, but they are here saying “mind your business” as if a best friend is not someone’s business.

SweetCuntess:
Minding her business isn't encouragement Mr Man. Nigerians Don't know how to mind their businesses when it comes to certain matters noni and una dey use moral talk deceive una selves

What do you mean by “minding her business”? Is her best friend (whom she helped into the company) not her business as well? Is this how you would watch your best friend date a married boss who can use and dump her or who’s wife can harm her?

This is your best friend you’re talking about. I feel sorry for those who call you friend.

Perhaps you also see nothing wrong in dating your married boss.

The “mind your business crew” have arrived.

This was not just anyone, it was her best friend! Why can’t she warn her best friend?

I wonder what you guys call friendship if you cannot talk to your best friends when they are putting themselves at risk of being disgraced or taken advantage of.

Sometimes you think your friends like you as much as you like them but the universe has a way of opening your eyes.

Ugandatales:
I feel you. There was one girl I was working with online. I never met her, but we used to chat about the work we were doing. From her pic, she looked like she was at least in her early 20s. One day, after several months, I decided to call her...men! After just two minutes of talking, I knew she was still a kid. I later found out she was 18.

Exactly. You would know once they open their mouth.

This is why allegations are powerful and if false, shouldn’t be taken lightly but stamped out.

You said people are afraid to do business with you because someone accused you even though she didn’t post one single piece of evidence. Damn!

If the skin on her face is too young, leave her alone. Older women may have smooth facial skin but you can still tell it’s not a teens face especially around the eyes.

If in doubt, ask for her IG page and her ID.

You can tell from the way her friends look in pictures if she’s really young. You should even know from the way she reasons. Small girls talk like small girls.

Guys like me cannot be caught in this web. There is a certain allure we seek in women that small girls can never have.

You have a point.

Let them know your intentions ahead. They shouldn’t come and sleep over if they aren’t going to have sex. Same way a guy should not let a babe sleep over if she hasn’t agreed that sex is on the table.

If after telling her the condition for staying over, she stays and enjoys your money, food and hospitality but decides she’s not up for intimacy, you should ask her to leave. Consent should not be weaponised.

SmellySperm:
Madam compliment is not by force. Don't force out issues.
If he's been all nice to you in other areas then let him have peace of mind pls. Already the country is in chaos,let him be. Thanks

Thank you bro. Man has been doing other things but na compliments she dey target.

Teeth whitening is just cosmetic jare. If you want your teeth a few shades brighter then go for it.

What matters is scaling and polishing which is the actual cleaning of the teeth. Whitening is not necessary (if you don’t have peculiar stains) and can be uncomfortable because of tooth sensitivity afterwards. Also whitening doesn’t last long.

Bro, stop wasting your time on her. She has left you.

You need to forget her and move on with your life.

This is why guys treat women like trash some times. A woman’s love is often only enduring when the recipient of that love is her child. But a boyfriend or husband is sitting with just half yansh. He can be disappointed at any time “T”.

Drdreluv:
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1VqiwpPOxlgorszSeRbqM6NxnQkH9GsYm/view

Thanks

Laideabdulahi:
Dangerous ke
To be frank I haven't.
There are ways to achieve this.
Even my wife dey vex say I no toast am.

And she gree marry you? Without toasting?

Baba, cut soap for me na.

Laideabdulahi:
I never even toast girl before.
But I don knack 17.
Date 2.

Ah! You are a dangerous individual sir.

EmperorTolson:
Okay
Thank you jare

You’re welcome.

Curious345:
sorry which news website ?

The one David writes for.
https://newswirengr.com/2021/05/11/murder-in-uyo-who-killed-hiny-umoren/amp/?__twitter_impression=true

It appears it’s still under attack. The homepage isn’t loading

EmperorTolson:
I cannot really get what this guy is trying to point out.
He wasn't acting alone.
Is that it.

The police wants it to appear like he was just a rapîst and serial killer. Finish. But he is more than that. David is showing that Frank Uduak Apkpan is an organ trafficker which means there are buyers and possibly a network that he belongs to. There are powerful individuals who employ his services.

Thank you lalasticlala for sharing it here. This is such a heartbreaking story.

Earlier today the news website was under cyber attack. Suspicious. It’s sad that the police cannot be trusted. Sad.

You use vex delete her number? Very good!

If she cannot tell you what’s wrong then she should get out. No time to be begging a childish girl. No time for an unstable woman.

OP you are right. Once the shakara is getting too much leave her alone. Toasting normally should not pass 4 working days, except if someone recommended her as a good person to marry, then you may extend it to 7 working days.

After that, move on.

Nigerian girls are time wasters. They like a guy but would act differently and wonder why the young man cannot see that they like him.

There is more to life than chasing a woman who wants to play hard to get. If you don’t get an emphatic yes from her, take her response as a no. Don’t let her string you along for benefits. If you do, sooner or later, you would resent her and that’s even if she later says yes. Why? Cos it would appear like she wasn’t worth the trouble. She wasn’t worth the time wasted.

This is an unflattering description of single mothers. I hope you realise that.

Magnoliaa:
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Shift for me. You want popcorn?.

Where una dey see dis kind babes? A babe who’s financial plans depend on the man nacking her. SMH.

OP to be honest, I blame you for setting yourself up. But I also congratulate you for leaving her.

Imagine you married her. Imagine what nonsense she would teach your daughter; how to become a leech and make plans based on the money she can beg/demand from her boyfriends. Damn! You dodged a bullet right there.

fineboynl:
after rent expires. you served her 6 months rent free.

you think it's so easy to make out. there are many tenant that want to pack by themselves but stock there due to many reasons. not to take of giving someone notice just like that.

I have been trying to check location but so many issue rent her fucking expensive. one need to select location, your work environment and so many other things I can't mention. at least it should be better than where you currently staying.

You will pay for those six months. Except if the landlord wants to let it slide. But if not, you will pay every penny. Ask your lawyer.

Moneyboyz:
My question is what if you break up with the child's mother in future?

Note that You will still be the child's father even if she hasn't given you a child yet.

I was looking for a comment like this.

Akv666, you should know that divorce doesn’t nullify the adoption.

Shokoloko:
Marry a woman for green card - Cashout

No cashout involved though.

Nonsense talk. Earn your position. Don’t try to sneak in by playing the gender card.

CountVersailles She still won’t believe you. You don’t owe her any explanation and you don’t need her validation. You’re taking care of your accommodation by yourself and that should be enough for you.

If she cannot believe her husband, that’s her headache.

It is not wrong to call the president a bully. He has shown disregard for Court orders and summons from the National Assembly. He is a bully, when his army which he controls uses deadly force against unarmed young people singing national anthem and sitting on the road in protest. He backs a minister who has admitted making inciting statements in support of deadly terrorists and religious killings.

He blatantly engages in medical tourism which is one of the issues his party preached against on their way to power.

His SSS has become a hound for his critics instead of known terrorists who kidnap students and raze communities.

He prematurely and unfairly proscribed IPOB yet cannot do the same to miyetti allah who have actually confessed to killing human beings in retaliation for the death of ordinary cows.

This president is a bully. What is wrong in calling him what he is?

It’s an escape from commitment. They will soon get tired and stick to one person for long periods.

But they still can’t catch bandits who keep calling victims families to negotiate.

How it started vs how it’s going

Definitely OBJ.

Problematic, but the least problematic.