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Let's see their no make up pics

lelion:
Do we all agree with :
1. 5k for 20 people or
2. 2k for 50 people?

2k for 50 people

zexy2030:
Nothing is wrong with that dear. Do what is comfortable for you. its an orientation women with good self esteem have. Don't feel bad, friend zone guys like this, return calls sometimes, don't pick their calls, decline their gifts sometimes, but reduce or avoid intimacy. Have plenty male friends, friend zone the emotional one.

What are you saying?
Most of the things you mentioned up there, are they good characteristics of a normal lady?



Unless you are trying to be sarcastic.....

Ladylite:
I can teach you everything for free. But I just don't have the time.

What is it all about?

I thought and thought and thought.....i can't seem to know where that problem comes from.

Modified:
Maybe you are not ready for a relationship yet.Try and take a break from relationships till you are at least 25

Scientists:
Thanks Brother, I appreciate

Aiit

Sadly i got here late.Well,congrats to those who benefited

That is because rich men don't show themselves the way yahoo guys do.Yahoo guys lavish money but rich men won't.
Then I'm suspecting you too aren't that financially okay.If not, you should try your colleagues,their friends in short, you should be able to see a man of high status if you too are of High status.



Also,if you're 35,the men you're dating will most likely be 36 upwards.How many thirty somethings are still into yahoo
When it's not twenty somethings you're dating

Slawormir
Stupidity
Weedites make una come see una lungs


That dead man must be a Jamaican.Heck!!

I won't engage in name calling i.e Simp, weak man
Are you new to relationships?

Well,what you did was purely out of love and i don't condemn you.Love can make a full grown man act like a baby at times.If you were married,these things are bound to happen and you'll most likely forgive her.
From what you wrote, you are too soft hearted for a man.Even if you'll forgive her, you are not to beg her.Cheating in a relationship is more grievous than verbal abuse.So if she cheats and you insult her,she deserves it!
Now she is capitalizing on your 'soft heartedness'.She is still bound to cheat because she knows all she needs to get you back is to shed crocodile tears. You can never satisfy her.Here is what you need to do in a good guy manner:
1.Whenever she wants to come over,form busy man.Tell her she is gonna disturb what you're doing.
2.Start ignoring her calls,beep her when you're free.When she calls back, tell her you were busy
3.When chatting,let her do more of the talking while you just reply once in a while
4.Get another girlfriend.If she confronts you,tell her the same stories she tells you when you catch her cheating.
Aim:Gradually distance yourself from her and let the love fade same way and finally kill the love.Then focus on your new girl.


The bad guy way(I don't advice it) :
1.Reduce her to a s*x object.Always demand it from her
2.Let her spend on you.Tell her you're broke.
3.Get close to her female bestie/sister and make her your new babe
4.When she finds out you're dating her sis/bestie.Act like you don't care and tell her she can leave if she ain't cool with it.
Aim:To make her feel the pain you're feeling in a harder way.(It's not for the faint hearted and i strongly advise against it if you are faint hearted)



Which ever method you use,dont make her crocodile tears stop you or else,you are back to square 1.
Men like you who love unconditionally don't deserve the kind of bad treatment she is giving You

whizqueen:
Here’s my response https://www.nairaland.com/5783504/reply-chai-nigerian-girls-canada

Whizqueen

Please i want to ask you a question/i need your advice.Can i PM??

What i know is having a false feeling that something happening right now has happened exactly before and it's called De javu

And you may actually know her as per say you be baba for the girls lol
On a serious note,you might know her when she was much younger or probably you've passed by each other once but you didn't actually store it in the brain cos she is like every other stranger.And now you see her again, you might not be able to place her face but your photographic memory is trying so hard to recognize her.



That's just my 2 million

Hmmmmmn

Now the greatest mistake is not knowing your academic standing.
Some people will club, party, drink,not attend lectures regularly and will still be on a first class.Whereas,for you,you may need 100% level of seriousness to achieve First Class.If you compare yourself with the clubber......na OYO

Also,not being social is a mistake.You need to build networks of good people around you.Things will be easier for you both in school and when you graduate.Needing something and being able to say "I have sam there, he should be able to help me get it" is a good thing. Just don't rely on and trust people too much.Also,engage in extra curricular activities.Play soccer, basketball,learn to play musical instruments,volunteer,engage in competitions (Do these only if you have a good academic standing)

In addition,work not only hard but smart.If you see Expo,grab it(wisely oh).Let your lecturers know you for good.Move with brilliant chaps.In exam, don't cover your scripts and don't hesitate to get help too(dont get caught!).Be damn close to your profs, them get wahala o but try to be really close to them even if you're not a class rep. These are the same lecturers you'll run to for help, same lecturers that won't want to fail you and help you add marks(some get chin chin for head sha)

Lastly,dont plan to settle in naija.Start your abroad connection now.Start greeting that uncle in US, start greeting that Aunty in Canada.Try to hustle so you can japa on your own if any of them fail. This country is worsening day by day.You won't know until you travel out and see how things are overseas.
In naija, first class graduate still dey find job.Overseas,job plenty as long as you dey ready to work.Get that dough or connection and leave Nigeria for good(You can invest in Nigeria anyway)






That's just my 2 million for you.

saintvc:
GOING TO A UNIVERSITY IN THE FIRST PLACE WAS A MISTAKE

FALLACY
the mistakes are:
1.Studying some courses in Nigeria(Biochemistry,Microbiology,Criminology etc)
2.Studying only Your course without learning additional skills
3.Studying without connection into labour market
Infact, studying in Nigeria is a mistake.


All these doesn't affect everyone though.Some studied Adult education and they don't regret it.



So, going to university is not a mistake.It depends on how you make the most out of it.No certificate is useless

rex444:
hehehehehe

rex444:
weed I guess ...right ? your mind has been designed for the battle ahead....

Yeah

Which battle ahead?

sparkleboy:
Yes

Aiit

sparkleboy:
Tokunbo.
Very clean

Call or whatsapp 08032241126
Price 3m Negotiable

I know it's sold already but the location of this car, is it OAU?

This is so beautiful and artistic.Calligraphy at its peak. I bet it would take at least 20mins to write that.Meanwhile....
Let her study medicine and see if her handwriting will still be the same.
No need to study medicine sef, just enter Naija uni.She will give up on fine writing

Rekhina:
My arabian uncle

Huh?
And you're Nigerian

What was he doing? Was he insulting you or what?

Rekhina:
Sorry some1 is hurting me badly am so sorry

Who dare try to hurt you? Lol

It's alright...

Rekhina:
Go and lick her ass then! Let me be

Are we quarreling?Why the sudden change in tone?

Amylove5:
Don't worry you will see it sooner or later

Better o! Abeg mention me when it's time

Rekhina:
I don't think she has big ukwu, she may be lean like riele

If it's her picture that was posted up there,I don't think she is lean.Also,ukwu does not have to do with not being lean.The gift can be bestowed on anybody

AfroKnight:
Everything you said can happen even if he marries her. It’s even worse when they’re married and the wife becomes his enemy. She can make his children see him as a monster.

Divorcing her will only be mild on him in Nigeria. But if they live abroad, he would regret both the marriage and the divorce. Babymama arrangement saves him the stress of having to live with a woman who doesn’t believe a man should have peace of mind.

That's true tho.

But no matter what,a man still needs a woman with him

ProfDview1:
Expected wat... U must be joking bro..


At least u wunt see me beg from the same people I have insulted.

Davash222 is a shame to men


He was on his kneel begging a lady he often insults as evening newspaper.

Since then Davash222 has never abused any lady here again..

It takes only 5k to shut Davash222 mouth...


Mind u bros, I still need airtel card.. I Wan do data download strike back season 8


If u can hep me

Even the lady he insulted still gave him without considering the past they had.
So what is now your issue with it that you have decided to Shame him.Any fvcking body can engage in banters with someone,asking such person for help next time shows you aren't proud.Such person assisting shows maturity.It is between them not you.Face your own problems!!!


You need airtime so as to download a movie?When people need it to download tutorials to hone skills.Even if its #100,anyone who gives you lacks financial intelligence.....Misplaced priorities

Preshieben:
not that bad

Don't mind me.I like as you're not a pretender.


Big bulges are kinda embarrassing to me especially when ladies stare at it.

NevetsIbot:
I'm hon get married eventually.... But this will be the number one rule "If I smell you're not in love with me anymore or making life really really really miserable for me, I'm gon divorce you"

That's just what it is... If we ain't making each other happy, why live together. I see many miserable parents who stay in toxic marriages all cos they have children. Emi- someone can not kill me because we have children together.


Children without parents have made it
Children with single mothers have made it.
Children with parents have made it too.


I'll do my best as a father and a husband though. Marriage should be enjoyable if you marry a sensible persom

In many western countries,US,UK and canada inclusive.You as a man will run at a huge loss in the eventuality of a divorce.

Your property,fiam!You go pay child support tire.You will be limited as to when you can see your child as you might not be granted custody of the child.You will be given a particular radius to which you must not go near your ex wife.All these will affect one psychologically and emotionally except you don't live overseas

AfroKnight:
Naija babes are not making the idea interesting, to be honest.

Baby mama arrangement looks more interesting.

Do you think it pays for the man?
I feel the woman will have custody of the child even though you're allowed to visit.The woman will most likely reap the fruit of the labour since the child is closer to the mother.What if the man gets broke and can't afford child support?

If you feel I'm getting it all wrong,you can do well to explain to me.I want to learn

Davash222:
Life is circular.

Oh Mai Gosh

He never expected it!

yyba:
RPG

You for use motar or fire from a T-72 tank