₦airaland Forum

phanthomz: Im not a feminist, bt i simply beleive in myself. As much as im a submissive wife, i rub minds wit my hubby ova any decision we make as a family and he loves me d way i am. Cant imagine being a woman who doesnt av a say.

And yes women are actually stronget than men. 1. We are homozygous xx in genotype. Dat makes us stronget dan an heterozygous xy male. Maybe u dnt knw but over 80% of still born and miscarried babies are males. Why? Dy aint so genetically resilient.

Thus coming into existence and surviving as male is already hard work. To become a man is not easy. One reason to value male.


2. As a man, can u bleed for 5 days, av cramps for 3 days, carry a baby in ur womb for 9 months ( its like putting ur 15 inches laptop strapped to ur tummy everyday both nite, day, in d shower, bus, toilet and everywhr for 9months) and still cook, clean, make love (with d strapped laptop), go to work, and care for a partner who jst goes to work and comes home to rest without aving to bother about house work. Can u do dat for ?

Ever heard of adaptation? Humans and animals learn to cope with biologically/environmentally imposed situations or die.
3. Can u smile, and do laundary, cook, care for and make luv to a partner who is cheating on u? Are u even emotionally strong?

You're generalising that all men cheat. Statistics show that 30% of kids do not belong to the dads that take them as own biological kids. Even up to 50% in firstborn kids. Girls flex and carry preggy to one of their lovers (the rich or mumu among them) to quickly arrange wedding. Are those bastard kids from holy conception? Those women Nyansh dey open more and more as DNA test is becoming cheaper/widespread.

4. Can u hit a man who is ur size? U only hit women because most times u are larger than dem and dy av even been defeated mentally b4 d abuse starts.
Again you're generalising that all men are wife beaters. It may surprise to know that I have never raised my hand against a lover, not that there wasn't enough provocation.

5. Why do u think women live longer dan men? because even thru d wear and tear of caring for others, they are more resilient and therefore live longer.

Because women don't go to war, women don't get pushed into crime to bring money home like women push men directly or indirectly, DON'T DO MANY RISKY JOBS THAT KILL MEN DAILY. Moreover sex hormones/reproduction protect women against certain disease until menopause (heart disease, osteoporosis), ALTHOUGH oestrogen/early menarche make prone to breast cancer.



I could go on and on. Bt in d end, i thank God im a woman. A strong one for dat matter. Wouldnt pray to be anything else.

Crixina: with men like this,one can't just help but hate the idea of marriage.

Cos if probably one can't give birth to a male child,he will not just stop at hating you(the wife)he will extend the hatred to his own children(females).

Next thing the woman goes loco due to emotional trauma.

tosrich: The importance of a male child was Socially constructed to ensure male dominance.

allen2ritzy: i have plots of lands for sale located at a good site in Edo state, benin city. This lands are afordable. Contact me on: 08076372400.

Airforce1: Does dis guy sends money back home for his parents upkeep?

Cuz they look like an abandoned projects if u ask me.


@abandoned project
Sometimes I surprise myself

segzy14: he can get two plots if he needs too @ 480k

Ogbeche77: For this calamity to end, I think the people of Akure should do the right thing, recall the previous Deji of Akure that was dethroned.. If one Oba isn't dead another one shouldn't be ascend the throne . It a tradition, any attempt to float this leads to premature death and further calamities in the land... The people of Owo tried it and failed....

segzy14: @ all, u can also get a govt approve land in kuje, abuja. Agis land @ 500k, R of O, and it is buildable, for more info, call 07035596641, 08178706641

brabus: Very impressive!

A similar project in Ogun state costs around N400k

500 blocks - N60k
25 bags of cement - N45,000
Sharp Sand Sand - N27,000
Gravel - N27,000
Plaster Sand - N6,000
Reinforcement for the Lintel - N5,000
Windows (4) - N20,000
Electrical work
- wire - N7000
- switches/sockets - N4000
- others - N10,000
Mechanical work
- various sizes of pipe - N5000
- toilet/bath set - N12000
- kitchen sink - N3000
- others - N3000
Tiles - 14 cartons @ N850 - N11400
PVC Ceiling - N15000
Septic tank/slab - N20000
Rubber tiles for floor - N5000
Roofing sheet/Nail - N26000
Roofing Planks, Nails etc - N18000

Workmanship
Bricklayer- N50k
Electrician - N10k
Plumber - N10k

kitchen cabinet - N15k

Litmus: Before Ghana must go there was Nigeria must go. Many Nigerians lost their lives too, making their way back home.It was a little like baby turtles trying to make their way to the ocean while being picked of by fiddler crabs and seagulls...


Fortunately or unfortunately Nigeria has long memory so nations should do well to remember that when they target Nigerians.

binhozie: I had it mind to bad mouth you a little more, but then I can see today's your big day. So I'll just bury the hatchet and go ahead a wish you a happy birthday

binhozie: I thought it was Nairaland's Adaobi123 o...

Emmyk: What are Nigerians looking for in Zim anyways?

A country where 100billion Zim Dollars is only going to get you 3 eggs.

canalily: ;( jst eyeing you o o o! please can we chat, huhm?

sanniemoe: Lol. Saudi is a lovely place bit Saudians are one of the most hostile people on earth esp to blacks. d not visit there