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Take care of yourself and the children.
Leave room for co-parenting.
Stay well lady.

Thank you Bukatyne.
Well, i think forcing someone to have sex can be painful. It is best to avoid "forcing" than for the other person to seek redress after.
Just because I paid Ruth Chris for my well done steak doesn't mean I should go grab it from the kitchen

bukatyne:
The summary was that marriage provides consent to both parties so there can be no rape which is sex without consent.

However, in the course of sex, the husband/wife can force the other party who would sustain injuries. For instance, a husband can physically abuse his wife in the quest of sex.

The aggrieved party should seek redress as it shows the marriage has issues.

Exactly! After seeing those Florida Snail story sef how person no go fear to buy Snails!
Last time i ate snails was in Nigeria. My mom made stew, egusi soup with snails for me. I ate it every lunch and dinner time
Snail stew is very delicious!

KanwuliaExtra:
Prepared half-cooked and dried in Nigeria.
Then straight to freezer. I do not wash or clean them till I am ready to use them.
They are wrapped in newspaper to absorb moisture and prevent early decay prior to stuffing them in the suitcase.

The snails get here in less than 48 hours. 1 day of preparation and drying, then 1 day for transportation.

I can’t buy snails from ANY African store o!
Too small and very expensive.
Not sure how it was prepared.
These snails come specially from our own Baiba kitchen.

I still get plenty!
This wan go last me for anoda year!
I go dey chop am smor-smor.

Mine is progressive and a strong team player - the ones around me are too...so are many more out there...A few good guys
But I'm on the side of sistahs mentioned by the original poster. I know you will be progressive to your babes...not minding your tones

crackhaus:
Ahh you too?

So all of you are all married to the typical African man that doesn't assist with any of those 36 things she listed.

I will be here when another topic comes up. If I see you talking about being married to a 'progressive' man who is hands-on, I will call you out.

This na real enjoyment biko- see assorted breakfast.
After this kind food, na recliner and remote control for the morning

KanwuliaExtra:
Time for Akara and ? Your choice.

Akamu, custard or quick oats!

You got it from the Africa store frozen?

KanwuliaExtra:
Morning darling sis.
I cooked my stew normally.

Them washed my “frozen snails” TWICE with SALT and HOT WATER to remove the staleness. I cut of all the “jolo-jolos” (all those dangling tins dem).

Then I re-spice with onion salt and garlic.
I always retry the snails so they remain crunchy but soft.

I add the snails 10 minutes to my final stew and let it simmer to soak in the stew’s flavor.

Very DEH-lissssssh!

Oh my goodness!!! Snail stew - best taste ever! Snail stew dey hungry me too and now your snails come increase the longings for it.
Please how did you make yours?
Looking delicious!

KanwuliaExtra:
Today na “stew with snail” hungry moi. I have lots of imported Naija, frozen snail. So diafor. . . . .

Voila!

*Rice and Beans will always come in handy*

We've heard superwoman, supermom, strong woman helicopter mom etc
Superdad, superman (only in Hollywood ), helicopter dad etc not so much

She forgot to add nightly bedroom duty to the list

crackhaus:
If you are sure in your heart that you as a wife will do all of these and make them your primary responsibility without any assistance or complaints, then no problem.

Unfortunately, you and I both know that after just two weeks of doing these yourself, you will still start complaining all over again.

Nigerian women, na una way...

Jack, please don't forget to help the many beggars on the streets of Lagos! They are future leaders and the waited savior too. We have to start from somewhere.

Op, go to a real hospital and see a real doctor. Merahki gave you good idea. Henceforth, make sure your husband is using condoms.

jackslow:
You people just killed a future leader of this nation,that child could have been the Savior of this nation,now no more hope for this nation,we have all been waiting for him,is not even out of wedlock, but you still go ahead to kill him as if is your right,you're coming to tell us,it's you n your husband,you can as well kill the first one and know that you are done,you better run to hospital for your life

Carry on!

essenceplus:
Show the insults.


Comprehend first


From the comments on this site,I can see why the country us stuck in mediocrity


I doff my hat for Bukaty..m and yewand..m as two of the most intelligent queens here then lilmiss and a few ideas. Follow these ladies I mentioned, you'll be wiser cause iron sharpeneth iron

Repost but frame it in a way people would not mistake your intentions. Good morning!

bukatyne:
Unfortunately, the thread has been deleted do you cannot understand the OP.

Look at how you spoiled the thread insulting posters.

essenceplus:
Comprehend before hastily jumping On issues

How a man can enjoy sex while inflicting pain on someone you claim to be your wife is bothersome!
It's alright for the thread to be taken down - it maybe sending the wrong message to many.
Sex in marriage is to be enjoyed.
If one person is not in the mood, find out why and communicate.

- i see why the population for there dey explode!
Fxck na big thing o!

Fourwinds:
so make the man no Fvck again ba

Optimus212:
I'd say I was a bit that way but decided to change my lifestyle since the last time I cheated on her that nearly cost me my marriage. My wife became scared & started apologizing cos she saw it that she was about loosing her man because of her carelessnes. I forgave her, since then. I jst decided to keep calm because of the kids, now she's resumed same attitude.

zeb04:
so he cheated but she was the one begging? Lol

Oh well!

Right-she begged and offered peace offering after he cheated ko...but op, do you know any time you make advances, wifey sees the face of the woman you cheated with ?
He should find out from her where she would love to go on vacation to and get a flight ticket for two. Go explore and enjoy a different environment with wifey while using a different strategy to keep his home.

Oyindidi:
Crackhaus na the sins of this man make the wife dey use watin him like most to punish am.

After 3kids na sex you dey worry about and want divorce are those kids in private schools or do you have a strong financial savings for each college education?
You know, man- you get misplaced priority and na fu....ck!

Carrying juju to plane eh, when his age mates are heading to mount Everest to climb 29,000 ft into the sky!!!

Backward country people!!!

I don't know how young person can marry an old man...the aging smell due to cells break down doesn't bother them?
All the best though!

stanech:
Mueller: “If we had had confidence that the president had clearly not committed a crime, we would have said so,” -- “Charging the president with a crime was therefore not an option we could consider.”

Fixed according to Mr. Mueller's transcript.

So what is this crime?

Lol, why are you changing what Mueller said ?

"Confidence that president had clearly not committed a crime " was omitted from yours, why ?
Anyway, about time everyone let go now.

Rita, congrats! May he never changes his mind....you know men
Continue cooking that nice yummy native ofe for him bo. He go chop reach church aisle!

What a lazy man! Send him a divorce letter!
If you are not working you don't need a seer to tell you what to do in support of your family. Babes, do you need help - should be on your mouth. But no! What a waste of swimming tadpoles!

Only green plantain amala for me.

I don't like yam amala

Exactly- just jejely chop them if you can't find kale. I usually use kale for vegetable soup and chew spinach raw too soft.
Nigerian spinach is much coarse and hard.
I'm looking for the seed on Amazon to plant it here.

Did you get tgat meat straight from the butcher?

ibkayee:
Thank you, bagged one I’d used in the past became too soft quickly when it entered the stew but it may have just been the one I used. I will try different ones

Can someone please give me information on Ekiti state university NYSC program?

What is NYSC batch? How many batches are there in a year ?
What are the fees charged for mobilization, Remobilization, clearance, NYSC fee etc
In essence, what are the payments required for NYSC?

Your parents should provide for your upkeeping and expenses...that way you are catering for yourself as a student. Not depending on them in anyway. They are indirectly saying you cost them more.
You know Nigerians like leaving responsibilities for "my brother, my sister"

Where the picture?

seunlayi:
My side... Iyana-olopa, anifalaje to faith Bible church

Rice in whatever form don tire me. So I'm gonna finish the mussels and leave rice for you well done !!!

chasers:
C4_KITCHEN

Jollof Rice and Oven cooked Rice

Lunch Today. Village life... @cutiereborn your favourite is ready.. @Mariangeles minister of plantain,please come with some.

Second Photo.. Oven cooked rice with some potato

@Eife.I think is time for the kidnapping. Food stuff don finish for my house,time to eat free food.. Make i go arrange my bag wait for you.

Post pix of Lagos Ibadan Express way if you are around the area.
Akobo, that's near ojoo right ?

Op,
2019 and you are acting like this? this your him or no one attitude, you could fall for the wrong man.
Please face your work and invest in a good rechargeable, or heavy duty vibrator till the right person comes or not.

They have finished eating the Vultures and snakes now.

paix:
That's why vultures are hard to come by nowadays, because there's nothing left for them to scavenge. Children below 20 years of age, don't even know how vultures look like.