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don't be surprise Coo, some parents in Nigeria are irresponsible. The same way they send their children to hawk abi?
OP, please stop already. Next time lock your door when you see them coming.

coogar: https://gifrific.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/Johnny-Depp-Shock.gif

Say no to borrowing children out.
Only married people should have sex.
Use condo.m if you don't have the intention of having kids

Seun: What are we planning to do about this problem?

You are right ile Naija people ways of dealing with new born is way out of this world. Wait mama is feeding her yam porridge, nzu, kernel oil, palm oil and yam/cocoyam?
The only food your 2days old baby should be eating is breas.tmilk.
I think I heard no water for the first 6-9months.
The violent take it by force at least mentally. You can't bath your baby? Oyinbos have made it easier on today's women. You don't need to lappy your new born to bath them like our parents and grandies did now.
There are baby bath tub in the market where you can seat your little one and wash her.

ileobatojo: Madam, your mother in law might be slowly killing your baby. Giving too much water is extremely dangerous to a baby because their kidneys are significantly immature and cannot deal with all the water. It will cause the salt in the body to be low which can lead to brain swelling, seizures, coma and death. A baby should be having mostly breastmilk or properly constituted formula not water or sugar water. Please wake up and save your baby before it is too late.

It is only in Africa that men like that go unpunished.

Currently in the news is an American doctor who killed his very beautiful wife to marry Gypsy his mistress. Shortly after the wife died Gypsy was interviewed by the guy to become the children's nanny (so they can continue their rompy business).
The children are testifying now that their dad killed their mom.

I love American Justice.

Now this is hilarious
I like that name, Clintonis

How are you doing Deols

deols: lol

I like your username btw

imagine fa, even knowing she is 29 should be enough to respect her no matter what and let sister and mama deal with the situation.
29 years wey first pickin go don reach to marry sef for North.
that hand go soon reach her sister's.
The man na original woman/wife beater.

lorretta u: No mind am.
Na so the guy vex reach?
He can't tell his wife to warn the sister?
He can't complain to his MIL to caution her daugther? Na to slap am.commot belt to flog her. He's lucky I'm not the person. Some people and wickedness. Whatever the girl might have done. Even a real man can't do it in his own house how much more his in-laws' house.
I don't understand how someone can see reasons with him.

Hey aboki, what's the name of the gwaya you used

Mr Aboki: I have been smoking the Hemp for 13 years. In that 13 year period, I have graduated from a foreign University with a degree in Geological Engineering, Passed several accreditation courses, worked for 1 small construction company abroad, worked for one small company in Nigeria and I am currently one of the Lead Engineers on a project of a Major Oil and Gas company. I am currently doing my MSc in Oil & Gas Management online and I am also married (and would soon ba a father). I have a very solid income and I am nowhere near being a riff raff or a tout.

I drink alcohol (socially) and smoke the chronic almost everyday.



Now, take it from me when I tell you that hemp did not do that to Mr. Majek. Crack Cocaine and Meth are what does that to a person. Even Mushrooms would not do that to a person.


I am not saying you should smoke, I am just saying that someone who drinks Codine to get high and other chemically altered and manufactured drugs are the ones who suffer from such.

Hemp is now even being legalized in many countries including the U.S, Canada & Amsterdam.

It is your sister I pity o.
cain wey dem take beat .....how does the parable goes sef
somebarry help me with it bo.
Na ya sister's turn soon, she go hear weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Very disrespectful man. Beating your 29years old sister inlaw?
say waitin? dem never born you at all at all.
what are you waiting for OP, abeg gather awon omo boyz to give it back to him.

Please OP, forget about it and forge on with your life. Face your work/school and be the best you can be. Making and building your own.
What goes around comes around.
Stories like yours are common. That's why I hope those living oversea focus on giving their kids the best education. I have heard of people who rent apartment in poor neighborhood, manage life to the T so that they can build a house/buy land etc in Nigeria.
They work hard here with graveyard shift and unending hours just to make more money to buy land and build home that someone will one day take over.
Imagine what it would have been like for you if your dad saved those money in your name here in the US.
Lesson for us all.
Odiegwu.

Now this one funny well well

Sagamite: You are a pure person!

Whatever you are taking has damaged your brain to the point you quote things and it will not make sense to you.

Curtis, you are loved . Please listen to what everyone is saying here.
I hope you speak with Abali soon.
Cheer up and weather the storms of life. Tough time never last but tough people do.
You are not alone okay.
We love you, smile.

I think we should make it clear to each other before marriage that he/she will not eat for X days when there is argument. That way you know to cook for yourself. It saves on the food rejection/wastage/anger for not eating etc

deols: I am not married o. But my hot blood makes me feel like the man who rejects my food is telling me to stop cooking

wayo allah wayo!!!

oh that my lovely name wey i take enter NL up there fa, good ol' day true true.

I don repent and become good girl by force after Nigeria message board for Nigeriaworld, eyahhh Soja life good

SemperFI
throwing love to our Troops

so BB you watch Devious maid? wait you be Lady? I don't believe you are guy anymore

I watch it too on Lifetime my fav channel. Such a nice show and my sunday evening is not complete without watching it. I'm waiting for the next season. I really like how those Latino maids do their thing, they teach you a lesson. But we can't compare Lifetime Devious Maids who are mostly adult to Nigerian baby maids.

pickabeau1: This story reminds me of Devious Maids, a sitcom based in Bev Hills

The maids are confidants, everything to their mistresses

Ladies playing thick madam all over Nigeria shame on you if you use little children as house help and not sending them to school.
what is in the house that you and your husband can't do anyway?
Human are gifted with the ability to multi task. One mouth and two hands.
Send them to school or don't use them otherwise you are a very wicked person in disguise.

It is good you moved on. A woman who will ask a guy she is not married to more than he can afford is not worth it.
You brother's children need that money more than her so don't forget to give a little to them/remember them.

I don't understand all the overly dependent on boyfriends kia! kai!!
This recession and housing bubble reach Nigeria?

After carrying a baby for nine months, go through all the highs and lows, what do you expect? Romping with you all over so soon?
The baby needs her more than you do.... so guys stop whining.
The best you could do is ask her to go get some sleep and rest while you take over warming breas.t milk for your crying/colicky baby.
How can a man be jealous of the relationship his wife has with their baby? What are you missing that you haven't had before baby came along?
Jealous father may be part of Shaking baby syndrome. Hospitals make them take classes before heading home
Be patient because the best is what you want for your baby.

xynerise: This may sound a little bit weird but I think nowadays, the kids are having much attention. They seem to be in total control of relationships .

A baby also can stir up surprising feelings of jealousy. The baby takes up so much of the mother's time. Sometimes, the man feels like a third party, he feels like he doesnt do much of the parenting.

The woman sometimes feels self-conscious and less attractive to her partner. Some find it difficult to reconcile the image of a mother with that of a sexu'al woman, so they may be less interested in intimacy.

How can we adjust the much attention during these first 7-8months?

Very touching essay. I always love Rudolf Okonkwo's writing back at Nigeriaworld.
Really summed life in the West real good.
May all our cups continue to overflow with goodness.

faithin9ja: AMERICAN LIFE


By RUDOLF OGOO OKONKWO

No time is right. Don't give a guy power over you.
I wish Nigerian colleges are like the ones here. Students should be able to work while in school for their own needs/wants
Moving in with him is never an option. You will be playing wifey early.
Our parents should be playing the roles of provider now, eyaaah


[quote author=mizzocho.cinco]I have been dating my boyfriend for 4months now and since men play the role of a provider when is the right time to ask him for rent money, or should i move in with him to save him the trouble?[/quote]

seconded!
don't bother yourself.
Let her go.

ileobatojo: 'Nuff said.

OP, do anything different from this at your own peril.

next time allow her to eat bellefull, belch and belch some more and see she won't say 'thank you'
ask her do you enjoy the food? if her ans is yes then take that as thank you. If the ans is No, try to improve

agree!!
I should have told him that, lol I was trying to be nice o

Fhemmmy: not just prayer, he needs to tell them the way it is, and if they dont listen or blv - he has done his part.

Phder: 1. Don't call yourself what you're not. Don't give people back home the impression that you're rich by posting pictures of you standing in front of another person's car on Facebook.

2. Don't burn bridges, but you can block them pending the time; until you're stable.
NB: This might cause a long term fight/malice, but trust me once you throw a few thousands at them, they would forget that there was a time you refused to pick their calls.
3. Be sincere with your parents, if you're doing well, let them know, if you're not let them know.
4. Deactivate your Facebook account, use twitter (I am really serious about this)

Right!!
Thumb up!!

A friend and I was chatting with a course mate recently as we haven't seen him in a while and he was almost crying due to stress of the demand from home and school. 2 of his siblings are demanding money for college fees and his parents are also calling for money. He doesn't know what to do. I just listened and asked him to pray over the situation.
What I don't understand is if your parents can't afford to send you to school why are you doing jamb? Why not learn a trade?
I mean something small for yourself? Why do jamb only for you to start asking others for money? I don't know.

see BB's question

pickabeau1: Are you joking or really serious...

dayokanu: Op Nothing to worry about its very normal

Trust me on this

Let him strip you nakeed, I can guarantee he wont even do anything even if he does something he wont penetrate, if he penetrates He wont bust a nut.

If he bust a nut I would deactivate my NL account

very funny lol.

OP, leave that place unless you are enjoying the whole thing. Then wait to see what your sistah is enjoying at night, ewwwww

2Buff, nothing wrong using her money to buy boy toys now especially when little johnny can't stand up or you want her to continue to shuffer and shmilling for ever and ever?
building new house and buying boy toys are precious investments .

2buff: Crap like this only happens in all these "I work, my wife works, but I pay for everything" type marriages.
When you don't put your wife's money to good use, and if she is silly, she will find something dumb to spend it on.
This could range from building new houses without your knowledge, to boy toys.

I knowwwwwww imagine such emotional blackmail from the head of the howse o
common OP, hold her tight and clean those tears away with your kisses.

[quote author=soul_glo] And they say women are dramatic. He said he asked his wife why she tried to kill him. LMAO. I am glad that she is remorseful though.[/quote]

Don't force anyone. No is NO, stop is STOP no matter how horn.y or in the mood you are, no matter what you spent for her at the bar.

Randy African guys will never listen. They think with their abunna.