₦airaland Forum

Duchess500:
I have not had sex before but for the past two months, I have been having this serious urge to do it! It happens atleast twice every week! I confided in our family doctor who said it was normal and gave some medical explanations to it! But for some reasons, I decided to tell my mum who has been insisting on taking me to a white garment church for deliverance! I'm so scared right now! I don't know if I should follow my mum there tommorrow or go with what our doctor said!...I'm 18yrs old
Pls I need your candid opinion. Thanks

Cc: lalasticlala
Cc: seun

You have shown leadership by asking questions while your mates are busy having sex. Whether at 18,25 or 50, there comes a time when you will feel the urge to have sex but won`t be able to. It might be because your partner is not around or he is too busy for it. So the urge to have sex is perfectly normal at any point in time.
You will agree with me that no-one can love you more than your mum, but she is not perfect. You would have to show more leadership on this issue because religion can`t stop anyone from feeling the urge for sex. The person she is taking you to is likely to rape you in the name of his Jesus
Think about whatever you enjoy doing most and do it when the urge for sex comes knocking. Also think of the bigger picture that has made it possible for you to remain virgin at 18 when most of your mates have been having sex ages ago. Think of the dignity that comes with having your first sex with the person you love, at a time of your choosing.
As I have said earlier, even after marriage, you are still going to find yourself in a situation where you would not be able to satisfy the urge to have sex, due to one reason or the other. If your hubby is on course abroad, what you are feeling now is close to what you would be feeling then, if not worse. So see your today as a reflection of what life is all about. Take your time, don`t rush so as not to end up with broken guys with the fake promise of making you whole. Good luck!

On the one hand, we say Babangida and Buhari are not welcome in our area, but Obasanjo that is the personification of all evils is free to walk around. Double standard is the most popular religion in Nigeria!

chronique:
The stories coming out of naija everyday, just shows that naija is the last bus stop before hell.

Why do you think America is stopping Nairaland from putting negative news about America on the front page?

As per the murder, just be careful with what you do to those that are less fortunate than you. There is no justification for her murder, just as there is no justification for owing the poor guy money. Those with little or nothing have nothing to lose, one of the reasons why they should not be taken for granted.

Not every 20 year old that comes to your house, at the first time of asking, is looking for sex. This mentality often leads to rape. Good luck

Kenyanstar:
Ollysaks
Oxtonguy
Henrydone
Beremx
ATERI

You will have all of this in a single Nigerian city, but I`m with you guys when it comes to putting the positives of our countries out there.

Nice one!

The Parliament means nothing, especially in Africa!

Orikinla:
I’m a Muslim, a woman and an immigrant. I voted for Trump.
Watch video on
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/global-opinions/wp/2016/11/10/im-a-muslim-a-woman-and-an-immigrant-i-voted-for-trump/?tid=pm_opinions_pop

Hitler was voted into power by somebody, so enjoy your suicide vote!

Obama didn`t visit Nigeria because America has the wimps of Nigeria in her pocket. Nigeria has never posed any geo-political puzzle that would make Americans see Nigeria as a country to be treated with care and respect
Nothing to worry about though; where is Obama and his America today?

Nigeria has done everything for me and I have done everything for Nigeria, but it has not been enough!

PaulIdu:
First and foremost we should expect some level of world peace , Hillary's regime change terrorist from Yemen to Syria would have no choice but to call it a day since funding would most likely be stopped.. For Americans we are like to see unemployment reduce as more American firms are encouraged to produce at home rather than outside, A Trump inner city marshal plan led by Mayor Rudy Giuliani will improve the quality of life and reduce crimes in the inner cities of America
. For Nigeria as Saudi and US relationships weaken a bit We expect the US to reconsider buying Nigerian oil like it had done for ages till Hillary and Obama put a sudden stop to it and throwing our US dependent more economy into sudden chaos ..I could go on and on but I Nedd to take a shower and hit the road

I like your optimism! Selfishness, injustice and double standard are some of the factors that encourage terrorism.

America and Israel used to tell us that killing Yasser Arafat would lead to the end of terrorism, it hasn`t

George W. Bush and the hawks that surrounded him then moved on to Osama Bin Laden. His death under Obama hasn`t stopped terrorism

It is Isis today, it would be something else tomorrow. So can President Trump bring the world together and pursue global peace? Charity begins at home. A person that deliberately divided his people at home cannot unite the world.

No businessman starts a business out of patriotism, the bottom-line is profit. Americans didn`t take their businesses abroad because they like Mexico and India better than they like America, they are taking their businesses abroad because of the availability of cheap labour. Donald Trump seems to like globalisation when it works for Americans, then hate it when it doesn`t

Ha ha, so Trump is going to be pro-Nigeria? Good luck with that! I understand he has called the Presidents and Prime Ministers of ten countries since his election. The only African country that Trump called was the dictator of Egypt.

Muslim women having their Hijab pulled off from their heads have been very common in London since the Brexit vote. So this advice is appropriate

Some people think we have a secret agenda whenever we discuss the West. At the best of times, virtually everything in the West comes down to the colour of your skin. When the most powerful leaders openly demonise the minority groups, it becomes an open season.

In order for Donald Trump to be President, he decided to reverse 50 years of racial and gender progress in America, turning the lives of millions of people upside down through the hate and sexism he preached. I`m sure my Creator would end my life before it stops being the source of happiness to mankind.

The deluded ones think this piece of advice is only useful or applicable to the muslims. Seriously?

PaulIdu:
For your info he will be the best American President after Franklin Delano Roosevelt..MAGA.. most prophecies called Hillary the Jezebel..For your info the closest we ever came to having the Antichrist was Obama and Hillary,they funded Islamic terrorist from left to right ...watch how ISIS disappears on it own now and Allepo gets solved in days ..The grand patron of funding Wahhabist has been defeated by a first time politician ordained by God and God alone

What major achievements should we expect?

Lucasbalo:
On this one, I absolutely agree with you but I still want him to be successful because his being successful means America is successful.

Interesting years ahead of us!

When a billionaire businessman promises to become a radical politician overnight, we don`t need to take him seriously. The truth of the world we live in today is that of a failed economic system that have left the majority hungry and angry. In the West, people have come to believe, very wrongly,that immigration is to blame for that.

The world order that has lasted till today was designed by those that used slaves as a means of production for centuries. Hence the world order they designed, after they claimed to have ended the slave trade, remains exploitative in which the majority are underpaid and undervalued. That was not a problem when those that were underpaid had access to cheap loans and credit facilities. All that ended with 07/08 crash. The Black Jesus called Obama spent public money to bail out the car industry in Michigan while the little man was abandoned- that has become the story of globalisation. Now one of the beneficiaries from globalisation is promising a bogus change.

How can anyone promise a tax cut for the rich and claim to be helping the working class? How can you pick a fight with China and at the same time promise economic progress? How can you move against NATO and think you can make America great again? These are assumptions only a political novice can make.

What is giving America influence around the world are organisations like NATO and the United Nations. The fact that America pays 75% of NATO budget allows America to influence European security massively. Well, get out of NATO, Germany would step in!

At home in America, Trump simply wants to regain influence for the whites. Good luck to all his gullible followers- from Nigerian Americans to crazy Biafrans! Trump is only going to make Americans hate again!

Is the world order over? Maybe, Maybe not!

Obama came to London a couple of weeks before the referendum vote. He told the United Kingdom that they would always be at the back of the queue in all trade negotiations should London vote to leave the EU

The winner of the best presidential election in Nigeria miraculously died when Americans came visiting

From my own observation, the editorial policy of Nairaland is dictated by America!

Congratulations to all Trump supporters. His mess is your mess not mine! Good luck with the mess!

Tell us the source of your wealth, greedy idiot! You are one of the reasons why the parliament will soon be dead in Nigeria. I`m sure most of the people that voted for you are going hungry everyday while you continue to display your illiterate addiction to materialism. But then, are you not Saraki`s boy? Robbery is the middle name!

SSBN:
Of late there has been a spate of me waking up and discovering very thin but razor Sharp marks on parts of my body. So smooth is the line, it tnrows away any possibility of an accidental scratch by my fingers, especially in places bar to reach. Has anyone experienced anything like this before?

Please, drink more water. Then get tested by a toxicologist, if nothing changes!

Ugosample:


What are you talking about

If you don't know the Asians raise the most well mannered kids on the average, and though discipline is not compromised, you don't see them dehumanize their kids the way foolish Africans do, yet in every corner of the world now, they are taking over, while Africa is still a useless cesspit.


How many baby mama Asians (Particularly South Koreans) do you see in western countries in comparison to Black and whites?
They still raise in most cases balanced kids in western countries that Africans complain about....
It seems their method is working and we need to learn from them.

Mannerless continent

The Chinese want all their children to either be academically good or die, hence the high suicide rate among their youngsters. You mean that is better and more civilized?
The Chinese children continue to do well abroad because they stick to their Chinese culture while we abandon ours. The kids being punished here are learning about responsibility very early in life; please, tell me what not to like.
Everything in life is relative; I won`t be told how to raise my children by Westerners because the difference is clear. It`s Africans that do not know what is good about their culture, or haven`t lived in the West that should be trying to fix what is not broken. We have to sort out politics in Africa, but that problem is not bigger than the socio-cultural mess the West faces today, propaganda apart!

davtosh:
Don't mind these people. Many of them don't think on this platform before typing. what do you expect from a Godless Generation.

When they hear of missing people here and there do they think ghosts from Jupiter came to make ppl disappear ?
They are being used for rituals and the root course is this their satanic traditions that are supposed to be abolished completely.

I hope some of their family members are abducted for rituals to keep the tradition of their fore fathers alive. Then they would come out screaming Afonja have started again.

Here is a God fearing man telling you he shunned Ritual for Christ you said it's bad and some are saying it's not possible. You think he is the only Christian Oba? You have missed it.

Sick Godless Generation.

In the UK, a child is reported missing every three minutes, used for rituals? My brother, your religion and language have to be originally yours before you can talk of having a culture of your own. There are rituals in every religion. Saudi Arabia shave your head, you never have problem with that, do you? Neither do you have problem killing innocent animals, do you? The earlier we move on from the anachronistic belief that the African Traditional Religion is about human sacrifice the better.

Lastly: I don`t get to choose the traditional rulers of Yorubaland, but Obas have to believe in the religion of Yorubaland. The queen of England can`t undermine the Anglican church and expect the English to respect her. So the lazy and inconsequential Obas have to know that, privilege comes with responsibility. This is a new generation problem, and expect a new generation solution because old generation Obas never disgraced themselves like this.

What a bastard!

Some of you are pathetic; raving and ranting for nothing. I was reading a lady`s book the other day who was found of advising Nigerian parents in London to take them back to Nigeria to complete their secondary education, once she concluded they were no more redeemable in London schools. Her point was that she had seen first-hand the type of transformation that happened to those that did in the past. You lot want to turn Africa to the land of indiscipline where everything goes, right? My advice remains the same as before: take your hopeless and ill-mannered children to London or Washington for their education and leave barbaric Africa alone.

I have just had the misfortune of visiting the thread of the idiot that was slapped by her lecturer. How I wish I could get to that hospital bed so as to tell her to get a grip.
But why are our people in Cameroon wasting time? What happens to the good old lashes that deliver potent messages to all late comers in double quick time? Most of the people `in mourning` here were useless in their school days. 21st century? Yea, discuss that with the Chinese!

panafrican:
Lucasbaloen
1. " 3rd world " is a term created by a French racist self styled Mr. Now -it -all , so intelligent him and his peers did not see the German army coming when Hitler came to power in 1933. After we Africans saved their butts at Verdun ( WW 1), we had to help get their tails off the hands of Germany in WW2 when undrr Hilter their freaking country was overran in a matter of a week.
So when they take pride using words like that / we laugh. FYI De Gaulle was not in Britain when he fled like a little girl from occupied France in 1940, he was actually hiding in Cameroon .

2. Now the Kenyan Obama: you know what , a U.S. president' s legacy is not only assessed from the domestic or ethnic persepectives, but also from his
intertional accomplishments.
We are not in the 1850s or the 1950s before the so called Civil Rights Act. MAYBE back then we would only be celebrating a negro having made it to the Devil's House (The White House) , and close our eyes on other things .
Obama's African policy was embarrassing to say the least. He has yet to tell us why he backed all French and British criminal acts against the development of Africa. He has yet to explain to people with common sense why he, a young man born on the 1960, stood up before the most family- pride -oriented people (I mean Africans) in the world and tell them they should overturn their thousands year -old traditions and allow men to get married with men. Does he really think him being the president of the United States is the Solution to every issue? An intelligent and wise man would never ever go that way.And We want to remind him we Africans had knowledgeable people and great leaders thousands years before him at a time when his ancestors on his White mother's side were living in caves and beheading each other in Europe.Keep in mind we had after Egypt the kingdoms of Wagadu ( or Ghana) , Aoudaghost, Songhai, Zimbabwe, Abome, Mali, Kush, tge Zulu empire etc.

Him having the guts to come in our face and lecture us over the need to tolerate homsexuality demonstrated how low and despicable many of the African derivatives who are born in the Americas or elsewhere are confused and lost. They don't realize we are the original Black people. We keep our traditions, no matter what.
Europeans and their brainwashed slaves controlling the world does not mean our traditions have disappeared.

Are we proud of him? we are proud a Black blooded
president was able to sit in the Oval Office of that Executive Mansion in that land where the White man took
our people as slaves, raped our women, hanged our brothers and sisters, burned alive our children and threw many of them into the depths of the sea. But we have to remain vigilant on what our History should remember so that it would not be misleading to our descendants.

Nice one!

Zoharariel:
A worthy son of an Afrikan indeed!

I would rather worship a white man who defends or pleads the cause of the oppressed & the downtrodden - like Putin is doing in Syria than associate with a bastard who attempted to shove the abomination of Amerika (Homosexualism) down my throat.

It is called Diddly Squat, not diddly square.

Afeez Assad kooo, Lookmon Gadaffi niii.

Whenever Lucas comes with a hand grenade, you always respond with a bomb; please, show mercy!

Okeikpu:
Another Hausa/Fulani slave

You should have posted this in joke section!

One of the most credible leaders Nigeria has ever had; why is he not in politics? Youths that don`t seem to get their priorities right, should be begging him to go into politics. Served with Babangida, but refused to be polluted by him. Happy birthday, sir!

Nuhu Ribadu!

MrTour:
Obviously it must be London.

A city lively and bubbly 247.

A city for all.

A city where you cut your cloth according to your pocket size.

A city where you can have it all.

A city where you can buy full chicken for N1000.

A city where food supply is bigger than the population x 100 times.

A city where everything works.

A city where public health is N01.

I love London city.

"England has collapsed politically, monetarily,constitutionally and economically"- Mark Rutte, the Dutch Prime Minister