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Zanzibar1:
I have come here to raise this issue because i believe someone must have passed through what i am going through at the moment.

There is this Lady i met in March, she is super classy and has all the curves and looks like a model. What brought us together was just a friendly convo and a friendly tease that i admire her nails and since then she has been all over me.
She asked me if i lived alone and i told her i currently stay with a friend because i just relocated to the city based on job hunting levels. She asked what my plan was and i told her that i would like to first get an apartment while i sort out other things.

I don't know what exactly she does for a living although she said she sells women hairs, bags and shoes. I have actually seen her post them on her whatsapp. What surprise me the most was that she doesn't deny me access to her phone. This made me to loosen my grip a bit regarding my phone privacy ... Then one day, she saw a loan app message requesting me to pay my outstanding debt, she asked me how come and i told her the truth that i was seriously broke and i wanted to take her out. I wanted the two of us to go swim together and have fun. And that was why i took the loan. She frowned and asked why i was stressing myself to impress her .
She transfered some money to me to offset the debt. it all happened like juju. i am still trying to wrap my head around that.

I am trying my best to fit in with her but something is really off somewhere. I don't want to assume i know entirely what she does for a living but then, i have grown to really admire her. I wouldn't want to call it love but all my thoughts are always about her nowadays. Like 4 days ago i questioned her about some friends of hers i saw on her icloud and since then she has been giving me tough time.

Lately, she told me point blank that if i cant get my own apartment, she'll have to stop dating me. she said she is ready to even pay part of the money involved but a nigga got nothing to afford even a face me and face you room. I have tried my best to explain to her how i am even surviving and how broke i am to get a 150k self con. She keeps saying i am going to get a job and ill be fine, that i am a man and i will certainly raise the money if she as a lady can raise part of it.

I dont know why she believes so much in that tho cuz i have been very opened to her. My mind has been filled up and i dont have anyone to share it with thats why i brought it here. i have my doubts about her but i love her.

Please pardon any typos, i am writing this straight from my heart

Jmichael1:
Hw I go leave all dis big booty grls then cum dey nack my fellow man....God forbid
May I die the day I try it...

Massiveglory:

The helper has become the one that needs help.

fineboynl:
People who don't drink not to talk of being addicted to drink don't know what God has done for them.

It's difficult to save money or plan if you drink every night and hang out.

If you are a Hangout addict and drinks you will understand what I'm talking about with the current economy in the country.

I know how much I spend a night for normal paging even on a low key.

Thousands will just go like that before you knows it. Couple with all other bills to pay.

duro4chang:
The reasonable advice your mama give you no take am shey na our own you go take?

Islandlady:
This is a man who mean well for the country

Sadly people blinded by hatred will not see his potential and what he will offer!

Well may God give us the best leader come 2023 and also get your PVCs ready

hammermcc:
Only in third world African countries do people bury the dead in their compound.even south Africa does not practice such . burying of the dead in their compound is bad for real estate.
I have mentioned on my other thread that Nigerian needs real estate land reform. we can not afford the current method if Nigeria will be developed.

In fact , most Nigerians do not pay property tax . and yet you expect roads and street lights and public amenities to be fixed? there needs to be compulsory property tax which will deter people from thinking the land belongs to them forever and therefore burying dead on the land.
people should pay heavy property tax if they want to own a home. if you can't afford property tax then rent an apartment.

Tracka:
Humanity is gone, we're in a mess

Omicronvaccine:
The former boss and co-founder of Twitter, Jack Dorsey, has hailed Elon Musk's acquisition of the platform, IGBERETV reports.

Reacting to the $44 billion deal, Dorsey tweeted,



https://twitter.com/jack/status/1518772757340639232?s=20&t=kaKwl7SfmRtdk616Xfv-Rw[/quote]Shut up Mr. Dorsey! You have only made money.
A whooping 44Billion dollars!! What kind of money is that

CoronaVirusPro:
Why cage what you cannot feed

The Zoo’s management should be made to face prosecution

What sought of inhuman treatment is this? Must you cage what you cannot feed!

Those Lions will be adopted within 1 minutes if put up for adoption

**spit **

blockgeek69:
You can fix all this things by your self if you are willing to.

A young lad at 30 already giving up? There is so much you can change even at 40.

ETHICALLYrlght:
If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.

I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.

You're not romantic, that's the problem.

When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?

When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live".

Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?

Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.

If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.

If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account.

successmatters:
That's good.

Soludo is a great person, and will make the best governor in Nigeria and around the world.

Igbo land brims with high quality human resources.

LeoDeKing:
Reno omocriminal feeding his pigs with cud to chew since time immemorial.

Pretty sure if the form were to be 1k, the town crier would have come up with another set of delicacy for his brainless followers to masticate as usual.

Clown has been crying for the past 7 years to no avail, but it hasn't still down on him to have.
reappraisal.

Useless being with foolish subjects.

JohnBullMySon:
Tinubu has shown all the signs of a bad leader. Are we operating on monarchy or democracy where anybody can run for president?

Poor leader banking on petty sentiments and emotional BS about loyalty and influence to become president as if he deserves it more. He'll just be clueless and average like Buhari.

I don't care who wins this election as long as Atiku and Tinubu lose the flag of their respective parties. It is not about you or your life ambitions but about Nigerians welfare.

PrinceOfLagos:
How much is this man worth to pay 100m without breaking a sweat

Iyaebe:
I hate all these modern misogynists called men,always copying and competing with women on everything, what's this rubbish again? I think this is a new invention from the redpillers

Realmi:
U are just 21, u dont have a job, but u can sleep with a girl....

Now u are scared

Really

Like u tot the product of sex is canada visa


Wen u dey do oxlade style and probably filming it to, u were even having sex twice in a week for three months

Time wey u for use dey find money

U have plenty problems ooo, u are not just awear

Fairmedia:
These abokis must be checked, their numbers in Lagos is alarming. Don't give space to your enemy, to grow too much, they might take over your region.

Sanwo Olu, in North they have hisbah and sharia police, oppressing Southerners and tacitly discouraging us from staying amongst them, by oppression. We need state police in Lagos, too many okada men and abokis with knives and daggers everywhere, we need to send the urchins without id's and legit work back to their states. Sanwo Olu, your loyalty is first to Lagos, then Southern Nigeria, protect your home. These Fulanis are smart and their core interest is taking over Southern land and pastures.