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jaybenugo:
Popular Nigerian singer and songwriter, Tiwa Savage, on Sunday boasted about how young she looked for her age, adding that she has a ‘baby face’, IGBERETV reports.

Savage, who turned 42 on Saturday, stated this on her Instagram story, as she shared a picture of herself.

She also boasted about her other qualities. She added that she was also sexy, and prided herself for having talent, a good heart, and money.

Referring to the picture she shared, the mother-of-one wrote,



See screenshot of post below:

https://igberetvnews.com/1414161/baby-face-dont-look-age-tiwa-savage/

Na all these things they make you no fit keep marriage.

Anxiety2022:
I just got diagnosed of been HIV+. I don't even know what to do or where to start at this phase in life. Dream looks shambles. I had that HIV positive patient must take it's drugs everyday in other to survive. I really do not know where to start. I feel like taking my life away. Who can give me a concrete advise on how to survive this. The trauma is much on me. I really do not know who to ask for favor. I am looking forward for your advice.

Secondly is the drugs affordable?

First of all... Calm down. Hundreds of thousands of people died from Covid and you survived it. So calm down. It's not as if anyone is making it out alive anyway.
I will simply advice that you take your mind off it as much as possible, accept your status, take your drugs and live your best and happy always. Nothing is gonna happen to you.
After all... everyone has got one ailment or the other, it's part of life.

Megabig:
She agreed to marry you because she want to answer “married woman” not that she’s into you or ready. She hasn’t grown yet, calling her mum and recording you also, then lying and admitting when caught. One year is so short, you should check if you have to leave especially if you don’t have kids yet. Never trust a lying woman. Never

My Oga! Which woman does not lie? Abeg forget that thing. If it's not to setup. Women are like that, they feel they are smarter and think men are fools.

Keeff:
When we started out, we both agreed on her not dressing provocatively or giving negative impression( nose rings, double necklaces and legchain). She stopped the legchain she was using at that time, the relationship is two years old now and she now insists she wants to be using it and her mom who is a single mom doesn't see anything bad in it and believes it's all fashion. Both mother and daughter are the party types, always want to attend parties, I think her mother influenced her on that and now we having serious issues because I told her I can't allow it and I'm on the brink of losing her even tho we've been through a lot together and she even already aborted like twice for me.
Dunno what to do

Oga how old are you? This is the 2nd time you are sharing this issue today. Pls, you know what you want, it's your decision. If you don't like it but she does then you both will have an issue. There's nothing so much to think about, decide if you can live with it or not.

Why is it that men are the ones in this contraption and never a woman. Women would instead request money from men but men would take risks to source for money...

How can you be so stupid to want to remove an engraving (tribal marks) with laser or anything at all except to plaster it.

Go and marry Don Baba Jay

CriticMaestro:
So my girlfriend wanted to use my phone to call her mom last week during the brief black out, While going through the phone she saw apps that were to prepare someone to migrate as a skilled worker into some european countries.

She immediately got pissed and was just shouting that i was planning on leaving her without informing her. The truth is i downloaded those apps to see if i could get a better opportunity abroad but have never opened any of them.

It took some explaining before i was able to convince her that i wasnt planning to leave or atleast anytime soon. I deleted those apps and will just browse stuff about it on my PC when i'm free, if i get the chance to go i will maybe help her to work her way when i am comfortable.

You be mumu! Better plan and be man, the same woman will humiliate you if you fail to provide.

ashewoboy:
can a woman phvck man? who exerts energy during copulation? you have your answer.

It's like you have never been "hit" well by a woman before. Yes, it happens

KVN1:
Good afternoon all.
I dropped out of school at 200level because I could no longer cope with my responsibilities at home and my studies altogether. Had to defer so I can continue much later in future after I achieve balance. Now I am trying to learn a skill,but for two months now, I have only been able to accumulate just a little more than ten working days at work.
When I don't go to work, I go in search of menial jobs but everything now seems like a rat race. Time is really flying and I find myself going to work (as an apprentice) on an empty stomach most times.

I can't even cope or even concentrate with neither skill nor school because of I'm so broke..

I didn't go anywhere today.. just in bed, hungry and confused.

What do you think I should do?
what's the way forward?

DM me your account number na, make I send small something to take hold belle first. I have been in your shoes too.
I remember when I used to go teach every Thursday and Friday stabbing lectures and even missing tests. Las Las I graduate sha... Just hang on and know that it won't be like this forever. But you must plan and work.... No miracles anywhere except from God Himself.

tensazangetsu20:
So automatically the child is an American citizen and has a ton of opportunities open to him and one stupid pastor somewhere is telling us that God loves us all equally. You must be a big fool if you believe God loves you and someone who was born in the USA Canada Switzerland Australia Japan et al equally .

Congratulations between.

A lot of times, we are not just ungrateful to God but also act ignorantly about it. Do you know that you could have travelled to the same America or even be an American but gone? Do you know how many lives are being lost in the same "America" due to wild fires, tornadoes, hurricanes etc. You speak of this America as if it is heaven.
Well... We that are in Nigeria we thank God for our lives. It is also true that God loves us equally, we are the ones with the prejudices, greed, self-conceit and total inconsideration to one another.

You failed to mention that you have been sleeping with him already. Proposal or no proposal, carry on madam. Accept him and come here later to tell us how it all turned out awry.
But is this really how some women think? Well... We have also heard of some men sleep with their wives' sisters.

Legalcriminal:
One of the advantage of being a Nigerian is no matter how bored you are, try to get data you can never be depressed.

Abi now! You can't be too bad that you are good for nothing now. There must be one thing, no matter how small...

gost:
No be every wahala dem de sell,
some wahala you go just cary dash your village people, or sow seed.
For the records, This battery is not worth 300K.
Check Nigerian roads very well, how many of this rides do you see? They don't last like Toyota and 500k can still give you a manageable year 2000 Nigerian used Camry.

Abeg what's the problem with Golf? I am interested in the vehicle. I want to use it for sales... Everyday waka-waka abeg how good is it?

Jerewise332:
Hello nairalanders

Just came across this timetable in one of the federal university in Nigeria and it’s contains the workload for the internship students in the faculty.

I would love to know if after seeing this timetable you would like to study agriculture or love your child to study it?

It's simply shows that we mostly go to school to acquire certificate and not really to practice the course. How can an Agriculturist be running from farm work? May be you are amongst those always eyeing federal govt job...

LordIsaac:
"... anytime she leaves home...she usually doesn't exceed one day..." To where?

Nice one! That's the most beautiful question. The mother had been wary of a pending disaster all along but the deceased was no longer within her control... It's a shame! How we got to this stage surprises me. How we will be living in the next 20years frightens me more!! We have female daughters everywhere. The stubbornness of these children these days is crazy.

seunmsg:
I like the way Tinubu is going about mobilizing support for his ambition. He keeps building bridges of unity and support while others keep cursing and threatening.

He has never abused, cursed or even reacted to the numerous abuses hurled at him by some opposition elements. Just a clean campaign of peace, unity and national acceptance. Positive vibes only, no negativity.

With the way he’s going, I won’t be surprised if he visits Atiku and Wike to solicit for their support. Baba is ready to work with everybody.

He is a proven tactician, only his policies are to elitist!

Giftlove11:
I was being blinded by love to the extent that my boyfriend and I took a blood covenant, that was about some years ago..

The truth is that I was so madly in love with him, and when he brought out the ideal, I thought that was the only way he will be mine forever. So I agreed with him, and we made the convenant.. We use needle to cut out blood from our thumb, and we made a vow never to live each other or make love with another person..

i've been discussing with him to end this convenant, but he always refuses. We took the convenant when i was 17yrs, and Its been 8years now, and i've loved only him. Even though i don't love him again, i'm afraid to have or make love with another person.
he say we can't end it and that we must mary each other.

I already found someone else i love, i'm planning to report him to the police or his parents if he dosn't give me a chance to go away..

*i don't kno if it will actually hurt me if i love another person.

i really want to go away from him

The truth is that you are not really worthy of marriage to any man cos you will want to leave the same way when you see someone who appears better. This will be a lesson to you and others like you. Marriage too is a covenant, you don't just leave!

I understand your point perfectly. Only a strong man can do this. She would definitely be back and better.
It is good that you don't devalue yourself before your wife.
Nice one...

Noah9:
Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.

My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.

Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.

Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.

Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.

I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.

I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?

I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.

Please Help Me.

With all due respect your wife is being selfish! Even though, you should never have forced your way.
This is the reason why I pity some guys that envy married men, and even say it that married will sex anytime they want. Na lie! Infact na scam!! You will only have sex when your madam allows you. But the use of force should never come into play. Even though, women can be selfish a lot of times, they only want to have sex when they are in the mood, they bother less about the husband's mood. Nonetheless, as a married man even unmarried, self-restraint is very important. And always remember you may not be able to have sex anytime you want.
Initially I felt may I wasn't performing well too until I started seeing and hearing other people's stories.

I was once like you @Op. Mine was online betting. It almost ruined my life, if not for my wife and God that saved me. I have since stopped the act but I am still paying debts (not to loan apps but to family members).
I feel your wife can really help you stop this act, if you are the type that respect your wife, cos I can see you have shown concern. Let her plan your finances with you, I feel women are better in managing finances than men.
You also have to show some self discipline, it's very key. You will overcome by God's grace.

KillIgbohoN0W:
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Your total debt is N527k.
Cheers.

Walahi mad people full this forum. Just catching cruise with another man's problem

matrix199:
And we were insulting Buhari for collecting loans from China.

you are not serious.

osuofia2:
Let the dead rest...
The parents of the boy failed him, when they were supposed to give him urgent medical care they were busy looking for more money leaving the boy to the care of care givers. Parenting is not about provisions
Nigerians should learn how to be factual and not been emotional about events. Nigerians used social media to crucify the owners of dowen college. I will always say it, just pray make your case no wrongly come social media

Really? Parenting is not about provisions? Then you are not a parent yet. You talk as if it's easy for the parents as well. Do you really know what they have to do to get money to pay school fees, feeding, accomodations, transport, electricity bills and all sort of bills most especially if you are in this Lagos State.
I wake up as early as 4:00am and leave home 5am just to beat traffic! I witness how Lagosians rush out every morning with so much intensity just to get to work early and sometimes through road accidents and all whatnot.
It is not easy for anyone!
The school was paid to take care of the kids. It's their part to handle. Why do you pay mechanics to fix your car? Can't you fix it yourself? Why do you pay Engineers to build your house? Couldn't you build it yourself? Please, let the parents mourn in peace. May the Lord console them.

billyG:
D & C if done careless with some foetus parts left inside can cause bleeding & complications in future,if d uterine walls are scrapped off can lead to d two opposite walls gumming together and healing as one blocking her passage forever.

I totally agree with you - Asherman syndrome! It's definitely not without it's risks too.

Mylordmygod1:
Hello nairalanders...

i got my girfriend pregnant since september, and it really got me crazy..

when it was 2 months, we tried to abort it, and so we met a chemist who gave her drugs and injection, he told us that the blood we rush out, but it did rush out just small and stopped.. So it did not work even after i paid him 8k..

now, we are about to carry out D & C abortion tomorow, but she keep saying she is scared.. Even me, i'm scared too..

i don't know what to do..

please, don't feel bad reading this, i only need advice on this, it is a wrong move but my mind is already made up to do it..

how i wish i can just allow her to birth it..

though, one of my mind is still telling me to keep it, but how can i be able to take care of her and the baby?

And she is just my side girlfriend, not my real babe..
pray for me nairalanders, i need strenght this moment to take the right decision..

Guy I understand your predicament as a man too. But truthfully you are your own strength. First, thank your stars that you did not suffer any casualty from the drugs. Abortion drugs are too dangerous and should never be considered. D and C is better but just be careful. You could have saved yourself from all these nonsense by just using condom. Guys shouldn't always get carried away... It is very costly!

Trimjos:
They say there is dignity in labour.

This beautiful lady by name Precious, an Agricultural and Bioenvironmental Engineer decided to drop the ego and pride to take brushes to do wonders.

She has all the beauty to move into prostitution or other societal ills, but she rather, made-up her mind to delve into this world/job dominated by men. A big Kudos to her.

@Op This your write up is not good enough. A female engineer turned painter is good enough.
All those "drop pride", option of "prostitution"... are not necessary. We appreciate her effort and labour.

NovesaTillie:
You married a slay queen like me and you want her to be a full wife Material

You don't have many options now than to make do with the content in the package you came home with.

This one na badg girl

SultanOfPuna:
If i give a woman 400k
She must fvck me from January to December
Infact bj every morning
doggy 5 times per day.

By december, change suppose still remain for that 400k. Highest i go give her na 280k

Mad man!!!

mmadu5:
You are very stupid for this useless comment na ogun go kill you . You expect blessing to pay 120k for one useless portrait. You will die before your time . I promise you

And you go live beyond your time? See how you are cursing as if na you wan buy am.

TMSMedia:
"Why The Rich Run From The Poor": The Artist Who Drew Blessing Okoro's Portrait (Photos)



https://www.instagram.com/p/CYjYWZ7NqO2/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

'Let us judge this matter
So a random fan drew me, put it in her story, I saw it and acknowledged it, to support her I said frame it and send me I will pay for it. According to her she framed it and asked me to pay 120kv, added her account no. I felt irritated, I ignored her, she brought it down to 70k Now its funny how she is giving me price for something I willing wanted to buy to reciprocate love back . So I kuku told her to take it to the art gallery and sell it for same price . Funny enough I get art works over 12 as gifts free. Now you see why the rich run from the poor Now you see why people especially celebrities never respond to you , because you always want to rip them off. Change your mind set and stop being a collected, honestly I wanted to dash her 100k. Learn to be a aiver. vou must not always collect.'

I am quite surprised at how people keep condemning the artist. This is artwork! The art lovers know that artworks have no price tag. It takes whatever value you place on it.
We have seen numerous situations where worthless materials are sold for a fortune abroad. It is art!
There's nothing wrong in charging 120k for that from Blessing (supposed celebrity). She wasn't asked to buy it in the first place, it was just shown to her and neither did she train the artist in school. No wrong done here by the Artist at all.
You wanted to dash her 100k (as support) but she brought the price down to 70k yet you couldn't still buy it and had to bring this private affair online. The young people should always be wary of these guys when having anything to do with them.