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Honestly you will be fine, stronger, more experienced and better positioned for the future. You will not die though it is tough getting through but you will be a better person for it.

I have experienced something very similar only my situation was that of a single man in love with a woman getting married to another man.
It was sweet and terrible. I understand perfectly! And I swear that the sharp pain to the heart (as if a spear was thrusted in to your heart) is very real. I felt the pain for long (several days, I can't count) but here I am. Now married with my own family and very happy. I am sure she is happy too! Though we still talk on phone and chat once in a blue moon but we never get to see eye-to-eye even though we live close to each other. About 14years now...
The lesson learnt... is love alone is not enough to take you through relationship or marriage. It's like trying to build a house and using only sand in the absence of cement. It's all gonna crumble sooner or later.
At least you put the basic things into consideration before embarking on a relationship journey and also calculate you gains and losses.

Elolam87:
Voice of the voiceless
I hope you will be released unhurt.

They want to silence him. Our Police are just an organised syndicates on their own.

BlueRayDick:
Firstly please don’t force her to go for KPMG since she already made it clear she d doesn’t like Accounting. This is because sooner or later KPMG will still mandate her to write ICAN ( depending on the unit she finds her self tho ) KPMG even makes engineering graduate to write ICAN if they find themselves in units like audit, IARCS , etc .

As regards the other offers she’s waiting for , I will suggest she gets the offers and decide on what exactly she wants to do with her life . I know money will be a factor in her decisions but let her be sure she wants to be a banker or work in a dynamic firm like Meristem. At the end of the day , the decision is hers to make.

On another thought , since u said she studied statistics and did well, she can go for KPMG. If she gets into their actuarial valuation services it will be good one for her . She will be exposed to the best international working environment and it will do a lot of good to her CV. In fact Just 3 years experience in KPMG alone , she will take big career leap such that if she decides to work for GTB or Stanbic she would’ve left her colleagues that joined those companies originally far far behind

Lovely analysis

Jalaw:
Another show off thread.
In the other thread, the OP boasted of earning 500k monthly and want to know if he is rich.

Wetin person no go see!

Na wa 4u. Everything na show off? Abeg live and let live.

ZenithBanking:
I have a big probem.

I'm always peeping on my neigbhours/friends unclothedness when ever they are taking their bath.

It all started six years ago during my ND in school, & up till now, i'm still living with it.

During my ND, there is no famale tenant that i didn't see her unclothedness to more than a million time, even when i went back for my HND, i did thesame thing.

I'm currently serving right now, and i'm still doing thesame thing here. I peep on my neigbhous and fellow corps member here.

I've been doing this for six years, and i've never being caught. Sometimes i ask God; why was i not being caught all those times in school, why didn't GOD want me to get caught.

I've tried every possible means to stop it, but all failed, even when i don't want to do it, my spirit will keep pushing me & if i don't do it at that time, i won't rest.

It seems i can't live without it.

I know someday i will be caught and embarrassed and get my pictures uploaded online for this crime.

I'm afraid, i need help.

Don't worry you will outgrow it by the time you are done with service and life hits you hard with full force. You will think less of peeping and more about how you will survive or even to feed yourself.

I love you for your bravery! You will keep living. I have prayed that when my time comes, I die fighting! I will never submit to anybody or be a Captive. I would rather die in the fight or escape rather than captured.

Guyman02:
Focus on your religion, don't go around listening to what other people say and finding fault in them and calling it blasphemy.
You Muslims commit blasphemy when you call Jesus Christ a "Prophet" because Christians believe that he is Lord and above every Prophet.

Enough is enough!

I can never forget that, there was a day right on my street, when some Muslims (Yoruba) in Lagos were holding a night program right in the open on the street and one of them with the mic was challenging Christians to come forward if they can prove that God gave birth to Christ.
He was throwing up a direct challenge which is the same things they don't want done to them.

successmatters:
The cleverness is amazing

They just replaced all the names with Christian names.

They are trying to play politics with it. The man that was stabbed in Ayobo gate too was stabbed by an Igbo man too right?
This is one of the reasons this country can't progress anywhere.
Nigerians are the problems of this country! The country will be just fine without us.

silvoclaira:
If you allow her to keep making you feel bad about your performance or ability, that preek might never gonna get hard because she is talking it down from your brain.

Don't push pass your borders!
You are just ordinary FORNICATORS She is not your WIFE

Check your diet/foods. Thats where the problem lies.

Your penis is in good health.

Blatant truth!!!

00FFT00:
Very simple.
Grow steel balls like your Igbo neighbors, and set up BSN (Benue Security Network).
Ak's are N600k a pop, and have the boys go fulani hunting.

Now, how hard is that?.

I swear! If they can just do this, everyone will be in check.

NwekeUG:
https://igberetvnews.com/1420404/wizkid-burna-boy-link-dior-fashion-show-photo-video/

I still prefer Davido to these two combined.

LINSAR:
Been a guest for a while but decided to open an account to share my predicament.

I am a grower. Whenever I'm erect,I'm only average in size. But whenever I'm flaccid,it looks like that of a toddler.
This isn't even a problem since the erect size is okay.

My problem:
I wish to learn how to swim.But the water makes the D to shrink.Now,swimming trunks are usually tight.Even ordinary clothes,water will make it stick to your body.
This will make my small water-shrunk D to be really visible.

Should I go swimming and ignore whatever shades,stares, embarrassment I may receive? or I should avoid all these and leave swimming?

It's a normal reaction for a lot of guys. Cold temperatures shrink the dick size. And you don't have to wear tight to wear your normal boxers short.
There's nothing abnormal about you. We aren't all the same...

advanceDNA:
I dont know the crazy love nigerians have for corolla ..The tokunbo now sell for btw 2.850M to 3.1M, especially if its the sport edition.. i dont know if its just because of the exchange rate, greedy dealers or both...

Since yours doesnt have cool wheels, has high millage and also needs tiny body work, they might price it for less...

I suggest u do your maths and peg the price at something reasonble.. a little below greedy dralers' market value.....

We are always a desperate and hopeless people, who have no self-worth.

seunsiju:
Still battling with one unwanted pregnancy ,expected to be a father soon, Read https://www.nairaland.com/6980702/over-girlfriend-pregnant
Another girl is pregnant for me and his parent insist on no abortion
Why i'm so fertile like this, Wheras i already had a year old boy, second pregnancy is now like 4 months, new one is now a month pregnancy
Three expected children in a space of three years is too much for me to handle, tho i'm financially bouyant, all thanks to crypto
Advise on what to do, i don't want any more child !!i hate using condoms
Pls no insult!!!

You are not only fertile, you fertile and stupid!!! Keep sleeping with ladies without protection and come back here to tell unnecessary tales. You get what you work for...

Mooh247:




Finally Sanwo-Olu grew some balls .

Such a spineless Gentleman of a Governor ... Sorosoke youths disrespected him, AGF Malami disrespected him, a Police DSP refused his orders now Abokis are doing anyhow under his watch

Try this nonsense with Fashola...


Only Babatunde Raji Fashola would park his convoy catch Traffic violators himself, send you to mobile court, send you to psychiatric hospital to check if you are mad or ment , make you pay fine or loose you car, crush your bike and turn it to scrap or simply deport you back to your state of Origin

Nobody is above the law under Fashola .. Obasanjo and Orji Uzor Kalu companies sef chop fines and sanctions, even Jagaban Alpha Beta collect



.

Guy! You dey craze!!

Ceenachi:
Should I remained Elrufai?

Is this not blasphemy? Would not be noises if it was about the Muslims?

FalseProphet1:
The north have always maintained that they're a violent sect, they have always stood and fought for what they believe in.

The south on the other hand are anyway belle face, always crawling to worship whatever orders the north issues even if it's to their own detriment.

Look at Abba Kayiri, if he was a Southerner, by now he would have been cooling off in an American prison, but being a northerner, they protected him. No single picture of him in detention has been released to the public yet they keep on fooling the south that he's in detention, baba is in one duplex flexing away on low key.

If the south don't stand up and face the northern aggression, they will become slaves in their own villages.

This I have seen.

You have said it well. What I keep wondering is where were all the other Tribes when the northerners were installing their men all over the armed forces i.e. Nigerian Army, Navy, Air force, Police, Customs, Immigration (even the passport office in Ikeja is headed by a Northerner), Civil Defense, EFCC, NDLEA etc. The northerners had long been perfecting the take-over of this country and they are almost there.

slivertongue:
He should have done it quitely no need to go public. Weldone sha

How quietly do you want him to do it? To whisper it?

Eventhough, he is rich, he appreciates little things...

realmindz:
They think they are in Kano or sokoto.

Those guys are less than humans, they are not better off than pests such as rats in dust bins. With that their prophet with uncircumcised penis like a donkey

I thought I saw Presbyterian Church there.

McMay112:
This is gradually becoming serious on a daily bases. My Christian brothers this is war. Maybe we should start ours from south south by stoning the hausa guys and ladies in our own region to death so that they will equally share in the pain. The trauma of the first incident has not been healed and they are trying to create another. They are better be warn and the government of the day should interfere in this if they are not ready to create ethnic/religious war. To even ask, between Muslims and Christians who is full of blasphemy?

This is exactly what will stop the nonsense! I swear it. I keep saying it, it wont stop until we stand up to each other, then it will stop!!

godofuck231:
The next coming president needs to constitute a special activities division under the NSA only answerable to the president and senate committee on defence , this guys should be eliminated quietly, erased and the case classified

This cannot be possible because the President-to-be will still be surrounded by the Sponsors of the Terrorists.
Why has the Government not been able to mention any names so far? It's all a cover up.

lalasticlala:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4k2laedf3mo
Angry Youths Protest, Vandalise Non-Muslims' Shops In Sokoto Over Arrest Of Deborah Yakubu's Killers

It is the religion that also told them to loot people's shops.

APC2:
I created this new account to hide my identity.

We live in a highbrow area in Ogun state with one Kid of 2 years. My wife is not working, she is attending a university in Ogun state where we lived. My wife always watch African Magic, Zee World or running from one prayer house to another. She does not respect me at all. Living with her for 3 years now is hell on earth.

Yesterday, she told me that she attended a program conducted by a prayer ministry and the the General Overseer, a woman told her to bring a bag of rice as a seed. I told her I don't have money to buy a bag of rice for a ministry I don't know anything about. She got angry and told me that I must give her the money before I go to work. To my greatest surprise, she block the door and told me that I am not going anywhere until I give her the money for the bag of rice that the woman of God need the rice that yesterday. I got angry and tried to push her, she gave me a heavy slap and began to shout and insulting me using English so that every neighbour will hear. I was so ashamed and forced my myself out of the flat, she ran after me, held my clothe and tear it down.

I return back to my flat, carry a cable wire and beat her until she couldn't stand up. I'm an operation manager in my company, I went to work, took excuse and went to police station. I carried two police to arrest the general overseer, when we got there, she started swearing that she did not tell my wife to bring any rice, that it is my wife that volunteer to bring. The police did not arrest her again. I returned to office and notify her parents.

Her parents came in the night and after I explained to them, they insulted their daughter and apologize to me. I told my wife to follow her parents she refused.

So about 12:00 midnight, my wife started again, threatening me that she will deal with me, talking loudly again that I called her parents to come and insult her and she will pay me back in a way that I will regret knowing her.

When I couldn't sleep, I went out of the house at about 2:00AM to look for a near-by hotel to sleep. Immediately I entered the hotel, a young lady standing in front of the hotel followed me to the reception. I was thinking she want to book a room as well. The receptionist told me that the available room is 17, 000. I accepted and paid. I was directed to the room and as I entered, somebody knocked the door. I open the door and it was the young lady that followed me to the reception when I was entering the hotel. Before I knew she entered the room and said, "oga, I will do you well, na just 4,000 you go give me". She started touching me and I told her to stop it. I was so disturb by wife problems and I needed someone to talk with. So I accepted the lady. We spent the night together and had sex twice. This is my first time of having sex with another woman since I married in 2019.

I am always at home with my family when I return from work and I think my wife is taking that for granted. I will be going out from now to meet other women. I am completely tired of the marriage and I am considering marrying another wife that can give me peace and respect.

When we advice that you men should marry a quiet lady, una go say na slay queen wey sabi dress, wey don put like 5-5 earrings for each ear, put nose rings, very long eye lashes, get shape, get everything Una want. This one too go get problem na, na follow come.
Oga sorry o... Na make God no allow them make them kill you o... No allow am stab you knife for nite sha. Becareful!

Omihanifa:
Mumu people

Instead of them to come together and protest against insecurity, banditry, endemic hunger, drug abuse. They are busy carrying Islam on their head

If not that Nigeria is a useless country, how can you kill someone and still have the mind to be protesting everywhere, killing southerners and destroying their businesses

It's the Christians that are even suppose to be doing what they are doing but we get sense Pass them

It is no longer sense my brother. It's more like timidity now. These unprovoked attacked will not stop until the Christians learn to retaliate in equal or greater measure. You will see that they will start to behave well... But when Christians keep quiet and live it to God, they are happy and will keep at it.

zealousayo:
I saw some Muslims' comments on facebook, i couldn't but shake my head. Those people (northern Muslims) are barbaric savages.
If Christians and other religions adherents begin to react in the same manner, the world will just turn upside down. In my area, there's one Imam that always insult Christians openly; he doesn't do it codedly. Yet, no one has ever attacked him. No one is even bothered about him.
The important question is, why should I be serving a god that can't defend himself?
I won't condemn Islam because I have many reasonable Muslim friends. They do come to our house for Christmas and new year festival, and I also do visit them for itunu and ileya festival (Salah). In fact, my dad was a Muslim and a majority of my family too, but at times, if you hear some Muslims talk, you will be scared.

There's nothing to actually be scared about. I tell you... It's is because Christianity had been solely a docile religion, this is the levity the extremist Muslims have been riding on. When you face fire with fire they either both burn aloud or both quench.
It won't stop until the Christians wake to defend themselves and eachother at all cost. At all cost!

Tonero5200:
I Just attended a wedding ceremony where the celebrants told the mc to announce to the public that people shouldn't bother spraying them. the mcee said it loud and clear, that we should eat and drink and keep our change to ourselves or we should come spray him the mcee or DJ. As a normal nigeria at first we were happy, atleast money is saved, but as time went on we realised they were certain people that were allowed and expected to sprayed while they were dancing, the celebrant peers and all, Rain of cash everywhere... meaning we that they saw we were likely coming to spray with 500# or 1k were rebuked, probably they don't need our 50naira, change.

I felt embarrassed and angry at the same time, that's ill-mannered from them, I hate it when people look down on me, because they are financially bouyant they think they can look down on people anyhow. Well I look to see them in few years time where they will be. I wished them a normal married Life and withold the happiness from it because I don't think they need it.

Nobody is looking down on anybody. You are simply the one with complex.

Sylraph1:
May the perpetrators and their supporters never know peace in their in their lifetime...

Rest in the bosom of the lord young soul.

They already don't have peace, this we all know. But these incessant and unprovoked killings by the Northern Muslims should not be condoned.

Just seeing her comments now shows that its not really about any blasphemy. It's simply committing crime in the name of religion when you know nothing will happen afterwards, they will most likely get away with it. If there had been reprisals, they would have been tamed by now. Everybody go comport. When you know there is punishment for crime, you will think twice before going ahead.
It's becoming more and more certain that this country is better off apart/separated. But before that is achieved that should be CHECKMATES!

I don't know why these charlatans of Northerners are trying so hard to be like their Arab brothers from the middle East. The other time they stoned to death an RCCG female pastor for preaching in public and nothing happened. I feel their should be reprisals and retaliations for these acts.
There's nothing to be professional or mature about here.
It should be an eye for an eye!