Very funny.

Mamaput, mos. definitely not. We all can't raise our kids the same way. If we did, everybody will be the same and we don't want that. The major thing, each should raise up her kids with respect.

grafikdon:

Ahhh, cut the guy some slack! My Violator action figure came to live this morning and started chasing me all over the house with a meat cleaver. I had to call 911. immediately the police knocked on the door, it droped the cleaver and became a lifeless statue again. Yup, they doubted my genuine story and recommended a shrink.

Welcome and have fun!

So real men, beat their wives? I did not know that. I thought it was the cowards that don't know what it means to love a wife, that beat their wives.

Female circumcision, guess you forgot to read the part this part:

Bhola:

I love my culture and I aint changing it. Some things I will do away with, some things I will never change.

texazzpete:

You truly are pathetic.

Wow, pathetic? I think that is a strong word to use. Though, I usually stick with simple words, that way I ain't confusing myself. Pray tell, what makes me pathetic? Because I let a man be a man, now means I "deserve" disrespect from him? Hmmm.

Windywendy, (like your username ), when you find a marriage that is completely free of all those, please kindly let me know.

See, I still agree with Ugwumba, if she is leaving him because he is chatting with another woman, there seems to be more than he is saying or knows sef.

You know how many married men, I chat with? It is all harmless flirt. Nothing to it.

Rotbog, you is very funny. Let me try my A.A English.

Have fun. This is just so funny.

I was going to say the same thing, I just don't want the 'holier than thous' of Nairaland to attack me. (referring to Ugu's post)

I seriously believe there is more to this story.

Something to do, first you might want to admit to your wife that you did flirt with the woman, just come out straight with your wife, then you might want to find out from your wife, if there is more that she is not telling you. Believe me, if she is leaving you just because of that, then something can be said about your marriage.

Oh well, may everything work out well at the end.

I love my culture and I aint changing it. Some things I will do away with, some things I will never change.

When I first got here and got my first job. I remember always switching to my right hand to give a customer something and then I did not stop there sef, I will bend my knee, like the proper, good Yoruba girl.

Now, I don't do that anymore. But guess what, I can never, ever give my parents or my relatives or people I know personally, some thing with my left hand. I still bend my knees when I serve people, especially male, food or hand them something. That part of my culture I love and I am keeping.

If and when I have kids, the female will do likewise.

Keep changing everything about your culture and soon enough, there will be nothing left to hold on to.

N.B: I like men that are men, not wimps like we have out there now.

Your story is really sad. It would have been good, if you did not know, but now you know.

"To him/her that knows what is good and does not do it, to him/her it is counted as a sin."

Now, what to do? I really wish we can get a counsellor or therapist here. I wonder how old you are.

What to do? Telling your mum is not an option. Not telling your mum is not an option either. You have told your dad to stop seeing the woman. I guess that is about the best you can do. And to think the woman is married likewise, and with kids. Mehn, what has this life turn into?

Just take it easy. I know it will be difficult to not read your dad's email. You can suggest that he changes his password, that way you will not be tempted to read his mail. There might be things going on, that you don't know about. I suggest that you talk to your dad and ask him what kind of lesson he is teaching you by what he is doing. Poke his conscience. Maybe he will come to his senses.

I really do feel bad, but I can not understand how you feel. Hopefully, this will be resolved amicably soon.

God help Nigeria!

I agree. You talking about the one with his daughter? That is a good song.

Hi Lauryn. I can "c" you.

How is CA? Getting cold yet?

Thanks, Adeola.

Candylips, you no fit draw us o. The combination is fire.

Olabowale, you can't run away now. Kindly stay the course of this discussion. I am sure a lot of your folks are counting on you to continue to provide proof to all the "errors" in Christianity.


TayoD, not sure if I have sent my appreciation to you yet. Oh well, here it is, good job you all are doing. Keep it up.

Ladies, ladies, lionheart looks waaaaaaaaaaay better in person.

Hey you, I left my drawing in NE, you go fit draw another one?

Very short, if you don't feel like getting married to him, don't. Choose how you want to live your life. If you are concerned about him having kids now, believe me, it will get worse after marriage. So think hard. No need to rush into this kind of decision.

Good luck.

Placing the onion in water also helps. Putting the end of match sticks in your mouth, also helps. The chemical on the tip of matches captures the "teary fume" from the onion.

Ose o, Biola. Girl, you are so not fat. He be like say, you no know wetin fat be o. Come Texas, you go sabi fat. That said, you are surely a pretty girl. Believe me, not every guy likes lepa.

Mr. Comedian, when did you turn into a scientist? Kinetic energy and heat energy? You better stay with debit and credit and PNL and shit like that.

You know I got much love for you.

Uche2nna:

oooooooooooooooouuuuuuuuuuuuuuucccccccccccccccccccccc.That hurts,Bhoja (it is Bhola, thanks in advance for gettin it right), . Anyway lets hope you do the endorsing

Now, the statement in bold, u don lost me o, bro. You go fit explain am small, small. As per, plenti of us no fit grab big grammar.

Thanks GNature. I did not though, I am just in touch with reality. Someone on this thread can tell you that much.

It just hurts me when people make statements like that. You, me, we, are in charge of our lifes. We are responsible for the choices we make. We have the freedom and right to choose what we want in life. Love inclusive.

Uche, you can find that person, but before you can, you have to know yourself and what you want and desire in life. If you don't, then when you meet the person, even if they are "showing" you love, you might not be able to recognize it.

Just read your reply Uche, soap opera response, is, the person that makes you cry, the person that you want to jump of the bridge for, the person that you talk to, on the phone for hours, the person that you have sex with everytime. That, my bro is the soap opera version. What you mean about coming down to your level, I really wish I knew. Unless you have something in mind and you are just waiting for someone to endorse it.

How do you tell you are in love; when you are accomplishing greater things with yourself, when the person you are with is uplifting you, rather than pull you down, when you have peace of mind, knowing that in all, someone is watching your back, when you think about the person, you give thanks to God for bringing him/her to your life, when the sound of the person's voice, is enough to make the day go well,

Mehn, I can continue to write more and more. I will say it over and over again, if you are sad, feel hurt, cry over a person, then it might not be love. If it is love, then you are suppose to be happy. Love does not hurt, period. Lust does!

Am I glad you found the courage to move on, Hell yeah. Way to go, girl!

If you are for real, better post his name and let the sista in here go mess him up. Some kids we have here. Now this is the thing that bring out the bitch in me.

Olorun a yo, no one knows his wife. Low life idiot.