Unfortunately, she's of that age 23 when they try all sort of things, you can only pray that she changes ....she will soon though. Your friend should just tolerate her
Draslo: This is not for me. My sister na church worker
My guy's sister is nothing you write home about. Their father has money, like 3 Rolls-Royce parked in the compound type of rich but the girl is very promiscuous. Many big boys on the island have had a fling because she must attend every raving bash. Her SM pages are full of filth in different countries. You'd easily call her online olosho sponsored by politicians. Her friends are worse cos they don't come from that kind of money. This girl is just 23 and already a red flag amongst guys. Even guys that have never seen her unclothedness will claim to have slept with her and people will believe as long as the guy has class.
My guy is getting married in January and doesn't want his only sister there. Can she still be saved?
As far as you mention previous work experiences for the last 3 years, you would required to submit a work related reference (UK or Naija depending on what you listed). Your chances are higher if you list a UK work experience shaa. Yes Academic references (PT or DS) are suitable but then you would need to explain employment gaps.
What a lot of people don't realise is that those part time jobs in the UK can serve as work experiences and references gotten from them.
Phil46: To avoid all these dramas, if a UK reference isn't mandatory for a job, would it be okay to just use a personal tutor or dissertation supervisor (for those on student visas) plus a Naija reference instead?
Exactly. Most times in addition to requesting references, your employer or you may be asked for your past payslip. They also go as far as checking up the employer to see if they exist.
kwakudtraveller: I think that this is the catch for most boot camps, the promise of a reference and putting them on your CV. I sure say most companies now don dey clock this format.
Attend the disciplinary hearing and thereafter resign. If you resign without the disciplinary hearing, it means that you are guilty of deception and ran away with it. At the hearing you stand the chance to explain your situation better and understand why this issue came up. Resigning without this would be depriving you of valuable lessons learned. Avoid using bootcamps as work experience.
Dimdim8593: Good evening everyone I am currently in the uk working for bank as a financial crime investigator, although I am still on my probation stage.i was suspended for gross misconduct(legitimacy of reference(uk)) I provided for them during my background checks,initially this check came back successful but months into my employment ,I was suspended for the reason above.after fact finding meetings I had with my manger,my case was moved to disciplinary hearing. I am confused as to what to do ,should I resign with immediate effect which I have read that the company can sue for breach of contract as I have a week’s notice or should I go for the hearing and defend myself. Note:their concerns is for the reference I provided with a company I did bootcamp and voluntary opportunity with. I actually worked on cases with this company with the duration I put in my cv. Please house help me with advice
Sad really. Coincidentally, it was a the attendant at the post office I went to that advised me to do same to avoid matters that touches. This was during the Royal Mail strike sef. We learn everyday.
Wking: I didn't know i was suppose to do a return label and the post office i use was a post office inside a store and the lady didn't tell me about return label so annoying. ok i will apply for a new one.
toughest007: Hey Joyglo, Are you not the same lady that came her to tell us she wants to go on a thrilling getaway with one Italian man that's interested in clearing all her tuition of about £14,500?
Are you now moving on with the fellow? You didn't update us again or is this the update?
Can't recall, but please correct me if I'm totally wrong.
Maks27: a few days ago, I noticed a thin black line on right side of my iPhone XR's screen, and I also saw recently that the line is longer than before. I tried to take a screenshot, but it does not appear in the photo. I tried to restart the phone and had my software update, but it's still there. What seems to be the problem? This problem started when I changed the charger could that be the issue
Wow ...I always advise people to include a return envelope label that can easily be tracked and protected to avoid issues such as this. Have you contacted your local post office? On the process for the BRP re-issue, hope you went through the gov.uk website though and yes its like re-applying for a fresh visa. They would need to recapture your biometrics to confirm you genuinely had one issued you before.
Wking: My People, I applied for a provisional license, but failed to do a return label for my brp card It has been over three months, and I have not received my Brp card. I am considering applying for a new one, and I've paid £19 for a standard application and I was directed to a new third-party link that is requesting £245 to book an appointment. This seems like a rip-off, and I'm feeling frustrated. Can anyone provide guidance on this process?
everything is also looking like i am applying for a fresh Visa.
No you won't be asked to present a proof of address. Yes you can use the same address used during your initial application. Note that once you get your own address, you are meant to update UKVI with that new address.
broglie: Good morning everyone, please I want to know if I will be asked for proof of address when applying for my husband's dependent visa. I have been in the UK for five months under the healthcare visa but I live in a different city from where my employer is.
Should I use the address I used during my application which is my employer's address for him? Please help me if you have done this before.
Do you have a family relocating with you? How about your cousin paying up to the amount he's suggesting and you pay up the balance by working when there?
Souzin: Honestly don't know what to title this thread.
Well, I never thought I'd japa any time soon from this country until recently.
The plan to japa was presented to me by my cousin, who will sponsor the entire thing but it has to be an affordable university < €10,000 for fees
Now, I have been trying to get Information on where one can go study for cheaps in Europe with less stringent visa application process.
Most the information/thread on Nairaland are either old or abandoned.
Please, I'd appreciate any information, especially from those who recently travelled or are in the process of travelling.
PS: UK is totally out of it. I have a Bsc. Statistics - Second Class Lower And looking to do a Master's in Data Science/Analytics
Exactly and you could see on her face that some of those items she took, they might not eat it or enjoy eating it sef but just because it is free, she must take too
ehizario2012: Not nice at all, see as her face fresh... She dey work already. Food banks are meant for those who just entered UK and not having a job yet... After some months or years, the aim should be giving back to those food banks to help new comers... But greed sha, awoof!
Nonesense naa ....people wen go spend hundreds of pounds to buy from African stores still de go chance the poor who the food banks are meant for, e nor nice naau
They are still feeding him eba when his mobility is reduced ....which hospital is this sef? By now they ought to have a dietician working on him to help reduce his excess weight. They shouldn't harp on him living off insulin injections, that would lead to his demise faster than would be the case.
officialwdhtv: Mr Ibu's wife captured feeding him days after "his daughter" Jasmine released a video of him.
Makes a whole lot of sense because na retirement, person de plan for now ....any experience garnered now, would be geared into switching to private sector consultancy . Thank you so much for this very insightful response, I appreciate it.
Schoolhike: I understand your considerations regarding the civil service and the NHS. If sponsorship isn't an issue, I would indeed recommend the civil service route. The flexibility to switch departments or roles within the civil service is an advantage. There are often new roles advertised weekly, and internal mobility within departments is quite common, offering a variety of experiences and growth opportunities.
NHS also offers valuable experiences, especially in public health and administration, the pay scale can be a bit limiting compared to civil service roles, which Is one of the reason I don’t like NHS (although NHS Scotland pays more ), civil service jobs often provide more flexibility in terms of work arrangements, such as hybrid work options, which might not be as prevalent in NHS roles.
Regarding compensation, a role in the government that pays around £50k can be equivalent to nearly £69k in the private sector when you consider long-term benefits like employer pension contributions. The government's contribution to pensions is significantly higher than the average private sector contributions, which hover around 3-8%, compared to the government's 26-28%.
all in all, a civil service role not only offers a broad range of experiences that are highly valued in various sectors, including consulting, but also provides substantial long-term financial benefits and work flexibility, this could definitely enhance your career trajectory and provide you with a strong foundation to transition into higher roles, even within the NHS later on, if that aligns with your career aspirations.
What are the possible experiences one can get from civil service here? Any idea? I know that once one get a civil service experience, it improves ones chance more in other sectors especially with big consulting firms or isn't this the case?
I would love the NHS opportunity though but the way is lower than the civil service job and a bit far away from home which could disrupt many things and plans😩. I'm hoping that with the civil service job after it lapses, I could get a shot at the NHS on a higher band.
I appreciate all your thoughts on this.... Pls 🙌🏾🙏🏾
Schoolhike: the decision should align with your personal and professional priorities, If financial gain and a broad range of experiences in a short term are more appealing, the SEO Civil Service job might be the better choice, if you prefer job stability and a career in healthcare, the Band 6 NHS position could be more suitable, consider also the work environment, team culture, and opportunities for future progression in each role.
Less job security in Civil service roles(cos it’s fixed term) but offer a broad range of experiences, which might be valuable for your future career moves,
Good morning my people ....another question, please between a Band 6 NHS job and SEO civil service job, which would you prefer? Context - SEO pays more compared to the band 6 but its a fixed term employment (one year) ...might be renewable.
You just spend less than 3 months, you don get admirer willing to cough out £15k for getaway knacks? 🤦🏿♂️🤣🤣
Anyway no allow dem use you as drug or money mule shaaaa, dis na one way return ticket back home. All the best.
Joyglo: As a student who just came in September this year can I travel to France for just 2-3days stay?
I meet an admiral (Italian) but also a British citizen about a week ago and he wants me to go with him for holiday.
He also wants to pay my balance tuition worth £14500, he took me to see some of his restaurants in Brighton and also to see his house located at Brighton Marina and other properties.
Bone marrow transplant is one way of tackling it. The patient has to go through a painful process though but it is also very expensive and mostly done abroad.
Emma513: I have an issue that is bothering me. My brother is sickle cell due to my parents mistake during marriage. I have been reading topics about sicklers and it has being bothering me. It there any sickler here or has an experience. Please help. How do you overcome it. And what are things to do
PDP wasted too much time to realise this. ACN discovered this long time ago and brought together ANPP and CPP into their folds to get to power in 2015. It would have ever need a new candidate to head that coalition in the next election for it to succeed.
I keep saying we need to respect our hustles. No profession is useless to the person doing it so far as it brings food to the table and help clear bills. Having said this, support and care jobs are much more than what it is portrayed. I have listened to people paint it bad before others but remain in it. Others have painted it rosy... At the end it all boils down to you seeking employment to do your research on what you want or what you don't want.
On the rent issue, like the care and support issue, it's just a friendly advice to not be too comfortable doing things temporarily but rather work towards self-sustenance in our lives.
An IT Professional from Nigeria now doing care or support or factory jobs to make ends meet for example should not try to make it permanent (except that's their preference though). Same with paying rent... You can't continue paying £1500 every month for years, aim at getting your own place if you can. That's all... Friendly advice we shouldn't be tearing head over 🤷🏿♀️🙌🏾