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Golden147:
Good afternoon everyone..
Please I'm kindly in need of advice... ignore my typing ERROR..
There's this girl I love and I want to settle down with her. She's still in school while I'm still in school too. She's 22 while I'm 24 nd also in final YR and we both love each other..my mum has supported me to marry her.
I proposed to her and she said yes...I plan going her house next month next to start official martial rites but I'm afraid.
Here is my reasons

She's the only girl and the last daughter in a family of 5boys. Ever since we started dating, she's in 100l then, all her school burdens are on me..I take care of her and mine own...with this people around who knows about our RELATIONSHIP ask me to marry her to avoid story that touches the heart..which he has accepted , her mum nd dad have accepted it too.
My major concern about this girl is that those his brothers are not willing to do anything, istead the came asking me for small small money when I'm back, knowing fully I'm just dating thier sis....most times the my girl always feel ashamed of her brothers nd keep cursing them. The can't even call her on phone unless she calls them...nd the will keep asking why she didn't call them all this while knowing fully thier sister is in school nd not working.

I have thought about this over and over again, how do I marry from a family that can't even assist in anything...I know marriage is not always Rosy, what if something happens tomorrow nd I needed thier financial support..the can't render to me.
I discussed with my mum nd she told me I'm marrying thier sister who is well trained nd not the brother..that I can decide not to give them money again... But I'm very sad over this.
It's only the father and mum that acknowledge I hay been trying to see their sister through school expenses, including food and wears.
I discussed with my woman, she started crying, saying she knows her brothers are such a disgrace, telling me how she may commite sucide if I didn't marry her... She cried that she can't visits her house again... that her only hope will be to start prostitution which she can't see herself do that nd that's why she is going to commite sucide if I eventually leave her, all her social media handle is full with my picture, including her profile pictures.

Please what advice do you have for me.... should I let go of this girl, I don't mind letting go all I have already spent...I just want to make sure I won't regret the marriage tomorrow...I have already discussed with my mom nd we plan on going her house officially by August ending..but I'm still very worried.

Matured advice please

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thereturnoflucy:
Similoluwa on Fire: Sister of Ooni’s wife steals show with backside at royal event – Kabiyesi Olowa of Igbara Oke makes it rain on her


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xhZwPpFGqIg

A trending video sighted by KikioTolu News has showed the moment Similoluwa, the sister of Olori Moronke Naomi Silekunola, wife of the Ooni of Ife, Oba Enitan Adeyeye Ogunwusi, was dancing to the music of popular Nigerian Fuji singer, King Wasiu Ayinde Marshal, also known as K1 De Ultimate, at an event.

The Olori’s sister, who has her striking resemblance, joyfully moved her waist from side to side as other kings who were present at the event stylishly stole some looks.

Source; https://kikiotolunews.com/2021/07/20/similoluwa-on-fire-sister-of-oonis-wife-steals-show-with-backside-at-royal-event-kabiyesi-olowa-of-igbara-oke-makes-it-rain-on-her/

Prosperous111:
One story with different scenes

Nigeria is the Headquarters of fake news I swear

Wait till evening wey the cabal go talk them go say nah in conjunction with FBI and swat with other international security arrest am

ChuckKingston:
There's a popular notion that in spite of the fact that pixel phones receive yearly update, it's old flagship phones tend to degrade in performance and reliability which makes it lag a lot and become less reliable.

I'm currently crushing on the Google pixel 2xl, but I'm unsure of its reliability, pros and cons, especially in 2021.

I'll appreciate a first hand experience from a former and current user of this device please before I finally make my choice.

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Doraty1:
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jojofola:
Ebeano Supermarket and Fire. Wetin dey sup?

Greathand01:
yes I did..I picked the portion of no current UK visa/ will be needed COS

AmandaTalks:
A pastor at Winners Chapel has cried out after he was sacked for not generating enough money in his branch.

According to the pastor, mr Peter Godwin, he was invited by the state pastor and getting there he met other pastors about 40 and they were all sacked over low income in their branches.

Watch the video below from 2.44 minutes as a Living Faith Church Pastor reveals how he was sacked

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dLhcBEjpwxg

Blogger, Maureen Badejo also talks about the sack too. Watch from 40 minutes...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w_IpH8dndJk

Greathand01:
Good day, please I have gotten 2 jobs with NHS now after going through numeracy and literacy assessments and MS Teams interviews.
But the bottle neck is now is that they are refusing to grant me COS even after attending their welcome sessions and filling the forms they sent to me.
Please is their other way I can get COS or a visa to work in the UK
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Post granted: Clinical Support Worker &, HCA

HEAVEN4444:
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BadRadio:
https://www.legit.ng/1425144-obi-cubana-makes-statement-anambra-with-346-cows-72-goats-20-rams-mothers-burial.html


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hk4yA-Eoi4I

lalasticlala:
Heavy Flooding in Marina, Lagos Drowns Cars.

Lagos Marina under water today due to incessant rains all day long. pic.twitter.com/1ijjB6fP5f

— Olaudah Equiano® (@RealOlaudah) July 16, 2021

vincentjk:
Popular businessman, Obi Cubana has gotten himself a customized diamond necklace and hand chain to honour his late mother whose burial will be coming up in the next few hours.

According to the jeweler who delivered the piece of jewelry, obi cubana had demanded for a piece of diamond jewelry to honour his mother.

In his words, @obi_cubana asked me "I want something special to commemorate my mum what can my 100k$ do for me" told him Say no more big bro.

Crunchyg2:

Hello good people of nairaland. I run a POS business which I just got a new location which I want to open a second POS but my challenge is enough fund. I need someone who can invest 100k and get 10k return every month or 50k and get 5k return every month and anytime you are ready to take your initial capital back you can take it. I am in Lagos and I am ready to provide you any thing that you might need as collateral . My number is below on my signature.

OJEEMAH:
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Lexusgs430:
Passport/DL + selfie + POA.........

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Lexusgs430:
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Lexusgs430:
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BlueSprint:
Igbos killing igbos.What a shame

Kayzy8:
Eyewitnesses Narrate how soldiers stormed the Ladipo market killed more than 4 boys over a car engine bought in 2020.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3esiNtWs_XQ



https://thenationonlineng.net/several-killed-in-soldiers-touts-clash-at-ladipo-market/amp/

dignity33:
Mbaka on his Adoration ministry told his congregation that Federal government came to him wanted to offer him two slots but he refuse and requested for his own slots, watch the video.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3pJu6GIMTB8

Antoeni:
https://punchng.com/dont-allow-chidinma-to-die-in-custody-reps-tell-igp/

fidelmarshal199:
Looting is not just an African disease, it is a global pandemic which the world must jointly abolished. Looting was experienced in US during the "Black lives matter" protest that took place a year ago, Looting was recorded during the "ends sars" movement, so it's not really a new thing. But south Africans are taking it to a level that has never been seen before.

TMSMedia:
Popular Nigerian clergyman, Chukwuemeka Ohanaemere, a.k.a Prophet Odumeje has paid a condolence visit to the wife of late founder of Synagogue Church Of All Nations (SCOAN) TB Joshua who died on June 5 and has been buried in Lagos on July 9, IgbereTV reports.

Odumeje is General Overseer of The Mountain of Holy Ghost Intervention and Deliverance Ministry in Anambra.

On Tuesday, the church shared a video of the cleric’s visit to TB Joshua’s residence.

Odumeje was received by the wife, Evelyn. He consoled the widow and offered prayers for the family and the Synagogue Church.

See video below.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wegFAu9EHqw