₦airaland Forum

jayAjoku:
. Well the bible didn't mention it was an apple ...... Anyways the Ten commandments have been scratched out

You said the Ten Commandments have been scratched out, I will like to know who scratched it out and how it was scratched out.

Shubbylee:
95% of Nigerian Christians don't Obey Number 4!!

How will they be able to obey it when they do not even know what it means and which day is the said Sabbath day. I do not want to argue with anybody in this particular subject because they may not understand.

Despite being that she is a Chinese, I do not think you should take such risk. If you must have sex with her please use protection. If you decide to do it raw because her parents are very wealthy, then be ready to face the music as I assure you that you will not get a single penny from them.

oluwasunshine:
Last year when i registered my account on whatsapp,one of the social medias,i met a beautifull girl,the girl was so pretty that i can never let go of her,when i first started,the girl paid no attention to me but as time goes on,i began to shift her by my side. The mistake was that i don't upload my pics,instead i uploaded my brother pics which i knew his face was so prettier than mine,she asked me if that was my pics but i said yes,she asked about my bio-data,i told her everything.
One day, she told me she wanted to visit my state to visit one of her friends and i lied to her that i wasn't around then and she said ok.
On getting to some certain level,she decided to marry me and i agree without even my parent and my brother knowing anything about it,when i saw that i can't avoid it anymore and i decided to let them know about it and they said i should tell her to pic a date for the both family to know one another and before then she should pay us a visit.
The girl actually came,on that saddened day my brother was also around,when the girl came,she began to romance my brother,he thought it was a sign of greeting until the girl kissed him on his cheek,i told him that i mistakenly upload his pics instead of mine and he became angry but i had nothing to do but to let my girlfriend be with him for sometimes.
My brother took it as a fate and enter the visitors room with her not knowing that the girl was a type of those romantic people,the girl told my brother to let them take a bath together but my brother refused.
I did not noticed that my younger brother had also began to have some feelings for him,the next day my brother took her to captain cook to take a breakfast, when they came ,i and my younger brother had some dispute not knowing the girl had heard what we were saying when we were fighting.
The girl packed all her belonging and ran away and my brother had been finding her since then when i was the real owner of the girl.
Fellow #airalanders,i need your help,what should i do please?

Point of correction, you are not the owner of the girl as she does not belong to you neither did she come through you. You made the mistake of uploading your brother's picture instead of your own and also lied to er that the picture was your own. What did you expect her to do when she came to your family house to see you? Did you expect her to jump into the arms of the person she does not know and who lied to her? She reacted the way any girl in love will react when they visit their lover"s house. Since you made the mistake, you have to live by it, plain and simple.

Wow what a long narration. I understood everything you just said and the truth about the whole matter is that there is no way your parents will pick a Christian boy over a Muslim boy as they are Muslims, prayer or no prayer. I advice you to find a way to tell the Christian guy that you cannot continue as you are getting married, plain and simple.

Blastfinito:
I'm a very spiritual person. In the course of trying to know who I'm destined to marry, a girl that was revealed to me is going out with my friend. Their relationship is not that deep. They recently asked me to settle a fracas that ensued between them. In the process of engendering reconcilatory moves between the two, my friend said he doesn't love her, and that he just wants to fvck her. The girl, on the other hand, told me she has not said 'yes' to him. Without telling the girl anything, or showing any interest in her, the girl is now calling me, complains at times that my number is not reachable. I have feelings for her. Pls, what should do?

My brother listen to me and listen good. I want you to be very sure if the person revealed to you is actually your wife so as not to make a very nasty mistake in the future. As you have said, your friend is not interested in taking his relationship with her to the next level instead he wants to just have a taste of her and dump her. I advice you to confirm what you were shown in the dream and when confirmed start by being close to her, then move it up to proposing to her then finalise the whole thing by wedding her. Hope I helped.

SmartFaces:
Thanks people, your comments are encouraging. The court marriage has been done. The big deal for him is that he holds a position in his church. They are threatening to suspend him if he goes against their rules.
One alternative is to leave the church and their rules then join another church but he said his hearts and conscience won't let him.

Listen to me and listen good, what ever position he is occupying in his church should not hinder him from staying with you. I want him to make up his mind and move out of that church and focus on his relationship with God. As far as he has paid your dowry and celebrated traditionally, I don't see any reason why you should not move in with him. In the Bible it was recorded that Christ attended a wedding and turned water into wine. I am sure that wedding is a traditional wedding.

The truth is this, you are tired of your first relationship but do not know how to call it quits. That is the reason why you went ahead to get another girl that you feel is better for you. Te heart is one and there is no way you will tell me you love the two of them the same way. So I advice you follow your heart and let the first one you are tired of go.

My brother I understand the situation you are in and will like to advice you the following
(1) if she is a graduate assist her in looking for a job within her field and give he option of quiting her so called work and go for the one you got her.

(2) Advice her to be very careul with her said uncle who leaves around where she works.

(3) don't quit the relationship now, if you really love her as you said then try to stand by her and try to trust her a little more.

Election in the morning then Valentine in the evening.

If the man is in soup he should try and get either garri or fufu and enjoy the soup.

obongproff:
Stop acting like a boy and be a man.

Take an older persson like ur dad or uncle and go see her parents. If day still refuse, let dem know ur walking away. Simple!

Marriage no be by force na.

Op I am in support with what this bro told you and believe it will make you know your stand in the issue.

My brother what I advice you do is forget about the three of them and if possible relocate from that area. If you insist on staying there give them one final warning then look for very correct Cain you will keep in your house. If any of them comes to your house and start talking the same thing use the Cain on them.

U need to ask yourself a question and this question is did you enter into a relationship just for sex only? If your answer is yes then you did the right thing. If on the other hand your anser is no then you did the wrong thing.

The decision in in your hands but my problem with you is that when you were carrying out the act, you did not remember your present condition and consider using protection. As it stands now you have 2 choices; let your family know your condition or kill the unborn child

Why in God's name should a church being the body of Christ leave what is more important to them being the Second coming of our Lord and concern themselves with how a company carries out their marketing strategies. It does not make any sense at all. This should stop, if not very soon they will start blasting politicians and supporting a party against the other party.

My brother I think the question should be do you have enough money to pay her fees? If yes then go ahead, if on the other hand you don't have up to that amount then make her understand your present predicament and also send her the cash you had in mind to give her. This is your way of appreciating her for nelping you during your point of need.

I have read your narration and I think what you should do is advice your lady friend to open up about her life to the guy. Let her understand that if she does not then sooner or later he find out the truth. As for you do not interfere in the marriage plans.

My sister this your case is a very serious one. I will advice you not to give into his demands, he is a very useless person with a dead conscience. What I want you to do is dump him and move on with your life as he is not worthy of being with you. If he insists on uploading your nudes he took without your consent, tell him to do his worst as you do not care. If you give in to his demand, he will use the same nudes to continually blackmail you. I hope this helps.

My sister I believe you should find out from the second guy if he is going to marry you or not as this will help in deciding. The first guy I am afraid is not trust worthy. Why I said this is that the. Fact that he was still seeing his ex despite dating you shows that if you get married to him he will continue his life style. Be very careful with both of them so as to avoid heart break.

cokacoola:
she has empty my acount already [b/]And ihave bin saving the money for two years working as a gateman[b]

Whatever you make now as income don't pay it into that account until you block that ATM.

cokacoola:
mistake have already been made, how can i fine the girl in question

you cannot find her as it stands now. The only thing you can do is go to your bank and ask them to block that ATM, so that she will not be able to make further withdrawals.

If I call you a fool now you will say that I am insulting you. How will you give a girl your ATM card to go and cash money, what happened to your leg? You are to bear the consequences for your action.

My brother the txt she sent you is her own way of breaking up with you. She noticed how hard you tried to make the relationship lively again but it was not possible. I believe she still loves you but decided to break up with you. So I advice that you man up and move on with your life.

If this story is really true then I will advice you to try and talk to your mum about exavtly what happened, not eating at home for a long time will not solve anything. As for the useless guy you called your friend, just delete him from your mind and move on to make good new friends.

She must not abort that child, if she does her hand will be stained with blood and she will answer for that. Since she gave herself to the guy so as to leave him alone, was she blind to see that he was not using protection? Saying that she was a virgin is her own problem but I do not believe her. My reason been that the amount of pain she will pass through during her disvirgining will be so enormous and pleasure will be less. Since the guy accepted her and the pregnancy, and has been saying that he wants to marry her. What stops her from going ahead with the marriage plan?

Well to me silent treatment is both good and bad. Silent treatment is peferable to physical attack. It is very dangerous as it can lead to the end of relationships.

My brother I believe that that your babe is tired of dating you.this may be as a result of meeting another guy who gives her more than you give her. What will you gain from leaking her nudes, I believe what you can do is just to move on with your life.

Your so called boyfriend is a very big liar and a cheat. I will not advice you continue the relationship as you have seen the reason why he did not propose to you. Move on with your life and beg God to give you your own husband.

iseleiyanu:
That's obviously my plan.

then follow it.