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If what she told you is true then I believe that the female members of their family must be suffering from attacks from marine spirits. My reason been that they may have a spiritual husband who is fighting them seriously. What you have to do is take her to Church for serious prayers and deliverance from that marine power. Unless this is done, any man that marries her will die a mysterious death.

This issue is a very simple one and I believe that the guy in question deserves what ever curse she lays on him. My reason been that he deceived the girl and her family. He must have promised her marriage. After 6 years she is now no longer worth it. Even if we decide to forget the issue of 4 abortions which she did for him, 6 years is a really long time. He has no other choice than to appease her.

If you are talking of Ngwa, talk if the area as there are several villages and towns. For instance there is Isi alangwa North, there is also Okpu alangwa so don't just generalize. Find out from her where exactly she is from and come back.

Mike Chukwubueze

I believe what you should do is find a way to control your anger and bad attitude as you complained. Try as much as you can to avoid whatever it is that makes you behave the way you do. I know that if you put interest in trying to control this your bad attitude, you will find a way out of it.

The Chemistry going on here is the use of test tube to mix tetra oxo sulphate VI acid and hydrochloric acid.

keyman0007:
Thank God for you guys. I will never trust a lady 100 percent not even my wife. She sent me a text this morning saying she didnt see the guy last night again, that the guy was upset. Only for me to push further and discover she saw him this morning. Apparently the guy was trying to ask her out. You guys were right, that journey wasnt for nothing. And she said she told him she is in serious relationship. Well i gave her a piece of my mind, the fact i want to marry her doesnt mean i am desperate. If i discover she is cheating. I will end the whole thing.she begged and said it wont happen again. I just dropped her off at the airport. Asin she just ruin the fun we hard. This is a woman i hvnt even kissed sef.

I hope that she will abide by her promise to you. I do not want you to feel bad.

keyman0007:
let nt get the picture wrong, she isnt in a relationship with the guy she says they just talk as friends and she hinted she was comin to abj.

From your thread you said that she toks you that the other guy wanted to date her but she refused. How are you sure their "friendship" did not lead to a relationship. You said that she gave the guy her home address to come see her, do you know his intentions? You said the guy came all the way from Osun to see her which means that she must have informed him of her coming to Lagos. My initial advice still stands.

My brother listen to me and listen good, as far as she is married whether with kids or not I advice you not try what you are intending to do. You will be risking her marriage.

My brother I want you to know that you did not over react. I believe what she is doing is having a plan B in case plan A fails. What I mean is that she is in a relationship with that other guy that might lead to marriage if your marriage with her fails. I want you to tell her what you currently feel concerning this and tell her to make a choice between you and the other guy. If she says it is you she wants then tell her to stop any form of relationship she has with the other guy stressing that if she does not then you will have no other choice but to call off the engagement.

Your friend made a very deadly mistake and is lucky to be alive. How can she meet and have sex with a total stranger, even if they have known on social media for ages it does not still mean that they know each other. She is getting signs of pregnancy which means she allowed him enter her without protection, she is not even concerned with if he has any STD and may have infected her. Well tell her to be sure of the signs she is having and if it is confirmed she should carry the pregnancy deliver safely. It is a result of her mistake. She should even thank God that she is still alive and that the stranger was not a ritualist.

Godzlove8:
kai, bros issokei.. All what i posted here is a joke includin the thread itself.. It never happened before u go kill me with words. Just thought i should seek for attention since boredom wan kill me for house.. Hope we cool now?

Good to know.

Godzlove8:
so what's the difference between me and u now? U there committin adultery sleepin with different girls err day.. So u see? We all sinners.. So stop advisin me u hypocrite!!!

You are taking it the wrong way I was not even advising you but I like that you thought I was, also how can you prove that I am committing adultery and sleeping with different girls everyday. I may be a hypocrite as you say but at least I am not addicted to porn like you. I read where you are bragging on how many times you have masturbated today and want you to think of your life and what you will gain from wasting your seed.

Godzlove8:
so God will not punish them for sellin bad tin to me abi?

As far as I am concerned they are doing business and do not sell only such kind of movies. You went there and requested for a porn movie which they gave to you and they gave you what you requested so they are not at fault at all rather you are at fault for deceiving them.

You are rejoicing thinking that you have played a fast one on them but I want you to know one thing and which is if God wants to punish you now, that your laptop will crash and you will never recover anything.

If she is still alive I will take her to the hospital, pay for her medicals and when she is fit, I will return the balance of the money back to her.

Your name really feets you oh. You really acted as your name means. You better start looking for house oh.

Whoever wrote this thread must be a very wicked person. How can you not carry a child that is sleeping in the same bus with you, do you know the financial situation of the mother of those children, do you know if she was able to afford for 2 seats rather than 1 she bought. In fact you should be ashamed of yourself.

5 years is a lot of time to waste on what the two of you had. As it was earlier said, a woman does not have any church she belongs to till she gets married. From the angle I am seeing it, she may not be the one for you and this was the way out of what was not destined to be. As you have decided to move on with your life, it is better. What I do not like is someone discriminating against others because of church, after all we are all Christians.

What I see from this issue is this, your mum made her point by saying that she does not like the girl and has told you not to bring her home again. Your girlfriend really has issues that needs to be treated before you consider marrying her. What I know is this there must be something hidden that caused the problem. I advice you find out what it is and if possible forget marriage for now till the issue is solved.

She has given you the green light so use it to get what you want.

I believe that your friend does not have any other choice than to marry her. Since they live together and also promised to marry her, what then is he talking about? He did not know of her bad side when he promised her and even impregnated her. He should just go ahead and marry her, simple. This serves as a moral to all guys including me, don't ever promise a girl marriage and also be careful to avoid impregnating her.

otolo nvene

First Sir I will advice you to change the way you mean se your English as it makes your story confusing. Secondly forget about the girl and move on with your life. She does not deserve you and is playing around so let her be.

Well tell her to clap for herself.

From what you wrote I can see that your friend's wife to be is under the influence of her elder sister. If she knows what is best for her she will disregard everything her sister told her or she might end up like her elder sister and have a child but not married. As for your friend I will plead with him to give her more chances to see if she will come to her senses. If she does not then he has the right to call off the engagement and move on with his life and allow her face her life with her sister.

Which guy?

This your story is a very painful one. Why was she hiding and telling you lies? Why did she not come out plain letting you know what she had been through. I know every body makes mistakes but this her own is very bad. I understand how you feel but still believe that the final decision lies with you as you are the one wearing the shoe and it is you that it is you that knows where it is biting you.

Well I believe that what you should do is find out from him if you may have offended him in any way that might lead to the said change in attitude. Find out his plan for the future with you, as for the spiritual assistance you have to be sure of what you got as an answer and pray hard telling God that may His Divine Will be done as regards the marriage.

My brother I feel your pain, and will advice as follows. Firstly continue to keep your distance from her, avoid any means if communication with her since you have tried communicating with her. Secondly apart from her parents you are trying to get involved, I believe it is better if you let the management of the hospital know what is happening so that they will prevent her entry. Finally if it is possible for you, get yourself another girl that will stick with you. If she finds out about her don't worry your head just allow them settle things themselves.

The simple thing to do is plan your Val day how you want it. Tell any one of them that is coming when to come and look for a way to discharge that one that came for another one to come. Hope it helps.

I will like you to confirm something for me, are you a Christian or a Muslim? If you are a Christian you need to take this dream of yours to your pastor so that he will organize serious prayers for you against witchcraft. If you are a Muslim take the dream to your affa for the same purpose of prayers against the same witchcraft. I thing I know for sure is that the attack is from within either your family or the house you stay.