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When you said parking what do you mean. Is it in the sense of parking a car? Please clarify this so that you can be answered correctly.

You have set your goal which is not to cheat on your girlfriend. I will like you to ignore any attention she is seeking from you. Ignore her completely and i am sure she will get the message.

My Sister your story is very painful. I really sympathize with you, your husband is not deserved to be called a man and your mother must be a very wicked woman. I want you to take good care of yourself and your son. Let your son be the consolation you have in this issue. I want you to if possible move in with your life without that dog of a man. You said that you are the only child that is with your mother since your father died which means that you have siblings. Explain everything to them and be close to them also. Once again I sympathize with you.

My Sister your story is a painful one. To me that boy is not worth being with you in the first place. What you passed through has shown you the type of human being he is. He got you pregnant then denied it and also threatened you. When he learnt that you have killed the child (abortion) he is now asking of your well being. Why did he not ask of your well being when you were pregnant? The ball is in your court but if you will follow my advice then forget about him and continue with your life. If you go back to him, what is the assurance that such will not repeat itself? What is the assurance that he will not get you pregnant again and expect you to deal with it as you did the last one? Ask yourself that question then decide.

You are arguing that it has not reached a month since you had sex with her but I want to ask you a question which is, on the said day you did this I will like to know if you did it raw or with protection. Be sincere with yourself.

Really nice letter to lassa fever. God punish that sickness. FTC

My Sister I understand what you are passing through. I like the fact that you prayed to God for guidance on the issue. There are two options that are available, the first one is focus on your education and graduate before worrying your head with such issue as you still have years ahead of you. Second one is to grant him the attention he is asking for and if it leads to you dating him you continue with it. I will like you to be very careful if you decide to pick the second option. Take your time before deciding on what to do.

I believe that the best thing to do is leave the lady alone as she has given birth and has told him that she can't shut the father of the child out. There are other girls out there, so he can go and get himself another one to love him.

My brother I think the best thing to do is to follow the advice of your friends as they are good advices. What ever she must have found out about you that prompted her to break up with you must be very bad that she could not beat it. So as I said earlier, follow the advices of your friends.

Ornate1:
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Awwww, thanks

You are most welcome.

My Sister from your thread I can see that you have been approached by men only because of sex and nothing else. I want you to know that any man that cannot accept your terms in any relationship is not worth being with. You are special in your own way and need to do things the way you seem right. So I do not want you to be unhappy or disappointed with yourself because of that rather focus more on other things that will be of benefit to you.

I will advice you not to have sex with her, even as she has disappointed you through the marriage. It is not worth it. I know you love her and will be willing to do anything for her but I do not want you to grant her this her request. Since you have endured till now then continue till the last day you spend with her. I know it's painful but try as much as you can to endure it.

You made a bad mistake by having sex with her. The devil used it to spoil the prayer you are doing. Whatever made you do the fasting must be very important and God was about answering your prayers and the evil one brought temptation to the you but you failed. You have to repeat the fasting.

Firstly I don't know why you will be arguing with your mother, I am sure you did not insult her. Secondly I want you to look at yourself either when bathing or in a mirror and look to see if you will see anything missing or wrong on your body, if nothing then take it as she said it.

I have to tell you the truth. You are worrying yourself over nothing, who you have is a girl who loves you completely and sincerely. Another guy is begging her to forget about you and follow him which she blatantly refused, and you are here complaining. There is a saying that you don't know what you have until you loose it. What I will tell you is continue to love your girl.

mysticgal:
What do you mean

What I meant was that he should not have dated a girl who is a student. My reason being that apart from the long distance between them, she may not have the time for him as she will be very busy. Also another reason is that most relationships involving girls entering the university and those in the university end the same way after the boy must have spent a lot her of money training in school.

My brother listen to me and listen good, the first mistake you made was to date a girl going into the university i.e. a student. She really took you for a ride and at the end dropped you like a bag of salt. The fact that she accepted to be tired of you shows you that she was never ready to settle down. I will like you to take it as she told you, move on with your life, ignore her totally. Show her that you are not a fool by looking for another good girl who is interested in you and date her for some time so as to study her, then marry her. As I said earlier, completely ignore the girl.

I will say that I am amazed and the same time disappointed that a lady can give such advice to a fellow lady. Every guy and girl is praying and hoping that their relationship leads to the alter. Supposing she follows that advice to lie and they get married, then unfortunately they cannot have a child, what happens next. Supposing he finds out then that she lied about the abortion, how do you expect him to react?

My brother run for your life, she is not the one for you. The problem is the distance between the two of you. She is asking for pardon for kissing him, how are we sure that she will not ask for pardon tomorrow for having sex with him.

I believe that no amount of busyness will deprive a guy from asking of the well being of the girl he claims that he loves. You on your part tried your best in maintaining communication but he is not showing any sign of appreciation by returning those calls. I want you to call him or look for a way to let him know that his lack of communication is really affecting your relationship with him as it looks as if he does not care about you.

From what you just wrote I can say that you are a good guy and a faithful boyfriend. Your girlfriend on the other hand is not like you. As you found out yourself, there is something hidden going on between her and her friend. I want you to this, since she has asked for time to straight things out with herself, I know that if she is wise she will end whatever she has with that friend of hers. Give her sometime as she pleaded and watch her from then to see if you can continue or not.

There is a saying that a word is enough for the wise. If your sister is wise enough she will avoid this incoming threat to her relationship. I know one this for sure which is, she will come back to you to seek her advice on how to come out of the hole she put herself. If the boyfriend is wise he should pay her a surprise visit when the said ex is in town.

You are the cause of your problems. You have a girlfriend you claim You love and you still have time to look at other girls. She is tired of your deceit and the live the both of you share is dead. She is just there to fulfil all righteousness but her mind is not there.

Your story has two sides. Firstly I know that you like your friend that is why you did what you did, but I believe he told you the right thing by asking you to face your relationship. Secondly the boy must be very stupid for saying that he will treat the girl any how he likes. What gave him the audacity to say such a thing? Are they married, is it not dating that they are into? He does not have the right to use such a word. If your friend is tired of the relationship with him then I advice she moves on with her life.

I want you to let her know that even as she has broken the trust of her boyfriend, it will be difficult to fully regain the trust but if she truly loves him, she should never try such a thing again as he might not be able to forgive her again. The trust will gradually begin to grow.

You are indeed pushing her away by doubting her love for you. As far as she is a girl whether ugly or beautiful she must have admirers and toasters. so please calm down and stop doubting her love for your Know that it is you that she loves and nobody else

4hys:
the igbo girls i cant really understand them when it comes to relationship breakup.

d issue is dat my uncle was dating an igbo girl for over 2 yrs and tending to even marry her but along the the line their was some controversies and they brokeup and she left with the child. no contact, no trace.
frankly speaking i have seen this in so many occasions

the question is, is that how other tribes in Nigeria behave or what is their main reason for their act


lalasticlala, ishilove help take it to fp

I want you to note the following things. The fact that your uncle was dating a girl and just igbo girls and got her pregnant does not mean that they are married. The fact that they stayed together does not mean that they are a family. Your uncle did not pay her bride price and as far as her family is concerned she is not married. The child in question belongs to the family of the girl. So please advice your uncle that when he is ready to marry he should pay the bride price of the girl in question.

The colour of sperm I know is white and since yours is not even near white then please sir rush now to your doctor as you may have contracted a deadly illness.

The simple thing to do is take her to his house and leave her there so that you can have peace of mind.

I will go straight to the point. I know you love your boyfriend and you are willing to settle down with him but he is not ready to marry. I want you to pray and beg God for the way forward in terms of who you are to settle down with. I have been in the situation your boyfriend is currently. What I did was to pray and beg God for direction as to what to do and at the end God showed me the way out. My Sweetheart was not willing to let go of me. I told her to also pray and ask for God's direction on the matter and she did and got a response which she told me and i told her to follow that direction. In a nut case she is married and i am still not married.

Mumuranking I advice you to buy het I phone 12 and buy yourself a Nokia 3310.

I believe that the problem she us facing and not will to let your friend know is a matter if the heart. I suspect that she has someone else be was in live with her before they met and she does not know how to tell him that. I believe she loves him but needs to take a decision on who she wants to be with. He should make her know that he understands what she is passing through and assure her that all will be fine.