₦airaland Forum

descarado:
Seems like you are a fan
Mbok, kdrama fans are a tad cray
One gat to be careful not to annoy them

My fanship has not gotten to that stage biko.

descarado:
Lol
Fandom is real

That's how I love SIG too.

Hoping he join reality or variety show.
That guy is making me think of holidaying in Korea soon.

@bold:



Who is SIG though?

captainhoo:
This one, odikwa very serious

Very very.

So take a break after a movie of his, watch some other stuff and come back to him.

angelfallz:
How are you watching these series?

Netflix

I used kissasian to watch two movies (Married not Dating (a series) and A Werewolf Boy (a movie, I love love love this movie.)

BRATISLAVA:
It seems to be everywhere. Most surprisingly in the service industry.

Take banks, for instance.

Those small boys and girls expect you to greet them first, when their job is supposed to be politeness and service! We normally have the silent stare-down until they remember their manners.

They usually learn along the line sha

angelfallz:
Could you elaborate?

The younger employers are usually not emotionally intelligent and unwilling to learn.

angelfallz:
I agree with you. Fix the issues that are bedeviling NYSC.
I enjoyed my service year as well. Camp was wonderful, in fact i remember wishing we could remain in camp for longer.

I also achieved a lot during my service year, so i don't look back on that 1 year as a loss.

It was very enjoyable.

AishaYesufu:
What manner of humans are feminists?

The woman that was brought to Jesus was a prostitute not an adulterous wife. Jesus did condemned stoning her to death but scolded her and asked her not to indulge in sin anymore.

This is completely different from adultery. An adulterous woman has defiled the marital bed and broken vow, therefore deserves to be sent away. Christ even acknowledged this fact in Matthew 9.

You people should read the Bible and stop talking nonsense.

How can a prostitute commit adultery?

I think the your last sentence applies to you and the other poster I quoted.

Justify whatever shenanigans you want to, leave the Bible out of it or quote it correctly.

@bold:
For someone who claims to read the Bible, the recurring Biblical themes of Mercy and Grace clearly skipped you.

Try harder Mummy Nori, you can do it.

Romanoff:
Return their brideprice.

A marriage built on lies will come crashing down like a pack of cards.

That's how one scammed a woman I know that he's a pastor and a contractor. He proposed to this woman when he found out she was doing well.

Time to plan wedding, Baba said he had not been paid for all his contracts. Aunty used her money to fund wedding.

12 years down the line, oga has refused to do anything and he was never a contractor. Aunty is still feeding him and their two children, she's the one paying fees and all.

She fine old pass her age and the man still no gree give her peace.

All you'd need to do is look at her and you'd see years of regrets.

@bold:

Hmmmmmmmm

Lostchild:
bukatyne

I came here to talk about me and myself. I used to be a person that always put others firsy but since this year 2021 I decided to make myself my first priority and be proud of myself for the first time in my life.

Babe you are free to judge me because you dont know me in person

I am yet to see where I judged you.

I stated your writeup sounds very narcissist.

So the OP is about you? I guessed as much with the painting the guy like an angel and your reaction to the girl's begging.

I wish you the good, kindhearted, gentle, handsome man all the best in your new family.

P.S.: when writing in reported speech, maintain it to the end.

Nodding your head and spitting on the ground is too strong a reaction if you are not the gamed.

@Lostchild:

You are either the good man or it is fiction or both.

The amount of adjectives was very distracting. Good man, handsome man, kindhearted man bla bla bla.

Sounds very narcissist.

It doesn't take away the possibility of the story though.

My people say some people use their boyfriend/girlfriend for husband/wife i.e. they marry whom they should date and date whom they should marry.

samwash:
Make una leave the guy Grammer alone & focus on the lessons on the storyline.
I have heard of this similar experience before & it's rampant in our today society.

Years back in school there were this lady dating a guy in the same school, she was in love this his young guy, ready to marry him after graduation, but she also has another boyfriend that was sponsoring her all through school, this girl has lost both parents, so no family members that was ready to take up such responsibilities.

The guy sponsoring this girl in school, as at then was in his late thirty's, not educated,not really handsome, but he has the money,he was into big business. He was well to do financially, & has gotten cars and built his first house, and his family was pressuring him to get a wife.
Now the story was that the lady was caught b/w who to marry. She was crazy in love with the school BF, younger guy, handsome. But she realizes quickly that even if the school BF graduate, it will take him another 3-4 year to settle down financially before talking of marriage. Now, how will she pay back someone that have finance her education right from SS3 to her graduation in the university. It was really hard on her, she finally opt for the older guy.
They are happily married with 3 children now, do well as a family, while the school BF is also married with kids, but just finding his foot financially.

In this case the lady was sensible enough to choose wisely.

Hmmmmmm

I am a 'his love is sweeter than money's kind of girl so the sensible choice would not make me happy.

Again, I will not date one guy for 'love' and another for 'money' so there would be no choose to make.

25 years of wasted relationship between the children & their father and running the Father's reputation.

That's why people should not just run with whatever they hear and do further digging.

What is the remedial action for this case now?

Olarewaju89:
To who?

Very beautiful boy.

Coldshisha:



Northerners and Qouta system

40% of Americans who are unbanked are children

CBN is telling us to go cashless, EFCC is telling us to go bankless

This Mallam aboki no go kill us one day


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@bold:
Very funny.

They want us to employ Spiritual means to go cashless.

Hashabiah:
Forgiveness is permissible. But the stigma and shame is something forgiveness cannot erase. And no matter how you try to butter it, it is a disgraceful thing!

Are we referencing the same Bible or is this according to your culture?

Because you are mixing the two. Christianity is not about doing what is 'easy'. Forgiveness of any offence is not easy and if Christ was looking at the Stigma and Shame, He would not have died a shameful death on the cross.

You need to stick to one to make your point.

Hashabiah:
Go and read Matthew 19:9

Where Jesus said " I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife [b]except for marital unfaithfulness [/b]and marries another woman commits adultery . Look at the bolded. It is clear and straightforward. And it is a legal ground for divorce

Same Jesus who said adultery (or unfaithfulness/fornication) is a ground for divorce also forgave an actual adulterous wife that was caught in the act.

In essence, it is not compulsory to divorce after adultery. It is the poster's choice to (forgive and divorce) or (forgive and stay).

Bhus21:
2 days after I found out and going through emotional turmoil. I resolved to do the Christ-like thing and give the marriage a chance. I spoke to her at length and tried to convince her of her folly. I then made a candle-lit dinner at night and bought some flowers. I then extracted a commitment to work on the marriage for 6 months.

So imagine my horror when 2 days later I find out she was still talking to her affair partner for hours. Omo this wahala is even deeper than I thought.

She has decided to walk.

Why is she walking though? Is the relationship with the guy a fling or she wants to enter another committed relationship with him?

As much as you want to 'save' your marriage in a Christ-like manner, the ball is ultimately in her court.

Like Apostle Paul said, if the unbelieving spouse wants to go, let them go.

Bhus21:
Jesus did ask her to go and sin no more. He didn't condemn her to death. Suggesting that there is redemption available to all even an adulterous woman. No?

Let him quote his version na.

Hashabiah:
The woman was caught in adultery and you are still looking at salvaging? Aunty, please read your bible and see what Jesus said about married women caught in the act of adultery

What did Jesus say Pastor wa?

Rachel is twinning with Mercy Aigbe.

Happy birthday to her, she has done well for herself.

CrazyCrane:
cheat at your own risk

This is the female Ned Nwoko

Obinrin Kan bi meje.

Agent8706:
Women! Deep inside them, they crave to want to dominate and if they have their way with a simp, they will and they overdo. Give them a hand and they will want your whole arm.

That's why today's breed are busy shouting up and down the future is.....when the only thing most of them have to bring to the table is nothing but what's between their legs.

@bold:

Very funny

Men don't crave to dominate?

officialwdhtv:
The first 3 words you see here are your reality...what are the words?

Creation, Doe and Alignment.

Leave my reality of it biko

onuwaje:
I was like you just a few months back.

Simple advice just move on
We don't know our spouse until our wedding day

@bold:

Warristhis?

It's like I am like Aunty:

Drop your caveat before dropping your nuggets so that oversabi men and women would not ruin the story/thread/lesson.


Wonderful story, God continually bless your home.

Very funny @ God told you not to dirty your cloth.

Challenges would come, the couple's ability to stick together and flow as a unit would determine how they come out of it.

Front page please.

CheerfulGiver:
So you knew she had a male bestie. And you did nothing to stop the friendship before you married her, now that you're married her what were you expecting? That she'll stop overnight?

She has taken advantage of your nonchalant attitude and there's nothing you can do about it.

Hopefully, the wife comes to her senses herself.

They must have a lot of time on their hands.

teacherbim:
he rewarded her with another beautiful woman 2 years ago

This is very funny.

The reward of being a master planner and strategist for 18 years is another wife.

The loving husband wants her to rest

Kriss216:
This further proves that a man can have numerous concubines, sex partners, baby mamas, side chicks but still loves his wife like no man's business.


Happy birthday Queen.

Where is the proof?

His Instagram message?

What is your definition of love?

While the insecurity is responsible for the lives cut short (God's condolences to their families), it is not responsible for the poverty and poor quality of life.

How can a police officer have five, six children?

It is the height of irresponsibility!

We need to be more intentional in our choices.