₦airaland Forum

sammieguze:
sometimes, it is not out of excuse or blind love. it is out of the financial realities on the ground.
sometimes you can see all the telltale signs he loves and cares for you but doesn't have the financial capacity to make it official. i am not making excuses for anybody. just saying the realities are different for different people

ogeodi:
We call it abuja marriage. Living like married but officially single. Some say wen I move in with him he'll see the good in me and later fall in love.

ImaIma1:
This question was asked in a poll for married couples in my church and mostly the women said NO. The pastor was bothered.

efficiencie:
This is what happens when men and women become sexually reckless before marriage...and we expect them to become saints the instant they are married. It doesn't work that way. If a person has had multiple sex partners before marriage steer clear of such a person as far as marriage is concerned because no amount of love, loyalty, care, money or gifts can make that person change. We need to return to the era when virginity was a criteria for marriage. This would make more and more mothers and fathers harp on their daughters remaining virgins. More and more ladies will be less inclined to spreading their legs for men they are not married to no matter what he says or does. Fewer randy men would have the opportunity to cheat and of course more homes will have faithful husbands...but as long as there are ladies that have legs that spring open just for anything as insignificant as a glass of wine then there will always be men who will be available to cheat. According to J.B Say, "supply creates it's own demand", so if the ladies are willing to supply their overused holes randy men will always be willing to take a dive. The ratio of reports of nude female pictures to nude male pictures (on most social media platforms from nairaland to instagram) is enough indicator that our ladies are the ones supplying the fornication, adultery and pornography industry!

sarang60:
Yes I am Sarang60's nampyeon, and who are you again?

dam4sam:
Majority of Nigerian Women have Very Low, Self Esteem or how do you describe someone who thinks she is not beautiful enough, until she attaches Fake Hair, Fake Nails, Fake Eyelashes, Fake Breast, Fake Hips, fake bumbum, Bleached Skin, etc?

Some even go as far as Fake Virginity!

Black Women have always been beautiful, in their natural state but the fake Women of today look at themselves through the Mirror of foreigners, be it Caucasian, Chinese, Arab, etc, as long as it has a "White Skin".

Be Yourself... and Be Proud of it. Learn from your Men

budaatum:
Not only is your daughter suffering from the effects of her cousin making her feel inferior, but she is doing to her own siblings exactly what her cousin is doing to herself to make them feel inferior too.

The good thing is "it makes her withdrawn most times and she complains to me", which shows she does not like it when done to her so should not be doing it to her siblings.

You just need to learn how to fit the [url=https://classic.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew+18%3A21-35&version=KJV]Parable of the Unforgiven Servant[/url] into a lesson for your daughter, and she will be healed, because the mere fact that you have noticed it early is God's Grace in itself.

Jaycobbs:
They were asked about what they would change, not what they loved about raising their children. So of course, the focus is on their mistakes.

It doesn't mean their motherhood was all gloomy and doomy

angelfallz:
Lol. Your mum doesn't want you to be a cook?
Cooks make serious money oh. Especially during Christmas seasons. And if you're good, weddings every Saturdays and a host of other events year round.

Cooks don't beg for work rather work begs them.

nenyewrites:
@Klass99

It’s really an inspiring story. I wish men will recognize their position as leaders in the family. Some men don’t know that God moves quickly when they fall on their knees. They are always heaping everything on women.

Blessed is the woman who marries man that believes and trusts in God.

kangminhyuksho:
LOL hmmm I guess so. I'm not sure sef

MALIGNANTGuest:
We must do things ORDERLY.
Those who recorded that video may likely end up in JAIL. That BASSEY and that lady may smile last.

God Forbid I catch my Wife.
Why would I harm her?
She's an Adult and knows the consequences of her actions. I can weep 4 a while and file for divorce straight. You have no Legal right to attack the man who slept with your Wife except he attacks you.

U can make a record for evidence purposes but uploading NUDE videos of them makes your case ceaseless, since dey are adults and consented 2 it.

descarado:
From your speed level, you may be worst

NUJABEZ:
You're rudderless in this matter... Your life has elements of defiance because you acquired superior reasoning and were conditioned by the Era in which you came of age... what makes you think that when your children have come of age that those landmarks and legacy you want them to have will not have become obsolete in their current frame of reference?

All I'm saying is that culture is dynamic and each newly arrived generation will discard certain practices. Prayer will not save you here, madam.

bukatyne:
May we not have kids that would derail from the landmark we have set, Amen.

angelfallz:
I believe they're paid good money. So it must be worth it

Theflint1:
It's the pain that comes from the fact that Davido didn't want her yet would lay claim to the child, even to the point of being surnamed Adeleke.
If Davido was married to her she won't have felt this way.

NoToPile:
I was wondering if I missed anything too, had to read the post twice.




@ topic you should have just enlightened her on the financial aspect that's all, I even suspect she needs help in the shop thats why she took this first apprentice like that, the matter no reach this level of being a G.O fagunwa on her in the shop na, kilowade. She even apologized as you said.

You now told her you would appreciate your eyes not meeting her that night, ontop wetin na , she took the threat very serious and maybe she was actually scared of what you might do that's why she called her people and her father told her to go to your fathers house which is not a bad move.


Op this matter is not up to this level at all

Ungrateful wife because of this matter ?

MALIGNANTGuest:
Honestly.
I wonder how ADULTS could come up with such a video. She said she's not married.
That the man is yet to pay her BRIDE PRICE.... so why disgrace them like this.
And the MAN has the right to get another Wife if he so chooses.

These arrested ADULTS need a Good LAWYER.
We have too many idiots domiciled in Nigeria.
No human Rights again
This nonsense has to STOP.

Tihmmyg50:
I am a 400l student of a technology university, Doing my internship in a supermarket as the IT OFFICER in that supermarket. but the sales girl is a completely RUDE GIRL. she's pretty with bad leg(structure), but she's really rude. She want to be forming i met her there whereas I'm her superior due to the position hold. it has been really hard looking away, please HELP, what can I do to enjoy the rest of my stay.