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koladata:
its normal, some young people who are still God fearing believes sex is a big sin. Everything will be fine after marriage .

Thank you.

smallsmall:
And despite all these starling, wife qualities, you still could not marry her but just kept her as a Bleep-mate and married another woman (your fiancee) who did not/could not provide all those things you said this other lady provided for your emotions

Hmmm......some Men sha.
Those wey get Head, dem nor get Cap to wear and those wey get Cap, dem dey find head to put am.

smallsmall:
Where did you see UNCONDITIONALLY, in that Biblical quote?
The quote said: Husbands, love your wife, as you will love yourself, even as a weaker vessel".

I guess you dont know what "unconditionally means"!
Even God does not Love us Unconditionally, he demands "Worship and Obedience to his Laws".

Ephesians 5:22 24 = Wife SUBMIT to your Husband, as to the LORD. For the Husband is the HEAD of the Wife. Wife should SUBMIT to their Husband IN EVERYTHING.

Ephesians 5: 25 - 28, 33 = Husbands, LOVE your wife, just as Christ loves the Church... In this way, Husbands ought to LOVE their Wives as their own body. He who LOVES his Wife, love himself... and the Wife MUST RESPECT her Husband.

As we can all see, the Bible keeps repeating over and over again, the importance of a Husband LOVING his Wife.
At the same time, the Bible makes it clear that the Wife MUST (take note of the word "MUST", making it a non-negotiable command) RESPECT and SUBMIT to her husband.

If we also notice, the Bible INTENTIONALLY makes the "RESPECT and SUBMISSION" come first, as a condition for the LOVE.
You RESPECT and SUBMIT to your Husband (as your Head and Lord), as a condition, in exchange for his LOVE.


No be me dey talk, na Bible-talk l dey talk o, nor be me dey talk, na Bible-talk l dey talk o (In fela's Voice though )

How can the submission come before love when a husband is to love his wife as Christ loved the Church using your analogy?

The same Bible clearly states Christ loved us first; while we were sinners, He died for us.

And the love Christ has for the Church is unconditional.

If you want to quote the Bible, at least quote and refer to it right.

obailala:
Respect still remains one of the oldest and most potent mumu button for men generally. But there's one condition that has to be fulfilled before that button (or any button at all) can work - the man has to like the woman.

I was waiting for this.

My ladies, before you look for any man's mumu bottom, make sure the man genuinely loves/likes you.

If he doesn't, OYO becomes your new state of origin.

Women should let men chase and express their love first.

How do you enter a new relationship under whatever guise three months after the death of your wife for 13 years?

zaynie:
She's fine oooo!!!

Lol.
She's currently out of the country.

Oh, thank God.

toykathy:
Check kissasian.sh

You are a darling, thanks

They only have A Werewolf Boy.

Finally!

sarang60:
Hahahahaha

I loved the ending of Vincenzo but I just wish uri agi didn't die.

Who is Uri Agi?

I didn't like Vincenzo's reaction in the scene when Han Seo died.

I would have written a deeper dialogue and made him express more emotions.

Probably make Cha-young crawl to him to say goodbye also.

Something like:

Vin (crying): 'Little brother, you did not have to take the bullet for me, that's why I knelt down for you to beat me. It is my duty to protect you'.

Han Seo: 'Oppa, you are the only one that can beat Han Seok and make things right'.

Vincenzo crying hugs him right while Cha-young crawls to him to rub his hair, Han Seo smiles his signature smile and dies.

He was out of character there; they developed him as a very passionate/emotional man when he became comfortable or liked someone.

And Vin clearly liked Han Seo. When they went to the Ice Rink and HS almost fell, VC caught him. He warned him to leave the country for safety etc


Nice movie.

I have caught the Kdrama and SJK bug.

SJK is one of the first actors/actresses I am scouting for their works since I watched him in Descendants of the Sun.

I loved his performance in Innocent Man.

That guy has depth of acting sha and his expressions

Any idea where I can get :'Penny Pinchers', 'A Werewolf Boy' and 'Sungkyunkwan Scandal', 'My Fair Lady's and his other works.

I have checked Netflix, Amazon Prime, Showmax etc.

@descarado: Have you watched Vincenzo?

descarado:
This place surely will break some homes.


It's filled with juves, lots of people from broken homes, mostly emotionally unstable people and teenagers not forgetting scammers.

zaynie:
Good morning mama.
I sent her a mail last week and no response yet.
I have a phone number and an address.
I'll call the number today and if no response, I don't know what to do as I don't want to intrude on her privacy.

I'm sure she's fine.

Please update us.

LisaAnneMia:
Hi! Is anything wrong in people taking it on their own?

I honestly don't know.

I just know that some Christians 'seem' to have 'reservations' against churches who encourage their members to do so.

Yves4real:
The preaching was pre-recorded. He wasn't present in the live communion service and Pastor Obayemi attested to that.
May the soul of Pastor Dee rest in perfect peace. Amen.

I see.

Siwisheswereesh:
It may have been pre-recorded

Hmmm, a very valid point.

It is well.

Shuzzi:
Why then do most pentecostals criticize churches who take them?

A Pentecostal criticizing Holy Communion?

Never heard of it.

I have only heard people 'criticize' Churches who teach members to take it on their own.

Shuzzi:
Wait Redeemed church de take communion?
Una too copy

Is Holy Communion not one of the commands of Christ to all Christians?

He did not have to do that.

There is time for everything; it is God and not Pastor Adeboye doing the work.

If Jesus could weep publicly before resurrecting Lazarus, groan and express His fears before the crucifixion and express his sorrow loudly when God forsook Him at Calvary, I don't see why Pastor Adeboye could not take sometime off to grieve.

This keeps turning men of God into gods of men.

God will give his family the fortitude to bear the loss.

Amen.


Modified: just learnt that it was a pre-recorded service. God will console them and heal their broken hearts.

SUPERPACK:
Why not use him for money ritual, then use the money to help the remaining family members.

Fantastic idea.

If they inspire themselves so much, why didn't they marry and live on the babe's salary till Bill blew?

After all, the drive and passion was there and marriage to Melinda did not 'kill' it.

I am very interested in Melinda's background to understand why she would agree to such nonsense. Low self-esteem? Poor? Obession?

And why divorce now? Is she tired of 27yrs of being the 3rd wheel? Did she think his desire for Amy would wane after they have kids and settle into the routine of married life? Did she think she could cope? Did she erroneously think 51 weeks with Bill trumps one week with his ex?

What was their marriage like outside the press?

Kingrefreshed:
Go back and read again but this time in slow motion.

There was no cheating! What language did you understand??

If you understand what infidelity really is, you would not say there was no cheating.

maasoap:
You jet around the world with an ex girlfriend and even sometimes went to isolated and secluded places all the time while you're still married to your wife and still have audacity to shamelessly tag your wife an unsecured fellow ! Some of you are simply amazing at justifying rubbish!

Hahahahahaha!

You go fear na!

It is the last line for me:

'Some of you are amazing at justifying rubbish'!

alshalz:
Organic chemistry, especially those their Arabic drawing formulae or whatever you may call it.Balancing of equations,wetin we dey balance, life wey suppose to balance Eno balance na equations wan come balance

Organic Chemistry is not applicable in everyday life?

When next you buy a drug, go through the leaflet and you would find the chemical composition, contraindications i.e. other drugs aka chemicals you should not combine it with, dosage by age which has taken into account average developmental stages at that age hence determining the amount aka dosage required and a bit of nuclear physics telling you half life of the drug, the time it takes to decompose fully in the human body and pass out as waste which also informs the spacing of the drug.

You would also see the side effects of the drug which are chemicals in the drugs reacting with the chemicals/hormones in your body.

You think Doctors just tell you to use drug A every 14 hours, drug B twice daily and drug C 10pm every night because they like your face?

I think this thread sadly speaks to the quality of education received.

marveangel:
This is a list of things we learnt in secondary school that are not applicable in real life or have become totally obsolete maybe due to advance in technology or maybe they weren't as practical in real life as our teachers tried to make us believe.

1. Quadratic Formula (Almighty Formula)
The very first time I heard those words "Almighty Formula" I was in primary school, my elder brothers were arguing about some maths problem and they mentioned Almighty Formula I was like wow there is a formula in maths that is Almighty I bet with this formula I can solve any math problem I ever came across. I mean it is after all "Almighty" . Spoiler! there is nothing Almighty about the quadratic formula it is actually just another method of solving quadratic equations.




2. How to use long division and long multiplication
I remember my mathematics teacher shaming us and acting as though our whole brian was filled with saw dust just because one couldn't do any of this. But look at us today, we have the mobile phone and calculators I don't think I've been in any situation where I needed to use the long division I learnt or should I say forced to learn.



3. Memorizing The Periodic Table
Believe it or not back in secondary school SS1 first term to be precise I actually memorized the entire elements in the periodic table, all 104 of them over the weekend by break on Monday I had become something of a legend. Accompanied by my two closest friends I went from SS1 A to D mesmerizing other students with my "knowledge". I was the centre of attraction, each student with their Ababio textbook staring at the periodic table while I recited each element accordingly. By the end of the week I was something of a legend everybody was talking about me, even the seniors. But come month end even I could barely remember the first 30 elements accordingly and the legend fizzled into thin air. Unless you ended up studying chemistry I mean advance chemistry you'll probably would find memorizing the periodic table a complete waste of time, especially those rare elements not like you can got to ShopRite and order 2 kilos of Uranium.



4. Roman Numerals
Yeah yeah you could argue that you still make list using them, I understand that, but how often do you use Roman numerals, unless you are a class teacher teaching the same old things we were thought back them to some innocent students you probably never made a list longer than 10 with Roman numerals that's if you even do. Tell me I'm wrong.



5. Longitude and Latitude
I Know it seems like I have something against geography but I don't, my geography teacher was a fun guy back in the days but let's be real here, how many times have you had to use your knowledge of longitude and latitude in real life scenerio( unless you are a pilot or a ship captain,in that case - ah ya captain) and this thing called Google maps actually made that knowledge obsolete.



Bonus; Morning Assembly
As far as I'm concerned this is a complete waste of 1-2 hours every morning, why couldn't we just get to school and go straight to class why do we have to stand and sing, dance (principal sir I already endure 2 hours of morning devotion at home before coming to school) and then of course March to class. I never understood the essence especially the marching to class part. But if you do kindly enlighten me.



Well there you have it ladies and gentlemen top 5 things we learnt in secondary school that I believe are not applicable in real life or are now obsolete. Feel free to add yours and if there is anyone you do not agree with kindly let me know.

If you are in the field where it is required you would use it.

Besides, most technology were built using these formulas and principles: compasses, calculators, maps, remote land survey, architects, pharmacists, video games, softwares, etc.

Assembly is for pep talk, a bit of disciple, passing information, corporate affairs etc. All these are still important today.

This shows Nigerian Youths are not the solution; Upright Nigerians are the solution.

Hmmmmmm.

Ishilove:
I can't even have someone who dresses like this as a friend

This just buttresses my comment:

What is the concord of proverbial light and darkness?

pocohantas:
Who do we blame for this trend? The bride, the groom, ushers or the wearer? Lol

The wearer: most of the blame
The side inviting the aso-ebi wearer to the wedding: a little blame for not setting the expectations of the wearer right.

I believe if people know your standards, they would conform to them in your arena and do whatever they like elsewhere.

Just how some people can take their side runs to some places and wouldn't dare to other places.

NoToPile:
Hilarious thread, more hilarious comments.

Never knew people put framed photos of their parents in their homes, I thought it was the parents that put that of the children and grandchildren in their living room.

It sounds very strange to me, never even thought of placing my mums framed picture in the living room. I have never visited someone with their either of their parents photos framed and hung in the living room, maybe its in the bedroom as some posters have said.

My sister,

Beauty of NL.

I have never heard of it myself.

nautybride:
I love myself but it has been termed selfishness.

Well self-love is different from being selfish.

If you consistently get feedback that you are selfish, maybe you are.

Re-evaluate yourself and change if required.

tydi:
Mine had been termed narcissism.

Wahala no too much??

Same as above.

gamyy:
I don't think so...maybe if it's taken to the extreme

Even Jesus said love your neighbor as you love yourself...so we are expected to love ourselves...but not be selfish.. cos love also do make sacrifices

Well said.

There is a difference between self-love and selfishness.

incogni2o:
Self love is dangerous.

Its fake Love.

It's selfish.

In lowliness of heart, Let each esteem others higher than themselves

Self love is not same as being selfish.

Love your neighbor as you LOVE YOURSELF.

If you don't love yourself, how can you love your neighbor?

stunnert:
Bros spread her legs and collect double of your payment, but make sure you strap on a rubber

You are surely not a business man and have no value for your body.

Else you would know that sex is not a legal tender hence cannot sustain his business. You would also know that your body should be
too precious to join it with anyone.

@OP: not a strange thing.

A number of Uber & Bolt drivers have same story to tell.

saphiere:
Meet Airpeace Airlines female pilot, Nwando Phina Okpalaeke. One of the pilots that landed the aircrafts at Anambra International Cargo And Passenger Airport Umueri on Friday, 30th April, 2021 during the test-run.

She is from Azia in Ihiala Local Government Area of Anambra State.

Nwando is a Computer Science graduate of Kwame Nkrumah University in Ghana. She later trained at an air school in South Africa where she was certified to fly commercial aeroplanes.

https://www.facebook.com/absradiotelevision/posts/1947846952038921

Is there any special thing of note?