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Na wa for Funmi Martins.

Even Mide's father is rumoured to be unknown. Thank God for her husband and the wisdom to settle their rift some years back.

If you want to sleep around aka 'chop life', ensure your child (ren)'s paternity can't be disputed.

oilPUSSY:
https://thenationonlineng.net/yorubas-will-lose-more-in-war-against-fulanis-oluwo/

Totally agree with the Iwo.

How do you fight a man who has nothing to lose?

BreconHills:
You all forget several things
1. Even in the unlikely death of William, he is unlikely yo ever be King
2. The circumstances of his mother's death - her ostracization by the Palace and the hounding by the Press bitterly wounded him. You have to always remember that there is a difference between the Queen as a grandmother and the Queen as royal. He will always have her love and affection. The Palace is merely a job he was born into.
3. The press repetition of 2. Above towards Meghan- how they are recreating the circumstances that led to his mother's unhappiness and death.

In the absence of a direct duty as King, Henry has always wanted a quiet and normal life snd in Meghan he has found the perfect outlet. Financially they will be fine. As a first rank Royal, the title doesn't make the man. He will always be regarded as royal by the ordinary people of the United Kingdom. I wish them a happy life.

AKA having your cake and eating it.

texazzpete:
What destiny is he avoiding? The same ‘destiny’ that led to his mother’s death?

Nigerians sha. Person mama die because of unhealthy paparazzi culture and you expect him to sit still like a mugu while his wife and mother of his child continues to be harassed and harangued by a racist UK media.


He doesn’t NEED the House of Windsor. He already has fame and fortune. There’s nothing else they can offer him. He wants privacy and control of his own life. He’s by far the bravest person in that family.

And how did he get his game and fortune?

Prior to January 2020, what made Harry Harry?

What gave him access to ALL the things he has?

BRATISLAVA:
Not really.

They want all the Fame (which they are exploiting with Netflix), money (his father is still paying his way through for him), titles (his confused wife calls herself a princess even when she's never been accorded that title) and whatever else his birth can give him.

What they really don't want is to work like the other royals. They want to misuse the royalty, and that is really what led to their fall out. They want to bear titles they don't represent. It's like the queen telling you the she's the queen, but she's selling her own merchandize, commercializing her post, and never being on seat, while dictating your life as citizens to you.

It's good they've stepped back. They weren't ready to be royals (though they still cash in on his mother's death every single time, and want the money and perks). They are better off begging for roles(though they claim they don't) at movie premiers and being on the Oprah show. Their hypocrisy is legendary.

Good luck to Mr and Mrs Megan marble.

He behaves too much like his mother.

I agree with you.

I honestly hope Harry has an identity outside Prince Harry.

omoyankee3:
There's a paradoxical question: "Did the successful black man become successful because he married a white woman OR married a white woman after they became successful?

While I was in college some of my black friends dated white girls and later married them. A few dated black girls. Fast forward several years later, the guys that married whites are more successful, on average, than those that married black women. Go figure.

What happened?

Bestty101:
These are some of the things I stopped doing in 2021....

1. I stopped posting my life on social media’s I still
post few quotes,memes and sometimes myself
but I don’t post every update on my life.

2. I stopped taking pictures in my favorite outfits so
that I can Wear them anytime anywhere in peace.

3. I stopped using dating apps.

4. I stopped using Facebook cause there isn’t much
out there for me.

5. I cut out all my friends that I didn’t feel like we
still had any thing in common.

6. I stopped being extra nice.

7. I stopped spending on things that I don’t really
need, such as the newest iPhone, Samsung or
upgrading my phone when the one I am using is
doing just fine.

8. I stopped gossiping.

9. I stopped judging people or taking sides when
people or friends are fighting.

10. I stopped caring about who doesn’t like me or
how people gonna think of me, and started
asking myself if I am happy With the person I am
at the moment.

11. There's room for improvement.

Thanks for reading

10 things?

This 2021 that just started or the one that have passed before?

I rooted and rooted for Kimye sha.

Sad!

It is a Nigerian problem.

pocohantas:
As a marketer, your job is to meet targets; risk, deposit, e-banking...etc. Irrespective of your gender, you have to meet this target. For core staff, there are so many indices that makes up your KPI, of which deposit is just one. Yes the targets could be reduced or benchmarked, but if you choose to leave all the rest and focus on deposits, to the extent you have to fck around, then you have yourself to blame.

If these ladies didn’t have vaginas, they will look for other means to meet their targets- be it professional, educational or financial. So, assume you don’t have a vagina and do things differently for once.

What I think should be outrightly banned is contract staffing. The work doesn’t match the pay at all.

@bold:

True.

They work same hours, same job for different benefits and renumeration.

It's sad.

@First paragraph: it is a buyer's market jare. If the targets are too high (which I honestly think they are), people should move on.

If you can't and decide to use whatever means to meet them, don't cry foul biko. There are straight men meeting those targets without sex. Same with some women too.

I will not carry my two legs to the bank to pick up a marketing/sales role.

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pretydiva:
Women are always at the receiving end in all of this

Receiving end of what?

Male and Female marketers have different targets?

Kondomatic:
And nah man dey sponsor this bill while feminist are on Twitter chasing after wind.Women are actually okay with sexism and patriarchy where it favors them. The double standard is glaring.



Have you not noticed that most times the difference between flirting and harassment is the man's financial position?

@bold:

Laughs in Spanish.

And sex too.

Women flirt, men harass

While I am tempted to say it is a buyer's market because of the lack of jobs, it is a good bill senator.

Aonkuuse:
The girl is from the wife's mother's side, it's possible they won't know

You mean Ejiro is not a blood sister to the wife?

Even if yes, how was the villagers able to spot the husband that the family couldn't?

Who were the wife's sister and husband going to meet in the Village?

Did the villagers spot them before the event or after?

Does it mean the girl's family did not know who was coming for intro/traditional marriage prior to that day?

Fehinlean:
Hey Sapphire, thank you for posting my story, a couple of people sent me the link.

For people saying I can't ride solo. My first solo was September 2020 when I went from Lagos to Osun state.

Second Solo ride was when I went from Lagos to Benin and Back under 6 hours in November.

Yes I rode with Amazing men on this journey, it was amazing.

Men are great and Women are great too.

Every biker is still learning, the video where I fell was December 2019 just when I started riding.

It might not be a big deal but I find it amazing that I can do this things, so you could try it also.

Kudos, eku riding.

Since you are here, we can get info from the horse's mouth:

Details of the trip, how you travelled, where you slept, how many states per day etc etc and the whole sauce.

EternalBeing:
I love your spirit, the fact that you are focused of Greatness. But learn to hide the details, better to keep the people guessing and talking that to give the unappreciative souls called Nigerians the loopholes they looking for to ridicule you, sad souls who always blind themselves in seeing anything good in anybody trying to come up. The lady should have told the other bikes to move back from her bike before that picture was taken. It would have been more awesome to leave the audience wondering how she could travel alone with her bike. Also, know that the future is Couple! Most of the Wealthiest and Successful Men made it married and remian married; Bill Gates, Obama, Ben Calson, Biden, Trump, etc. True Marital Love is the Key.

@bold:

Let me laugh small!

Couple kwa?

Inkling:
Stop creating unnecessary animosity.



The future is for dreamers

The future is for go-getters

The future is for innovators

The future is for risk takers

The future is for creative minds

The future is for Me and You

pretydiva:
I need his beards back Biko. He looks weird without it

Hashtag #bringbackalexbeard

AY, AY, AY

That guy has vision sha.

Perhaps the worries of life?

bizme:
Actually this makes a lot of sense. I also believe there's such thing as a herd thinking at the societal level: regardless of what theoretical opinions we may individually hold, when we are faced with certain issues we tend to behave in particular fashion. Unfortunately it isn't always as simple as the society being kinder to widows; they also become more vulnerable to some level of ills especially when the 'benefactor' wants to make some demand.

I agree with herd thinking in the society. And almost all societies are alike at its core.

Humans are same; just different laws curtailing their behaviors.

You are comparing 'home/unit' level treatment of widows: outlawed widowhood practices, their in-laws stealing their properties etc. To the societial treatment of sympathy they get.

In my initial post, I said women 'manage' the home/family hence are judged harshly there; men 'manage' the society hence judged harshly there.

Widows get men & women who want to help them (some at a cost); widowers do not even have helpers at all.

If not for man placing a premium on his sexual need, how is sleeping with a woman (who might also enjoy it) for help in cash or kind a fair exchange?

Men function in the society so naturally, the society would be kinder to women than men. The same way women function in the home hence the 'home' is kinder to men.

As a result, men are expected to be able to fix themselves or solve their problems; in this case get a new wife to handle the domestic part he can't/wouldn't. This also means they don't get much sympathy on a societial level which includes monetary.

People would rally round a prostitute who is a single mother of three kids from different fathers than before they consider a family man of three kids who lost his job.

This thinking on a societial level also affect alimony: nobody is cares that a man's standard of domestic living would drop (no more fresh soups, clean house, clean clothes, organized home etc.). They are more concerned that a woman's standard of financial living would drop and want to ensure that doesn't happen.

This is how nature designed it and so it shall be.

fineboynl:
everyday here in my place which is a new site and still developing, with newly built houses and all others still under contraction. you we see a slim looking young men including hausa men which you will never believe has that kind of strength mixing heavy gravel and big big stones concrete and carrying it here and there for hours, believe me you just have to be amazed of their power and stamina.

and guests what thier menu is bread and mineral. some time I just imagine what nutrients is in mineral and bread? absolutely nothing. I use to see if as shaft just to block stomach and even when I'm seriously hungry and I are it my eye will be turning me and it will be as if I haven't ate but my stomach is block.

no nutritional value. If I don't eat meat and pepper contain meal it makes me even more weak.

I can drink beer and eat any pepper cook meat or fish and feel ok with strength.

I want to know why are these labourers surviving on bread and mineral both on breakfast and lunch and still have stamina and feel so strong?

Coke: sugar energy
Bread: carbohydrates, energy

They are working out the excess sugar they are taking in.

Wack OP,

We managed to get the meat sha!

Greatness course through the veins of madam Ngozi's families (birth and martial).

All round excellence

I like people who determine what they want for themselves and achieve same with grace.

descarado:
When will Nigerians start seeing their 'brothers wife' as part of their brother and not an acquired posession?

Thanks to our major religions.

Christianity clearly teaches leaving and cleaving.

Problem is that most of the women shouting leaving and cleaving here are just like men who shout submission:

They pick the side of the Bible that suits them for their selfish agendas.

Neither of them have the characteristics expected of a Christian.

What is the angst against Churchill?

He shouldn't have married his PA or he shouldn't have prayed God honors Tonto?

Or is there a new gist?

Tonto said he is not good (true/not) and someone else thinks he is the best (true/false).

End of story.

Happy birthday Andre and congrats on the star your mom bought for you.

Fantachapman:
The girl I am engaged to and want to marry told me today that i love her more than she loves me. What does this mean?

There was something we were discussing and I told her there are several things that she does that makes me doubt if she truly loves me. She then replied saying, she loved her ex more than he loved her, and so she decided to not love anyone more than she loves them. That as for me, I love her more than she loves me, that’s why I sometimes thinks she doesn’t love me.

I told her this is not something you tell someone you want to marry and she said I am taking it too far.

Please am I making a mistake to want to marry her? Does she love me? Or am I taking her statement too far like she said?

@bold: Hmmmmmmmm!

Mrzfavour:
Thank you

How far?

Has he changed? Are you divorced? Still together?

dominique:
Loads of bullocks. Pregnancy you don't approve of? So she should keep risking her life and committing murder till you approve? You're even sicker than the 24 year old you're advising.

The moment you have unprotected sex, you've indirectly approved of pregnancy. You have no rights to put the blame on anybody other than yourself if you're saddled with an unwanted pregnancy. If you're too daft to protect yourself, then abstain from premarital sex completely. The moment you consciously have unprotected sex, you've trapped yourself with pregnancy.

Birth control is NOT a female's responsibility alone

@bold:

What happens if a man wants the pregnancy and the lady doesn't?

Can she abort it?

Liposure:
because she's complicit

In these matters, I 100% blame the spouse.

If not Toyin, it would have been Titi or Eno: the problem is the husband and not Toyin.

Yes, Toyin's moral compass should say no to married men.

Unfortunately, she doesn't

merieam16:
This song comes to mind

All things bright and beautiful
All creature great and small
All things bright and wonderful
The Lord God made them all


I'm nt saying we shouldnt enhance our beauty buh too much of everything is bad.We are already created wonderfully nd beautifully

Rip to her nose..lolz

Beautiful hymn.

Makes you think of a sunny beautiful day with all flowers blooming and birds chirping. And family relaxing in loving embrace

Africafooty:
Meet The Married Man That Proposed To Toyin Lawani On Val's Day



Source: https://www.instagram.com/p/CLV6W3ErvAE/?igshid=17ppohzuxsfyk



Source: https://www.instagram.com/p/CLWEsaUrwim/?igshid=5jxt8xrz20a8

What did Toyin Lawani do to merit 'fear women'?

Was she the bride in this case?