₦airaland Forum

darocha1:
When you are comfortable. You won't tolerate bullshit.



Imagine if Nigeria was well to do... L'ai mohammed won't spare cnn over the endSARS report.

@bold:

Very true

tobechi74:
Write his phone number here so we will call him and disturb him for you

What kind of thing is this?

Warrior14:
I created this account to post this as I want to remain anonymous.


I was brutally beaten by my fiance that i lived with tonight(he met my people and I have met his too)
This is the second time this is happening within a space of six (6) month and I have decided to end our 4 years relationship which started when I was in my penultimate year at the University.

I am staying with him not because I wasn't earning enough to get an accommodation, but because I wanted us to contribute resources and start a family.

I have never been a burden on him as I constantly ensure I bought enough foodstuff at the end of each month so he pays just utility bills.

I'm a professional in my field and I earn slightly above #100,000 per month. I need a place on the mainland but close to the island that i can stay for a while pending when I will be able to get my permanent accommodation. I am open to paying monthly rent starting from end of this month.

I can't spend another night with this monster. I don't know how to face people tomorrow about how I come about a swollen face. The sound of my cry begging him not to kill me still echoes in my head.

Modified

I can't sleep. I'm sweating and shivering. My head and eyes aches. No one to talk to

Nothing in me prays for this man. I am struggling not to curse him.

@bold: Next time, let the guy drive such convo. Also, it would not be ok to beat if you were not earning; what you earn/do in the house financially does not matter in this cases except if the issue is financially related.

Reaching out to your family & friends at this time would be more beneficial than opening threads (he can stumble upon) on NL.

Since you have the area mapped out, finding a place to stay till a permanent resolution is eaaier.

Goodluck.

Carchoice:
My father is chronic womanizer even till now.

My two brothers are the same.

I just realized I’m no different and it scares me. I’m in no relationship but dozens of women easily at my call.


Is womanizing hereditary?

We are all born with negative and positive 'bends' therefore predisposed to do some things and never be caught doing some things.

Seeing the males in your family doing it and the females accepting it have re-inforced that negative bend in you.

Until something drastic happens, you might continue at it.

Hopefully, your egungun would not enter express before you stop.

deni2002:
So I heard this story and decided to share. A girl was sent by her mother to go buy some things. She bought them but she was cheated. Her mum then tried to explain how and why she was cheated.

The girl gave her mother a rude reply and when her mother tried to correct her, she pushed her mother to the floor and threatened to beat her up. Later, when she came to her senses, she apologized by writing an apology letter.


Can this letter be said to be an appropriate one?

How did the mother telling her daughter that she was cheated lead to the bold?

If the daughter wanted to be angry, shouldn't it be to the person who cheated her?

Anyways, she and her mother know how they rapport

thatthickgurl:
They do hate me, they hate what I stand for

There are no genuine friends anywhere, the ones I think are my friends will stand by or participate in ridiculing me

@bold: what do you stand for?

thorpido:
They always blame others but never themselves.It starts first from the choices you make.How come they never blame themselves for the poor choices.
@Anita says he lied about everything.Isn't it your duty to do a background check on him before saying I do?How come you married someone you didn't know husband family?
If it's so bad,how come there are females who are married and are professors?How come there are married women who are MDs of big organisations?
It's not just gloom and doom.

Plan your marriage well,get a man with a good support system and all will fall into place.We can't have it all, sacrifices have to be made at some point.One thing has to be forgone or delayed for another.

Marriage is never the problem.

100%

It is the 'too many broken and bitter people giving relationship advise' for me.

If you are heart broken, go mend it and stop spewing bitterness online.

Not everyone would be like your 'evil' ex

Not all men/women are same like the person who scammed you relationshipcally; not everyone has evil intentions towards their spouses like yours; not everything is through a lense of distrust.

Nicenancy:
What will u eat

The plate

vicardino:
Is he being accused of something with respect to this program? And I quite agree with you that no one is infallible and everyone should be accorded the benefit of doubt but people can stand up and fight for whoever they want to fight for, pastors or whoever. Are people not still fighting for Bubu despite his gross incompetence? Do they not have the right to? You have friends, people who'd stand up and fight for you should the need arise, don't you?

I as a person, I have seen enough to know that I can't fight for any man of God but I can defend the Gospel of Christ

The accusation is the current Pastor Mike's case.

The spiritual son is saying despite the 'attempts' to bring the apostle down, his program s are still filled to capacity.

That's an odd way to think.

Is the program for Apostle Suleiman or for God?

armyofone:
He is jare his moniker for other sections.

Piers Morgan must be a Nigerian man to think so 'backwards'.

Or a Nigerian man must have told him what to say.

Madam Gamma, it is your body, nothing do you.

Hope you are the only one in the video or you have obtained written consent from the other participant(s) in the video?

This act of people 'fighting' for men of God when they are accused of something is worrisome.

These men are infallible and might make mistakes/errors/sin sometimes and they should be called to order.

When a church member does same or is accused of same, these same men of God are 'swift' to judge and punish;

When it comes to them, it becomes 'the devil wants to bring them down'.

Or is correction/punishment/reprove only for the members?

shadeyinka:
Our darling daddy has taken us up to the place you are describing. At least without knowing anybody one can get admission into 10 public universities in Nigeria.

Sai Baba!!
I support Baba's third term 2023-2027!

Romanoff:
The manager na woman.

I'm sure the the next thing is "she will start shagging him".

Abi?

Let's believe you:

What kind of disrespect makes a married friend bring a booty call to your house as a married person?

What craziness makes you invite your married friend to your Marital home?

Hmmmmmmmm.

Congratulations Toyin!

You have worked hard and well.

Gjrich:
It's so unfortunate, a country which is seen, regarded and respected as giant of Africa, is still struggling to find a lasting solution on how herdsmen can rare their cattles peacefully without having problems with farmers after making a mess on their land.

The most confusing part of it all is that a large number of people have lost their precious life all in the name of dispute between herders and farmers and it seems that the Nigerian Government are helpless on how to go about the matter.

Currently, there is a rising tention in the whole of the Southern part of Nigeria, this is something nobody can deny, the tention have escalated to a point where noticed are being sent to Fulani herdsmen to vacate the South, and the reason behind it all is the inability of the Nigerian Government to find a lasting Solution between farmers and herders on how everyone can go about their business peacefully without being attack or killed.

In other to have a guideline on how to go about it, a picture has gone viral on the internet, about a Botswana Woman called Betty Kgathi, who is a retired nurse and also an active cattle farmer who has over 900 cows in her farm, and farmers in her country are not having sleepless nights due to how she was able to manage her business peacefully without destroying people's farm.

Due to how organized Betty Kgathi is in her vow business, Her farm became EU (European Union) Certified & Audited which automatically allows her to be selling them to EU Market.

I honestly doubt they don't know what to do;

I think they do not want to do it.

Congratulations to madam Betty.

VICKYGISTBLOGG:
Destiny Etiko is one of the most talented Nollywood actress, who has been gracing the screens of Nigerians for more than a years.

She was born in the year 1989, on the 12th of August. She is also a graduate of Theater Arts, she obtained her bachelors degree In Nnamdi Azikiwe University located in Awka.

The Beautiful screen diver who recently bought a new ride and has been trending for days, shared this curvy photos on her verified page, and Instagram handles.

Some Nigerians took their time to zoom into the pictures, see what they saw, and their reactions.

See the photos below
https://vickygistblog.com/god-have-mercy-see-what-people-saw-after-zooming-into-destiny-etikos-recent-photos/

The middle picture is the first time I have seen her heavily made up.

armyofone:
Dayo don dissappear
Pataki don dissappear

Kia!

Is dayokanu not ramudeur?

Not sure I got that right.

Angelluvy:
A lady who never wanted to have a child, Accordingly to her, she don't want all the pain and stress women go through to nurture a baby.

She aggreed with her partner. And both claim they don't want children, but two yrs into the marriage, she mistakely took in.

Now she want an abortion and the man wouldn't let her. The family is breaking out. She claim the man trick her.

What would you advice here?

If she really wanted an abortion or no kids, why did she notify him?

angelfallz:
gbam!

She should rest.

ashewoboy:
I would like to view the person behind your username.

Happy viewing

SmellySperm:
if "done and dusted" was a person

Afi done and dusted na

Some responses just leave one speechless.

God grant her favour and opportunity.

Amen.

Your husband invited side chick to your matrimonial bed and you are blaming her?

If you fight this one today, hope you plan the next one tomorrow.

Face your husband.

If the wall doesn't split, the lizard cannot enter.

Chasing lizards away instead of sealing the wall is an exercise in futility.

ebukajay184:
''We Need To Stop Attributing Every Woman’s Success To Her Sexual Prowess With Men''- Toyin Abraham Reacts To Ruggedman's Post About Nollywood Actors And Actresses

Actress, Toyin Abraham Ajeyemi, has reacted to the post shared on Twitter by singer, Ruggedman, in which he asked why female actors were buying cars and houses, unlike their male counterparts, IgbereTV reports.

Ruggedman had tweeted;


https://twitter.com/RuggedyBaba/status/1357764297905037316?s=20

Reacting via her Instagram page, Toyin said she understands what Ruggedman was trying to say and finds it saddening that many people seized the opportunity to say derogatory words against female actors.

The award-winning actress said she knows a lot of women who charge in millions in the film industry and that she is one of them. She stressed that people need to stop attributing the successes of women in whatever industry to her sexual prowess with men.

Her post reads;


https://www.instagram.com/p/CLB7ACqszsi/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

@Toyin:

Nobody would ask why you or Funke Akindele or Omotola or Rita Dominic just got a mansion.

People are asking why an 'actress' who acted a low budget movie buys a car worth tens of millions.

People are asking why actors on the level of these actresses are not doing well.

The question is why actors who are known in the industry are also not doing so well.

Well every of these cases are not sex for money, it would be crazy to claim all these actresses and other women living above their income are saints while calling men dogs.

Who are the men buying sex buying it from?

Ghosts?

Toyin, rest.

Wrong size and shape.

Always look at the shape, height and complexion of the model before ordering biko.

AbujaCitiBlog:
This shows you how easily people are manipulated! To decieve a single person is difficult but to decieve the multitude is very easy!

Now you know why some of us supported Trump! Get ready for the sleaziest and most ungodly American President ever seen!

@bold:

This!

Very very very on point.

angelfallz:
The only way Nigeria get its acts together is the current system of government is changed to a system that supports the heterogenous nature of Nigeria. That is a system where the various ethnic nationalities that make up Nigeria, control their own destiny.

Any other thing is a waste of time.

Nigeria's issues are multiple faceted jare.

And the citizens are as culpable as the leaders.

VanessaKokomama:
I have not been called BABY for a long time even if it's Baby oil, Baby lotion or Baby seater.
Abeg just baby me small na beg i dey beg

Baby