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crackhaus:
King David was not filled with the spirit of God?

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Roll the eyes upwards

Different dispensation.

Divorce was 'allowed' in OT, just write a letter of divorce to your wife.

In NT, not allowed.

Keshinr0:
Her grandmum too ought to be jailed.
For abhorring a useless husband, and keeping such a big secret

True, she was an accomplice.

And to think they continued 'living' together.

awulio:
Without women no man would be born including yourself. You would not exist if not for a woman. So the world belongs to women

The first woman came from a man; other men (boys) have been born by women.

The below is more like it:

HellVictorinho:
The world belongs to nobody.
Both the male and female reproductive organs are indispensable to the continuity of humanity.

steveodo:
She is telling woman to participate in politics, as if she has ever participated in anything called politics besides been the first lady that is the effort of her husband and his political party?
Beside been the first lady which is a previlage of been a governor's wife, what impart has she made in the society or what success has she recorded in any field?
Nobody she tell me she and her husband are one because Mrs Alakija, Ngozi okonjo iwela and their husband are one too.

general111:
Hmmm...
If he has a pastor, call his pastor to talk to him.

LadySarah:
My take too.The bible only made monogamy compulsory for a Bishop.Are all men bishops?

I say to each his own.Just let your wife know you may be taking another in future.If comfortable then good.Don't spring surprises on her .

It is way better than the monogamy that a lot of men are deceiving themselves with.

marriage Certificate:monogamy
Penis: For community/polygamy

@bold:



@OP:
The Bible doesn't talk about smoking cigarettes or pornography either.

Studying God's plan for marriage, monogamy is the ideal situation which balances the 'rights' and 'responsiblities' of both parties.

Would a polygamist go to hell? No idea

Would a man filled with the Spirit of God marry multiple wives? I 100% doubt it.

Eketem:
You are upset that your boyfriend is not getting anybody to defraud and because of that you are broke.

You dont know you are now both cursed; cursed from the sweat of those he defrauded. Your businesses will continue to crash nansense

SouthNigerian:
Yea! I'm Male.

Bolded@ What's the role of a husband?
Thanks.

I am some threads on husbandhood and fatherhood (from the Christian POV).

Liposure:
so where do we draw the line between Gender equality that's being clamored for and role reversal in the house?

You should ask the people who think it can be interchanged in the first place.

Gender equality: Men and women are not same (interchangeable/replaceable) hence it is funny when ideologies (hello feminism) passes the boundary of common sense and start whinning that a man (hello husband) can not tell a woman (hello wife) what to do with 'her' body.

And don't mix up housekeeping (the strategy) to doing chores (the tasks).

Anyone can do chores, a wife keeps house which is what the OP is talking about.

notok:
yes he would do everything a sit at home wife does

It would take a level of domestication most husbands would never achieve to interchange a husband with a wife.

I want to leave out child birth and nurturing for the sake of argument.

If I understand, the men MUST sleep with the women to 'activate' the jazz.

If yes, the men are the ones breaking their homes.

He wants to hit and run, woman applies edikanstay.

Two ge four.

Marry and Zip up.

Simples!

1Sharon:
Don't let your scorned mother's experience put you off men.

Learn from her experience and weed out narcissistic, uncaring men.

By the way, a woman accumulating all these academic, financial assets and achievements is MASCULINE energy.

There can only be one masculine energy and one feminine energy in a relationship. If there are two masculine energies in a relationship, you're both going to be fighting for the throne.


A relationship between a woman more successful than a man can work, but men avoid those women cos of the attitude that comes with those women.


I'm no fenimisnt no mo . I'm learning

@bold:

Some women have perfected the art of switching energies; from baby girl to maale to queen and back.

In Omotola's words: She switched from boss, to wife, to mother back to boss in five minutes.

A woman ditto a man needs to know how to wear and juggle all the many hats of responsibilities.

SouthNigerian:
Happy International Women's Day to the females out there.

When growing up as a child, my Mom faced a lot of discriminations in the hands of my Dad and his family.

She faced constant assaults physically, emotionally and spiritually. My Dad never wanted my Mom to fulfill her potentials because he felt his authority in the house would be challenged if my Mom become financially independent. My Dad's anti-progressive attitudes towards my Mom drained all her aspirations to become great in life.

She abandoned her lofty ambitions because she's a wife. She left the things that would have made her fulfilled because she's had to save her marriage. My parents lack of cooperation affected my upbringing and education(thanks to exposure and good friends). I could have been making South Nigeria proud if I had good education but hey, here we are

I discovered my Mom wasn't the only person in the league of subjugation by men. It came to my knowledge that women are slaved beings in that thing called Marriage. I discovered most men are envious of their women who seek to be free and great in life.

All of my childhood experiences and societal ideologies made me arrive at the conclusion that marriage is nothing but a trap for women. Crazy enough, women are the ones who seek marriage the most.

I have decided never to get married because I believe in great potentials that women harbor. I strongly believe in the strength of women. I believe in women's capabilities.

Many of you guys would say Nigerian Women are useless. How many of you guys would husband a woman who aspire to be as great as Okonjo Iweala, Folorunsho Alakija? How many of you doesn't mind having a wife who is richer and influential than you are? Well, me don't mind seeing my woman greater than I am. Her breakthroughs would only multiply my desire to be greater.

As for me, I have decided to shun marriage. Even if I have to get married in the future, she must be a woman capable of challenging me. What I mean by challenge here isn't the woman who quarrel me, I mean the woman who have a lot to bring on the table. A woman I can gain from intellectually, spiritually, emotionally and of course physically. She must be a woman ready to speak up for other women.

FEMINISM DOESN'T BRING AN END TO THE THOUSAND YEARS REIGN OF MEN IN THE SOCIETY. FEMINISM IS CREATING A FUTURE OF FREEDOM FOR BOTH GENDERS TO GO AHEAD AND FULFILL THEIR GREATEST POTENTIALS.

My Advice to Our Ladies Out There:
Seek to be independent in all ramifications. Financial, emotional, spiritual, physical independence etc.

Choose to be the best you can be with track records, don't choose to be a hoe.

HAPPY INTERNATIONAL WOMEN'S DAY.

When I started reading, I thought you were a lady but reading to the end, you are male.

It is good you are planning not to get married, you are yet to discover what a husband's role is.

Goodluck and healing.

notok:
With the way people advocate for the eradication of gender roles , would women be okay with sit at home husbands ?

An aberration in my world.

Men and women are different with different roles

budaatum:
Like I said, you have not watched the interview!

He is being shown on telly right now in UK with his wife right next to him, telling Oprah how shocked and unexpected the treatment he received was. As in, how unnormal it was from what he grew up with.

And it was not mainly from the family as many have assumed, but from the British press.

Nope, the summary is enough.

With each comment in their favour, the couple sound like they are starring in a melodrama.

All the reactions by the couple to their in-laws is because of the British press? (which I already highlighted in a comment)

You are not helping their course budaatum

When this drama is over, they wouldn't be able to summary what happened....

In one sentence, why did you leave the monarchy?

'Hmm, the media did not accept my choice of wife and my family did not stand up for us.'

The clowns have not left the media o!

Even my dear Kim Kardashian stopped smiling for the camera (by extension people) because they mocked her when she was pregnant with North.

1. “Women should know that there are specific rights to be enjoyed exclusively by women and there are general rights women enjoy with both men.

2. “The 1999 Constitution of Federal Republic of Nigeria guarantees the economic rights of women, where it stated that all citizens have equal opportunity to secure suitable employment and there shall be equal pay at work without discrimination.

1.

2. Thank God, no more 'in saner climes'

3. Is there any law stopping women from leadership positions today? Any laws/thing stopping women from political leadership in Nigeria today?

I vividly remember Madam Sarah Jubril (MSJ) who with stamina, diligence and a supportive husband became a Presidential Aspirant:

Only FOUR people voted for her; the women in her family could not even vote for her as per fellow woman.

Considering the caliber of leaders we have had, I know MSJ was not the worse that other people especially women would claim they voted better candidates.

People complained of APC & PDP yet refused to vote Fela Durotoye, Sowore and Kingsley Moghalu

Yet, same people would whine about female leaders year in, year out.

Happy whinning.

budaatum:
You have not watched the interview. Harry is on telly in UK at this very moment confessing how naive he was in marrying Meghan into his family, but you think Megan should have known.

Harry is the insider hence biased as to the 'actual' cost of marrying into his family. What seems like 'caging' to us is a norm to him.

Meghan however, is the outsider who can objectively look without rose tinted glasses.

BTW, they both sound dumb at the moment. Harry at 33 years did not count the cost of marrying an unconventional partner? Was he in a bubble all the while or he did not see what his brother went through with Kate? Did he engage his elder brother for guidance? Meghan (not mailed to Harry from Igbo Ora village) could not research the Monarchy before marriage?

The person who said 'leave when the ovation is loudest' got it.

milann:
biological born? What of those through IVF and CS.

Biologically born women;

Women who are the female sex from birth.

Not awon Caitlyn Jenner and Co. Limited.

descarado:
Exactly.

I saw the advert about this interview at work on Thursday , I'm sure some of my colleagues saw that too but nobody said anything about that.
Last night I saw the analysis of the interview on sky news Australia. It was really bad. Curiosity made me check out some news sites, girl, she isn't celebrated. British love their monarch and British allies too even though they are pain in the arse. I saw strong solidarity online for the queen and her family and they are not British.
Hope she won't divorce that guy anytime soon

Let her go and continue with acting.
Hate drama queens. So many of them from US.

A drama queen from a dysfunctional family is a disaster waiting to happen.

How can an exposed 36yr old divorcee claim she was naive and did not know what marriage to British monarch entail?

Fine, she did not and she was lucky enough to marry a man willing to throw his heritage away.

Shouldn't she move on in peace?

Does she realize that it is her in-laws that she is dragging to and fro?

Some people are saying 'the British media was harsh' bla bla...

I am wondering if she married the family or the media.

I also hope she doesn't divorce the guy

Madam Funmilayo Ransome-Kuti was really a woman of worth.

The Chocolate City VP looks like chocolate

Kudos to them, the mama isales and power behind the oros!

salford1:
It's not about finance. They are multi-millionaires in pounds and Harry's family (from Diana) are very wealthy aristocrats.

They mentioned been cut off about twice.

They should move on already; this is getting stale.

tit:
Now, you all know Meghan is lying when she says she did not know what she was marrying into.

Did we not read of the King George (?) That was forced out of the seat because he marry who they don't like?
Did we not read about Diana who also lost part of her title because she divorced?

Was Diana black?

Meghan! Continue!

She is so manipulative!

How can an exposed American star say she has no idea of what it entails to marry into British Monarchy?

It seems they are pained they cut them off financially; see how they twisted the story

They don't to do royalty again; Nwganu go... Wahala! Stay by force: Wahala!

I hope the marriage works for Harry's sake.

Queen Meghan, what do you want from the Monarchy at this point?

[quote author= post=98105406]Unfortunately, He his dead now![/quote]Who is dead?

The biological father?

So when did this discovery take place?

@Post: na wa for the father.

How do you 'forget' a child? Or give him up for adoption just to go and flex?

Why are they all nearing 70 though?

Happy women's day to all biological born women.

God's blessings upon us all.

Amen.

Succeed him as president or succeed him as the next APC Presidential candidate?

If the former, Nigerians would (ideally) decide.
If the later, oya, we are waiting.

People mentioning US, politics is different per terrain.

A number of countries seen as not 'big on women rights etc.' have produced female presidents and leaders.

Jaqenhghar:
This thing you described seems very rampant nowadays in every society. People are taught to do whatever they want, then when its time to face the music people start making excuses for them and make it like it's not their fault. Everyone is blamed from politicians to members of the society (usually those) are faring better

Gold again!

This generation makes me speechless!

You make choices YET you do not want to give others the freedom to react to your choice!

Well, they have just started whinning.

XhosaNostra:
I swear some black people are the biggest whiners & always make excuses for why other people are doing better than them.
One thing I noticed about achievers, no matter what race they are is, they plan their lives. If you don't screw up things for yourself by making horrible life choices, you too can reap great rewards. But some people will make one life changing bad decision after another & then act like they didn't engineer their own reality/existence.

One year after and SOLID gold!

Acidosis:
Okay, she don dare una... If you know any at least come forward..!

Anyway, while I don't agree with her husband's opinion, everyone is entitled to his or her views and perception of what's cheap, affordable or expensive.

To those mentioning IROKOtv, please y'all should shut the fvck up. She doesn't run/manage IROKO (Maybe her husband does). The post states clearly - "ROK", not IROKO. Her family is BIG, no doubt. It takes a lot to run one of the biggest nollywood- dedicated tvs in Nigeria, only second to Africa Magic. Let's not forget she also owns a betting company - Betty Bingo.

Believe her if she says her staff earn over 100k but you don't have to agree with her husband's opinion.

@bold:

Did not know she/the Njokus owned it.

Her marriage has done her well and she is focused & very cool headed.

Like Mercy Johnson & OmoT.

Wouldn't be surprised if they are friends/ acquaintance s.

LadySarah:
[b]where are the foolish adlt children of this woman?A 39 yr old marriage will have a 38,36,34,32,30,28 consecutively,all things being equal.[b]

They should call for peace or provide a home for their mother.This is shameful.

Women hustleooo.life continues after marriage.

@bold:

That is even my worry.

They are not poor so it is not the case of 'the children are hustling'.

What are they looking at while their mom is going back and forth in courts?

AmazingELixir:



If this had happened in the western world...it is the man that will be vacating their apartment for the lady.

But down here the law is dangerously skewed against the female folks...with such mentality it is common place for african men to harm or outrightly kill their spouses when they think of losing their life savings to the women they married with their sweat and hardwork.

@bold:

Does it not show that the law is 'dangerously' skewed against men in the West?

Is your concern that the laws are 'skewed' against particular sex in both societies or that the laws are 'skewed' against women in Nigeria.

P.S.: I would not say the laws are skewed; I would say the application of the laws...

If either society bring out their laws, it is 'fair' in theory or on paper. The application is different