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cooooooks:
I know of a man who came from South Africa (Indian parents) to Canada with Chemistry degree.

After years of teaching and being a citizen, he started a medical degree (he was almost 40). Went from $70,000 a yr to $150,000 starting salary.

It is never too late.

3 of the guy's 4 kids are now doctors as well, specialists too.

Bestty101:
I just heard it from someone today that my younger sister brought her 10 years+ boyfriend to come borrow up to 600K from my father. My mom was even in support of it. I have to give her a serious warning, but I don't know if it's the right thing to do.

Vyvyanvyvy:
We are not together anymore. I gave birth to a baby girl, she is 8 months old

philip0906:
Firstly, whatever traditional spirituality and OCD a normal human has, ends at their door steps. You don't go to another man's house with your baggage of spirituality or whatever lingua to the point of claiming "Right".

Secondly, I entirely get where you're coming from and your posit would have had me thinking maybe if I hadn't read through his follow up posits. His follow up posits simply points to one thing: He is clearly mentally unstable. It's not hard to spot one.

dobnina:
Y did you take a loan when you are not sure if you will be able to pay back.
Didn't you read their terms and conditions before saying Yes to their loan.
Did Sokoloan put a gun to your head to take their loan.
You should have borrowed the money from your family or friends if you don't want any harassment.
You deserve all the insults and harassment.
Nigerians are the worst set of people to borrow money because when its time to pay back, you become their enemy.
If everybody is like you defaulting in their loan payment, where will you get your urgent 2k next time.
Don't ruin another man's business, go and pay your loan and stop looking for pity party on nairaland.

Vyvyanvyvy:
Everything is fine by God's grace

TMSMedia:
Man Sentenced To 7 Years Imprisonment For Raping 6-Year-Old Girl In Cross River (Photo)

A High Court sitting in Calabar, Cross River State capital has convicted one Isaac Evaghoghome for raping a 6-year-old girl, IgbereTV reports.

Evaghoghome was sentenced to 7 years and 6 months imprisonment with no option of fine by Justice E. E Ita, on Thursday, February 11, 2021.

Isaac Evaghoghome pleaded guilty to the charge of rape of the minor (6 years at the time of the incident)

Reacting to the judgement on Friday, Barr. James Ibor, head of Basic Rights Counsel Initiative (BRCI) said he was pleased with the ruling.

BRCI wrote on Facebook;



https://www.facebook.com/234487933271205/posts/3558363207550311/?app=fbl

Oluwa18:
A little back story.
I am a 36 YO guy with no university certificate, was too wayward to finish school in FUTO then, left school in my 2nd year for a 4 year course.

Tried my hands on business years later and currently have 7M naira saved.
Now, I want to go for degree and eventually start a family .
I am considering seeking admission in a UK or Canadian school. Luckily, I have sponsors .

For a guy of my age , looking to study IT related course or physiotherapy and eventually seeking residency, would you recommend UK or Canada?
Please I need supported answers.

Thank you all.

Arewa1stSon:
#stopkillingnorthners & #StopOyoMassacre trend as Northerners create awareness on the killing of innocent Hausa traders in the South West...

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https://mobile.twitter.com/search?q=%23StopOyoMassacre&src=trend_click&vertical=trends

Gang90:
Thanks for your understanding, although honestly I'm not quite traditional, I'm a science freak and I get disgusted on the thought of menstruation, and all of that, from medical stand point am a bit of an extremely neat kind of person, non fresh human blood irritates me and all these, and a couple other things, to think that yes shes my brothers wife but I don't share any blood connections with here and I lie down in a place knowing someone not connected to me had sex there it makes me instantly cold, and I might through up, these things the best way I can define it is disgusting, and as such person keeps doing such they look more so to me, I can easily relate to my brother bodily fluid becuase he carried me as a child and I must have once urinated on him and he must have laughed it off he didn't throw me away for that, but this is a woman I knew not much just that she's my brothers wife and everyone expect me to even it her shit becuase her husband pays the tent and tomorrow I will be someone's husband too, if I'm married and living in the same room with my wife would it exactly had been the same all I demanded is they should wash it, even if it my brother he should wash it, same yesterday I washed some of my brothers clothes but I can't wash his boxers unless he is sick so what's hard to understand here

JLM:
I am glad you said the "couple". Op only holds his sister in-law as the guilty one. Whereas two people had sex there. He didn't say one accusative word at all against his brother. Please every statement he has made depicts only hatred for that lady. It's so obvious.

A new bedsheet is therefore not the solution to this at all.

lexy2014:
They never learn because d citizens are docile. From d report, bystanders we're begging d police to respect d rights of those ladies instead of challenging d police men

Destinylearning:
Lori iro

Yungmil:
Opinion: The level of Immortality committed on Valentine's day, Salah, New year eve, Christmas day and Easter is more than the ones committed in the remaining 361 days of the year. SMH

NwekeUG:
Valentine Day Is A Day Of Death - Mike Bamiloye

Popular Nigeria televangelist Mike Bamiloye has described valentine’s day as the day of death, IgbereTV reports.

The cleric stressed that February 14 would see the death of many destinies as many people would engage in lustful pleasure to mark the day.

The Christian filmmaker cited the example of the Bible character Joseph, saying his destiny would have been aborted had it been he slept with Potiphar’s wife

He tweeted:

“Tomorrow is a day of death. Tomorrow evening is a ‘Night of Fun’ when many men and ladies will slaughter their destinies on the bed of lustful pleasure. By next morning it is done! Destiny auctioned to a young man or a lady whose future has been mortgaged to the devil.

“Happy Valentine! If Joseph had had fun with Potiphar’s wife, he would never have got to the palace to see the type of Glory he saw. He escaped that trap that would have aborted his destiny on which so many lives in Egypt and Canaan land, depended upon.

“There is a great story in Proverbs 7:6-27. It is a sad story of a young man on his own “Valentine Night”. He had thought he wanted to have fun that night, he had thought he wanted to enjoy himself but crashed his future in a night of fun.”

"Proverbs 7:21-23
21 With her enticing speech she caused him to yield,
With her flattering lips she seduced him.
22 Immediately he went after her, as an ox goes to the slaughter,
Or as a fool to the correction of the stocks,"

"23 Till an arrow struck his liver.
As a bird hastens to the snare,
He did not know it would cost his life."
https://twitter.com/mikebamiloye/status/1360479808443064321?s=20[/quote]Well said sir.

Aliyos80:
I was married 4yrs back without knowing the man is mentally ill, everything happened just in a rush from our first meeting to the marriage its self just happens in 2months time and we just meet once face to face, the 2nd was during wedding time (it's my qadr and I accept it wholeheartedly)
I was treated very badly by him I was beaten up many times he slap me in any misunderstanding I suffered alot in those 8months, before my parents got me separated from him after learning he is mentally unstable from his family, though he didn't divorce me untill after I spent another 8months in my parents house saying he loves me he will not divorce me, my uncle threaten him of going to court before he handed the divorce paper to me.
now I really want to get married, but am very afraid of been married again I use to feel why would I go back to that terrible life but deep down I feel I want my own home, my own family, I want to see my own children
how can I overcome this please

missjo:
Hello all, as shown in the topic, what I need most in my marriage is trust.
My husband does not not trust me, he's extremely suspicious of me. At first, it was flattering seeing him show his insecurities by being protective and wanting to know where I am and who I'm with all the time. But I can take it no more cos of the way he keeps mentioning specific names of men he thinks I'm having something with.

To give you a bit of context, this is a summary of our marriage.

By the time I and my husband met, I was in a relationship with someone else. He didn't mind and we clicked mostly because we were classmates from way back. I instantly fell for him and it was easy for me to fall in love probably because the relationship I was in at the time was on shaky ground, we were always fighting.
I found peace with my current husband when he showed genuine interest and we developed our friendship, and that led us to where we are now as a married couple.

Now I'm not stupid, my mind tells me that perhaps at the back of his mind, he feels that if I was able to leave my previous relationship to be with him, then I can do the same to him. This is what I'm thinking, but I also believe there's more to what may be going on in his own mind.
Missing his calls always becomes an issue, he has this attitude of calling me on video immediately after I tell him where I am and then he would insist I pan out the camera angle to show him around.
He has gone as far as mentioning the name of two coworkers of mine, and makes jokes that insinuate I'm having a secret affair.

I love this man, and I would not cheat on him. He makes me swear and make promises to him all the time and frankly, I'm tired of swearing for someone who just won't get that he's got me and won't lose me. It's gotten to the point that his continuous suspicions of my coworkers have made me start noticing them in ways I shouldn't have. I honestly started watching them more just to understand why my husband would ever assume I can be interested in them.

I want him to trust me, I need his trust, but I have run out of things to do on my own. I was going to suggest couple's therapy to him, but I'm so not ready for one of his long speeches.
I just want to do all I can to build the trust and if it don't work, then I can be bold enough to suggest therapy as a last resort.

nenyewrites:
The Bible says, Christ has redeemed us from the curse of the law. So why are women still asked to operate from a curse?

In Genesis 3:16, God cursed the woman saying, “I will greatly multiply your sorrow, and your conception; in sorrow will you bring forth children; and your desire shall be to your husband, and he shall rule over you.”

Now, as Christians, we all agree the curses have been broken by the blood of Jesus Christ. But why are women still made to carry their curses?


Answers needed.

OlawaleBammie:
Zz or

Fati20 01

Sap hire

On yi22

Chi5 9

It can not be bukatyne

Prettypri ncess

It can not be fatym ore

I dont tink its Bo la ibad an

Talotunku oooo

madridguy:
Nigeria Police will not stop amazing someone.



May God reward you bro and I pray someone that knows the girl get this notice. She looks so tired.

MadamExcellency:
Africans Ladies are better than black Americans and those Western Ladies without Ancestors.

Their revenge is cruel and they accuse men of sin they intend committing after they are not with them anymore.

Most of us are far better than them

bizme:
Be deceiving yourself. Human civilization remains a jungle, unlike the imagined reality that the media seeks to promote. In what percentage of the entire human population do men even buy women flowers? And in what percentage of our over 7billion population do we have the future as female after all?

The more some of these misguided homo species continue to pretend their is a mortal competition between the two genders the more they sink beyond help in their delusion. Men and women have roles biologically bestowed on them that modern painted imagined realities cannot suppress.

oluwasegun007:
Advise from someone who bought her baby daddy golden Lamborghini Aventador SVJ on his birthday....

The problem with women is they always need an authority to direct their lives...

Only few dont subscribe to speeches like this.


Dear women enjoy valentine with your heart beat..

Even if it's just N200 aboki suya garnish with excess onions and Cameron spice...

Most important part is you keep loving and respecting each other.

Happy val in advance,

And by the way.. tomorrow is my birthday, happy birthday to me....Baba God no ni.

frowland:
But we like comparing Nigeria with China as a yardstick, so what gives??
Anyways, to develop at your own pace you must be politically ruthless like UAE, China, Singapore and Co.
You won’t get anywhere dancing to the tune of western liberalism.

OneKinGuy:
UK banned China but when China banned UK, they called it Unacceptable.

helinues:
China are doing more than themselves... You can't be fighting everybody and thinking you can win all.