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NaijaTushboy:
Dear future wife,
.
Listen to me carefully, divorce is not an
option.
I forgive you for whatever mistake you are
going to make, it's already forgiven.
No matter how much you get mad at me or
annoy me, you see these my hands, I will
never use it to hit you.
No matter how angry I am, I won't reject
your food, ask my mother (Iya Okikiola) she
knows I don't joke with food especially Spaghetti
or apu with well garnished Egusi soup
and Meat and pomo
I am going to teach you so much and I pray
you do same too. I am going to make you
love football, even if you don't support (CHELSEA)it's fine,
Just love it.(God will catch you you'll support Man u or Arsenal,
we shall see)
When my friends come over and we are
watching a football match ,I don't want you
to be bored and run off into the bedroom,
you will sit down with us and argue about
the match.
Baby, see eh, if it's zeeworld you like, I will
cram the names of all the casts and crew
and I will also make sure I follow the story
religiously. I won't even miss an episode, as
long as we have other things to talk about
aside school fees and work, I am happy.
We will settle our misunderstandings before
we go to bed every night and pray in peace
to sleep.
I will pay the school fees, buy us a house,
take you on trip with me for all my vacations
in Dubai.
You will drive our first car while I save to
buy another one, don't worry I will enter a
taxi, no wife of mine is going to jump into a
keke while I own a car.
Hope you know I will be very popular and I
will have huge fans, pretty admirers, horde
of stalkers and groupies? Please, that's what
they will remain, fans and nothing more.
Just don't worry about them
I will respect and love your parents like mine
and never will I get into a fight with them,
as long as they don't give me a long list of
things to buy oh.
Ehen baby, please, we won't have a
timetable when we want to process Olamide our first kid and his sisters into this world oh,
please note that. Everywhere in the house is
a potential bedroom so forget about
comfort zone.
I will wake you up early to start your
makeup on time so we don't go late to
Church.
And again, I love my nails being painted, so
be ready to be my nail painter.
If you are angry with me, don't yell infront
of the kids, else I will kiss you to shut up and
when we reach the other room, hehehehe
..don't let me talk.
Here are three things I will never do.. I will
never lie, steal or cheat!!
If I ever lie, I will lie in bed with you all day..
If I ever steal, I will steal your heart away..
And If I ever cheat I will cheat death to be
with you forever!!
Divorce is not an option, WE DIE HERE!!
The day you tell me you are tired, i will buy
you energy drink to continue this journey
oh, nobody is leaving anybody!!
It's for better for worse; remember ?

perkyB:
it felt sexy

dangotesmummy:
Nigeria is on fire una dey do shihoulette challenge

Many of Nigerian youths are senseless.you have a fool as a president,wicked and unreasonable politicians who feel They are not accountable to you

Economy dwindling yet you are still doing shihoulette challenge.sho tosiiyin? Shoriyinpe?

descarado:
Now this

You love Turkish dramas?
I'm an addict. Presently following bay yanlis. The lead guy is . The guy is more popular than most Hollywood dudes and has made Turkish series gain widespread international recognition.
Don't understand why people watch telemundo actually. I rather watch Nigerian movies.

VIPERVENOM:
Shey one of them is already lamenting that somebody showed her mother the one she did. Lol. Me i go watch o. But nobody should come online and complain because nobody will care

perkyB:
I tried it once but deleted it. I was too shy to post it

PoliticallyLeft:
The market is highly saturated. Some of these girls even do free trial.

I identify as an agnostic person (I lean towards polytheism) but wouldn't deny the moral policing role Christianity and Islam play.

When Reno said you can't be feminist and Christian, people didn't just get it because of lack of objectivity on their part and the self-deception of wanting to eat one's cake and still have it untouched.

The unseen feminist pact doesn't state freedom to be educated like Ngozi Iweala or liberty to join politics like the Angela Merkels and Kamala Harris(es) alone. Britain didn't start experiencing women in government in the 21st Century, England had queens. The invisible agreement provides for equality between both genders in all areas of life. This includes why you should not issue a Fatwa against Rahama Sadau for not covering her hair and back if you are not going to issue it against Dangote for revealing his buttocks on social media. It actually isn't a bad thing, to me.

The striking question remains who are really enjoying? The free girls who will work to repay huge student loans or put a shelter above their heads immediately they clock 18 in the West or the chained ones who will be treated like eggs in exchange for submission which includes public decency in the East?

Well, I'm very liberal and wouldn't find it hard to adjust to contemporary living...

BLOODYSPERM:
5th wave Feminist
Sex positive Feminist
Slut movement Feminist
Anti body shaming Feminist

Sterope:
It is going to get stupider and stupider. They will blame everyone but themselves and throw in the conspiracy of policing women like we don't police men too. They are already using the 'consent logic' to shame men who are trying to remove the filter sef

We are too comfortable, that is the only reason. Sometimes I don't blame older generations when they come for us.

Godada:




You mean you used up 13gig watching shadows of naked women.......the future truly belongs to the female

Pacesetter123:
Your reasoning is so sound!

tyup:


All i can see is the trait of a typical 9ja girl taking a turn on this yung lad. Which one is sell the chicken to buy the Tablet?? So everyone should go hungry cuz u want to use a Tablet A typical 9ja girl reasoning which their demand should be met first or nothing not minding the current situation.

The holy book said rot is in the Heart of a child but a rod would drive it far from him/her. The father better give her a rod instead to save a future Nigga coordinated billings

descarado:
What happened here?

I wish una goodluck o.

I jump and pass.

Familytalk9909:
I bought a house in one of the priciest neighborhood in Lagos last year, I never knew I could pull this off but I saved every penny with my wife and she kept on encouraging me even when I thought it was near impossible. My mom never knew I was worth that much, I didn't even know I had that much. My wife and sisters are very close and they stay in my house for months with my wife when they come visit sometimes to come help with the kids or they just want to be around me.

Growing up she always complained about my dad not being transparent with her and she would go on and on about how loving husbands are with their wife. Growing up my dad wasn't the example of man I wanted to become and I am proud of the love and success I have at this age.

I don't want to change the formula. I felt sad when she called me and I can't discuss this with anyone so I just want to learn or see If I am being irresponsible as she said. I just need to be looked at from a third party.

I hope this answers your question.

IMASTEX:
But in this case it's quite different. A male police can get 100 women pregnant without it directly affecting his appearance or hinder work performance. You can't be employed as a marketer in the bank today & get pregnant the next month, same with several other establishments both private & public. Military does it too. If she wants to get married, she needs to get clearance because most forces will do background checks on the partner to be sure she's not been used as a bait. Now will she be able to carry out her normal duties without "occasionally" feeling sick, absent, etc. Or who takes her duty when she finally put to bed? Those are the reasons behind the action. We all know the level of manpower, further reducing it without adequate plans by her boss won't go well. She isn't queried for being sexually active but pregnancy. I am not saying it shouldn't be waved but people shouldn't start addressing it as a gender thing. There are several issues and misnormal in the country that are still been practiced. I.e. rejection to treat persons with gun shot injuries without police report, etc. Even with the level of crime in the country.

It isn't about morality or gender but clear job ethics. She can be sexually active but don't get pregnant because it will definitely affect her performance. Of course there are probation period in which case no leave. So how will she get maternity leave.

Judolisco:
It's not about deploying ladies... Why are you telling us... Now bandits know what they will be facing and what to expect

sweetmelanin:
Everyone is quick to remind men of their responsibility to provide but if you dare remind a woman of her responsibilities in the home, you are branded a misogynist..

Familytalk9909:
Hi Nairalanders,

I had to create this account just so I can get the opinion of men and women and not just the married people on here if I can learn a thing or two from you all.

I am a young guy who has been married for over 6 years with 4 beautiful kids. I tend to leave my financial aspect with my wife(meaning I save most of my money with her till I need it for business or acquiring properties) because when we were dating she was more responsible financially than I am and she knows exactly how much I am worth and I still do that till today. I keep investment funds and savings that run up to millions in her account while I keep the fraction which is needed for our family day to day and shopping expenses.

While I think its not irresponsible of me because I trust my wife and she knowing how much I am worth, when I am rich and when I am broke, I am transparent with her and it saves me the trouble of requesting for things when she knows I can't afford them and she looks out for the best interest of the family.

My mother knows about this and my siblings and they have been complaining for years, saying this is wrong. My mom says it is irresponsible and its never safe to be too transparent with your spouse. I don't plan on changing how I run my family.

Over to you nairalanders, do you think this is right or or wrong and please give reasons.

Denique:
He has come far in the industry. Slow and steady does it!

CalliDora1:
The bolded are still measures of force. So, some form of force will still be required for her to succumb. .