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RisenPhoenix1:
No, my reason for polygamy is to help women; with some benefit to myself of course. I'd have still done it, it won't have made a difference.

I'm sure she wasn't that special. It was just an innocent childhood thing and couldn't have lasted long anyway. Come on, I was 7 and she was 8. I even subsequently 'fell in love' with many other fellow students and even a teacher or two; before I graduated high school. But I will always remember my first simping with nostalgia; which is why op should permit his sister to build her own nostalgic memories

angelfallz:
You never see/hear anything.

CalliDora1:
Whether or not I give him such advice, that's what he'll end up doing if the woman continues to push it. And it won't ruin any experience for life. She'll get over it within a short time. Trust me. When she's not a kid.

RisenPhoenix1:
I hope you're not mocking my first serious relationship? That was the only true love affair I ever had in my life.

CalliDora1:
Force her and later apologize. Na your tin. Abi wetin dey worry her? make sure to use enough gel though.

Do not cheat. Don't break the edge so the serpent (devil) won't strike.

ValCon888:
Only Nollywood actresses build houses, buy cars, fly to Dubai, and throw housewarming parties.
With the exception of Funke Akindele and a few others, the term "Nollywood Actress" is another name for the word "Óloshó."

illicit:
You are right, it's just our culture....

Diagonal:
I initially had a long distance courtship with my wife while we dated. Later she came and stayed with me for some months bc she had accommodation issues. She was based in a different State. Altogether we dated for 4 years before our eventual marriage. All through those times we never had se.x. She never allowed us to, and since I'm a Christian, I willingly left her alone since it's even against my christianity teachings. Moreover she was a virgin and I felt there was no need putting undue pressure on something that was eventually going to be all mine.
Fast- forward to today, it's been two months after our wedding, no se.x. My wife is too scared of it. Each time I make an attempt, she gets so scared of penetration that my "thing" just collapses. Forcing her would make me feel like it's rape. I have bought all kinds of gel to apply and reduce pains, but it's not working with her. She is still saying I should give her time to get used to it.
Meanwhile she is the over-jealous type. She gets angry for as flimsy a thing as me viewing WhatsApp status of female contacts on my phone or Facebook photos of female friends!
I'm already feeling I've made a huge mistake in marrying her. I never thought I'd ever cheat after marriage, but it looks like I'm being pushed into it.
What can a brother do in this situation?

paul100:
I was checking my sister homework and i saw this in her bag.She is just 8years old.I have removed it from her bag before my mumsy see am.Abeg what should I do? She is too small for all this.She is just in primary 3.Advice pls.

RisenPhoenix1:
Aww. Puppy love. Pretend you never saw it, put it back and let her give it to dashing Daniel.

We all did bf/gf in elementary school. I still remember Anne; my elementary school crush. I used to spend whole hours dreaming about how I was going to jump in and save her from the lion that was going to escape from the zoo and make straight for Anne (very logical even at that age. If I was a lion, I would have gone for Anne). I practised all my choke holds and back breakers that I was going to use on the lion, after which Anne would jump into my arms and pledge everlasting... I dont know what I was expecting after that. I wrote her so many letters about how I loved her and she didn't have to worry about lions, tigers, mad elephants or kidnappers, that I think she was responsible for 90% of my writing skills today. Who knows, maybe your sister will get A+ in her A/level English from such practise. It won't go beyond letter writing, I assure you.

Henix:
Even his divorced wife also wants to tap from the new opportunities that the vice president's office will open for the family

passyhansome:
May we be known by our Names and not our wives name either way sha are good

Stephen4800:
I just created this account, last week my wife told me she hardly gets butterflies whenever I touch her, just wondering how

JaneYave:
It means you have become an ex too and if you are patient, she will come running back to you. .After all, it is said' if you love a thing, you let it go, if it comes back to you, it is really yours'. Happy waiting! Na who get mind dey love ooo!