₦airaland Forum

mrMeen:
thing is am not even a Christian but what people are insinuating on this thread is appalign. So a man cannot ask a favor of his wife to cook for his guests while he himself will assist and even bring in a third party to assist, it's not like the meeting is not ethical or beneficial to the society and it is something done only once in like 20 months. People are undermining the value of marriage and it is very bad to see.

Mariangeles:
Yeah. I wonder how hopeless and cold the world would be without emotionally intelligent people like us

crackhaus:
Lol, balance is necessary.

IamD18:
A good, well mannered, submissive, and loyal wife with mutual love for you deserves more.

Just make sure she's not on Nland and you are free to make sacrifices for her.

StagethemTVee:
A Nigerian filmmaker reveals how he sold a land, car and property to pay his wife's first tuition after she told him about studying in Australia. In his words



What do you think? Would you do same?

Source: https://www.instagram.com/p/CEpQlJRBk0C/

Mariangeles:
The deed has been done, and the product evident.
If you have nothing encouraging to say or solutions to proffer, kindly keep your thoughts to yourself.
Things are difficult enough for her as it is, don't make it worse.
People with comments like yours and those who agree with them are emotionally detached.
They're incapable of empathy.
They only reason logically .

Mariangeles:
The did has been done.
Empathy and solutions are the only thing needed now, not blame.

thorpido:
Young girls never learn

Take responsibility for you sexual wellbeing. First thing to master well is your reproductive cycle.There are periods in your cycle that are safe and some days are not safe.Master it well.
It is still possible to get pregnant any day of your cycle so have a back up plan.If your partner won't use a condome,you get a femdom.Get a spermicide or use a morning after pill or just get on long term contraception if you will regularly have sex.

Anyway,Op,it's a new account so....

sirjamesjnr:
When a married couple chooses to sleep in separate beds, what does this tell you about the marriage?
Couple let hear your views

Theyoungmatron:
I think you have a multiple personality.

LegendsCoded:
The man is an Indegene(Ikwere).

We tried stopping him from beating his wife he called cultist for us (tenants)

If he isn't beating the wife he's beating the kids the wife doesn't fight back she most times takes the beating for her kids. The kids are the only bond holding her down according to her.



Human Right seem to be the only option but i need there contact or office.

FirefliesSun:
I am so mad right now. I am so confused.
Today around 5:30, I had to visit my friend to pluck hibiscus flowers.

One thing led to another while at the flowers, I saw my friend's mother making eyes/wink and pouting to my friends husband. He just smiled back although he noticed I saw it but the mother didn't.

I can swear they are having a fling and it's shameful. I don't know how to tell her. I am just here, very confused and bothered. Even if I wanted to tell her, how do I even start?

Walk:
Girls like you are the ones who make guys think a feministic approach to issues isn't worth it.

You keep giving us bad names and all that. Clearly, you're not married. I can't count the times my husband has had to go out of his way to make sure i'm comfortable. You don't know that in marriage, it's a give and take situation? This get together holds once in every two years, not like she'll cook for the guest everyday. Just once and it's just soup.

Should you get married with this idea, you'll crash out before you say jack.

INSTANTCASH345:
Sorry...ur decision in life has put you into this situation.

Some young girls now will still choose wrong and later 10years time,head will be broken again.

They will never learn and give chance to the right guy.

I have approached many girls and none would like to give their num saying, 'I don't give my number to strangers. '

I just moved on...when in actual sense, they prefer giving it to bad guys and hooligans. Later now,you see some poor in 20 years time begging you they need money to feed their kids. Who send you?

I will just drive off with speed...your choice,your problem.

pretydiva:
The same iron rod should be used on the man's head shikena

Nigeria police never disappoints. Asking for money in this kinda situation. Smh

It's obvious the man turned the woman to a baby making machine. 8 kids already . Like seriously

dangerousdaddy:
Good evening people. Please don't mind my English. My post is actually out of pains and frustration and i may not type with the correct words.

I'm a 31 years old guy. I'm actually very bad with spending because when i have money, whoever asks from me gets. I am under alot of pressure lately especially from those around me. I am the 1st child of my parents and have so many responsibilities.

I got my girlfriend pregnant and she moved in with me. My parents were never there for me so i vowed i was going to be there for my kids. Hence i do all i can to make sure my daughter and her mum are OK.

The girl in question is a torn in my flesh. Totally different from when we were dating without a child. Nowadays, as soon as i get my salary, she wants to buy this, she wants to buy that even though she knows i receive less than a 100k and i have multiple loans i am paying back because we moved out of our old apartment due to space constraints especially after she delivered.

Whenever i don't have money, there is never a happy moment in my home. But if i come home and bring money, we become very good friends. She wants to live a good life which is not wrong but I feel when she knows how i am managing, she ought to understand and bear with me.

The last straw that broke the camel's back was, i was yet to be paid, i had 700 with me. I gave her to make some food because we had the basic food stuff in the house.... Rice, beans, ogbono, spaghetti, garri, Egusi.... Palm oil. So basically all she had to buy was fish or something to put inside the food.

I came home after a hard day at work and met an empty kitchen. When I asked for my food, she asked me what i expected her to cook with 700 naira. I got so mad and left the house but since it was late (it was close to midnight), i decided to come back. In my anger, i started asking her why she's treating me badly. And the next thing is, she called her mum to say I'm fighting with her and that i pushed her to the ground. Her mum replied and said that if anything happens to her daughter, she would hold me responsible. That she didn't give me a wife......

Now I feel i should just end everything and let's go our separate ways before it becomes a case of domestic violence. I never want to see my child grow up to see me fighting with her mum always and being unhappy. I believe a child that grows up in an unhappy home is always at a disadvantage. Please help me guys. I am in pains.

I hope this makes front page

adecz:
You are a 'little' daddy to
your relations

&

Baby daddy to your olosho...





Weh done daddy, daddy..

Hushdaddi.

mariahAngel:
The things that I read on nairaland...

What is so hard about hosting your husband's guests?
She's just being stubborn and unreasonable.
To host, you don't even need to do everything yourself. Just get friends or relatives to help, while you divide the labour among yourselves and supervise....as long as there's enough free food to take home, they'll gladly help.

Righteousness89:
All I Can Do Right now is to Pray For you!

Precious Daddy, I Pray thee, Touch the wife of My Brother to see the Need to Cooperate with Her Husband. Touch Her to Do it with Joy In Jesus Name.... Amen..



My Brother Calm down.. She will Do it...

faithfull18:
Second and third statement

SirMichael1:
Vibes? You mean the aura they give off? What you actually mentioned are successful people in their field. That is, the field of entertainment. Not to forget, handsome men.

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Part 1

Q1.
I still remain of the opinion that a feminine lady is one with abundance of emotions at her disposal. Emotions she never tries to influence but arm herself with. Eg, Love, empathy, sympathy, desire, fear, etc. A feminine lady doesn't have to be an intelligent lady but intelligent feminine ladies are always set apart. Also, she is one gracious to look upon.

Q2
Yes. Like I rightly say, the more estrogen you have, the more feminine you're termed. So when you look at the Nigerian society -about 80%, you'll realize that most women live off of men, that is, most of their financial allowances are gotten from men. Really, a man will part with his money if you influence that part of his emotion that cry out desire. Hence, a woman who is able to do that must use the vast array of emotions to disposal in influencing things, which truthfully, is a reality.

Q3
Yes. (Use deductive inference to understand why from my above explanation)

SirMichael1:
On what basis did you arrive at your conclusion about those you termed feminine and masculine?

mariahAngel:
Watch one of my favourites of all time
A Filipino series: Be Careful With My Heart

You're going to need patience as the story builds but you're going to learn a lot about Philippines and enjoy it.

descarado:
A lot. And the conversation very matured and engaging. Nothing more to add

How are u and family?

descarado:
Try and watch their series. Movies don't tell you anything about the people, culture and cuisine etc. I can tell you a lot about south korea yet I haven't been there. I can u understand and speak few of their language too. So also Turkey.
So much to learn.

mariahAngel:
They're more about the main story with some romance to it...which isn't romantic in true sense



No. What country?