₦airaland Forum

Queenlovely:
big Lie

kikero:
The problem is that if the case is to be pursued, it means a public court case, which means the family of the man would be seen by society as producing loose and promiscuous female.children, which could impact the future marital prospects of other female members of the family as well as the victim's own marital prospects when she grows up

So, they cover up

The problem is, we have to educate society about not covering up such acts.

I pity the foolish father. In the years to come, he and his relatives will severely regret their action.

The problem with Nigeria is, we sweep crime under the carpet in the name of maintaining good name

God will avenge the little one.If the court and society won't stand up for her, that is

Queenlovely:
oga you read too much into a statement.

Jeff bezo wife was attention starved, her husband had no time for her, she felt like a man. because the guy dey ambitious.

the same thing with Elon musk

propsvilla3:
You don't get it, properties in my father's house belongs to my Sons but every other properties or investment outside my home soil will be shared among all my Children. That is the right way to balance Cutlure.

Charmingrascal:
A father will suffer with her daughters (especially a man with only female children) perhaps the daughters endure so many things before their father become rich but after his death some Uncles who know nothing about what their brother went through with his family will now come and say they want to inherit what they didn't work for.

That's indeed a very cruel culture that should outrightly be dumped.
It is wrong and archaic, there shouldn't be any justification for discrimination against the girl child

AprokoGirl:
https://punchng.com/female-inheritance-supreme-court-igbo-culture-in-head-on-collision/

BrutusOj:
All these criterion for 30k, is that how private lessons are difficult to get in Lagos? Two(2) hours×three times a week for only 30k for mathematics? That boy will wait tire if he were in Abuja.

mariahAngel:
No, you got me wrong.
I'm laughing 'cause you're a sucker for marriages and happy endings.

mariahAngel:
You ehn...

AmazingELixir:



I wonder who Buhari is rooting for in bbn..

saphiere:
Good morning. Rename videos how? I guess you mean change my thread handle?

saaphiere:
bukatyne

Ekeletu:
Are you married?

mariahAngel:
O tie ti wa sun eyan

angelfallz:
i have always said this, "men know what you want" many men want housewives but are too scared to say so.
as for the lady, she should ask the man point blank, if he wants a housewife.
she should also realise that he has not married her, therefore giving up her work when marriage is not guaranteed.....
a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

olabrinks:
Popping out children and doing nothing?
Do you know what it means to make a house into a home?
Do you know what it takes to do 90% of the children raising?
Do you know what it takes mentally to be the glue that sticks everyone together. There’s a reason why women detoriate and get old quick after marriage. If a woman should be contribute financially it should be less than 5%. As a married woman, please do not do try to prove that you can do the undoable.

saaphiere:
What I was on about?
These are what I was on about.
Just like my mentor Mrs Funke, I am on about telling my fellow women not to be a liability to their men. I'm on about showing women that them too can do it. I'm on about telling women not to wait on a man for everything. I'm on about women empowerment. These are what I'm on about.
I'll appreciate if you join us live tomorrow to know more about what I'm on about. Thanks.

Tony142:
None, both of them are mainly for ladies, go and learn babing saloon

NobleAngell:
Maybe she's a trained medical doctor who studied in Harvard and graduated as the best student during her time. She may also be a great cook with a wonderful character and also a good home maker.

Mindlog:
I believed the witchcraft here is in the context of
sorcery where the perpetrators could be male or female (wizard/witch).

Note that one's mother side of the family is also someone else's father's family, so the "witches" are also there.

UjuJoan2:
I guess it's all a gamble. A lot of women have put their marriages before careers and gotten burnt as well. It could go either way, really.

What matters is the kind of man she is planning to marry. Is he worth the gamble?

I myself would quit any job if I thought the man would not turn on me the moment I stopped earning and making financial contributions. I don't think anything justifies newly married couples living apart.

So the question remains . . . Is the man worth the sacrifice? Only the OP can answer that question.

GuyInTheMirror:
You get the point, I see too many women around me with great careers having to be begging men for relationship cause of age. If the man is a good man, and you are sure he got your back as a lady.
Career can wait, you will catch up with it later . A good man may not always be around .

GuyInTheMirror:
This is an example of what I am saying, when people see Job as the ultimate thing in life that they put job before family.
Then you know there is problem, how much is the salary.

I have seen people quit jobs and relocate without an assurance of job cause of family.
A good family comes before a job, you can get another job but if you loose the chance for a great family or spouse, you might not be able to get another.

GuyInTheMirror:
I took my time to read through all the responses.
The reality is that poverty has dealt with majority of Nigerians and that has changed the way we reason, behave and act.

From the responses it is obvious majority of Nigerian ladies would not hesitate to sleep with their bosses if that will help them to keep their jobs .

I do not blame you sha, poverty can be very devastating.

How can so many people agree that a job is worth keeping than a supposedly good marriage if not poverty ?

This is my advise, if you think the man is a good man and has financial dependence my suggestion is to quit your job or look for a transfer if possible.

If the man is a good man, and he is working, the money he makes is for you. Except if you are not sure he is a good man(A christian with good values and will be faithful and protect you) .

When you are poor you think money is everything, when you have money you will realise money is just a tool . Do not make the mistake many ladies have made by putting career before marriage.

Lastly, I myself will never agree to a long distance marriage, some men like me respect family so much that a long distance marriage is a no no especially if it is the wife that is on the road .

Goodluck.